I’m 6ft & My GF Is 3ft 11" - She Isn't A 'Child' | LOVE DON’T JUDGE - video Dailymotion

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DABB and Kelsey are well known content creators and they met three years ago through their line of work. A content creator reached out to them to do a blind date and from then on they started a friendship/business relationship. Around eight months into the friendship, feelings started to develop between the two. They don’t recall when things got serious but it has been two years and they have been inseparable. They are judged online because of their appearance. Kelsey has dwarfism so there is a significant height difference between the two; a lot of the comments accuse dab of being predatory. Kelsey can’t understand this because even though she is a little person she feels that she has an adult body - just a smaller version. Friends and family are very supportive of their relationship but some have had their reservations in the past. Dabb and Kelsey are currently focusing on their content right now but eventually they would want to have children in the future. There is a chance that the child could also have dwarfism but they don’t let that faze them; Kelsey thinks that it is highly unlikely as she is the only one to have dwarfism in her family, so the percentage is low...

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00:00My partner is taller than me, but I don't care.

00:02I'm six feet on the dot.

00:04I'm 3'11".

00:06Man, when I tell you social media has every say

00:10in our relationship.

00:11He is giving off predator, bro.

00:14Somebody also said that's a little girl.

00:17This has to be illegal, bro.

00:20What?

00:20Even though I have the height of a child,

00:22I have woman features.

00:24Yes.

00:24Today, our friend Solo is coming over

00:27to discuss our relationship.

00:28He has strong opinions, and he's not holding back.

00:32At all.

00:32So what did you think when I first started dating Kelsey?

00:37Not your type, really.

00:41My name is Cortavius Pate, but I go by dab.

00:44My name is Big K.

00:47Kel, my height is 3'11".

00:49My height is six feet.

00:51So I have something called achondroplasia.

00:53It's the most common form of dwarfism.

00:56I think it's cute.

00:57I love it.

00:58I've never imagined dating anyone significantly shorter than me.

01:02I see Kelsey as if she's tall.

01:05Kelsey acts like she's six feet tall sometimes.

01:09She do not act that height.

01:11I hear someone laugh.

01:12I automatically just assume.

01:14Because it's what people do when they see us.

01:16They'll laugh.

01:17So I'll be like...

01:18A lot of people mess with her.

01:21People think I'm incompetent before they even talk to me.

01:24It's very offending, I would say.

01:27People can impose.

01:29They can try and talk to them in front of me or try and disrespect me and feel easily about it because of the fact that I'm shorter.

01:38They be following us around laughing at us.

01:41But us together, we're like a super power couple together.

01:45We met on Instagram.

01:48He had DMed me, you know, the casual DM.

01:52The casual slot DM.

01:53Yeah.

01:54The casual slot DM.

01:55Yeah.

01:56We were homies in front of me.

01:57Yeah, we really was.

01:58We was locked in like this.

01:59And we, you know, decided that we were attracted to each other.

02:03We've been together for two years.

02:06I've always dated men taller than me.

02:08She like me tall.

02:11Yeah.

02:12My height does hold me back in my everyday life.

02:15Everything in my house is pretty tall.

02:17Dab often helps me get things I can't reach when I'm cooking.

02:21For example, the bread, which I needed like two seconds ago.

02:25Growing up, I did feel different in some ways.

02:28I adapted well, but it was more so how people perceived me more than I perceived myself.

02:35But in terms of now, you know, it's all good.

02:39A big thing people try and say is that this is not acceptable.

02:44It's not acceptable for a little person.

02:46To be with the taller man due to them thinking I have childlike features.

02:53Exactly.

02:54Which is crazy because even though I have echondroplasia, which makes me the height of a child,

03:02I have woman features.

03:03Yes.

03:04This is a woman.

03:05It's a grown woman next to me.

03:06Some people try and say that it would be bad for Dab to have a kid with me.

03:11Oh, yeah.

03:12Because he is giving off predator vibe.

03:15Yeah.

03:16Somebody said this is so weird.

03:18It has 6,000 likes.

03:21Somebody also said that's a little girl.

03:24Are y'all going to keep saying this grown woman is a little girl?

03:28There's a huge one.

03:29Remember, dad and daughter combo.

03:31Oh, yeah.

03:32Dad and daughter.

03:33Or the big one, keep him away from elementary schools, you know?

03:38Yeah, don't take me a near elementary school.

03:40Didn't that one get like 5,000 likes, you know?

03:44This is the uncle you don't let babysit your little niece.

03:48Maybe you should go figure that out with your family.

03:50This has to be illegal, bro.

03:52Oh, bro.

03:54What?

03:55How?

03:56Come on.

03:57I'm literally 22.

04:00I'm over 21, she over 21.

04:04The fact that you sit on your phone and you think that and type that is kind of insane to me.

04:12None of our friends or family were really concerned about our relationship other than our friend Daryl.

04:18When dad first got with Kelsey, it was just something different.

04:23I'm used to seeing him with black females.

04:25We never met nobody short in life, you know what I'm saying?

04:28In my head, at the time, to be honest, I didn't think it was nothing like serious.

04:33So, what did you think when I first started dating Kelsey?

04:40Not your type, really.

04:42Okay.

04:43So, you was kind of like, this is just something new?

04:48Yeah.

04:49I mean, because, you know, since I've known you, I just grew and knew what type of female you usually talk to, so it was something different.

04:59Did you ever, like, imagine dad being with a little person?

05:04I mean, under 5'5", a little person, but you just extra little.

05:09So, it wasn't nothing too crazy.

05:12He always date little people.

05:14It fed me.

05:15So, man, be honest.

05:17Was you surprised by Kelsey Height?

05:20When I first met her, yeah.

05:22He said a little person was coming over, but, you know, seeing what believing at that time was crazy.

05:28What did you think when we first started dating first?

05:32Nothing too crazy.

05:33Something to get used to.

05:34Because, you know, like I said, he not, that's not something he usually get into, you feel me?

05:39But he committed, so it was just something to get used to.

05:42Nothing too crazy.

05:43But, I don't got no problem with something new, spectacular, you feel me?

05:47And she cool, so.

05:49Is there anything, like, you think we could do better for a relationship?

05:53Lots of.

05:54First, let's start a lot about, like, waking up earlier, buddy.

05:58Who sleeps till 2, 3 o'clock and stay up all night?

06:01They may not call me at 1 o'clock in the morning, y'all arguing.

06:04Stop the arguing.

06:06But, nothing too crazy.

06:08Typical relationship things that people got to build on.

06:10You feel me?

06:11Nothing too crazy.

06:12They were perfect.

06:13I know we said everything, but what you think about our relationship now?

06:16I've seen a lot of progression.

06:18You know what I'm saying?

06:19Still little nitpicks, you know what I'm saying?

06:21Y'all can work on certain things, but at the end of the day, y'all stay motivated,

06:25stay in the mindset of doing better for y'allself.

06:28Y'all will get where y'all need to go in life.

06:30Yes, ma'am.

06:33Dav has changed my life for better in multiple ways.

06:37He's my biggest supporter, so he's constantly urging me and challenging me to be a better me.

06:44I mean, like, I never had a personality come into my life that's so small with such big personality.

06:51I've achieved so much, social media-wise, and I've got way bigger than what I ever thought

06:57I could achieve with Kelsey.

06:59He's gonna accomplish any and everything, like, TV-wise, movies.

07:04I think what he's trying to say is, okay, we, you know, eventually down the line would want kids and marriage.

07:12Right now, we want to do as much as we can for ourselves so that we can have that later on.

07:19We're some sort of best friends, and we confide in each other, and we tell each other everything,

07:24and we try and be completely honest, and when we do go through a hard time,

07:29I feel like we haven't given up yet, so.

07:32Yes.

07:33And for those that got something to say about us, and it's negative.

07:36Negative?

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I’m 6ft & My GF Is 3ft 11" - She Isn't A 'Child' | LOVE DON’T JUDGE

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