- 6 months ago
LULU and her boyfriend Topsikkest met a year ago in her friend’s neighborhood. He is 6ft 5, exactly Lulu’s type, but he was always hooded up, so she couldn’t see his face. They were eventually introduced to each other and began dating. Unbeknownst to her, Topsikkest was only 18 at the time, while Lulu was 23. He felt that the only way he would be able to have a chance with her was if he said he was 20, and he was right. When Lulu found out about his age, she said she never would have dated him if she had known. She explained her emotions at the time, "I'm wondering why people ask me, 'why are you dating that little boy?' And then that's when somebody made me aware, they told me his real age. I was shocked because he never told me." After getting to know him for longer, Lulu decided it was worth a shot. "He didn't act like a normal 18-year-old", she said. "He acted more mature. I was like, maybe we can try it." Despite this initial wobble in their relationship, the pair are now happily together and expecting a baby. Lulu put up a comical social media video explaining her situation, "I ended up making a TikTok. It said, when people ask me why my baby daddy is 19 and I'm 24, and after that it got 2.7 million views." After the video went viral the couple received a barrage of hate online. "Some people told me they wish my baby don't make it. We get t****** all the time", Lulu said. Examples of the negativity are, "That's disgusting", "goofy screwed up his life and his life haven't even started" and, "it's giving desperate." In this episode of Love Don't Judge the couple clap back at the trolls and speak to Lulu's father about what he really thinks of his daughter dating a younger man...
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00:00I'm Lulu, and this is my partner, Top Sickest.
00:04I was 18 when I met Lulu.
00:06When I first met Top, I was 23.
00:08I did lie to her about my age.
00:10People would be like, dang, you were just scoping him out
00:13since he was, like, in middle school.
00:15He basically told me his age after we had already slept together.
00:18We get the all the time.
00:20That's disgusting.
00:22Someone said they're calling 911.
00:24That's weird.
00:25You're grown talking to someone who just got out of high school.
00:28My dad didn't like him.
00:29I'm his princess.
00:30Do you think that we have a future together?
00:35There's yet to be determined.
00:38I'm 25.
00:40I'm 19.
00:41People judge us because he's younger than I am by six years.
00:47He was 18, and I was 23.
00:49I wasn't aware of his age.
00:51Were you just running by the schoolyard?
00:55I would always see him walking his dog,
00:56but he always had a hoodie on, and he was really tall,
00:58and I like tall guys.
01:00And I used to ask my friend, like, who is that guy?
01:01And then one day, he had approached me.
01:04When did y'all even realize that you were attracted to each other?
01:07The night we first had intercourse.
01:10I'm wondering, like, when people ask me, like,
01:13why are you dating that little boy?
01:14And then that's when somebody made it aware, like, no.
01:18They told me his real age.
01:19And I was, like, shocked because I was, like, he never told me.
01:22How old did you think he was?
01:2320-something.
01:25Like, I mean, he tall, he got deep voice.
01:27I'm only 23, so I'm, like, at least he in the 20s.
01:30I asked him how old he was, and he told me he was 20.
01:33I lied about my age because I truly felt like she wasn't going to give me a chance,
01:38so I had to show her first before I told her that I was 18 years old.
01:42I got a phone call.
01:43She was, like, you lied to me, you lied to me.
01:46I was, like, yeah, man, I'm 18, bro.
01:48He basically told me his age after we had already slept together.
01:53I was, like, he's not a kid, he's 18, but that's still a kid to me.
01:57Because my little brother, they're the same age.
01:59He didn't act like a normal 18-year-old, like, he acted more mature.
02:03I was, like, you don't act like a normal child, like my little brother.
02:06So I was, like, maybe we can try it.
02:09I end up making a TikTok.
02:11It said, when people ask me why my baby dad is 19 and I'm 24,
02:16and after that, it got, like, 2.7 million views just off of that, like, on Instagram.
02:22People were, like, oh, you're a , but is this a child?
02:26Was you waiting outside the high school parking lot?
02:29You him.
02:30Or some people have told me they wish my baby, like, you know, don't make it.
02:34We get the all the time.
02:36That's disgusting.
02:38Goofy done screwed up his life.
02:40His life haven't even started.
02:42Someone said they're calling 911.
02:44What?
02:45You're a victim.
02:46That's weird.
02:47You're grown talking to someone who just got out of high school.
02:50I pray my son never meets a like you.
02:55Like, why is he always just attacking me, though?
02:57Like, I hate because I'm older.
02:59When is she going to tell him she got someone even younger than him and going to leave him?
03:05Someone said it's giving desperate.
03:07He's just using her for a home to stay in.
03:10Somebody said you like a cockroach.
03:13That's so mean.
03:14My man don't look like no cockroach.
03:16And I just read him and keep it pushing because, really, all the negative comments that I'm
03:20getting, I'm getting a lot of positive feed from it, too.
03:23A lot of people following me.
03:24So, it weighs out the good and the bad.
03:26Some people's like, um, y'all look so cute together.
03:29Someone said it's only a five-year age gap.
03:33Why are people so mad?
03:34It was a good five or six months before she got pregnant.
03:38Hey, babe.
03:39Hey.
03:40You got the ultrasound picture.
03:42Let me see the picture.
03:43Oh, man.
03:45When I first looked at it, I was like, man, look at that little alien that came out of me.
03:50Like, I'm like, man, ain't no way.
03:52Like, he just ended up doing back flips and stuff.
03:55Like, I'm very hyperactive.
03:57Like, he just twirling in there.
03:59I'm like, ain't no way, bro.
04:01You ready?
04:02No, because I got pushed out.
04:04You don't.
04:06I love you.
04:07I already have a daughter, and she's nine, and she really loves JJ.
04:12She calls him dad already.
04:13They really have a good bond.
04:15People think, like, if he's only 19 now, what age was y'all when you had the daughter?
04:22So, people would be like, dang, you were just scoping him out since he was, like, in middle school.
04:27And I'd be like, no, that's not the case.
04:30I was worried that I was too young to be a dad.
04:33I have to say I'm perfect, because most jobs when you accept a young person like me.
04:38You're excited?
04:39Yeah, I'm excited.
04:40More than excited.
04:41Like, I feel like I'm real to nothing.
04:43Like, I could just cry how happy I am.
04:45Like, real talk.
04:46My dad didn't like him.
04:47Hey, dad.
04:48We're going to go visit my dad and talk to him and see how he feel about us.
04:54I can't wait to see what he's going to say.
04:55My dad, he says whatever comes to mind.
04:58I love him so much, because he going to keep it real.
05:01Like, don't care if it hurts your feelings or not, he going to hurt your feelings without trying.
05:05I'm his princess, so my dad don't feel like no one is good for me.
05:08Her dating history?
05:10Oh, it's all over the place.
05:11I would meet one, like, every six months to a year.
05:16They might last about a few weeks, maybe a month.
05:21She didn't ever really bring people to the house, though.
05:23So when she did bring them to the house, they might last about a month, and they'd be gone.
05:27So how long has JJ been to last, though?
05:30It's still yet to be determined.
05:31He's been around a little while.
05:32I don't know if he's going to last, though.
05:34She didn't even tell me about it.
05:35She just brought him to the house.
05:36You know, like you bring a little puppy in or something.
05:39She didn't tell me how old he was.
05:40I had to find out.
05:41And then I just found out from just listening.
05:44What you think about our relationship now?
05:46Is you supporting our relationship now?
05:48Like, is you winning the...
05:49Yeah.
05:50Yeah.
05:51Somebody got to cut the grass.
05:53I can't do this stuff.
05:54Somebody got to be the man around the house.
05:56You got to learn some kind of way.
05:58Did you improve about our relationship?
06:00I didn't care, because I'm not the one with you.
06:05As long as you don't lay your hands on her, that's all I was thinking.
06:08How long y'all been together?
06:09A year and some weeks.
06:10In, like, a couple months?
06:12Oh, yeah?
06:12Mm-hmm.
06:13See how I feel about y'all relationship?
06:15Yeah.
06:16Okay, I acted in, like, three years.
06:18Yeah.
06:19How did you feel when you, like, found out his age?
06:21I still don't know how old he is.
06:23What you talking about?
06:25Dad, he's 19.
06:27That's what you said.
06:28Give me your ID.
06:29If I had it, I'd give him.
06:30He ain't got no ID.
06:31What's your opinion for, like, our future?
06:33Like, a way that you feel like we can last as long as I...
06:35Because how long did mom been married?
06:3715.
06:38When did y'all first, like, get together?
06:41I was 21.
06:42Your mom was 45.
06:44You know what I'm just kidding?
06:46I was 21.
06:47Your mom was 22?
06:49Uh-huh.
06:5023, yeah.
06:51We love each other wholeheartedly.
06:53Do you think that we have a future together?
06:57Just yet to be determined.
06:59Okay.
07:01Okay.
07:02How would you feel, like, if people came to you with negative comments about us?
07:05Like, how would you...
07:06Respond to it.
07:07Respond to it?
07:09They got money on their own business.
07:11What you mean?
07:14That's they comments.
07:15Everybody got an opinion.
07:17Yeah.
07:18And that's the way y'all got to look at it.
07:19Everybody got an opinion.
07:21But they not living in your house.
07:24Couple more weeks.
07:25Yeah, we can't wait.
07:26Yeah, we can't wait you.
07:28Babe, our new merchandise came in.
07:30Oh, let me see.
07:31Let me see.
07:32I know.
07:33It's so cute.
07:34Look at my hat.
07:35It's so cute.
07:36I'm so excited.
07:38Look at your jacket.
07:39Oh my God.
07:40Your jacket is so cute, babe.
07:43The top stuff.
07:45Put it on.
07:45Let me see.
07:46You got to put one of the hats on, too.
07:48I came up with my...
07:49I love my O-I-N, because, you know, he's younger than me.
07:53And everybody just was saying, like, how much I'm in love with a young man.
07:59So, I put it on there.
08:01Yeah.
08:02I call him my shark.
08:03Everybody else got goldfishes.
08:05I got a shark.
08:07I've been seeing a lot of comments about people who actually date younger guys, too.
08:12So, I'm like, why not make us some hats for our younger men that we date?
08:16Like, we love our younger men.
08:18You knew there was a market for this.
08:20Yeah.
08:21Who knew?
08:22My other past, like, relationship, everybody was older.
08:25The females that was my age, I felt like they was childish.
08:29You know, they can cook.
08:30All that.
08:31Like, them young snappers right there, they ain't got none of that.
08:34She had her own car, her own house.
08:36This be stuff I be attracted to.
08:38Like, you got your own stuff going like this, yeah, you got me.
08:41Like, she had me, like.
08:44So, basically, you was using me?
08:46No, I was not.
08:47Okay.
08:48You had good benefits, though.
08:51Use everything that I really wanted, that I prayed for.
08:55I used to always ask God, send me someone tall, that loves you, that want a family.
08:59Then that's when, like, he popped up.
09:01If I could respond back to my followers that's really negative about me, don't knock it till
09:07you try it.
09:08Either you hate it because it's not you, or you hate it because you can't find nobody.
09:13I don't really care.
09:14When I think about my future, she always seen it.
09:18That's how I know I'm in it deep.
09:20Oh, I love me some Lulu.
09:22This is Treasure Mae Mae Malone song.
09:24Tell them, girl.
09:25Give me five, girl.
09:26Good girl.
09:27She's expecting just like her mother.
09:29We're both expecting.
09:30Two pregnant people.
09:32Two pregnant people.
09:33Never let other people's judgment or how other people feel about your relationship dictate
09:38on who you want to be with.
09:40As long as it's legal, follow through with it.
09:42Yeah, yeah, yeah.
09:43As long as it's legal.
09:44We not promoting no illegal.
09:46If you're 18 and over, love whoever you feel like loving on.
09:49I don't care if they 50.
09:50If you love them, you love them.
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