00:00What drink to order on a first date?
00:05There's really no rule about what drink you should order on a first date.
00:09This 100% comes down to personal preference.
00:11You could get a fancy drink with an umbrella in it or just get a beer, whatever you like.
00:16There's really only one rule when it comes to getting a drink on a first date and that is don't drink too much.
00:21Now it should be obvious why you shouldn't drink too much on a first date,
00:23but I'll go over the reasons just in case you're not familiar with them.
00:26Number one is making a fool out of yourself.
00:29If you drink too much, your inhibitions tend to go down and a lot of people just can't really control their alcohol.
00:35Number two, making bad decisions.
00:37Maybe this girl isn't really the right girl for you, not even for a one night stand.
00:41And you might regret it in the morning when you wake up next to her and realize that you made a mistake.
00:45Number three, money.
00:46Drinks are expensive.
00:47A lot of drinks are like eight, nine, ten dollars or more.
00:50So if you're having multiple drinks with a girl, chances are you're going to be paying for them as well.
00:54So that's going to be cost of your drinks plus her drinks to pay for a girl that you probably won't see again.
01:00And number four, reliance on alcohol to get laid.
01:03This is a really big one.
01:04If you rely on alcohol to get laid, meaning the girls that you sleep with have to be drunk in order to go home with you,
01:09then there's something wrong.
01:10It means you don't have the confidence to take a woman home without alcohol.
01:14You're depending on this as a crutch.
01:15If you're good with women, if you're confident, you have social skills, you don't need any alcohol whatsoever to take a woman home and get her to sleep with you.
01:22She's going to be turned on by you, by your personality, and she's not going to need something like alcohol to feel comfortable or turned on.
01:29Of course, a little alcohol is okay to set a mood, but don't get wasted just to get laid.
01:34So when it comes to what drinks to have on a first date, you make the choice.
01:37Just take it easy so you can actually have a good date and focus on creating attraction and see where it goes.
01:42Now here are some common questions about ordering drinks on a first date.
01:45Should you order alcohol on a first date?
01:47Ordering alcohol on a first date can be a great way to get to know someone as long as you don't overdo it and make a fool out of yourself.
01:53It can also be a fairly cheap date if you keep it to one drink.
01:57What alcohol should I drink on a first date?
01:59The alcohol you drink on a first date is 100% personal preference.
02:02There's nothing you're going to drink that's really going to impress or turn off your date.
02:06So you make the choice.
02:07What drink should a man order?
02:08A man should order any damn drinks he wants to order.
02:10But a typical choice, obviously, is beer as well as different kinds of hard alcohol.
02:14That's all for today.
02:15Until next time, conquer and win.
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