00:00We're in Polyquad with three children.
00:02Do you like having three moms, right?
00:04No.
00:05The negative feedback we get is people have, like,
00:08an expiration date on our relationship.
00:10Oh, that's cute. It's not going to happen.
00:12I always feel like the kids.
00:14My sister took a little bit of an issue.
00:16Now, how do you feel about Kylie joining our relationship?
00:21Hey, hey, hey!
00:22What's up, everybody?
00:23So, check this out.
00:24A lot has changed in our lives since the last time we saw you.
00:27We are a polyamorous triad.
00:28We met Ally, and we've been together now for two years.
00:31Okay, okay.
00:32So, as you guys know from the last episode,
00:34this is my wife, Ally.
00:35This is my wife, Emily.
00:36Of course, she remembers Rain.
00:38And this is baby Chicago.
00:40She's two months old.
00:42So, you know, everybody say hello.
00:44Lili's biological mom was very supportive.
00:47She's always been there.
00:48She's a great mother.
00:49We raised our daughter to be an amazing child.
00:5216 years old.
00:54And also, we have a new addition to the family.
00:57Hey, guys.
00:58This is Kylie.
01:00Show some love now.
01:02Here, baby.
01:05How does life feel different since Kylie joined your family?
01:08Life has been easier, I'd say.
01:11She's definitely another helping hand.
01:13She's Rain's favorite by far.
01:15She forgot all about us since Kylie's been here.
01:18He wasn't looking for another person to join our relationship.
01:21It just naturally happened that way.
01:23When we met her, she just had a different energy.
01:26We were stuck like glue.
01:28You were saying this is the first time you've been in a multi-partner relationship?
01:32I've always been an open person, so this isn't like far out of my scope.
01:37It's something I definitely was open to.
01:39It just happens to be my first time being in a multi-partner relationship.
01:45Kind of through mutual friends.
01:48Yeah.
01:49We were around each other.
01:50Yeah.
01:51And then you stayed.
01:52We stole you.
01:53We stole you from the world.
01:54It was like an organic thing.
01:55It wasn't like, will you be my girlfriend or will you be our girlfriend?
01:59Yeah.
02:00It was more so like, you came and then you just never left.
02:01So Trell and I are married.
02:02We're not yet married to Ally and Kylie yet.
02:03It's just about the proper timing.
02:04You know, every woman deserves the proper proposal, I would say.
02:19We do not sleep separately.
02:21That's not our dynamic.
02:22We're literally just like piled onto the bed.
02:25Exciting.
02:26Were you worried about how the kids would react when Kylie joined the family?
02:31I think our oldest daughter had a little time adjusting to it.
02:35Because all she's known is Emily and Ally.
02:38Now they like this.
02:40Do you like having three mom things?
02:42No.
02:43No?
02:44Well, she always says, she, yeah.
02:46She always says two moms.
02:47Kylie's newer to this situation.
02:49Yeah.
02:50She definitely looks at Kylie like a parent figure.
02:52She loves and adores Kylie, but she's still, you know, new to that situation.
02:55So she still says two moms.
02:58You got the seat up?
02:59Yeah.
03:00Society tends to think of poly relationships as inappropriate for children, but that's not the case.
03:07They are not in our love life.
03:09They are in our life as far as we take care of them, we provide for them, and we love them.
03:16So that's all they know.
03:17All they know is they got more love in the house.
03:21Ali is Chicago's biological mom.
03:24Emily is like, you know, her mom as well.
03:27So she does the mom duties.
03:29I help with Chicago as well.
03:32We all take care of Chicago.
03:34Everybody is here to make sure the children are being well taken care of.
03:37I don't know how single moms do it because even when it was just like me and Ali, we're still tired.
03:46If I just get like a little bit of a power nap for a few hours, I'll get back up and she'll go back to sleep.
03:50So we kind of just like alternate and Kylie kind of just like comes in when we need her outside of like what we're doing.
03:55How many more children would we like to have together?
03:58We don't have a number, but that's just more of a natural thing.
04:01If something progresses and it happens, it happens.
04:04I would say one of the challenges of being in a polyquad, sometimes dating.
04:12Just like any other group of people, we have to align our schedules with each other to be able to spend that quality time.
04:18And then we have to get the kids in order and stuff like that.
04:21And then of course, sometimes, you know, if we go, if we all go out as a group, I'm out with three beautiful women, right?
04:27Who in the hell is going to assume they're all mine?
04:30That's true.
04:32Like, it's not like that's a normal thing you come across.
04:35We always get the, yo, yo, who is shorty?
04:39Which one?
04:40Which one can I?
04:42And then they think I'm hating.
04:44They think I'm hating.
04:45They be like, nah, you trying to claim them all.
04:48They not like, bro, these really my ladies, I'm in a real relationship.
04:51So sometimes they don't realize until they know us.
04:54They're like, oh, this is real. They really together.
04:56Or we'll bring up the Instagram.
04:58Look!
04:59I would say the negative feedback that we get is people have like an expiration date on our relationship.
05:07So I feel like a lot of people go, oh, that's cute. It's not going to last.
05:11No, none of them should procreate.
05:14Okay, if we love each other and we have a family and we're building a family, what does that have to do with you?
05:21Like, why do you have, you know, other people's families?
05:24You know what I mean?
05:25So I think that's just people just.
05:28Ignorance.
05:29Yeah, it's ignorant pretty much.
05:31He's a pimp.
05:32One of his girls needs to give him an offspring.
05:35New age nonsense.
05:36So let me make this clear. The person that come in there has no sense.
05:41Because this is the thing. If I was a pimp, why would I be trying to have to?
05:46Right.
05:47Yeah, that makes no sense.
05:49No, it will screw the kids up.
05:53They said that six years ago.
05:56Just living proof.
05:58They probably will say it again.
05:59They need to focus on raising their own children.
06:01It's a blessing to have multiple people in the home that's caring for you.
06:05Have any of you lost any friends or family along the way?
06:08I personally have lost a couple friends due to the relationship just because of their own personal opinion on it.
06:14And for me, then, good riddance.
06:18Like, if you can't accept how I choose to live my life and love the people that I love, then you don't need to be alone.
06:27If you love one person and that's what you want to do with your life, we completely support that. We love that for you.
06:33It's just not for us. It's not what we want to do.
06:36We don't shame the knowledge of these people. We love love, period.
06:39So if you love one person, if you love 10, that's your business.
06:42Because if you have multiple kids, you're not going to love one child.
06:45There we go.
06:49Yo, what up, sister?
06:51My sister Essence took a little bit of an issue only because she's spoiled.
06:57So she likes her brother to be focused on her for the most part.
07:01I've been meaning to ask you, you know, how do you feel about me being in a poly relationship?
07:06I don't think I ever actually asked you that question.
07:08It'd be like my only little dynamic through it is the sharing part.
07:11But that's been since I was little, but I feel like it takes a village.
07:14So it doesn't really like affects me in no way.
07:16Or do I feel like it affects my nieces?
07:18So it's like, it's a good thing for me to just have you on the sharing part.
07:22No, that's real.
07:23And then, you know, you a mother.
07:26How do you feel about being poly?
07:29Do you think it impacts children negatively?
07:31No, I think being poly is like, it is what you make it.
07:34A parent is a parent.
07:35It don't matter how many parents it is.
07:37Rain gets to go to school.
07:38She can teach the other kids.
07:39Like this don't affect me at all.
07:40I just know I'm getting loved by multiple people.
07:42That's it.
07:43I appreciate that, sis.
07:46Go, go, go, go.
07:48I think that the polyamorous parenting is taboo because nobody really sees it.
07:56Even if they see it like on social media and stuff, like it's not something like they know personally.
08:01We just want to keep building, keep doing content.
08:05Growing.
08:06I know that's our goal.
08:07Everybody, you know, used to say, they say, oh, you guys weren't going to last.
08:11This is just temporary love.
08:13And look at us now, six years later.
08:17Now in a new relationship, a great relationship with Kylie.
08:21They say that it takes a few years to raise a kid.
08:25Well, this is mine.
08:26Yeah.
08:27Okay.
08:32Her crazy self.
08:33Wow, she got that time break.
08:34We know the future for us will be everything we dream of and imagine.
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