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WHEN Kay, 68, and Ablack, 25, first connected on Facebook, they had no idea that something so small would lead to marriage. Kay told Love Don't Judge, "He liked something I posted. I don't even remember what it was. He went from somebody who liked my post to my very best friend." Despite falling in love, the couple face judgement over their age gap, with Kay being 43 years older than him. With Ablack based in Nigeria and Kay over in the USA, the pair have had to make the relationship work with the geographical distance. However, Ablack knows that the pair are destined to be. "A prophet told me that I'm going to get married to a white woman and here she is. They told me I'll marry a white woman and you shouldn't worry about the woman, that's how it's meant to be," he explained. Although destiny brought them together, not everyone agrees with their relationship. Ablack said, "Some people say, she's old enough to be your mum." Unfazed by the judgement, Kay said, "I've never felt love like this before. This is the one I'm supposed to be with, I just had to wait a long time for him to be born."
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00:00A prophet told me that I'm going to get married to a white woman, and here she is.
00:04He's 43 years younger than me.
00:07We met on Facebook.
00:08I was very leery about being scammed.
00:12Yeah, I want to make some rice and stew.
00:14Does that have that yellow stuff with it?
00:16No. People call me A. Black.
00:18And I can't even say my married last name, so I'm Miss A. Black.
00:22I'm 25, and I'm married to Kay, who is 43 years older than me.
00:30We met on Facebook.
00:31He liked something I posted, and at the time it was really insignificant.
00:37I don't even remember what it was he liked.
00:39Then we started texting.
00:41He went from somebody that liked my post to my very best friend.
00:46I could tell him any and everything.
00:49It just kept getting stronger and stronger.
00:51I woke up one day wanting to go to Nigeria.
00:55I woke up from a dream, and all I wanted was to go to Nigeria.
00:59So I told my sister, she said, okay, you're crazy.
01:02Why do you want to go there?
01:02And I said, I don't know.
01:03I told my stepmom about it.
01:05She told me I was crazy.
01:07I told my children.
01:08They all said, mom, you're crazy.
01:09So I didn't mention it to anybody else except to him.
01:14I was having trouble figuring out how to get a visa, and he offered to do it for me.
01:20When he showed up at the airport to get me, it's like, oh my God, you are real.
01:32You're really here?
01:33This is not a scam.
01:35Because I was very leery about being scammed.
01:38Got a motel room.
01:39Three days later, he proposed to me.
01:41I already made up my mind that this is the woman.
01:44And then I told her about prophecy I had.
01:47The prophet told me that I'm going to get married to a white woman, and here she is.
01:52When they gave me that prophecy, they told my dad that I'm going to get married to a white woman,
01:57that he should not worry about the woman.
02:00That's how it's meant to be.
02:01I believe in God.
02:02So that's why I believed that prophecy.
02:06We got married October 16th, 2024.
02:10I never imagined I would date someone older than me.
02:14Some would say, you're married to your grandma.
02:17She's too old for you.
02:18And some guys on the street said, I married their client.
02:21Someone said, I'm her toy.
02:24Our wedding picture went viral.
02:26People thought I was Fireboy.
02:28They were calling me Fireboy.
02:29They said Fireboy got married to his sugar mommy.
02:32All the bloggers in this country, both outside.
02:34Even when she traveled to the States, she went to the store.
02:36People were telling her they saw her online.
02:38But he was referred to as Fireboy.
02:41And I was referred to as unknown Caucasian woman in her 80s.
02:47I do not feel old when I'm around him.
02:50I feel very young.
02:52I feel like a teenager.
02:54Anywhere we go, people always like taking pictures of us.
02:56I don't know, maybe it's because they are seeing us on TikTok.
03:00You go to the grocery store.
03:01They want to take pictures, get out of the cars.
03:04It's like paparazzi, you know?
03:05It's like, whoa, where's all this coming from?
03:08Uh-huh.
03:09I never thought I was ever going to be with another man ever again.
03:13Much less someone this much younger than me, you know?
03:18My third husband, I was nine years older than him.
03:22And second husband, he was 10 years older than me.
03:25And the first one, we were the same age.
03:27And none of those worked out.
03:29Here, the men treat the women so much better.
03:33I mean, I don't know how it is with every marriage, but he treats me like a queen.
03:37I'm his priority.
03:39If I want something, he buys it for me without me knowing it.
03:42He just picks it up and gets it because he saw that I liked it.
03:45And in the States, uh-uh, you don't get that.
03:48I'm coming.
03:49What are you getting for me?
03:51Something you would like.
03:53No.
03:53You're going to put on these black trousers.
03:55Those black trousers don't fit me.
03:57Yes.
03:58He calls my style old lady.
04:01I call his style thug.
04:03I actually do style her by myself.
04:06What she likes to wear is not what I want her to put on while we are going out.
04:11So I have to dress.
04:12I know I'm a musical artist.
04:13I would not wear something like that normally.
04:16Yeah, you're going to wear it with me.
04:18I'm going to look like a granny wannabe thug.
04:21I don't know what you're talking about.
04:23When he's not around, I get to dress my own self my own way.
04:26I'm a cowgirl from Texas.
04:28Yeah.
04:29You're actually going to wear that?
04:30Mm-hmm.
04:31For real?
04:31He actually wears the cowboy hat I brought from Texas for him.
04:35He wears that.
04:36Okay.
04:37Let's go change, babe.
04:39Ow!
04:40Sorry.
04:40Let me walk behind next time.
04:42I want to touch that sweet thing.
04:48Turn around.
04:49Let me see.
04:50No, I look like a clown.
04:52Ha, ha, ha.
04:53Here comes that white clown.
04:54You look good.
04:56Some people say she's old enough to be your mom.
04:59Married to your ancestors.
05:00Oh, he's married for the U.S. green card.
05:04And this one here, it says, she is your sugar mommy.
05:07Dude hit the lottery.
05:09Man, she pays for everything.
05:11Even that gold chain he wears on his neck.
05:13Yeah.
05:14This is extremely immature.
05:16Be years before he can ever come to America.
05:19The body chemistry here shows everything.
05:22It's nothing but opportunity.
05:24Did I buy you the gold chain?
05:26No.
05:27Grandmother, welcome to Nigeria.
05:30Thank you, guys.
05:32That's your dad's wife, sir.
05:34This person just wanted to start crying when they saw us together.
05:37This woman needs medical attention seriously now.
05:42They mean it.
05:43And see, this one says, if I don't get you over there where I'm from, you're going to leave me and find himself a nice young girl.
05:51I'm here for a few months.
05:53And then I go back for a few months.
05:55And then I'm back here a few months.
05:57And eventually, I'd like to make it 24-7 here.
06:00And this woman's talking about that I haven't got the strength and at my age, a pregnancy.
06:05A pregnancy?
06:06Am I going to have your baby?
06:08It would finish me off.
06:09It's going to finish me off.
06:11Yeah.
06:12So many things, you know, but I don't really care because I'm living my life.
06:18We're happy together, you know.
06:19It's the more they try to criticize, you know, it makes us more stronger.
06:25It hurt me at first.
06:27It really did.
06:28I was crying.
06:30I was even thinking about I was causing him too many problems.
06:35And I didn't want to because he is a celebrity, you know.
06:39He's an entertainer.
06:40I think I'm droly.
06:44And if I fall, would you stay or would you go?
06:50When you see me, can you have faith?
06:55I live my life.
06:57I'm still sorry for my loss.
07:00I try.
07:02Yeah.
07:02I know money's good, but money's naughty with a mama.
07:05We travel the long mile together, rabba.
07:08Together, rabba.
07:09Kebab, become a rapper.
07:10Mama, give it back with him.
07:12Mama, even so the rapper.
07:13It's like yin and yang, totally.
07:16He's strong where I'm weak.
07:18And I'm strong where he's weak.
07:20And together we make a single unified force.
07:23I've never felt love like this before.
07:26This is the one I'm supposed to be in with.
07:28I just had to wait a long time for him to be born, you know.
07:32He's my protector, my guardian angel.
07:34This woman here, I love her so much.
07:38She's everything I need.
07:39God, he's hot.
07:40I love her so much.
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