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00:00You want to meet girls but it always gives you anxiety when you're around. So you want to know

00:03how to overcome shyness with women. Keep watching to learn some simple tips to overcome shyness with

00:08women and get the dates you deserve. My name is Eddie Baller and I'm a dating coach and the owner

00:12of conqueringwind.com. I've been coaching men since 2011 to build their confidence and meet

00:16the kind of women they deserve. So let's jump into it.

00:23How to overcome shyness with women. Overcoming shyness with women requires a lot of exposure

00:27to women. Basically if you're not around women on a frequent basis that's going to make you a lot

00:32more anxious around them. So that's the first problem. But how do you start hanging out with

00:35women if you're just too shy to hang out with women? Obviously in the beginning while you're

00:39building up your confidence to overcome your shyness with women this takes some effort. But over time

00:43with more and more exposure you'll be less and less shy around them. But you can start with baby steps

00:48basically the low hanging fruits. Do the easier things first as you build your confidence. Try the

00:52following baby steps to overcome your shyness with women. Number one in practice eye contact. One common

00:57thing I notice with clients and guys that come to me who want to learn how to meet women is they

01:00don't have very good eye contact especially with beautiful women. So practice making better eye

01:04contact when you go to get a coffee or dealing with a waitress or anyone else really. Keep your eyes

01:09on their eyes. You don't have to stare. You can make some natural breaks here and there. But try to hold

01:12there longer than you're used to. Number two. Chat up your waitress or your barista. Ask them how their

01:17day is going or make a comment up with the restaurant or the coffee shop. It doesn't really matter. But make

01:21some kind of attempt to chat with them. And while you're doing that you can practice your eye

01:25contact too. Number three. Make eye contact and smile to a cashier. So when you're going through

01:30the checkout of the grocery store or basically any other store. Put a big smile on your face. Add some

01:35enthusiasm to your voice. And make sure you speak with a strong voice. Not a quiet voice. To see if you

01:40can get the other person smiling back at you. What I see commonly is that guys will go into the

01:44situation. No smile on their face. No enthusiasm in their voice. A weak voice. And very poor eye contact.

01:50And that's exactly what they get back from the cashier who's mirroring them. But if you're going

01:55with a smile and some enthusiasm that's most likely what you're going to get back from them. Number four.

01:59Give a cute girl a compliment. It shouldn't be something overwhelming. You shouldn't be fawning

02:02over her. But a very simple low-key compliment works best. It doesn't have to be something overbearing.

02:07In fact it shouldn't be. Do something very simple. Comment on the color of her nails. Or their hair looks

02:12very nice. Or something like that. You can do this in a situation where you're waiting for your coffee.

02:16But just keep it very casual. Like you're not expecting anything back from her. Number five. Ask for directions.

02:20By getting out there and talking to people. Especially if you can walk up to an attractive

02:23woman and ask for directions. Even if you don't need it. This will give you a chance to interact

02:28with her. Give you a chance to practice your smile and your eye contact. As well as the strength of

02:32your voice. And for a lot of repetition this will help you overcome your shyness with women. If you

02:37can start doing those exercises daily you're going to get a lot of exposure to women. And get a lot of

02:41practice and overcome your shyness a lot more easily than by sitting at home and not doing anything.

02:45And if you want to take it to the next level and start approaching. Check out the link in the

02:49description which will help you learn how to actually approach a woman and get a date.

02:52Here are some common questions about overcoming shyness with women.

02:55Why do I feel shy around girls? Feeling shy around girls often comes down to some kind of

02:59insecurity about rejection. It can also be self-consciousness about the way you look

03:03among other things. How do you approach a girl if you're shy? To approach a girl if you're shy

03:06try some of the following. Number one. Take baby steps. And that could be chatting up a waitress or a

03:10barista or even saying hello to people. Number two. Get a coach. By getting a dating coach you'll have

03:15professional help that can guide you in exactly what to do. Such as myself. Number three. Go out with

03:19friends. By going out with friends you'll have some support and possibly a good example of what to do

03:23if your friends are good with women. Do women like shy guys? Women don't necessarily like or dislike shy

03:28guys but the problem is that shy guys will not often be assertive enough to actually go get a date

03:33with them. And since confidence is one of the major factors in attraction being shy is going to work

03:38against you if you're a shy guy. How can I beat myself around girls? To beat yourself around girls doesn't

03:43require hanging out with a lot of girls. By exposing yourself on a daily basis going out as often as

03:48possible with cute girls it'll be easier to relax and be more confident which will make your true

03:52personality shine out. How can a shy guy attract girls? For a shy guy to attract girls it really

03:57comes down to building his confidence so he becomes not a shy guy. To learn more about shyness check

04:01out the link in the description or the comment section below and until next time conquer and win.

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