00:00 Amanda Keller has released heartbreaking news about her longtime husband, Harley, who has
00:06 been privately battling Parkinson's disease for years.
00:10 The Australian radio and television star, 61, revealed her shock diagnosis on Thursday's
00:17 episode of her new AA Chattery podcast Keller, who has been married to Oliver since 1989,
00:26 said she was diagnosed with disease six years ago and the couple decided to open up about
00:31 their struggles for first time.
00:34 "I first noticed that Harley's footsteps in the house were changing.
00:39 Like was dragging leg her hands started shaking and she said had just gotten hit on thumbs
00:45 as a wicketkeeper playing cricket.
00:48 But I felt something was wrong," said Anita Keller.
00:52 A forensic psychologist co-host of the podcast I know Harley so well.
00:58 I know how protective she is of her inner core.
01:02 She was absolutely scared and in denial.
01:05 Who could blame her?
01:06 Amanda Keller and her longtime husband Harley Oliver.
01:10 Shortly after realizing something wrong, Oliver received the news the couple had been dreading.
01:17 He was diagnosed with Parkinson's.
01:20 It an incurable brain disorder that caused uncontrollable movements.
01:25 Such as tremors.
01:27 Convulsions.
01:28 Difficulty with balance and coordination.
01:31 Whose symptoms gradually worsened.
01:34 Shift.
01:35 When he came home from the doctor.
01:37 We both sat there completely numb.
01:40 Keller recalled, "Two days later.
01:43 We went to a public open day with our eldest son.
01:46 Liam.
01:47 He is in year 11, and I struggled with tears and felt so jealous all day looking at these.
01:54 People at the beginning of their journey.
01:56 I had a flashback to when it was me.
01:59 And I thought.
02:00 The journey is just beginning.
02:03 And something closed for me.
02:05 I don't feel that way now.
02:07 But I felt that way in the early days."
02:10 Keller said her immediate reaction was to become angry at "her husband."
02:16 While he tried to correct his posture and speech.
02:19 "With everything Parkinson's does to you.
02:22 You wonder why doesn't he just fight it?
02:25 And of course I saw that he couldn't control it.
02:28 And neither could I. And that was a big lesson for me.
02:32 So I became kinder and sadder."
02:34 She said.
02:35 "Because it will kill me."
02:37 The WSFM co-host said she sometimes hates herself for being frustrated with their situation.
02:45 Which she attributes to mourning simpler times.
02:49 Harley and Amanda have been married for 33 years.
02:53 The couple has two adult sons.
02:55 "I miss the comforts of life.
02:58 They're talking about going to a restaurant.
03:01 But then Harley's back hurts and the noise overwhelms him because H is talking quietly.
03:07 I miss the convenience of traveling.
03:10 This changes us."
03:11 He said.
03:12 "Isn't that what life is all about?
03:15 We talk a lot about long-term relationships and how popular culture celebrates the beginning
03:20 and the end.
03:22 But therein lies essence joy of life.
03:26 Sadness true human condition."
03:28 Keller added.
03:29 His voice breaking.
03:31 The mother of two children.
03:33 A self-confessed oversharer.
03:36 Explained why she kept the news secret for the last few years.
03:40 "I still don't know what to say.
03:43 People are like.
03:44 What's going on?
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