How To Overcome Shyness With Your Crush

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In this video, I'm going to give you some simple tips you can use to feel more confident around your crush and get a date.  WHAT YOU WILL SEE:  00:39 Why do I feel shy around my crush? 00:51 How can I be confident with my crush? 02:03 How do you talk to your crush if you're shy?  WATCH NOW: How to Meet Girls for Relationships, Dating, & Sex (Exact Steps!) https://youtu.be/DcbLq0e9HLc  IF YOU ARE INTERESTED IN THIS KIND OF CONTENT, YOU SHOULD READ THIS ARTICLE: https://www.conquerandwin.com/why-women-go-cold-on-text-messages-and-how-to-write-messages-that-work/  WHO AM I:  Hi, I’m Eddy Baller, author & founder of Conquer & Win.  I’ve been a dating and relationship coach since 2011, and since then I have helped men across the globe to build their social confidence and get the dates and relationships they deserve.    FOR COACHING, GO TO: https://www.conquerandwin.com/vancouver-dating-coach/   GET IN TOUCH:  If you’d like to talk, I’d love to hear from you. Emailing me at eddy@conquerandwin.com directly will be the quickest way to get a response. I try my best to reply to things but there sadly aren’t enough hours in the day to respond to everyone though I’d get there as soon as I can.    ▼ see below for links & more ▼ ✉️  Sign up to my weekly email newsletter - https://www.conquerandwin.com/contact/ 🌍  My website / blog - https://www.conquerandwin.com 📸  Instagram - https://instagram.com/conquerandwin

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00:00So there's a girl you really like but every time she's around she makes you really nervous. So how

00:03do you overcome shyness with your crush? Keep watching, I'm gonna give you some simple tips

00:06you can use to feel more confident around your crush. And get a date. I'm Eddie Baller and my

00:10dating coach and the owner of conquerandwin.com and I've been coaching men since 2011 to build

00:14their confidence and get the kind of woman they want. Let's jump into it.

00:22Overcoming shyness with a crush doesn't have to be complicated but it will require dealing

00:26with your anxiety. And since she's only your crush at the moment that means you haven't started dating

00:30yet. So let's help you get over your anxiety so you can get on that first date. We'll start with

00:34some common questions on this topic as well as handling some tips that will help you build your

00:37confidence. Why do I feel shy around my crush? Shyness around your crush is often a result of

00:42insecurities. She's been sort of put on a pedestal and you're worried about if you make a mistake

00:45it's gonna push her away. Having a lot of anxiety about making a bad impression can make you shy

00:49around her. How can I be confident with my crush? To be confident with your crush try the following.

00:53Number one get good with women generally. Don't just focus on your crush but actually learn how

00:57to talk to a woman. This will give you a lot more dating options plus make you more confident when

01:01you see her. Another great thing about getting good with women generally is will make you less

01:05needy so you're not gonna be so desperate just for this one girl because you're gonna have other

01:08options you can go for too which will make your crush more attracted to you. Number two take her

01:13off a pedestal. She might be a great girl but you know if you don't know her that well and you

01:17haven't started dating yet it really doesn't make any sense to put her on a pedestal and think

01:20about her being so great. Chances are that you're just really attracted to her because she's cute

01:24which is perfectly fine but you don't want to build up a whole bunch of ideas about her just

01:28because of that. Number three be willing to make mistakes. If you're not willing to make mistakes

01:32you're too worried about making a bad impression chances are you won't do anything and all those

01:36nerves are just gonna make you actually do the opposite of what you want to do which is make a

01:40good impression. Number four don't be attached to the outcome. Whether she goes for you or not you're

01:44gonna be fine. There's gonna be other dating options but until you actually go for it you're not

01:48gonna know if she actually wants you. Number five ask her out and move on. It really makes no sense

01:53to have this thing riding for a long time and giving you all this anxiety. The best thing you

01:57can possibly do is actually ask her out and see if she'll go for it and if she doesn't go for it

02:01it's time to move on and go find another girl. How do you talk to your crush if you're shy? Talk to

02:04your crush when you're shy try the following. Number one take a deep breath. A deep breath will calm your

02:09anxiety plus it'll actually give you some air in your lungs so when you go talk to her you'll be able to

02:13say something. Number two approach her. It doesn't make any sense hanging in the shadows and just looking at her

02:17you need to actually go talk to her and start a conversation to get anything going. Number three

02:21body language. Your body language will not only make you look more confident to her but it's also

02:24going to make you feel more confident which will make it easier to talk to your crush. Number four

02:28eye contact. Make sure you make strong eye contact with her. It may give you the butterflies but that's

02:32a good thing you want her feeling those butterflies too. And number five voice. Don't speak quietly speak

02:37to be her. Speak with a strong voice. It'll make you look a lot more confident and it'll make you

02:41be more attractive to her as well because speaking of a strong voice is authoritative which is

02:45attractive feature. For more info on how to overcome shyness check out the link in the description

02:49or the comment section below. Until next time conquer and win.

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