How and Where To Meet A Women

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In this video, I share my tips on how and where to meet women. I offer some practical advice for meeting women in different settings, such as at work, through hobbies, or at social events. Whether you're looking for a serious relationship or just hoping to expand your social circle, this video will give you some helpful insights and strategies for meeting women.  WHAT YOU WILL SEE:  00:00 Intro 00:51 How and where to meet women? 02:21 Different scenarios where you could get dates  WATCH NOW: How to Meet Girls for Relationships, Dating, & Sex (Exact Steps!) https://youtu.be/DcbLq0e9HLc  IF YOU ARE INTERESTED IN THIS KIND OF CONTENT, YOU SHOULD READ THIS ARTICLE: https://www.conquerandwin.com/why-women-go-cold-on-text-messages-and-how-to-write-messages-that-work/  WHO AM I:  Hi, I’m Eddy Baller, author & founder of Conquer & Win.  I’ve been a dating and relationship coach since 2011, and since then I have helped men across the globe to build their social confidence and get the dates and relationships they deserve.    FOR COACHING, GO TO: https://www.conquerandwin.com/vancouver-dating-coach/   GET IN TOUCH:  If you’d like to talk, I’d love to hear from you. Emailing me at eddy@conquerandwin.com directly will be the quickest way to get a response. I try my best to reply to things but there sadly aren’t enough hours in the day to respond to everyone though I’d get there as soon as I can.    ▼ see below for links & more ▼ ✉️  Sign up to my weekly email newsletter - https://www.conquerandwin.com/contact/ 🌍  My website / blog - https://www.conquerandwin.com 📸  Instagram - https://instagram.com/conquerandwin

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00:00How and where to meet women. This is a common Google search query because guys just don't know

00:05how and where to meet women. And the how question is legitimate, but the where question assumes that

00:11there's a special place to meet women, and that's just really not the case. As soon as you step out

00:16your door, unless you're living in the middle of nowhere, there's going to be women everywhere.

00:19Sure, they're not going to be hanging from trees, and they're probably not all beautiful,

00:23but anywhere you go, whenever you're on the street, you go shopping, you go to school,

00:28you go to work, anywhere, there are women everywhere. So the where question really isn't

00:33legitimate because you don't need to go to a special place to meet them. But how do you meet

00:38these women who are falling from the sky? I'm going to address this question and give you some ideas

00:42so you can start meeting women as soon as you step out of your door, literally. Let's go.

00:50How and where to meet women. So as I've mentioned already, there's no problem with the where part

00:55because where is everywhere. You don't need to go to bars or clubs. You don't need to go to some

00:59special event. Women are everywhere. So that brings us to the how part. If you don't know how to start

01:04conversations with them, then it may seem like some kind of complex puzzle, which led you to doing

01:09some kind of Google search or searching on YouTube, which led you to this video or blog post of some

01:14asshole saying that there's women everywhere. Crazy. But if you learn how to start conversations with

01:19them everywhere you go, in fact, you're not even going to have enough time slots in your Google

01:23calendar to fit them all in. So let's jump into some specific scenarios. I'm not going to go into

01:27too many details because I've covered this topic many times already. And there's going to be a link

01:31in the description to a video which is going to give you a lot more details on the specifics about

01:36how to approach and start conversations with women. I'm just going to outline the basic principles

01:40and then it's going to be up to you to go out there and experiment and see what works for you

01:44because there's lots of different ways to do this. And you're going to find tons of videos on there

01:47with lots of different opinions and lots of different things, many of which which will work and many of which

01:52are probably bullshit that the authors made up and never have actually tried themselves. But that's

01:57going to be up to you to figure out what's the bullshit and what's the truth. And hey, some things

02:01are going to work better for certain individuals than for others. For some guys who are immensely

02:04confident, almost anything will work really. But if you're not that confident, it helps to have some

02:10guidelines that will take you in the right direction. Think of them as training wheels. So here's some

02:14common scenarios you're going to encounter and different ways to start conversations in those

02:18scenarios. So you can get dates. Let's go again. Number one, any sort of retail outlet, grocery store,

02:24or basically any sort of shop where you could be shopping. In these situations, this typically

02:29doesn't pay to go direct because this is going to be a small environment with a lot of ears. And it's

02:35not just going to be uncomfortable for you, but it may be uncomfortable for the women you're talking

02:38to if you're too forward. So generally speaking, it pays to be able to make indirect conversation

02:43openers in these sorts of situations. So for example, if you're in a grocery store and you're in the

02:47meat section, you see a girl checking out the sausages, you could be like, it's hard to find

02:52a good piece of meat around here, right? Or something like that. Or pretty much any other

02:56kind of comment you want to make. It doesn't really matter that much what kind of comment you make.

03:00For the most part, I mean, it does to an extent, but how you say it is even more important. If you

03:05say it confidently, you don't whisper to her, which sounds really creepy and she probably won't even hear

03:09you in the first place. And even more importantly, in this kind of situation, don't turn towards her.

03:15Now that may seem strange. You're trying to start a conversation with someone and you're not

03:18turning your body towards them, but keep in mind, this is a casual situation. So it doesn't matter

03:23if you're grocery shopping or shopping for clothing, you're not supposed to make it look like you're

03:27approaching her directly. Otherwise emails will just approach her directly and forget the whole

03:31indirect thing. So your body's going to be square to whatever you're shopping for and your head's

03:36going to turn towards her so you can project your voice. And so she can see that you're talking to

03:40her. There are a lot of different possible comments you can make. So I'm not going to go over

03:43everything in this video, but experiment and see what works for you. Generally, I pick the most

03:48simple, obvious thing that's right in front of me. And it's usually has something to do with what

03:53she's looking at or what she's doing. But just keep in mind, as long as it's relevant to her,

03:58it's not something about you. It's going to work a lot better. But if it doesn't work,

04:02she'll probably just chop your balls off and pepper spray you. No, no, she won't do that.

04:07You can trust me. I'm some guy on the internet. Situation number two, coffee shops, restaurants,

04:13anywhere you're getting food. It could be a cafeteria. It doesn't really matter. Or some

04:16kind of food court in the mall. In these situations, often it's going to allow you a chance to sit

04:21somewhere nearby where there's a single woman seated. In which case, it's going to be very

04:25easy to start a conversation about the coffee she has or the cake or the meal. Just like in the first

04:31scenario, it doesn't matter that much what you say. It does, but it doesn't. What matters more

04:36is how you say it. Make sure you speak with a strong, clear voice. You're looking directly at

04:42her and don't try to whisper or send psychic signals to her because you're self-conscious.

04:47Otherwise, it's not going to work. And she might just think you're a crazy guy who's talking to

04:50himself and not actually know you're talking to her. In these restaurant and cafe scenarios as well,

04:55you can also chat up the waitress or the barista. And I've gotten dates with waitresses,

04:59baristas, bartenders, hostesses, you name it. And all you have to do is start a basic conversation with

05:05them. You don't need something special to say, just like in all these other scenarios. You just

05:09need to start talking, but focus on them. Keep it relevant to them. People like talking about

05:13themselves and they're not really going to care about you until they do care about you, which is

05:17after you've got them interested. And scenario number three, the street. This is a taboo

05:22situation for most guys because most guys will never try this in their entire lives. They just don't

05:27have the balls for it. Or because they've been brainwashed by some weird ideology that I'm not going to

05:31mention the name of, but it's the one that teaches you that talking to women is a bad thing. And

05:36that's just not true. It just depends how you're doing it. Now, there are some definite guidelines

05:40for approaching a woman on the street. You want to respect her space. And hey, I know you're all

05:45about respecting women. That's why you're here. But seriously, you have to respect your space.

05:49Nobody likes it when somebody jumps up into their personal bubble. They don't want to be touched

05:53either. So don't tap them or do anything like that. I've seen that before. And women do not

05:58appreciate it, right? Really, nobody would appreciate it being touched by a stranger

06:02or somebody getting right up in their face in public. So do this properly. If you basically,

06:07if you extend your arm out and you can't touch her, that's more or less a good rule of thumb.

06:11If you're short, though, do a couple of arms lengths, right? But just stay out of her personal

06:16bubble. Approach her like you're getting directions. Just say, excuse me. And then be direct about it.

06:21Just say, you know, just let her know that you saw her. She looked absolutely fantastic and you had to

06:25come talk to her. And there is more to it. So go check out the link in the description. There's

06:30more details on how to do this well. But those are the main guidelines. Just stay out of her space.

06:34Don't touch her and be direct and honest. So in terms of how and where to meet women in public,

06:39those are going to be the three most common scenarios. And you can basically apply them to

06:42any other scenario you can think of. But now it's up to you to grow some balls and actually go out and

06:47talk to them. Women are not that scary. Most of the time, even if you don't do it 100% correctly,

06:52most women will be very forgiving and very nice. In fact, the majority of time, if you approach

06:57somebody and they're not interested, they'll politely excuse themselves or they'll make an

07:01excuse to have a boyfriend or husband. A lot of the time they actually do have boyfriends and

07:05husbands too. So not a big deal. But if they're not interested in talking to you, just leave it be,

07:09you know, let them go and you can talk to somebody else. Now, obviously, to make this work really,

07:13really well, there's going to be more to it. Your body language is important. The way you speak,

07:18including your voice, the strength of your voice, how you use your eyes, and including what you say,

07:23right? But you're not going to figure out all this stuff until you get out there and actually start

07:26talking to women. So if you want to know how and where to meet women, walk out in the street,

07:30go to a store, go to a grocery store, wherever you like, and just start talking to them. This is the

07:36way you're going to learn and this is the way you're going to start getting dates. Otherwise,

07:38if this is too much for you, I would suggest speed dating or online dating possibly,

07:43although online dating really doesn't work that well for most guys, not average guys. But if you do

07:47decide to take this journey and start learning how to meet women this way, it will develop your

07:51confidence in ways you never even imagined before. So that's all for today. Until next time,

07:55conquer and win.

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