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00:00What should you do if you get friendzoned? The real key here is to figure out why you got there

00:03in the first place. Because just like Smokey the Bear would say about forest fires, only you can

00:07prevent the friendzone. I'm Eddie Baller and I'm a dating coach and the owner of ConquerWin.com

00:11and I've been coaching men since 2011 to build their confidence and get the kind of woman they

00:15want. And I know what works from thousands of personal experiences as well as watching my

00:19client's infield regardless of their height, age, race, looks or financial status. So let's jump in.

00:24What should you do if you get friendzoned? To figure that out, try some of the following.

00:33Number one, analyze the situation. Is this a pattern? Is this something that happens regularly

00:36with women who tell you you're a good friend? If so, some of your dating habits may be an issue.

00:40Number two, design a solution. Once you've figured out which dating habits are an issue,

00:44now you're going to want to figure out the behavior which is going to fix that. Very often it's the

00:48opposite of that behavior which got you there. Number three, change your strategy with the girl

00:51who friendzoned you. Whatever it was you were doing with a girl who just friendzoned you,

00:55change that up. Stop doing those things and act the opposite. Now doing exactly the opposite won't

00:59always help in every situation, but very often this is the case. For example, if you're acting passive,

01:05you're going to want to start acting assertive, going after what you want and not sitting back.

01:08And number four, try a different girl. Make sure you don't repeat the same mistakes you did with the

01:12last girl who got you in that situation and try something different with the next girl you're

01:15trying to date. Here's some common questions about what to do if you get friendzoned.

01:18Should I stay friends after getting friendzoned? Usually the best course of

01:21action after getting friendzoned is not to stay friend. One of the problems with many guys who

01:25end up in this situation is they're willing to take the second prize. They're willing to be the

01:29friend. But you have to be fully committed to your idea about dating this girl or any girl you're

01:33attracted to and not being friends. Basically you need to be willing to walk away. This will make

01:37you a lot more attractive and a lot less needy. How do I change your mind about just being friends?

01:42To change a girl's mind about not being friends be very difficult but not impossible. And when we're

01:46talking about changing your mind, what we're really talking about is her feelings. You have to affect her feelings

01:50or rather influence her feelings in a positive way so that she becomes attracted to you. In order to do that

01:55figure out what got you friendzoned in the first place and then do the opposite. For more info on the

01:59friendzone check out the link in the description or the comment section below. And until next time conquer and win.