THEMBA and twins Pediah and Petunia, also known as Euphoria Throuple, have been together for 2 years. The throuple met on vacation when Themba offered to buy the twins ice cream and they started talking from there. Themba says he saw an opportunity and he made his intentions clear from the beginning that he was interested in dating both of them. The ladies were skeptical at first and in Themba’s words “they gave him a real run around”, talking to him for months before they went on a date. Themba has been in a poly relationship before so this wasn’t new for him and the twins have dated the same man before. They say they don’t want to separate. Since they started dating, they have mostly dated the same man. They have also tried dating separate partners but that didn’t work for them. The throuple have been very public about their relationship on TikTok and have received a lot of judgement from people online. People think they are doing it for clout or the girls are only with him for money but this is far from the case. Themba works as a nurse while the twins have multiple businesses including tutoring and hairdressing. People also think Themba is too old for them and they are often questioned about intimacy and their sleeping arrangements. The throuple also face a lot of judgement in public. They say polygamy isn’t common where they live and they were once thrown out of a clothing store when they all kissed. They have all been living together for a year and share a bed together. Themba says the twins have a way of communicating and getting things done without even talking. Themba would like to officially commit to both of them but polygamy is not legal where they live. They would also like to have children and both ladies want to carry a child and said they don’t mind if they get pregnant at the same time.
00:00We're twin sisters and this is our man. We share a man. I'm Petunia. I'm Pedaye. This is Timba. We all sleep in the same bed. We share everything. People judge us because I'm in a relationship with identical twins. They hate our relationship. Every time we go outside people stare at us.
00:22We find people calling other people to come stare at us. They throw you out of their shorts. Sometimes he doesn't notice who's who. If I feel like he has been giving my twin sister more attention than me, then I actually sit him down and then tell him that you've been giving my twin sister a lot of attention so you need to give me attention also.
00:44It feels like having the best of both worlds because they are not the same person. They are different. It's like sugar and salt. I won't say who's sugar and who's salt. No, don't. I'm just saying they balance out each other in a way.
01:02Even your typical polygamy relationships don't contain sisters. But we're sexually sisters and it's identical twins. I knew there was going to be a lot of backlash. Some people are actually offended.
01:15Even then, maybe we post a simple pic of us on social media. The backlash, you hear people saying all kinds of things.
01:24A lot of people are saying on social media they hate our relationship. They will be saying we just want money. We're just young to be in a relationship with a man that is old.
01:36They will say how old are the kids and how old is the father. These ones will kill each other. There's no such a thing.
01:44This guy can't obviously be in a relationship with twins. Obviously he must be having some money. Obviously maybe these twins are coming from a poor background.
01:56Our man, he's been making dinner for us. It's our birthday celebration. Birthday month celebration, yeah.
02:04So it is going to actually make something special. And we're going to wear his favorite outfit.
02:13Baby, we're coming.
02:16We love dressing the same. We got to pick the outfit. I have the outfit. Okay. Oh yeah, he would love these. It will look good on us.
02:28My babies, your coffee is ready. We like dressing the same because it looks good on us and it's like, it makes us more and more and more identical.
02:41People can tell that I'm with twins without even asking. Okay, okay.
02:46Makes me feel like a king being kissed by two women in public. You look stunning. Okay.
02:52You look amazing. Mm-hmm.
02:55I've never dated twins before in my life. It took some time to adjust to. The bed is not big enough for three people to start dating.
03:05We have dated the same man before. We tried dating separately but then it didn't work.
03:10Got to that point, it didn't work out. As twins, we've been raised in a different way. Eating on the same plate, doing everything together.
03:17We just started liking the same men. So that's how it started. We're like, okay, the first she was dating the guy but then she just dated the guy maybe for two days and then I'm like, ooh, I really like this guy too.
03:32And she's like, really? Okay, maybe we like the same thing. So let's just go for it. And then that's how we started doing it.
03:38Every time we go outside, people stare at us.
03:41The first surprise, are those twins? Oh, they are twins. Are those twins actually dating the same guy? Oh, they just both kiss them.
03:50And you get to the store and you find people calling other people to come stare at us. Like they've seen an animal they've never seen before.
03:57Now you have to answer all these questions. Do you ever walk up to couples and say, why are you guys both together?
04:04Because they ask such questions. What happens in the bedroom? Do you give them money? I think it kind of becomes too much sometimes.
04:13We are people who are marching to PDA. So we'll be kissing and hugging and all that.
04:22So some people, they throw you out of their shops. We will literally throw down of a shop.
04:27Even when we go to public areas like your public pools, this one time they actually even came to us, the manager of the establishment and told us, no, kids can't be looking at you hugging and kissing.
04:39And we're like, what?
04:41To tell the truth, I was never really worried about what people might think.
04:46When we first saw Tamar, it was actually love at first sight.
04:51We were on a vacation while he was just passing by with the bags like, oh, look at that guy.
04:58Somehow, somehow we exchanged numbers and from there we started talking.
05:02I think a year down the line, that's when we went out on a date.
05:07After our first official date, it was clear, it was clear, this was it.
05:13I think we were monogamous from then on, sat down and discussed how could this work.
05:20Sat down a few grand rules.
05:22Every day was just me waking up, like when we bought a new car.
05:26Is this really happening?
05:28It's like I had stumbled upon a treasure.
05:31So the rules, the compliments have to be there.
05:35Words of affirmation, you don't go to bed angry.
05:39We fight, we fix and we continue.
05:41So that's the rule that kept us going.
05:44Even if we don't want to talk, we have to talk.
05:47Because then it's like breaking the rules.
05:51We always go on dates together.
05:55No one is left behind.
05:57He can even go out with his friends like for a long time because...
06:01He'll be like, I'm missing my babies.
06:03We do give each other space.
06:06When you feel like you need your space, you can go to another room, listen to your music and all that.
06:13If I feel like he has been giving my twin sister more attention than me, then I actually sit him down and then tell him that you've been giving my twin sister a lot of attention.
06:23So you need to give me attention also.
06:27Whatever he does on the left side and the right hand side.
06:32Sometimes I feel left out.
06:34I think sometimes they forget me when they start gossiping and they have their side chats.
06:40You don't have a gossip.
06:41Yeah, you're gossiping about me, I know.
06:43No, we just talk.
06:44We don't gossip.
06:45We just need our time and talk.
06:46Even if everyone comes and goes, she's still here.
06:50So I think that's how important it is.
06:53Dating two girls can be financially expensive, but I can handle it.
06:59Every girl dreams of having a white wedding with a white dress.
07:02So it's every boy's little dream that if one day I can have two.
07:06My dream has become the love of my life.
07:10What's on the horizon for us, I just see a lot of kids.
07:14This is a legacy that we are starting out here.
07:18We came upon this and we are loving it.
07:21Every step of the way, we are not doing it to prove anything to anyone.
07:25To the people who judge us, I would like to say, just focus on your life.
07:30Never focus on others.
07:32This is our life and you have to actually mind your own business.
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