00:00What not to talk about on a first date. The topic of what not to talk about on a first date could
00:04be a really big one. This video could go on forever because there could be literally endless
00:09things that you shouldn't talk about on a first date. But we're just going to cover some of the
00:12big ones, common things that people will bring up that they shouldn't bring up on first dates
00:16so you can save yourself the pain and suffering that comes along with the calluses that you're
00:21going to get on your hand when you go home alone. So let's jump into it.
00:24What not to talk about on a first date. Here are the biggest things that will come up on a first
00:31date and ruin it. And I've experienced at least some of these myself when I made mistakes. So
00:35unless you're 100% certain you're on exactly the same page, you really shouldn't be bringing these
00:39up. And even if you are on the same page, it's just best not to bring these topics up on a first
00:44date. You can bring them up later as you get to know each other. Number one, abortion. Abortion's
00:48a very heated topic. Obviously this is going to be a major date killer. I suppose if you are on the
00:53same page, you can connect on that. But it is a very heavy topic and it's best to keep things a
00:57little lighter on a first date. Doesn't mean you have to talk about superficial things. You want
01:01to go get into someone's aspirations and their ambitions. But abortion is not one of them. Number
01:07two, your favorite political party or just politics in general. Politics are not a great first date
01:12conversation. This can lead to a very heated discussion or at the very least someone not liking
01:18you or someone aka your date not going home with you. Number three, identity politics. Just like any
01:24other politics, identity politics is really a no-go whether you're for or against. This is something
01:30which can get heated very quickly. Number four, your bank account statement. Don't start talking about
01:34how you do have lots of money or how you don't have lots of money. In either case, it's not really
01:38going to put you in a good light. If you're talking about how much money you have, it's just going to
01:42couple crosses bragging. Unless you've got a gold digger and that's what you're trying to attract,
01:47it's not going to go very well. And if you don't have a lot of money, why bring that up? It's not
01:51going to be, that's also something that's not going to be putting you in a great light. And number five,
01:55one of the most common first date topics that people don't like, but is also the most common
02:00first date topics, is an ex or exes. Stories about your exes. Just stay off the entire topic about
02:05exes. Nobody really wants to hear about what your ex did or how much you hate them or whatever. Most often,
02:12this is just going to put you in a bad light. Even if your ex was the worst person in the whole
02:16world, then, you know, it's still going to put you in a bad light because they're not going to know
02:20her story, right? And she's going to be thinking, wait a sec, is this, you know, is this true? Is
02:26this not true? And the angrier you are about your ex, the worse it's going to make you look. So it's
02:32best to just avoid this topic completely. No, really, nobody really cares. So I'm going to stop this
02:36topic right here because as I said, the number of topics you could go into that you probably shouldn't go
02:41into on a first date could be endless, but leave your favorite first date topics that you shouldn't
02:45go into in the comment section below. And until next time, conquer and win.
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