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KEY and Geo have been together for 6 years and got married in February 2024. Geo DM’d Key straight after spotting him in the restaurant and they went on a first date. After the first date the couple say their relationship “skyrocketed” they moved in together within a year and solidified their feelings for each other, Geo then proposed in 2021 and the rest is history.   Key says he always knew he was gay whereas Geo says he thought he was bi as he had plenty of girlfriends in the past and his first gay relationship was when he met Key.   When they first met, the couple both presented as men but admit their style has totally changed as their relationship developed - they say at first they began experimenting with their hair, wearing wigs, which lead to wearing make up & more feminine clothes but, they both say that bending the gender roles when it comes to their appearance has lead to the pair receiving judgement. “What sexuality is this now?” and “Men are so lost, this is insane”. Though the couple don’t let the negative comments get them down “some of the comments feel liberating and empowering because it’s like we take the power back and we have the power because we’re not portraying to be something we’re not”. They say they are often asked why they don't fully transition to women but say they're happy as men, they're not interested in being women!   Today, Geo’s cousin Neu is coming over to have a conversation about the couples appearance. She says “I’m just a bit confused, what’s really going on”.

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00:00I'm Key and I'm Gio. And together we are the Jacksons. These boots I will put on any given

00:07that. Okay, these boots were definitely my showstoppers. So today we are taking pictures

00:14for our one-year wedding anniversary. A lot of people think because we bad bitches. I mean,

00:21you know. We not men. We still identify as men. Yes. People be so confused. You don't have a

00:26cutie, sir. Who said we did? We said that? Who said that? We said that? Who said it?

00:33So I have this one cousin who voices her concerns and opinions quite frequently.

00:38Are y'all trying to be trans or why don't y'all just take it all the way there?

00:47I'm Key. This is my husband Gio. People think we're trans, but we actually just

00:51fit presented men. Let's see one of our most iconic looks, okay? Yes. So do you remember this?

00:59Oh, yes. I really love this because if y'all can't tell I love a turtleneck, a turtleneck be so cute.

01:06So we met back in 2018. He actually came to my job. It was a fast food seafood restaurant.

01:13He came in and he saw me and my co-workers noticed that he was looking at me and he was like,

01:18did you notice that guy kept staring at you? Like, did you notice him? But then actually we got

01:24each other on Instagram. I'm like, hey, was that you that worked at such and such and such? And he

01:29said, yeah, that was me. So from there it's been history. But as soon as I saw him, I was on that.

01:36I guess you could say street wear, urban wear, very much Jordans, jeans, graphic tee,

01:45very dressed down, very cool. That's definitely how he met me. Honestly, I'm not going to say I didn't

01:52have a sense of style, but I mean, if it matched, then that's just what I put on for that day.

01:59Actually, I'm going to go for the boots. Okay. That's a good piece.

02:04You know, the boots were a huge statement piece. Yes. The fur. I just, I just love it. Like,

02:11it just really gave majestic. Like, I don't know. It just make you feel very, ugh, beastie,

02:16like animal-like. I would describe my sexuality as just gay. Honestly, I always knew I was gay from

02:23a young child. Some people say they don't believe that you can be gay from birth, but honestly,

02:28I've been gay all my life. So, yeah. Okay. So funny story. All my life, I've actually had

02:35girlfriends. All my life up until maybe like high school, I've had girlfriends. But then when I met

02:41Babe here, I became officially gay. Hold on. I just got to pull out, you know, these boots,

02:48you know these, I wore these boots to the ground. These boots, I will put on any given day. Okay.

02:54These boots were definitely my showstoppers for many.

03:03So growing up, I've always pretty much presented like more masculine until maybe about like 10th grade,

03:1111th grade, I started experimenting with my hair. So it started off with U-part wigs and from U-part

03:18wigs. It went to lace wigs. And here we are today, 32-inch bust. Funny enough, we told each other like

03:25we would never wear hair. We would never wear hair. We would never wear makeup. Yes. Oh my God.

03:29Now look. Now look. We're here. Now ain't nothing like a good wig and a good beat. Okay. Most of my

03:38friends already knew like the ins and outs of my intimate relationship anyway. Now, our family,

03:43on the other hand, some took it with a grain of salt and some definitely had a hard time

03:49digesting what exactly was going on. So I have this one cousin who voices her concerns and opinions

03:56quite frequently. I honestly think she just can't get over the fact that I'm a bad her. I'm not

04:02prepared for this at all. I'm like kind of really inches and kind of a little on the edge just to

04:09see what she's going to have to say. Well, when Key and Gio first got together,

04:17I thought it was cool because he was still, you know, dressing like a boy. But now it's a little

04:23different. I'm just a bit confused. Like what's really going on? Hey, how are you? I'm good. How are

04:33you? I'm all right. I haven't seen you in a while. Yeah, it's been a minute. First, I definitely wanted to

04:38know, like, how did you view me and Key when we first got together? When y'all first got together,

04:44it was nothing like y'all both was boys. So it was cool. No, I'm gonna stop you right there.

04:50You mean we were both boys. We're still men. We're still men. Nothing has changed outside of our

04:58appearance. Right. Y'all look like girls. Look, but we aren't. But I'm not understanding, like,

05:08are y'all trying to be trans or why don't y'all just take it all the way there? Don't be happy in the

05:16middle. We, we, like, this is what I'm saying. Like, we're sitting here and I'm telling her what

05:21it is and she's saying. Because I don't see why you want to just take the extra step and just

05:26commit to it. But maybe I don't want to. Maybe I don't want to. Like, that's the thing. Everybody's

05:30so opinionated and always saying what I should do. Do this. Do that. I don't want to do it.

05:34If I wanted to do it, I would have did it. I don't want to do it. I don't have no interest in being

05:38a woman. I don't have no interest in being trans. I'm just a feminine man. That's it. That's all.

05:44So I think the best thing for you to do is try to understand. Well, help me understand. Because

05:54I think bottom line is we're not trans. We don't want to be women. We do like wearing makeup. We

06:00do like wearing hair. I don't think that defines, like, who we are as people, as men. It was just a

06:07shock. It's just been a shock to see you go from masculine and so feminine. Like,

06:16I'm just, I just miss you being Gio that I know. The boy Gio versus the extra glam, girly,

06:25feminine Gio. And you know what? You're entitled to your opinion. I still dress like a boy every day.

06:31Just because you see me right now, right here with a wig on and makeup on, that does not mean that I

06:35don't, tomorrow you won't see me with a white beater on and some basketball shorts. I still am a boy.

06:40Actually, I'm not. I'm a grown man now. We don't look like this all day every day. Quite frankly,

06:45we don't even have the desire to look like this all day every day. It really takes a lot. It takes a lot

06:50to even get ready and do all of this. Do it. Look good. Yeah. Bomb. Yeah. But this is our everyday life.

06:56So, what do you think about our relationship now? Well, now that you then elaborated and broke

07:02everything down in me, I understand that this is just how you pair yourself outside. So, I just,

07:09I'm coming to understand that this is just how you choose to look and I gotta just be okay with it.

07:15I appreciate it. I appreciate it. Look down. Awww.

07:22Yes. Oh. I think we should take a picture and give him a sneak peek. Your head look cute.

07:28Yes. You look so beautiful. Thank you. Did you just see that comment? What did it say?

07:35Men are so lost. This is insane. Ew, they kiss. Aren't that some people doing right? Right. Like,

07:41what? Somebody said, what sexuality is this now? Is it not just gay? I could've sworn it was just gay.

07:47Common misconceptions that we have as a couple is that we're not really together. Some people think

07:53we're just best friends. Some people actually think that we are related. Yeah. Some people,

07:57now some people say that we look alike. I don't see it. Somebody commented said,

08:03manly ass pants. Well, aren't we men? I mean, I don't know how else they would look. I mean,

08:11I don't know. I don't know what, what else are you expecting? You don't have a cutie, sir.

08:17Who said we did? We said that. Who said that? We said that. Who said that? You said that? I don't

08:23remember saying that. I don't remember stating that on the internet. I never, I don't think I ever,

08:28in a way, some of the comments definitely feel kind of liberating and empowering because it's kind

08:34of like we take the power back and we have the power because we're not portraying to be something

08:38that we're not. Exactly. We state up front that we are men's. We don't identify as anything but that.

08:44And we don't want to change it to anything else. We're not here in our skin and just that alone is

08:48enough. So today we are taking pictures for our one year wedding anniversary. One year of being

08:56the Jacksons. Oh my gosh, I'm so excited. Are you ready? Oh my gosh. Oh my gosh. Okay,

09:03outfits are giving to Natalie and love. So today I think we're going for an intimate,

09:10more like just giving people a glimpse of us. Yes. Like as a union. Really showcasing our love and,

09:17you know, making it show through the pictures.

09:19Our relationship works because we give each other space. We also know how to communicate.

09:29And we definitely keep love in the center of everything we do. Like that's like my best friend.

09:35He's never doubted me from day one. And I just feel like that's somebody that you need in your corner.

09:41For somebody to always love you. And he can text me. And that's all I can ask for.

09:46The future holds a lot of screen time for us. So be prepared to see us everywhere. Every,

09:53every, everywhere. Like you're going to get sick of us, honestly. Yes. We're trying to be the next

09:58power couple. Okay. So just know when you see me, you'll see him. When you see him, you'll see me.

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