In this video, I share my tips on how to quickly recover from a bad second date. I know how disappointing and frustrating it can be to have a date go poorly, but don't worry - I've got you covered! I'll offer some simple strategies for bouncing back after a rough date, including ways to boost your confidence and get back in the dating game. If you're feeling down after a bad second date, this video is a must-watch. Let's turn that frown upside down and get you back on the path to finding your perfect match!
WHAT YOU WILL SEE:
00:00 Intro 00:58 How to recover emotionally from a bad date 01:18 How to recover from embarrassment 02:30 How to recover from a bad date and get the girl 04:27 What do you say after a bad second date? 04:37 How do you know if a second date went bad?
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00:00How to recover from bad second date. So the answer to this question depends on whether we're talking about an emotional recovery because you did something that was really embarrassing maybe or your date was really bad or you're talking about recovering after that second date so you can get another date with that girl because you still like her. So let's explore both dating recovery challenges and to be clear this will help you recover from a bad second date, first date, third date, it doesn't matter. It's going to help you recover from any bad date. So you can put your head up high and get your dating life back on track. So let's go.
00:30How to recover from a bad second date. To recover from a bad second date or any date it's going to require some introspection. You're going to have to look deep inside and see what the fuck happened. If you're watching this you may not know what the fuck happened and we're going to talk about how to figure out that as well so you can get better at dating too and avoid this in the future. But first let's separate the two types of recovery. First we'll handle your emotional recovery and then we'll handle how to get her back. How to recover emotionally from a bad date.
00:58To recover emotionally from a bad date obviously it's going to matter how bad we're talking about. Did you spill a drink on her? Use some rude words? Get wasted drunk and just start mouthing off at everyone around you? And things just went super awkward afterwards? Well if you did something embarrassing it doesn't have to be that bad but if you did something embarrassing and you want to get over it follow these steps. Number one is breathe. Breathing will calm your nervous system. You can actually do this while you're on your date.
01:28I screwed up. You start getting into a bit of that panic emotion. You start breathing shallow. You don't want to breathe shallow because that's just going to increase that negative emotion. The feeling of that negative emotion. Number two. Perspective. Put everything in perspective. After all this is just one date. Right? Even if she was really awesome. Really hot. Whatever the case may be. Or you just behaved inappropriately and now you're feeling bad about it. It's just one date. It's not the end of the world. So you have to put that in perspective.
01:58It's definitely on the next date so it's not going to end up like this last one. Number four. A thicker skin. Keep in mind that every time you go through some kind of difficult situation like this. Whether it's embarrassment or something that's challenging in another way. It'll give you a thicker skin. When you face scrutiny or you do something where you screw up and you know you screwed up. As long as you can put that in perspective as we already talked about. It can help you get stronger about it and feel less embarrassed. Number five. Get out ASAP. That means get out and start talking to more women. Go get some more dates and start practicing to be better.
02:28How to recover from a bad date and get the girl. So you had a bad date and you want to fix your mistakes. Good. But how do you get her bad? Now this can be really tricky but it may be worth a try. Just keep in mind that every first date you go on or second or third date these are basically all first impressions. You're getting to know each other and when something bad happens like this or you just have a really awkward moment that seems like it ruins everything. Very often that's an impression that you're left with and now they're going to be associating you with that thing that happened and it's very hard to recover from that. So your odds of coming back are low
02:58depending on how bad the incident was. But not impossible. So try the following to try to get your date back. Number one. Apologize if necessary. Apologies should be used very sparingly. This is usually the go-to for the typical nice guy and you don't want to be relying on that and apologizing for everything all the time. It's just not a good look. It doesn't look confident and nobody really respects that. However, if you are really in the wrong, just being upfront and apologizing about it and admitting that you're wrong is a really good thing. Number two. Use
03:28humor to put the date in perspective. You can make a joke up with a date. Make a joke up with a thing that happened and try to make light of it basically. Number three. Be honest. Just tell her hey I was nervous and I screwed up. Number four. Make it up to her. Now making it up to her what I'm talking about here is really you're just you're making sort of an offer like hey I'll make it up to you. Next time it's going to be great. Let's meet at the so and so place. It's really nice there. Trust me you're going to have a great time. Or something like that. You don't have to use these words necessarily. Use your own words. You can probably come up with something better than that or just off the top
03:58my head. But basically you're making sort of a peace offer. And number five. Move on. If she's just not going for it. Don't dwell on it. Basically you have to kind of suck it up and accept your losses. But hey it's worth a shot. It doesn't take that much effort to text this. Even better if you can have a phone call but she may not be answering your calls. But hey it's worth a try. This will give you a chance to learn from your experiences and make your next date much better. So yeah just don't do that thing again. Now here are some common questions about how to recover from a bad second date. What do you say after a bad second date? Depending on what
04:28happened during a bad second date you can either make an apology. Make a joke. To make light of it and try to move on. Or even just put it into perspective for her. How do you know if a second date went bad? There are a number of signs to know if a second date went bad. Including your date getting up and walking away. Or ending the date early. And another very common sign is the fact that she just doesn't reply to your text. Of course that may be on her. Ghosting is sort of a low class behavior. It may not be anything you did. But obviously there wasn't a connection there. For more info on how to do first dates and second dates the right way check out the link in the description.
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