00:00My name is Danger. I am 55 years old. I am a professional magician. My girlfriend, Leah, is 31 years younger than me. I do have nieces older than her.
00:10I realized we were attracted to each other on our first date. It was his magic show. It really blew my mind. People tend to say really horrible things.
00:19That he's my sugar daddy. We should date our race. My ancestors are not proud of me for dating him.
00:25My ancestors would be very proud. My sister is coming over and she has some reservations about our relationship.
00:32It took me by surprise because of the age difference. This is definitely the biggest age gap my sister has dated.
00:39So Daria, what did you think of me the first time we met?
00:45Which one do you think I should wear?
00:48Hi, I'm Leah and I am 25 years old. I am a content creator.
00:53This is my boyfriend, Danger, who's 31 years older than me.
00:57I'm 55 and I am a professional magician.
01:00We're often judged because I have a 31-year age gap, but we really don't care.
01:05We met on a dating app in October 2023.
01:10I realized I was attracted to her as soon as I saw her profile on the dating app.
01:16That's why I swiped right.
01:18Yeah.
01:19I mean, I don't typically swipe right on the ugly ones.
01:21We went on our first date.
01:23During our first date, the chemistry was really good.
01:26I liked it a lot of stuff that he do with his magic and his photography.
01:31We had a lot of fun.
01:32A lot of things in common, too.
01:33It was just like a match made in heaven.
01:36And we've been together ever since.
01:37I really like this one on you.
01:39I think that is super cute.
01:40So, I like this one because it has the top it, which is the little pocket inside.
01:47Cool.
01:47I can put that in my waistband.
01:51And then when I move forwards, it opens the pocket and I can let things disappear just by
01:57flicking them inside.
01:59That's nice.
02:00Now, when I'm performing, I always wear my top hat.
02:03It's a very important part of my act and my style in general.
02:08I love that people immediately know that I'm a magician and I like the way I look.
02:18All his tricks are really mind-blowing.
02:33Our first date was his magic show.
02:35It was one of the card tricks that really just blew my mind.
02:39All of the card tricks are my favorite because they all basically catch my attention and startle me.
02:45Cool.
02:49You like that?
02:50Yeah.
02:50First thing we're going to do is I want you to write your name on this card.
02:53Write it big.
02:54Write it proud.
02:55Write it like it's a neon sign.
02:57It's opening night and you're the star of the show.
02:59All right.
03:00We have the Leia card.
03:02There's only one card like it in all the world.
03:04We take the Leia card and we're going to fold it.
03:08And then we're going to give it another little fold.
03:11Then we're going to give it a little tear.
03:13And then we're going to give it another little tear.
03:16Did you happen to bring a blowtorch?
03:18No.
03:18I may have something I can work with here.
03:29There you are, Leia.
03:30Almost good as new.
03:33Wow.
03:33I definitely have asked them a lot like, how do you do that?
03:37Would I be able to do that?
03:38I have always preferred older men because I am very mature for my age.
03:43Men my age, like, you know, sometimes they don't meet the standards that I need.
03:49When I was younger, I actually dated older women.
03:53And as I've aged, that has shifted.
03:56And I now found that I am more comfortable and more attracted to younger women.
04:03My family doesn't like me dating younger women or another race.
04:09Leia is younger than many of the kids in our family.
04:14I do have nieces older than her.
04:18Today, my sister is coming over to give us her opinion on our relationship because in
04:24the beginning, she wasn't really that supportive.
04:27Leia is my younger sister.
04:28It's just me and her.
04:29The first time in my danger, like, last year, it took me by surprise because of the age difference.
04:35This is definitely the biggest age that my sister has dated that I know of.
04:39So, Daria, what did you think of me the first time we met?
04:44First, I was a little concerned because, you know, you are the age difference.
04:48So, once I got past the age difference, I was like, okay, yeah, he's cool.
04:54Y'all work together, like, in a good sense.
04:57Once you get over the age difference, everything's perfect.
05:01And then whatever makes her happy makes me happy, too.
05:03So, that was a big plus.
05:05What type of stereotypes do you guys have to deal with?
05:07Basically, like, our age difference, like, he's too old for me or I'm too young for him
05:14or, like, you know, we should date our race.
05:20We have been into places where literally, like, we'll walk in and it gets silent.
05:24The most extreme reactions that we get are always on social media.
05:28People tend to, like, say really horrible things.
05:31Because of how young I am and how old he is, we get that a lot.
05:35Like, it's not right for us.
05:36We should date in our age range.
05:39We get a lot of interracial comments.
05:42Like, you know, people saying that we should date our race.
05:45A lot of people have told me, like, you know, my ancestors are not proud of me for dating him and stuff like that.
05:51My ancestors would be very proud.
05:54And if he's my sugar daddy or if I'm using him or not, I just know.
05:57I don't even mind being used a little bit.
05:59How do you guys deal with judgment?
06:01I just ignore it.
06:02Some of the comments made online, it bothered me a lot.
06:05And then I tell him about it.
06:06He's, like, telling me, like, you know, don't worry about it.
06:08Sometimes it is kind of humorous.
06:10And the more f*** up s*** they say, the more humorous it is.
06:15So now, since being around us, what have you thought about our relationship?
06:18Great team, though.
06:19Seriously.
06:20Really, though.
06:21He pushes you to do stuff that you wouldn't usually do.
06:24Yeah.
06:24So, yeah, that's good.
06:26We get along on a very fundamental level.
06:30You know, we enjoy each other's company.
06:32And I love to be taught things.
06:33He definitely has taught me a lot of things.
06:35Yeah, I enjoy mentoring.
06:37Because I am younger, my attitude sometimes is, like, too much for him.
06:42But I'm working on it.
06:44Working on being to his, like, you know, his attitude and nonchalant to how he is.
06:50Yeah, she does have a fiery personality.
06:56We like to shoot spicy content that we do.
07:00We like to exercise together.
07:04We like to cook together.
07:05You're such a liar.
07:07You don't like to do anything with me.
07:08Yeah, we do enjoy the creativity.
07:14We enjoy shooting together.
07:16I enjoy the photography.
07:18She's a really good model.
07:19She's come a long way.
07:20We both like photography.
07:22That's what really brung us together.
07:25Well, it was a fun shoot.
07:26I think we got some good material.
07:29The thing I love the most about him is he listens to what I'm saying and he can help me stay calm.
07:36I'll let her smile.
07:37It just melts my heart every time.
07:40I don't really worry about the future.
07:42I live in the moment.
07:43The next big thing in the future that I see for us is growing our business more, winning an award for it.
07:51Yeah, I'm excited about how the magic has grown.
07:54I think we'll continue to grow our businesses, stay focused as a team, and we'll be privileged together.
08:01What would I say to people that judge our relationship?
08:04Eat my shorts.
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