In this video, I share some important tips on what not to ask on a first date. Asking the wrong questions can be a turn-off and ruin your chances of getting a second date. I cover topics like past relationships, money, and politics, and give examples of alternative questions to ask instead. Watch this video to make sure you avoid making these common first date mistakes!
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00:00What to avoid asking on a first date. I'm gonna cover the most common things you should avoid asking on a first date and avoid
00:05most of the ridiculous options because really this list could be huge.
00:10But if you ask any of these questions, the ones I'm gonna cover right now, it could kill your chances of getting laid or getting a second date.
00:16So let's go.
00:21When going on a first date with a girl, it may seem like you're avoiding landmines in terms of topics for things that might just blow up in your
00:27face and ruin the whole date. But it's really not that complicated. Most of the time, if you just focus on her and get to know her, basically get to
00:34know things that are important to her and not stick to superficial topics too much, you'll have a good chance of creating a connection
00:40because when people talk about themselves and they share and they open up what things are important to them, it'll make them like you, ironically.
00:46But here are a few things you should avoid asking on a first date.
00:49Number one, how much money does she make?
00:51It's not generally a topic that most guys care about because we're really just looking at her looks.
00:55And obviously the personality too, yes, that is important, I know. But hey, what attracts us to women initially is the looks. Let's be real.
01:03But there are some male gold-diggers out there, although it is more common for women.
01:07But bringing up the topic of her income could seem too personal on a first date. And it may seem odd to her that you're asking this question.
01:13Number two, asking about her exes.
01:15Although most guys won't do this, some guys will bring up the topic of exes and this is really a topic that should be left on a need-to-know basis.
01:22And most times you really don't need to know anything about her exes.
01:25Number three, how many sexual partners she had.
01:27This will definitely come across as too personal and she's going to wonder why you care about how many sexual partners she's had.
01:32Number four, sexual topic.
01:34Yes, of course you want to get into sexual topics with your date, but on a first date, oftentimes it's really not going to work well.
01:40You'll probably be more likely to actually take her home and sleep with her before she'll talk about sex without being turned off about it.
01:45Of course, this is not always the case, but if you're watching this video, you're probably not so smooth that you can bring up this topic without turning her off.
01:52But for most guys, instead, you should be seducing her with your personality, with your eye contact, the way you're using your voice, and not on the topics you're talking about.
01:59Number five, any political, religious, or otherwise controversial topics.
02:02Hey, you're not there on your first date to have a debate with her. Otherwise, you're going to be going home alone because you're a master debater.
02:08So what do you think you should be avoiding asking on a first date? Leave a comment below, and until next time, conquer and win.
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