How To Say You Don't Want a Second Date

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In this video, I offer some tips on how to politely decline a second date. I'll provide some helpful phrases and techniques for letting your date down gently, while still being clear about your intentions. If you're struggling to figure out how to say no to a second date, this video is a must-watch. Let's navigate this tricky situation together!  WHAT YOU WILL SEE:  00:00 Intro 01:12 How do you politely cancel a second date? 01:28 How do you cancel a date without hurting someone's feelings?  WATCH NOW: How to Meet Girls for Relationships, Dating, & Sex (Exact Steps!) https://youtu.be/DcbLq0e9HLc  IF YOU ARE INTERESTED IN THIS KIND OF CONTENT, YOU SHOULD READ THIS ARTICLE: https://www.conquerandwin.com/why-women-go-cold-on-text-messages-and-how-to-write-messages-that-work/  WHO AM I:  Hi, I’m Eddy Baller, author & founder of Conquer & Win.  I’ve been a dating and relationship coach since 2011, and since then I have helped men across the globe to build their social confidence and get the dates and relationships they deserve.    FOR COACHING, GO TO: https://www.conquerandwin.com/vancouver-dating-coach/   GET IN TOUCH:  If you’d like to talk, I’d love to hear from you. Emailing me at eddy@conquerandwin.com directly will be the quickest way to get a response. I try my best to reply to things but there sadly aren’t enough hours in the day to respond to everyone though I’d get there as soon as I can.    ▼ see below for links & more ▼ ✉️  Sign up to my weekly email newsletter - https://www.conquerandwin.com/contact/ 🌍  My website / blog - https://www.conquerandwin.com 📸  Instagram - https://instagram.com/conquerandwin

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00:00How to say you don't want a second date. It doesn't always feel good to turn someone down,

00:03but it's just the best thing to do if you're really not into them. Getting to the point

00:07quickly and honestly is the best thing to do. I'm going to give you the quickest, easiest

00:11solution to use by text, turn down a second date with somebody you're just not into. So let's jump

00:15into it. How to say you don't want a second date. Here's how to say you don't want a second date

00:23while still maintaining some humanity. You don't have to turn down your ex-date and crush them

00:28just because you don't want to see them anymore. However, keep in mind that their feelings are

00:31their own responsibility. So as long as you don't do anything malicious, basically they have to own

00:36that themselves. Try this when responding to your ex-date's attempt to set up a second date.

00:40Hey Jenny, it was good meeting you last time, but I just am not feeling any chemistry between the two

00:44of us. I wish you the best of luck. Now that message is pretty polite, it's diplomatic, and it doesn't

00:48place any blame on them. And of course you can change the wording to make it more you, so it has

00:53your personality and not mine. But just make sure when you do, don't make it so polite that you leave

00:57some wiggle room, like you make that girl or guy, I guess, because it's basically the same thing for

01:02turning someone down. Don't leave any wiggle room so they can try to negotiate something or hope for

01:08another date. Now here are some common questions about how to turn down a second date. How do you

01:11politely cancel a second date? Politely cancel a second date, it depends on the reasons you're

01:15canceling it. If you're planning on seeing that person again, you just happen to be busy, something

01:19important came up, then let them know that. However, if you're not planning on seeing them again,

01:24just be straightforward and be honest about it. How do you cancel a date without hurting

01:27someone's feelings? Cancel a date without hurting someone's feelings, just use polite diplomatic

01:32language, don't place any blame on them. But in the end, keep in mind that their feelings are not

01:36your responsibility, as long as you don't do anything malicious to try to hurt them. For more

01:40info on first dates, check out the link in the description or the comment section below.

01:43And until next time, conquer and win.

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