Where Should You Go On A First Date?

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In this video, I'll be sharing my tips on where to go on a first date. Are you struggling to come up with a fun and exciting idea for your first date? Look no further! I'll be discussing some great options for a first date, whether you're looking for something casual or a little more romantic. Watch this video for some inspiration on how to make your first date a success!  WATCH NOW: How to Meet Girls for Relationships, Dating, & Sex (Exact Steps!) https://youtu.be/DcbLq0e9HLc  IF YOU ARE INTERESTED IN THIS KIND OF CONTENT, YOU SHOULD READ THIS ARTICLE: https://www.conquerandwin.com/why-women-go-cold-on-text-messages-and-how-to-write-messages-that-work/  WHO AM I:  Hi, I’m Eddy Baller, author & founder of Conquer & Win.  I’ve been a dating and relationship coach since 2011, and since then I have helped men across the globe to build their social confidence and get the dates and relationships they deserve.    FOR COACHING, GO TO: https://www.conquerandwin.com/vancouver-dating-coach/   GET IN TOUCH:  If you’d like to talk, I’d love to hear from you. Emailing me at eddy@conquerandwin.com directly will be the quickest way to get a response. I try my best to reply to things but there sadly aren’t enough hours in the day to respond to everyone though I’d get there as soon as I can.    ▼ see below for links & more ▼ ✉️  Sign up to my weekly email newsletter - https://www.conquerandwin.com/contact/ 🌍  My website / blog - https://www.conquerandwin.com 📸  Instagram - https://instagram.com/conquerandwin

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00:00Where should you go on a first date? Well, if your primary mission is to get to know the girl

00:04you're on a date with and make a connection so there could be a second date or even going home

00:07with her, then you're going to want to keep this as simple as possible. And there's multiple reasons

00:11why you want to keep this really simple, including respecting your own time, but also for the

00:16effectiveness of the date. So basically what that means is don't take your date somewhere. It's

00:20going to take a long time, including commuting. So normally that would mean no hiking or anything

00:24else like that that's going to make the date really long. Another thing you want to avoid is anything

00:27that would cost you a lot of money because if you spend money on your date, it is not going to

00:32impress her and it's not going to make it more likely that she's actually going to go out with

00:35you on another date. So avoid anything that's going to cost money. So that limits us to a few simple

00:40dates which are really easy, low cost or no cost, and will give you the opportunity to make a

00:45connection with her by actually having a conversation, making eye contact and doing the other things that

00:50are really important for creating attraction. Personally, I limit first dates to either coffee

00:54shops, bars, or even going for a walk at a place like the beach or a park as long as it's nearby.

01:00Yes, I just said you shouldn't do anything expensive and bars can be very expensive, but not if you

01:05actually have self-control and you limit it to one drink. Literally one drink. But if you have the

01:11opinion of or you just don't have the talent for getting a girl interested in you without alcohol,

01:16then obviously that's not going to be a tip you're going to enjoy. But for those of us who don't need to cover up

01:20their insecurities and grow their balls using alcohol, then one drink is more than enough.

01:25And hell, you can even invite your date to your home and make dinner for her or just have a drink

01:29there. But to do that, you need the balls to actually ask her. But too many guys think they

01:33have to walk in eggshells and be really careful other than scare their date away. But that's just

01:38not true. You'll be surprised how many girls will say yes to invite to go back to your place, including

01:43starting at your place at the very beginning of the date. But that's really only for guys who have a lot

01:46more confidence. So if that's not you, don't worry about that. Just go grab a coffee and you're good.

01:51Just focus on getting the knower. But the point here is you don't need to rack your brain about

01:55where to go on a first date. You don't need anything creative or we're super exciting. You should be

01:59exciting enough. Your personality. After all, if she doesn't like your personality, then what else is

02:04there? And you don't need an exciting event to take your date to in order to cover up your lack of

02:08personality if that's the problem. Because eventually she's going to find out. But you tell me, where have you

02:13gone for a first date that turned out really well? Or where have you gone that turned out really badly?

02:17Leave a comment in the comment section below. And until next time, conquer and win.

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