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GRACE'S towering presence has always set her apart, even as a child. However by age nine, her extraordinary height and long limbs were early signs of a rare genetic condition. Grace was diagnosed with Marfan syndrome - a connective tissue disorder that affects multiple parts of the body. The condition affects her cardiovascular system - most significantly, she has an enlarged aorta. Described as being as delicate as tissue paper, her aorta is at constant risk of rupture. Grace told Truly: “Just having that impending doom of my heart could explode at any time. It’s literally a ticking time bomb.” Living with this condition has motivated Grace to spread awareness of this syndrome and she is an active advocate for the Marfan Foundation and works to educate the public. She also spreads awareness using her social media platforms. Grace says: “A lot of people comment that they have Marfan syndrome and they have never met another person with it and realise they are not alone.” Admitting that her dating life has been affected by her condition, Grace is ready to tackle this head on and go on a blind date. With the help of her best friend Ting to calm her nerves before the date, how will the date go?

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00:00My heart could explode at any time. Having that impending doom that makes me very anxious.
00:07The severity of my condition has affected my confidence and also my dating life.
00:13Today, my friend Ting is joining me at our local bar as I go on a blind date for the first time.
00:19I'm always nervous to tell a date how serious my condition is. I just hope it doesn't put her off.
00:25How does that affect you with dating and trying to get to know different people?
00:32Marfan syndrome is a rare genetic connective tissue disorder that affects multiple aspects
00:37of the body. It mainly affects the heart, eyes, skeletal system. I deal with an enlarged aorta.
00:45For me personally, it gives me a lot of chronic fatigue every day.
00:50Marfan syndrome is an invisible illness for the most part, but it is also life-threatening.
00:56The connective tissue in your body that holds everything together inside is weaker.
01:04With my heart, that is the most dangerous area.
01:08I am on medication to help my heart rate go down. Knowing that I am taller than everyone and have
01:18long limbs has been a huge confidence issue. I feel that I am viewed differently than other people.
01:27I am six foot three. Growing up, I was always the tallest in my class. I also have scoliosis,
01:37so kids would just see that and think, you look weird.
01:44Remember this? Oh, yeah. Little baby Grace. Look at how tall you are. And I just figured,
01:52because we had a tall family, but when Dr. Howard diagnosed you, it all made sense.
01:56I was at my pediatrician checkup, and he was looking at my long arms and limbs and fingers,
02:06and he gave my mom a weird look. She is an echocardiogram technician,
02:13so she just kind of knew. I thought, I know how to take care of this girl, and we can do this together.
02:21As far as the hurt, of course I was worried every day, all day, because I knew too much.
02:26A common occurrence in Marfan syndrome is aortic aneurysms. The aorta pumps the majority of the
02:34blood from your heart. Because it is made up of connective tissue, it is more likely to tear,
02:41so that is the most stressful and anxiety-inducing part. Just having that impending doom of,
02:50my heart could explode at any time. It's literally a ticking time bomb.
02:55For my parents, it has been hard to wrap our heads around it and accept. I have already gone through
03:04so much because of Marfan syndrome, but there is more to come. It's always in the back of my head.
03:11Even now, you know, I still worry. I like to still be in the background, kind of making sure I know
03:17what's going on in case something really bad happens. I know there's some internal feelings and hard
03:24paths that we have been through and I'm sure there's more ahead, but we'll get through them
03:29because I know she's strong. I decided to start sharing my journey on social media because I know
03:37that the best that I can do is talk about the condition and spread awareness. A lot of people
03:44comment that they have Marfan syndrome and they have never met another person with it and realizing
03:51that they are not alone. Today, my friend Ting is joining me at our local bar as I go on a blind date
03:59for the first time. Ting is 4'11". Of course, my best friend is very short and I am very tall.
04:12I think I want to wear this sweater. Oh my goodness, that's so cute. It will match like my sweater.
04:20Yeah. Cute. How are you feeling about the date? I'm excited. I'm a little nervous, but I'm excited.
04:27I hope it goes well. I would say that my dating life has been affected by my condition because I didn't
04:34want to be seen as different or weird or complicated. Ting has been very supportive along with all of my
04:43other friends. Do you have any ideas of what you'll talk about and have you thought about maybe how you'll
04:48bring up your Marfan syndrome? Maybe when we're talking about like hobbies, I can mention my advocacy
04:55work. Oh, okay. Yep. And then kind of go from there and explain. I'm gonna go get dressed. Okay, nice.
05:02I'm always, I guess, protective. I hope that her blind date sees her for who she is and not just for
05:10her syndrome that she has. I just hope that she comes out happy and has a great experience. Oh my
05:17goodness, you look so cute. I love the fit. Thank you. Are you ready to go? Yes. Okay, let's go.
05:24I'm always nervous to tell a date how serious my condition is. I just hope it doesn't put her off.
05:29I don't know very much about my blind date today. I don't know anything about what they look like,
05:35where they're from, anything like that. I'm feeling a little nervous, but I'm mostly just excited to
05:40meet somebody new and hopefully have a good conversation.
05:46Hi. Hi. How are you doing today? I'm good. How are you? Good. Are you used to the situation? Have you been on camera a lot before?
05:55Yeah. Yeah. Um, I kind of do like social media, like content creation. Nice. And some advocacy work
06:04with like, it's called the Marfan Foundation. Uh-huh. For Marfan syndrome. Okay. Just like what I have.
06:10I'm not sure if I've heard of that before, to be honest. Yeah. Most people don't know what it is. Yeah.
06:15Usually when I tell people that I have Marfan syndrome, people often do not understand what I am
06:25saying or what it entails. It is important to me for especially a partner to know about what I may
06:35experience and what I have experienced in the past. It affects like the connective tissue. So everything
06:43that like your body is held together by, um, is kind of boots. Okay. Which is why I'm like so tall
06:49and like my long fingers and limbs and stuff. Okay. Creating connections can be really hard because
06:56I just kind of want other people to like look past it and realize that there's like more to me,
07:02you know? At the end of the day, like the people that talk to you and get to know you as a person are
07:07like, no matter what, those are going to be the best people for you. Definitely. Yep. All right,
07:12you want to knock off with me into the sunset?
07:16I hope that my story inspires people to take a good out of bad situations and to look on the
07:23positive side of things while also normalizing chronic illness and disability in our society.
07:30Hey Grace, how did your date go? Hey Jane. It went really well.
07:33Aww. Did you tell your date about your muffins in jail? Yeah, it came up really naturally and I think
07:39she took it really well. Aww, that's awesome. Yeah. I would say that my confidence has definitely
07:45improved, especially within the past few years. I have accepted that this is my life and this is
07:52something that I was given. I hope that sharing my story can help people realize that people with
08:01invisible illnesses have a life worth living.
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