Should You Hold Hands On The First Date?

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In this video, I discuss whether or not you should hold hands on the first date. If you're wondering whether or not holding hands is too much too soon, or if it's a good way to show affection and connection, then this video is for you. Join me as we explore the question of holding hands on a first date.  WATCH NOW: How to Meet Girls for Relationships, Dating, & Sex (Exact Steps!) https://youtu.be/DcbLq0e9HLc  IF YOU ARE INTERESTED IN THIS KIND OF CONTENT, YOU SHOULD READ THIS ARTICLE: https://www.conquerandwin.com/why-women-go-cold-on-text-messages-and-how-to-write-messages-that-work/  WHO AM I:  Hi, I’m Eddy Baller, author & founder of Conquer & Win.  I’ve been a dating and relationship coach since 2011, and since then I have helped men across the globe to build their social confidence and get the dates and relationships they deserve.    FOR COACHING, GO TO: https://www.conquerandwin.com/vancouver-dating-coach/   GET IN TOUCH:  If you’d like to talk, I’d love to hear from you. Emailing me at eddy@conquerandwin.com directly will be the quickest way to get a response. I try my best to reply to things but there sadly aren’t enough hours in the day to respond to everyone though I’d get there as soon as I can.    ▼ see below for links & more ▼ ✉️  Sign up to my weekly email newsletter - https://www.conquerandwin.com/contact/ 🌍  My website / blog - https://www.conquerandwin.com 📸  Instagram - https://instagram.com/conquerandwin

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00:00Should you hold hands on a first date?

00:05If you want to hold hands with a girl on a first date, it's really not a big deal.

00:08But obviously, she's going to need to be comfortable before she's happy to hold your meat mitt.

00:12And funny enough, a lot of women will sooner sleep with you than they will hold your hand.

00:16Possibly because sex might be considered recreational for some people,

00:19and holding hands seems more like a couple kind of thing.

00:22But that's just my guess.

00:23But holding hands is something I've done successfully on first dates,

00:26but typically, that would be on instant dates, which would be a whole other topic.

00:30But just to give you a quick definition, basically, it's after you approach somebody in public,

00:35and then you take them on a date right away.

00:37And I've done that before and led them away holding their hands.

00:39The point is, you could hold your day's hand on the first date.

00:41Like I said, it's not a big deal.

00:43And in fact, it's a really good idea for you to experiment and see what actually works on your days

00:47because what works for you on a date may not work for somebody else and myself for you and blah, blah, blah.

00:53So the bottom line is, you need to experiment to see what works for you and get confident enough to do it

00:58because something that may not work for you when you're not that confident and you don't have that much experience

01:02may work for somebody else when they are confident and they do have experience doing it.

01:06They've done it before and it worked.

01:08But if you try one time and it doesn't work and you don't have any confidence,

01:11it's not likely you're going to be highly successful the next time when you try it

01:14unless you work on improving each time.

01:16So the next time you're on a first date and you feel some chemistry,

01:19just reach over and try holding your hand.

01:21And if she reciprocates, then you've got to win her.

01:23But if she does the quick pull back and she's, you know, maybe increased some distance,

01:27you're probably not going to be going anywhere with her.

01:29Or it might mean she's just not ready yet and you could try on another date.

01:32So really, in conclusion, holding hands is not a big deal.

01:35Give it a shot if you want to do it.

01:37But if you don't hold her hand, that's also not a big deal

01:39because you can make other things happen later on that first date or in your second or third date.

01:43So now here are some common questions about holding a girl's hand on the first date.

01:46How long should you date before holding hands?

01:47How long you should date before holding hands really depends on the comfort level of both people.

01:51It doesn't hurt to try on the first date, but you could also do it on the second or third.

01:55Or you could just wait until you're an actual couple.

01:57On which date should you hold hands?

01:58There's no specific date which you have to hold hands.

02:00It's really depending on the two people involved and the chemistry you have.

02:04When should you hold a girl's hand for the first time?

02:05There's no specific time to hold a girl's hand for the first time.

02:08But if you're on a date with her and you really like her, why not try on the first date?

02:11That's all for today.

02:12Until next time, conquer and win.

02:13Peace, peace, peace, hope, peace.

02:18Peace, peace, peace.

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