00:00What to expect on a first date. If you just set up your first first date or you don't have too
00:04much experience under your belt then the question of what to expect on the first date might give
00:08you some nerves. But I'm going to cover everything you need to know about what to expect as well as
00:12how to set an intent so you actually get more out of your first dates and aren't just another leaf
00:17in the wind and waiting for random chance to work in your favor. So let's go. So let's start with
00:25the most common things you can expect on a first date and then I'm going to talk about how to set
00:29an intent so you can get much more out of your first dates and have better results. The quick
00:33list what to expect on a first date. Number one a smile when you greet. Number two small talk you're
00:38basically going to be chatting about her life what she does why she does it anything you know hobby
00:44wise that she likes and probably all the same stuff in your direction as well. Number three awkward
00:49silences only if you don't know how to handle silences they can actually be a great thing for
00:53creating sexual tension if you don't jump in to try to fill in those awkward voids. They don't really
00:58don't have to be awkward but since you don't have very much experience it probably will be. Number
01:03four somewhat forced conversation. This doesn't always have to happen but if you kind of run out
01:08of things to talk about then you may feel obligated to keep the conversation going especially if you
01:13allow your date to run too long. Number five you'll probably walk her to her car. And number six an
01:17awkward hug. So that's the basic list of what to expect on your basic bitch first date and it's also
01:23what you can expect if you just don't have very much experience with dating or if you just don't set an
01:27intent or a goal for your date. So let's change that and make your first dates more exciting and
01:31actually make something happen on them. So the first thing you're going to do to improve your dates is
01:35set an intent or a goal a dating goal and that's exactly as it sounds you're going to be deciding
01:40what you want on your first date and creating sort of a loose road map to get there. So for example do
01:46you want to go for a kiss just have a good connection that gets you a second date or do you want to
01:51actually take her home? Well you can actually accomplish all of these goals on the first date if you want
01:55but you decide for you. But if you do want to take it all the way it will change the chemistry of the
02:00date and actually that's a good thing because you're going to have a chance to try before you buy and see
02:05how you guys feel afterwards. And at the very least you can have some fun. So if the only thing that's
02:09holding you back from trying to go and take a woman home is the inexperience and some nerves then
02:14it's time to change that. But of course if it's a moral or religious thing then you just stick to your
02:18morals or religious ideas. Otherwise there's no reason to save anything for another date. You really don't
02:23have to. And women aren't angels like you might tend to think. But no matter what it is you want set an intent
02:29decide how you're going to get there and then execute. Don't be you know so nervous that you can't even try
02:35anything. Don't worry about you know don't walk on eggshells and try to have a perfect day and just trying
02:40not to offend her the whole time. Obviously don't try to offend her but you don't have to be acting like
02:45anything you do or say is going to send her running. So for just for one quick example if you decide you want to
02:50go for a kiss then decide when you're going to go for a kiss what kind of moment that's going to be
02:55and how you're going to go for it. Right so if you're going for a kiss at the end of the date
02:59then you're going to focus on having a really good conversation during the day make a connection
03:03make really strong eye contact then walk her back to the car or whatever and then we're saying goodbye
03:09and there's a big smile on your face and her face and you feel those butterflies now you can lead in and go
03:14for the kiss or you know you make your plan. But don't go in without a goal because if you don't have a goal
03:19you're not going to have anywhere to take it. Or in other words expect what you want and you'll be
03:24more likely to get it. That's all for today. Until next time conquer and win!
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