00:00How do you escape the friendzone? If you like a girl and she told you we should
00:03just be friends, it may not be over yet. Keep watching and learn how to get out of
00:07the friendzone and get the girl you like. I'm Eddie Ballard, I'm a dating coach and
00:10the owner of conquering1.com. I've been coaching men since 2011 to build their
00:14confidence and meet the kind of woman they want. Let's jump into it.
00:21How to escape the friendzone. If you've been friendzoned or maybe get
00:25friendzoned on a regular basis, there is hope. And it starts by changing your
00:29behavior and your beliefs. Guys actually usually end up friendzoning themselves.
00:33How? By treating the girls they like as friends. If you like somebody romantically
00:37then this is the last thing you should do. And it basically boils down to the
00:40effect of mirroring. Basically whatever you do other people are gonna mirror back
00:44at you. If you smile at someone very often they're gonna smile back at you. If you
00:48have a frowny face or a wrestling bitch face, most of the time when you're
00:51interacting with people that's what they give back to you as well. And this works
00:54for relationships too. So if you're always acting like a friend to every girl you
00:58meet, they're gonna be treating you like a friend. And if you want girls to stop
01:00thinking about you as a friend, then you need to stop thinking about them and
01:04stop treating them as a friend first. Now, how do you go from friends to lovers? To
01:07go from friends to lovers and escape the friendzone, try some of the following.
01:11Number one, make a move. Guys who are treating the girls they like as friends are
01:14usually not actually making moves, right? They're not inviting them home, they're not
01:17trying to hold their hand, they're not going for a kiss. So make a decisive move to
01:20establish what you want with her is romantic and not platonic. Number two, stop
01:23thinking about her as a friend. If you think about the girls you like as friends, then you're much more
01:27likely to treat them like friends and you're not going to be getting into any romantic encounters.
01:31Number three, be willing to walk away. This is probably the most important one
01:35because guys who are treating girls like friends very often don't want to lose the friendship.
01:39Well, you're not there for friends, so stop fucking around basically. You need to be willing to walk
01:44away if she's not willing to go the extra mile with you. Don't settle for second prize. If you're
01:48willing to settle for second prize, you're not going to be making the moves you need to make in order
01:51to make it into a romantic relationship and you're going to continue friendzoning yourself. And if you're
01:56willing to walk away, it's going to make you less needy which will make you more attractive. Number
01:59four, distance yourself. Stop chasing her, stop texting her on a daily basis, stop having these
02:04friend conversations all the time. Basically, go about your own business, do your own thing,
02:08and get in touch with her when you want to date. And number five, date other girls. If you're entirely
02:13focused on this one girl because you have nothing else going on romantically, then it's going to make
02:17you needy. And she's going to see this too. She's going to see that you have no other dating options
02:21going on. And chances are you need the experience anyways, so go out there and have some fun and find some
02:26girls to go on dates with and stop focusing on this one girl. Here's some common questions about
02:29escaping the friendzone. Can the friendzone turn into a relationship? Yes, the friendzone can turn
02:33into a relationship, but you have to make a big move. You have to do something different. It's not
02:37business as usual, right? And you have to stop treating her as a friend and be willing to walk
02:41away. Why do girls friendzone you? Girls tend to friendzone guys who typically friendzone themselves.
02:46By treating girls as your friend, they're going to mirror that back to you and they're all going to be
02:49thinking about you as a friend. Another big reason for getting friendzoned is guys moving too slowly
02:54because they don't have any confidence to go faster. Is the friendzone permanent? The friendzone
02:58doesn't have to be permanent, but that's really up to you. If you treat her the way you usually treat
03:02her, then things will continue as normal. That means more friendzone. But if you turn up the heat,
03:06anything is possible. How do I change your mind about being just friends? You can't really change a
03:10woman's mind about being just friends because it's all about emotions. If you try to logically reason
03:14with her, it's not going to click with her emotionally, right? She's not turned on by you. She doesn't
03:19think of you as a romantic partner. But you can influence her to feel differently about you. And that comes
03:24down to your behavior. You have to be a bold, confident guy who goes after what he wants and
03:28takes charge. To learn more about the friendzone, check out the link in the description or the
03:31comment section below. Until next time, conquer and win.
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