What To Expect On a First Date?

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In this video, I'll be sharing some insights on what to expect on a first date.  I'll give you tips on how to prepare yourself, what topics to talk about, and how to make a good first impression. If you're feeling nervous or unsure about your upcoming first date, this video is for you! So sit back, relax, and let's dive into the exciting world of first dates!  WATCH NOW: How to Meet Girls for Relationships, Dating, & Sex (Exact Steps!) https://youtu.be/DcbLq0e9HLc  IF YOU ARE INTERESTED IN THIS KIND OF CONTENT, YOU SHOULD READ THIS ARTICLE: https://www.conquerandwin.com/why-women-go-cold-on-text-messages-and-how-to-write-messages-that-work/  WHO AM I:  Hi, I’m Eddy Baller, author & founder of Conquer & Win.  I’ve been a dating and relationship coach since 2011, and since then I have helped men across the globe to build their social confidence and get the dates and relationships they deserve.    FOR COACHING, GO TO: https://www.conquerandwin.com/vancouver-dating-coach/   GET IN TOUCH:  If you’d like to talk, I’d love to hear from you. Emailing me at eddy@conquerandwin.com directly will be the quickest way to get a response. I try my best to reply to things but there sadly aren’t enough hours in the day to respond to everyone though I’d get there as soon as I can.    ▼ see below for links & more ▼ ✉️  Sign up to my weekly email newsletter - https://www.conquerandwin.com/contact/ 🌍  My website / blog - https://www.conquerandwin.com 📸  Instagram - https://instagram.com/conquerandwin

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00:00What to expect on a first date. If you just set up your first first date or you don't have too

00:04much experience under your belt then the question of what to expect on the first date might give

00:08you some nerves. But I'm going to cover everything you need to know about what to expect as well as

00:12how to set an intent so you actually get more out of your first dates and aren't just another leaf

00:17in the wind and waiting for random chance to work in your favor. So let's go. So let's start with

00:25the most common things you can expect on a first date and then I'm going to talk about how to set

00:29an intent so you can get much more out of your first dates and have better results. The quick

00:33list what to expect on a first date. Number one a smile when you greet. Number two small talk you're

00:38basically going to be chatting about her life what she does why she does it anything you know hobby

00:44wise that she likes and probably all the same stuff in your direction as well. Number three awkward

00:49silences only if you don't know how to handle silences they can actually be a great thing for

00:53creating sexual tension if you don't jump in to try to fill in those awkward voids. They don't really

00:58don't have to be awkward but since you don't have very much experience it probably will be. Number

01:03four somewhat forced conversation. This doesn't always have to happen but if you kind of run out

01:08of things to talk about then you may feel obligated to keep the conversation going especially if you

01:13allow your date to run too long. Number five you'll probably walk her to her car. And number six an

01:17awkward hug. So that's the basic list of what to expect on your basic bitch first date and it's also

01:23what you can expect if you just don't have very much experience with dating or if you just don't set an

01:27intent or a goal for your date. So let's change that and make your first dates more exciting and

01:31actually make something happen on them. So the first thing you're going to do to improve your dates is

01:35set an intent or a goal a dating goal and that's exactly as it sounds you're going to be deciding

01:40what you want on your first date and creating sort of a loose road map to get there. So for example do

01:46you want to go for a kiss just have a good connection that gets you a second date or do you want to

01:51actually take her home? Well you can actually accomplish all of these goals on the first date if you want

01:55but you decide for you. But if you do want to take it all the way it will change the chemistry of the

02:00date and actually that's a good thing because you're going to have a chance to try before you buy and see

02:05how you guys feel afterwards. And at the very least you can have some fun. So if the only thing that's

02:09holding you back from trying to go and take a woman home is the inexperience and some nerves then

02:14it's time to change that. But of course if it's a moral or religious thing then you just stick to your

02:18morals or religious ideas. Otherwise there's no reason to save anything for another date. You really don't

02:23have to. And women aren't angels like you might tend to think. But no matter what it is you want set an intent

02:29decide how you're going to get there and then execute. Don't be you know so nervous that you can't even try

02:35anything. Don't worry about you know don't walk on eggshells and try to have a perfect day and just trying

02:40not to offend her the whole time. Obviously don't try to offend her but you don't have to be acting like

02:45anything you do or say is going to send her running. So for just for one quick example if you decide you want to

02:50go for a kiss then decide when you're going to go for a kiss what kind of moment that's going to be

02:55and how you're going to go for it. Right so if you're going for a kiss at the end of the date

02:59then you're going to focus on having a really good conversation during the day make a connection

03:03make really strong eye contact then walk her back to the car or whatever and then we're saying goodbye

03:09and there's a big smile on your face and her face and you feel those butterflies now you can lead in and go

03:14for the kiss or you know you make your plan. But don't go in without a goal because if you don't have a goal

03:19you're not going to have anywhere to take it. Or in other words expect what you want and you'll be

03:24more likely to get it. That's all for today. Until next time conquer and win!

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