Who Should Pay for Drinks on a First Date (Men or Women)

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Who Should Pay for Drinks on a First Date (Men or Women)  In this video, I explore the age-old question of who should pay for drinks on a first date - men or women? I share my thoughts on the subject and discuss some of the factors that may influence the decision, such as traditional gender roles and financial situations. Join me as I delve into this contentious topic and share my personal experiences and insights. Whether you're single and navigating the dating world or simply interested in the dynamics of relationships, this video is sure to pique your interest.  WATCH NOW: How to Meet Girls for Relationships, Dating, & Sex (Exact Steps!) https://youtu.be/DcbLq0e9HLc  IF YOU ARE INTERESTED IN THIS KIND OF CONTENT, YOU SHOULD READ THIS ARTICLE: https://www.conquerandwin.com/why-women-go-cold-on-text-messages-and-how-to-write-messages-that-work/  WHO AM I:  Hi, I’m Eddy Baller, author & founder of Conquer & Win.  I’ve been a dating and relationship coach since 2011, and since then I have helped men across the globe to build their social confidence and get the dates and relationships they deserve.    FOR COACHING, GO TO: https://www.conquerandwin.com/vancouver-dating-coach/   GET IN TOUCH:  If you’d like to talk, I’d love to hear from you. Emailing me at eddy@conquerandwin.com directly will be the quickest way to get a response. I try my best to reply to things but there sadly aren’t enough hours in the day to respond to everyone though I’d get there as soon as I can.    ▼ see below for links & more ▼ ✉️  Sign up to my weekly email newsletter - https://www.conquerandwin.com/contact/ 🌍  My website / blog - https://www.conquerandwin.com 📸  Instagram - https://instagram.com/conquerandwin

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00:00Who should pay for drinks on a first date? The man or the woman?

00:03Well hey, this is modern times, right? And it's 2023, so obviously we're all equal and she's gonna probably pay for the dates, right?

00:10Probably not. If you're the man, chances are you're gonna be paying for drinks on the first date.

00:14If you go for drinks on a first date, you really should make it into drink on a first date and stop at one.

00:19Because it's gonna save you a boatload of money.

00:21You really don't need the alcohol and buying her a bunch of drinks to make it work if you know what you're doing.

00:26But it can be a good way to set the mood, especially if you're gonna invite her home afterwards, after having one drink.

00:32But hey, if you're kind of a party guy and you love getting wasted, then the idea of having one drink could be sacrilegious.

00:38But that's up to you. If you want to pay a lot of money every time you go on a date, then go right ahead.

00:43But if you're a guy who's getting a decent amount of dates, this is gonna add up really fast.

00:46And unless you have boatloads of cash, in which case it doesn't really matter, you should probably limit it to one drink.

00:52And not rely on alcohol to try and entice the women you meet.

00:55But what about not paying for drinks on the first date? Or what about going Dutch?

00:59Yeah, you could go Dutch, but the majority of the time, the woman is not gonna offer.

01:03And if you take her on a date and it's going well, you have a drink or two, and then you're calling quits, you're gonna go somewhere else or end the date.

01:10And you go up to the cash register and like, what's your portion of the bill?

01:13It's not gonna be something that helps you get the second date or take her home.

01:17Let's be realistic, as much as everyone is equal, we're not equal as soon as we get to the cash register, are we?

01:22So really, the best option to avoid this completely is not go get drinks, not do anything that costs a lot of money.

01:28But if you do get drinks, then just grab the bill and stop thinking about it.

01:32What's your opinion? Leave a comment in the comment section below.

01:35And until next time, conquer and win.

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