00:00What should you do if you get friendzoned? The real key here is to figure out why you got there
00:03in the first place. Because just like Smokey the Bear would say about forest fires, only you can
00:07prevent the friendzone. I'm Eddie Baller and I'm a dating coach and the owner of ConquerWin.com
00:11and I've been coaching men since 2011 to build their confidence and get the kind of woman they
00:15want. And I know what works from thousands of personal experiences as well as watching my
00:19client's infield regardless of their height, age, race, looks or financial status. So let's jump in.
00:24What should you do if you get friendzoned? To figure that out, try some of the following.
00:33Number one, analyze the situation. Is this a pattern? Is this something that happens regularly
00:36with women who tell you you're a good friend? If so, some of your dating habits may be an issue.
00:40Number two, design a solution. Once you've figured out which dating habits are an issue,
00:44now you're going to want to figure out the behavior which is going to fix that. Very often it's the
00:48opposite of that behavior which got you there. Number three, change your strategy with the girl
00:51who friendzoned you. Whatever it was you were doing with a girl who just friendzoned you,
00:55change that up. Stop doing those things and act the opposite. Now doing exactly the opposite won't
00:59always help in every situation, but very often this is the case. For example, if you're acting passive,
01:05you're going to want to start acting assertive, going after what you want and not sitting back.
01:08And number four, try a different girl. Make sure you don't repeat the same mistakes you did with the
01:12last girl who got you in that situation and try something different with the next girl you're
01:15trying to date. Here's some common questions about what to do if you get friendzoned.
01:18Should I stay friends after getting friendzoned? Usually the best course of
01:21action after getting friendzoned is not to stay friend. One of the problems with many guys who
01:25end up in this situation is they're willing to take the second prize. They're willing to be the
01:29friend. But you have to be fully committed to your idea about dating this girl or any girl you're
01:33attracted to and not being friends. Basically you need to be willing to walk away. This will make
01:37you a lot more attractive and a lot less needy. How do I change your mind about just being friends?
01:42To change a girl's mind about not being friends be very difficult but not impossible. And when we're
01:46talking about changing your mind, what we're really talking about is her feelings. You have to affect her feelings
01:50or rather influence her feelings in a positive way so that she becomes attracted to you. In order to do that
01:55figure out what got you friendzoned in the first place and then do the opposite. For more info on the
01:59friendzone check out the link in the description or the comment section below. And until next time conquer and win.
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