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In this video, I'm going to explain you exactly why it is a mistake to tell a girl you like her over text and the alternative so you can get something going with this girl that you like.


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Transcript
00:00So you've been chatting with a girl for a while or maybe you've been seeing her but nothing has
00:03really happened and you're wondering how to tell a girl you like her over tech. This is actually a
00:07huge mistake and I'm going to explain exactly why and the alternative so you can get something going
00:11with this girl that you like. I'm Eddie Baller and I'm a dating coach and the owner of conquering
00:15win.com and I've been coaching men since 2011 to build their confidence and meet the kind of woman
00:18they want and I know what works from thousands of personal experiences as well as watching my
00:23clients in field regardless of their height, age, race, looks or financial status. Let's jump into it.
00:30How to tell a girl you like her over text. Well the answer is don't and actually you shouldn't
00:37really ever tell a girl you like her. Not a girl that you're not dating, not a girl that you're not
00:40in a serious relationship with and this is especially bad in the early stages of dating or before you even
00:45started dating. So let's cover why you should not tell a girl you like her over text. So for starters
00:50by text you're really limited in your form of communication right. All she can do is read the
00:55words that you're sending her. There's no eye contact, there's no voice, there's no body language
00:59or touch. Really you're taking all the emotions out of it. Not only that it's not really manly to
01:05text the girl you're feeling. If you really want to tell her something important and telling a girl
01:09you like her is kind of important, be a man and do it in person. This will show more balls than by
01:14half-assing it and texting her. But hey a few moments ago I also said you just shouldn't tell a girl you
01:19like her period. At least not in the early stages of dating or before dating especially. And there are some
01:24really solid reasons for this. A lot of the time or I would say probably most of the time maybe 100%
01:28of the time guys telling their feelings to a girl is because they expect some kind of reciprocation
01:33right. And there's nothing wrong with that except that guys often fool themselves in thinking that
01:39if they tell a girl his feelings that that will somehow create feelings for her. That she's gonna
01:45like him because he likes her and it just doesn't work that way. Or maybe you think she does like you
01:49already and you think she's gonna reveal that to you now and it'll be easier moving forward. Since
01:53you're a man if you want to attract women it's really all about action and not words. Women respond
01:58to a man's personality and the things he does and not to the words necessarily. As well as that
02:03telling a girl you like her is sort of awkward. It's kind of like asking for a kiss. You shouldn't
02:08ask for a kiss you should just do it right. Just take action. Verbalizing things will very often kill
02:12them in the world of dating. And I'm not saying emotions are bad and I'm not saying to never tell a girl
02:16you like her. I'll talk about that a little bit later. But if you really want to make things work
02:21you need to attract her first with the man you are and the actions you take. Be assertive. Ask her
02:25on a date. If you tell a girl you like her prematurely it's not going to make her want you
02:30but it may make her want to get away from you right. It may look needy and it's kind of a desperate
02:35move they just put everything on the table like that instead of just asking her out. If you want to have
02:39any chance of getting her like you you need to at the very least get her out on a date with you.
02:43And if you're already going on dates then continue doing that and take it to the next step. Try to
02:47get physical. Go for a kiss. Hold her hand. Invite her home. Whatever it is. But do things instead of
02:52saying them. Now once you actually have an established relationship and things are going well and you can
02:56feel there's a mutual attraction there and you both really like each other it's okay to verbalize things
03:01sometimes right. You still want to be saying every single day and overwhelming her. But again in the early
03:06stages of dating or before you start dating her it just looks needy and it's kind of a desperate move
03:11that will very often push women away. For more info on how to text girls check out the link in the
03:15description and until next time conquer and win.
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