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All The Way
Julie is torn when her current boyfriend, Chuck, wants her to go "all the way" with him. When Ann discovers Julie's problem she advises her to think long and hard and to do what feels right. Later, that evening when she is alone with Chuck, Julie finally makes a decision.
Julie is torn when her current boyfriend, Chuck, wants her to go "all the way" with him. When Ann discovers Julie's problem she advises her to think long and hard and to do what feels right. Later, that evening when she is alone with Chuck, Julie finally makes a decision.
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00:02This is it, this is it, this is life, the one you get, so go and have a ball, this
00:10is it, this is it, straight ahead, and rest assured, you can't be sure at all, so while you're here,
00:19enjoy the view, keep on doing what you do, hold on tight, we'll muddle through, one day at a time,
00:26one day at a time, so up on your feet,
00:30somewhere there's music playing, don't you worry not, just take it like it's off, one day at a time, one
00:39day at a time, one day at a time, one day at a time, one day at a time, one
00:47day at a time, one day at a time.
00:56Julie have you seen my, what's wrong with you? Beat it stupid. Well at least you sound normal. What do
01:04you want? Can I borrow your cashmere sweater? Take it. Your new cashmere sweater? Take it and get out.
01:13I don't want it. That was a test question and you failed. You're obviously sick.
01:19I'm not sick, Barbie. Just leave me alone. Okay. Sure. Barbie? Wait. I'm sorry. I gotta talk to somebody. Even
01:31you.
01:33I got a problem. The biggest problem I ever had in my whole life. You're pregnant.
01:38No. I'm not pregnant. Then how come you're practicing with the baby?
01:45Barbie, will you stop trying to be funny? I'm not pregnant. Yet. Yet?
01:53Oh. Barbie, we're about to say something very heavy, so if you breathe a word of this.
01:57Cross the heart. Hope to die. You don't have to hope. You will die.
02:02What is it? Chuck wants to go all the way.
02:08To bed?
02:14Of course to bed. What do you think he means? All the way to Toledo?
02:18Are you gonna do it?
02:21Tonight, maybe. I don't know. His parents are going out of town and, uh, I don't know if I'm ready.
02:28Well, if you don't want to, don't do it.
02:31Chuck wants to.
02:33Then it's simple. If you love the guy, you do it.
02:37That's your advice?
02:39No, but that's what all the guys say.
02:44Do you love him?
02:45Are you kidding? When I walk down the hall with him, all the other girls drop dead.
02:50He's all-city quarterback. He's got a silver stingray. Do I love him?
02:55I don't know. Maybe something's wrong with me.
02:59It'd be like turning down Robert Redford.
03:01But do you love him?
03:03Yeah.
03:04Maybe.
03:07What am I gonna do?
03:09Why don't you ask Mom?
03:11Mom?
03:12What does she know about sex?
03:16Well, she must know something, or we wouldn't be here.
03:19Listen, Julie, maybe I can talk.
03:21Nobody can help me.
03:22Just go away and leave me alone.
03:25And if you tell Mom, I'll kill you.
03:28I'll kill myself. I don't know which.
03:35What you doing, Mom?
03:37I am circling the jobs for which it would appear I am qualified.
03:42I don't see any circles.
03:44Exactly.
03:47Mom, when did you first make out?
03:51Uh, honey, I'm not applying for a job in a massage parlor.
03:56It's not fair.
03:58I mean, nobody cares if a guy goes all the way.
04:06Barbara, what are you talking about?
04:09Nothing.
04:11I...
04:12How old were you when you first slept with the boy?
04:15Three and a half.
04:20It was my cousin Peter, and I hope that's what you meant.
04:24Barbara, what have you done?
04:26I haven't done anything.
04:28Okay, uh, tell me what you haven't done.
04:32It's not me.
04:34It's this friend of mine.
04:35Her boyfriend wants her to go all the way,
04:37and she doesn't know if she wants to.
04:40Well, she doesn't know if she loves him,
04:42and she doesn't know if she's ready.
04:43But the minute somebody tries to help her,
04:46she gets all hysterical.
04:47She's a real flake.
04:50Julie!
04:53Mom?
04:54Come on out here.
04:55I never said it was Julie.
04:56You didn't have to.
04:57That description was like a set of fingerprints.
05:00Will you call me, Mama?
05:02Yes?
05:03Darling, uh, would you like to tell me
05:05what's going on between you and Chuck?
05:07You're gonna die!
05:08You had no business telling her!
05:09I only did it because I love you,
05:11and you were so scared I was only trying to help.
05:13Oh, you call that help?
05:14Julie!
05:14Barbara, now stop it!
05:15If it isn't sex, it's violence!
05:21Now, calmly,
05:22will you tell me what's going on between you and Chuck?
05:24No!
05:25Not in front of the mouth!
05:27She'll make a deal for the movie rights.
05:29Well, why did you tell her?
05:30I didn't mean to!
05:32You are not my sister anymore!
05:35I am, too!
05:36I am, too, your sister!
05:37Please don't say that!
05:38Oh, Barbara, please go study!
05:43Sit down.
05:44Mom, you wouldn't understand.
05:48Try me.
05:49Believe it or not, Ripley,
05:51I was 16 myself once.
05:54And I, uh,
05:55I talked to my mother about it.
05:57Grandma talked about sex?
06:00Just one sentence.
06:02Stay pure until the honeymoon
06:04and then pretend you like it.
06:11Did you sleep with Dad before you married him?
06:14I'm not sure.
06:15What?
06:17Well, that's about as definite as you can get
06:20in the front seat of a Volkswagen.
06:22Then you did do it.
06:24Oh, honey, your father and I were engaged
06:26and we were a lot more sure of where we were going
06:28than you and Chuck are.
06:30Were you scared?
06:33Petrified.
06:34So am I.
06:35I don't know if I'm ready.
06:38Then say no.
06:40It's still in the language.
06:42Mom, I love Chuck.
06:44More than any boy I've ever known.
06:47And, um,
06:49I want to please him in any way I can.
06:51And guess which way he chose.
06:55Mom, he says he loves me, too,
06:57and, uh,
06:58he wants this real special thing with me.
07:01Wouldn't a friendship ring do?
07:04Mom, I am almost 17 years old.
07:08In Samoa, girls start at 12.
07:10I know.
07:10It's part of Operation Head Start.
07:14Mom.
07:16Don't be flipped.
07:17I'm sorry, honey.
07:19But can't you wait?
07:21What's the hurry?
07:23Chuck's parents are going out of town tonight
07:25and no one's going to be there
07:27and he wants to...
07:28I know what he wants to do,
07:31but I don't want him to.
07:34Are you commanding me not to?
07:36Not to do what every other girl in school
07:38has already done?
07:39Who told you that?
07:41Chuck.
07:46Honey,
07:48I got one foot in my generation
07:50and one in yours.
07:52One foot is saying
07:53stay exactly the way you are,
07:56graduate from college,
07:57and meet a nice doctor when you're 22.
08:00That must be Grandma's foot.
08:03Wrong.
08:04Grandma would say
08:05you are going to be locked in your room
08:07and Chuck will be arrested.
08:09And you know something?
08:10A lot of mothers today
08:11that would agree with that.
08:12Well, then why don't you just tell me
08:13not to do it
08:14if you don't want me to?
08:16I got a third foot.
08:19And a third foot won't let me,
08:20not without throwing a guilt trip
08:22on both of us.
08:24Oh, honey,
08:26if I...
08:27if I knew it would be
08:29wonderful for you,
08:31if I felt you were really in love,
08:33if I knew you were ready for it...
08:35Mom,
08:36I don't want to lose Chuck.
08:37Oh, Julie,
08:38I swear your self-esteem quotient's
08:40in the basement.
08:42Well, he's got a problem, too.
08:44He told me if I don't help him,
08:45we'll lose the game Saturday.
08:55Oh, damn.
08:59Hi.
08:59Sorry I'm late.
09:00Hi, David.
09:02Oh.
09:04I got a hell of a sex problem.
09:06Oh, and I stopped for gas.
09:13All right.
09:15What's the problem?
09:18Chuck wants Julie
09:19to go to bed with him.
09:20Oh.
09:21Well, it's nice to know
09:23he's an old-fashioned boy.
09:26She's, uh,
09:28thinking about doing it tonight.
09:31Oh.
09:32Then I guess
09:32you don't want to go
09:33to the auto show.
09:38David,
09:38she caught me off guard.
09:39I've been preparing
09:41for this moment
09:41for 16 years.
09:42I've rehearsed the conversation
09:44in my head
09:44a million times.
09:45I knew exactly
09:46what I should say,
09:47and now I haven't had time
09:49to say half the things
09:50I wanted to.
09:51Well, what did you say?
09:54Saloon!
09:55Oh, Schneider.
10:01Now, you can't get mad.
10:04I rang before
10:05I used the passkey.
10:08What do you want?
10:09For me, nothing.
10:11But for you,
10:11the world.
10:13I came
10:14to get your measurements.
10:17For your new curtain rod.
10:19Well, yeah.
10:21Well, uh,
10:22would you go do it?
10:23We're discussing
10:24a personal problem.
10:26Oh, maybe I can help.
10:27I've solved most
10:28of the personal problems
10:29in this building.
10:30You are most
10:31of the personal problems.
10:34Um,
10:35Schneider,
10:36would you stay out
10:36of this one?
10:37It's between me
10:38and Julie.
10:39Oh, that one.
10:40Her eager beaver boyfriend
10:41is finally getting to her.
10:42You know about it?
10:43Well, only by accident.
10:45You know, I, uh,
10:46I heard her fending him off
10:47in the vestibule
10:48the past two weeks.
10:49She is some good fender.
10:51I've been fended
10:52by the vest.
10:53We had a Romanian dancer
10:54once in the...
10:55Uh, Schneider,
10:55would you just go, uh,
10:56measure the window?
10:57It's the one
10:57in my bedroom.
11:01Your wish
11:02is my command,
11:04Comtesse.
11:06Hey, sex symbol,
11:07how you doing
11:08with the quarterback?
11:09I hope you're not
11:10letting him score
11:10any touchdowns.
11:11You know!
11:12Schneider,
11:13will you keep
11:13your nose out of this?
11:14This is Julie's problem.
11:16My, you told both of them.
11:18Terrific.
11:19The whole world knows.
11:20Julie.
11:20How could you?
11:21You're supposed to be
11:22a mother,
11:22not a press agent.
11:24Oh, Ma,
11:25I came to you for help.
11:26Real help.
11:27And all you want to do
11:27is make fun of me.
11:28That's not true.
11:29It was my secret.
11:30And you told everybody.
11:32Well, as long as
11:33everyone knows,
11:34I might as well
11:35go ahead and do it.
11:36Oh.
11:38Oh.
11:46David,
11:47what's it like?
11:48What?
11:49Sex.
11:52Oh, that.
11:53Uh,
11:55well, if memory serves,
12:01it's a very tender
12:03and real experience.
12:06Well, thanks a lot.
12:07They go further than that
12:08in Reader's Digest.
12:11I mean,
12:12what's everybody
12:13so tight about it for?
12:15It's been around
12:16for a long time.
12:18You might have think
12:18they've perfected it
12:19by now.
12:21Well, we almost
12:21had it right there
12:22for a while.
12:23Then they invented
12:23the waterbed,
12:24and now you have to
12:25fight the undercoat.
12:31You're a real help.
12:33If you would only tell me...
12:35Look, look, look,
12:35Barbara,
12:36I'm not sure
12:37that I'm cleared
12:37with headquarters
12:38to talk to you
12:39about this.
12:40You know?
12:40Ah, baby,
12:41if he cares for you
12:42as much as you say,
12:43maybe he just doesn't
12:44know how you feel.
12:46Doesn't?
12:47No, Ma.
12:48He's been trying
12:49for three weeks,
12:49and I must have said
12:50no a thousand times.
12:52I don't want
12:53to turn him off,
12:54but I don't want
12:55to turn him on.
12:57Julie,
12:59have a cookie.
13:01Okay.
13:03Yeah, get fat
13:04and maybe he'll
13:05leave you alone.
13:07You get out of here.
13:09Barbara, go study.
13:10Again?
13:12Out.
13:15Honey, don't you see?
13:17Chuck may not really
13:18know how much
13:18you're hurting.
13:20Yeah, but how do I
13:20tell him that
13:21without losing him?
13:22How do I say no?
13:23Well, the secret is
13:25to get his attention.
13:27I got a judo chop once.
13:29The message was
13:29loud and clear.
13:32I'm not helping.
13:35Honey, I could talk
13:38to him.
13:39Would you?
13:41If you want me to.
13:42Yeah!
13:43I mean, no!
13:44You'd ruin everything.
13:47I'd ruin everything.
13:48Well, what I mean is
13:49you don't see him
13:50as the foxiest guy
13:51in school.
13:52You see him
13:53as a stud.
13:57Listen, I don't mean
13:58to intrude here,
13:59but maybe I could talk
14:02to him, stud to stud.
14:09David, what do you
14:10know about him?
14:11Well, you know,
14:12I'm, uh...
14:14Hasn't been that many
14:15years since I was
14:16in Chuck's situation.
14:18Ignore that.
14:21Look, between boys
14:23and girls, there's
14:24this kind of game
14:25that everybody plays,
14:27right?
14:27He says,
14:28please.
14:29You say, no.
14:31He says, please, please.
14:32You say, no, no, no.
14:35Okay.
14:36Well, I don't think
14:37that Chuck realizes
14:38that you're not
14:39playing that game
14:40and that the more
14:41he plays it,
14:42the more he hurts you.
14:44See, because if Chuck
14:45understands that,
14:47I'm sure he won't
14:48keep doing it.
14:52That makes sense.
14:54I'll tell him that.
14:55Yeah, I'll tell him that.
14:57I can't tell him that.
15:00Every time I try
15:01and tell him anything,
15:02he just grabs at me.
15:04Well, if you'd like,
15:06I could tell him.
15:07I'm sure he won't
15:07grab at me.
15:10Did you do that?
15:11Oh, I'd love you for it.
15:13I'd love you for it.
15:14Oh, I feel so much better.
15:17Oh.
15:18But one thing,
15:19if you louse up
15:20this relationship,
15:21and as you can see,
15:22it is a very
15:22beautiful relationship,
15:24I'll kill you.
15:25I'll kill you!
15:26Oh, my God,
15:27I'm a wreck.
15:30Uh, David,
15:32do you think
15:33you can handle this?
15:34Sure.
15:36Believe me, Ann,
15:38I completely
15:39understand Chuck's
15:40situation.
15:49Pardon me, madam.
15:50Is your husband at home?
15:54Well,
15:55feast your eyes,
15:56Mr. Romano.
15:57I got you
15:57a first-class,
15:59top-of-the-line
15:59traverse rod
16:00with the new
16:01solid plastic nubbins.
16:02I will be
16:03fascinated tomorrow.
16:04Would you go hang it now?
16:05Consider it done.
16:07By the by,
16:08I've given some thought
16:09to your, uh,
16:10problem with Julia,
16:11and I think
16:12I can solve
16:13the whole thing
16:13for you.
16:14How?
16:15You tell me
16:15when that kid
16:16is getting here.
16:17I'll meet him
16:18in the foyer,
16:19give him a mop
16:20handle in the kidneys,
16:21and that'll postpone
16:22the problem
16:22for a month.
16:30Schneider,
16:31the situation
16:31is under control.
16:33I'm gonna talk
16:34to Chuck.
16:36You
16:37are going
16:38to talk
16:39to a 17-year-old
16:41jock
16:42with the hots?
16:46That's like
16:47trying to put out
16:48a forest fire
16:49by
16:50spitting me on it.
16:56Hey, David.
16:57You know,
16:58I'm glad you're here tonight.
16:59I think it would
17:00embarrass Julie
17:01if Mommy
17:02talked to Chuck.
17:03Are you trying
17:04to tell me
17:04that it's nice
17:05to have a man
17:06around the house?
17:08Nope.
17:10Hi, Chuck.
17:11Hi, Ms. Romano.
17:12Mr. King.
17:13David.
17:13David?
17:14Uh, Chuck,
17:15Julie's not ready yet.
17:17Uh, she'll be out.
17:21That's cool.
17:22Yeah, we can, uh,
17:23wrap, right, Chuck?
17:24Right, sure, sure.
17:26What do you
17:26want to wrap about?
17:27Well, I'll tell you
17:28inside.
17:29Where are we going?
17:30The bathroom.
17:32The bathroom?
17:33Uh, why?
17:35Well, uh,
17:36Julie and, uh,
17:37and Barbara
17:37are in their bedroom.
17:38Schneider's
17:39in your bedroom.
17:40So, uh,
17:41if anybody
17:42has to, uh,
17:44just knock.
17:49Uh, have a seat.
17:56Oh, no.
17:57No, you take it.
17:58No, hey, that's okay.
17:58I'm used to standing.
18:00I stand in court
18:00all day long.
18:02No, no, it's not fair.
18:03Here, you take it.
18:05Okay, thanks.
18:07Uh, look, Chuck,
18:09uh, life is, uh,
18:13short, and, uh,
18:17feelings are all
18:18we really,
18:19we really have.
18:20Um, you know, uh,
18:23and the most important
18:24feeling of all,
18:26uh, is love.
18:37He could have said that
18:38in the living room.
18:40Yeah, you're right.
18:42Uh, look, Chuck,
18:43as you know,
18:45I'm very close
18:46to this family,
18:47and they share
18:48their problems with me.
18:50And, frankly,
18:52Julie's got a big
18:53problem with you.
18:53She told you?
18:55Don't panic.
18:56Don't panic.
18:57I'm not gonna hurt you.
18:58No, I'm not worried
18:58about that.
18:59I'm just surprised
19:00she told you.
19:01Well, she did,
19:02so sit back down.
19:04Uh, look,
19:04I'm not here to judge.
19:06I just want to talk
19:07to you about tonight.
19:08She even told you
19:09about tonight?
19:10Uh, Chuck,
19:11I know where you're
19:12coming from.
19:12I've been there myself.
19:14And there's one thing
19:15I learned along the way.
19:17You must never
19:19rush a woman.
19:20Oh?
19:22The simple truth is
19:23you're asking Julie
19:24to do something
19:25that she's just not sure
19:26she's ready to do.
19:27Oh, come on, David.
19:29You know, girls,
19:30they're programmed
19:31to say no.
19:33Julie means no.
19:34She's not just
19:35playing around.
19:37You know,
19:38you're causing her
19:38a lot of pain.
19:39I am.
19:41Yeah, you are.
19:42Well, I didn't know that.
19:44How come Julie
19:45never told me that?
19:46She did.
19:51Yeah, I guess
19:51she did, huh?
19:56David,
19:58I really appreciate
19:59your talking to me
20:00like this.
20:02Now I really
20:03understand.
20:05Chuck, look,
20:05I understand
20:06that you understand.
20:07I just want to make
20:09sure that I understand
20:10what it is
20:10you understand.
20:14Understand?
20:17Oh, I understand.
20:20David,
20:21what can I say?
20:23I give you my word.
20:25I would never ask
20:26Julie to do anything
20:27that she doesn't
20:28want to do.
20:29That includes tonight.
20:31Tonight?
20:32Listen,
20:32as far as I'm concerned,
20:34tonight,
20:34it's hands off.
20:35Hands off.
20:41I can't believe
20:43you've only got
20:43two hands.
20:46Julie,
20:47do you realize
20:48we've been going
20:48together for three months?
20:50Oh, three months?
20:52You act like
20:53that's a lifetime.
20:54Well, it sure feels
20:55like a lifetime.
21:03Chuck,
21:04I'm just not ready.
21:05Julie,
21:06do you realize
21:07that at the rate
21:07you're going now,
21:08you could still be
21:09a virgin
21:10when you're a senior?
21:16What's wrong
21:17with that?
21:18I read an article
21:19once that said
21:2020% of all the
21:21freshmen in college
21:22were still virgins.
21:23You mean to stand
21:24there and tell me
21:25you want to be
21:25in the bottom 20%?
21:28How do you know
21:29it's not the top 20%?
21:31Oh, how do I know?
21:32Just ask anybody.
21:33Julie,
21:36only freaks
21:36and weirdos
21:37don't make love
21:38when they feel
21:39the urge.
21:40Oh,
21:41so that's what I am.
21:43I'm a freak
21:43and a weirdo.
21:45Well, let me tell
21:45you something,
21:46Chuck.
21:48Oh, it's the use.
21:51Hey,
21:53Julie,
21:53I'm sorry.
21:56Come on.
21:57Don't,
21:58don't cry.
22:00Cry?
22:00Cry?
22:01If you loved me,
22:02you'd be willing
22:02to wait.
22:05Julie,
22:06I really care
22:07about you.
22:08Chuck,
22:09that's sweet.
22:09I care about you
22:10so much.
22:16This is love,
22:17Julie.
22:18And because it's love,
22:21I don't want to do
22:22anything you don't
22:23want to do.
22:27Do you believe me,
22:28Julie?
22:28I believe you.
22:37the late news
22:38from your favorite
22:39news team.
22:40Our sincere
22:41anchorwoman,
22:42Patricia Fisher,
22:43at...
22:47At least Julie
22:48didn't make
22:48the late news.
22:52And stop worrying.
22:54I told you,
22:55Chuck promised.
22:56And you believed him?
22:57Yes.
22:58Absolutely.
22:59Yes.
22:59As if you were
23:00under oath.
23:02No.
23:05Hi, everybody.
23:07Hi, darling.
23:08How's everything?
23:10Wonderful.
23:12Tonight I found out
23:13what being a woman
23:13really means.
23:20What's the matter?
23:23I'm, uh,
23:24I'm just letting it sink in.
23:26But, Mom...
23:29You feel right about it?
23:31I never felt better.
23:33It was beautiful.
23:35Chuck told me he loved me
23:36like he never did before.
23:38I gotta go home.
23:45I just followed my own instincts.
23:47I mean, a woman has to learn
23:49to stand up for what she really wants to do.
23:52And, uh, I didn't want to do it.
23:55And if Chuck never calls me again,
23:57then he loses.
24:00She didn't do it.
24:04Of course I didn't.
24:06But you guys were no help.
24:08I had to do it all myself.
24:09I just said,
24:10cool it.
24:10I-I am not ready.
24:14Very sensible.
24:15Oh, I agree.
24:17Right.
24:17I mean,
24:18who knows when I'll be ready?
24:20Maybe not for five years.
24:22Maybe tomorrow.
24:36Barbara's next.
25:03This program was recorded on tape for a live audience.
25:37This program was recorded on tape for a live audience.
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