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00:00Today's show.
00:48You're in the cell for the night, and then when you come out in the morning, your worst nightmare starts
00:56to unfold.
00:57I've been told she's cheated on me, she's slept with this other man, I've been told this other man's broke
01:01to her.
01:03Look at all the stuff and the I've took off you, do you think I would still be stood here
01:07after all of this?
01:09Come on, no one else knows me, Jamie, you do.
01:25Good morning.
01:26Thanks for that.
01:30Good morning.
01:31Good morning.
01:32Good morning.
01:33You might just recognise my first guest today from a previous encounter.
01:37Take a look at this.
01:39You say my wife is a money-grabbing, cheating lad.
01:42It was okay at the beginning.
01:44That'll be alright, because you married her.
01:45Yeah, and then I found out pictures on my phone.
01:49Of.
01:50Her.
01:50Naked.
01:51She had bits out.
01:53What bits?
01:57Andrew, that's a lady.
02:00Where was the secret camera on your knees?
02:03Have a look.
02:05I want my stuff and my dog back.
02:07You want your stuff?
02:08I want to get your stuff.
02:12You don't want to be with her, do you?
02:13Don't, if you shout at me, I am quite possibly going to go nuts.
02:16I don't want to.
02:17Don't want to back.
02:18Would you pay for half of the divorce?
02:20Yes.
02:20Stop.
02:22You also don't want to be with him?
02:24No.
02:24And you would pay for half the divorce?
02:27So today Stella is back on the show to say, listen, enough is enough.
02:31You went back on our agreement to divorce, you're harassing me daily, and now you've burnt all of my belongings.
02:36This lady means business.
02:38Big day for her.
02:39Stella, minus the photos, back on the Kyle show.
02:48Last time you didn't feel like you got your points across, because all the, and the dog, and the divorce.
02:55He won't, he just won't leave me alone.
02:57He's harassing me.
02:58He won't even give me a divorce.
03:00Won't give him my stuff.
03:01Now he's phoning me, telling me that he's burnt all my stuff.
03:05To you, be quiet Andy Rue.
03:08Uh, shut up.
03:09Since the last show, I still haven't had my divorce that he agreed to split the cost of.
03:13You're fuming.
03:14He did agree.
03:15We argued about the dog.
03:16The dog's now irrelevant.
03:17Um.
03:18That's what I mean.
03:18He keeps phoning me a daughter, telling my daughter to get in contact with me to sort the dog out.
03:23Because she's sick.
03:24I don't want to talk about the dog or your breasts.
03:26I don't mean to be rude.
03:27I don't want to get a divorce from him, but he won't give.
03:29Be quiet.
03:30You'll f*** anything with legs.
03:33But it's alright for you to sleep with a prostitute, Andrew.
03:37Oh, well you'll f*** anything walking.
03:39Even a dog.
03:41I am not doing anything about dogs this time.
03:45I don't want to talk about the dog.
03:47Go away.
03:47I've come on about my stuff.
03:49Who's the picture?
03:49Will Wyman.
03:51Seriously, tell him to be quiet before I have a breakdown.
03:54Um.
03:54Last time.
03:55Much argument.
03:56But he got to the point where he...
03:58Oh, that's Coelho de Vil talking.
04:04Be quiet, Andrew.
04:06Seriously.
04:07You'll get your turn.
04:08Since the last show, it was agreed you were going to get a divorce.
04:10You've got to split the cost.
04:11That hasn't happened.
04:12You say he's phoned you up and say that he's burnt all your...
04:14Shut up!
04:17Graham, go and shut him up.
04:19Please.
04:20Lovely man.
04:21Graham.
04:22Um.
04:23He's burnt your stuff.
04:24He phoned me up at the weekend to tell me that he burnt all my stuff.
04:27And I said, why have you done it?
04:28And he won't give me an answer.
04:29Are you still in love with you?
04:31He's saying that he's still in love with me.
04:32He wants me back, but I don't want him back.
04:33You say it's harassing.
04:34You've called the police on him.
04:36He phoned the police at the weekend to get my phone blocked.
04:39The phone that he bought me as a present.
04:41The police have told him there's nothing they can do over the phone.
04:44You say, um, I don't want to be...
04:46Oi!
04:48I like this all the time.
04:50What?
04:50I like it all the time.
04:51Have you moved on from this guy?
04:52Yeah, I've moved on completely from him.
04:54You say he's a scrap rat.
04:55He's a druggie tramp.
04:56I don't want him anywhere near me.
04:58I want him out of my life.
04:59I want him...
04:59I want to get a divorce from him.
05:01I want him to leave me alone.
05:02I want my stuff...
05:02If he's still got my stuff, I want it back.
05:04That's it.
05:05That's the end of it.
05:06Why don't you just walk away and not have any stuff and change your number
05:08and have nothing to do with this bloke?
05:09He's got pictures of my kids.
05:11He's got no rights to have them pictures.
05:12They don't belong to him.
05:14Um, does Andrew know about your new bloke?
05:16No.
05:17Let's get Andrew on the Jeremy Kyle show that way.
05:21APPLAUSE
05:27Are you harassing her?
05:28No, I'm not harassing her.
05:29Are you sure about that?
05:30Yes, I am.
05:31You say she tries to trick you into speaking to her.
05:34Who's that?
05:35Gavin.
05:36Gavin, be quiet.
05:37She's got a new bloke.
05:38She's happy.
05:38She's been with him 21 days and they're having lots of sex.
05:41Deal with it.
05:42What?
05:43She can go and see who she wants.
05:45She'll do what she did with every other bloke.
05:47One Monday all the time.
05:48So did you.
05:49Because she sold everything.
05:51About five hours, 45 hours with her.
05:53And she sold everything.
05:55You told my team.
05:56Further from the truth.
05:57It's not me harassing her.
05:58She's obsessed with me.
05:5965 calls in one day.
06:01Yeah, that's right.
06:02But it was okay for you to keep ringing Sophie at the weekend.
06:05Texting her and everything.
06:06You were texting me.
06:06I've got a text message still on my phone now, Stella, saying,
06:09Hi, please, can you...
06:10Hi, please, I need to talk.
06:12Yeah, because you phoned me and everything, Andrew, about the dog.
06:15You're ringing me and texting me.
06:16There's nothing to do with me anymore.
06:17I've got all the text messages on my phone to prove it.
06:19So you have, but have you...
06:20Who is that?
06:21Gavin.
06:21Who's that?
06:22That's his mum.
06:23Oh my God.
06:24Granny, please be quiet.
06:25Have you burnt her belongings?
06:26No, I haven't.
06:27It's just not what you told my team.
06:28I haven't learned any of Sophie's belongings, just a few of Stella's things.
06:31I've burnt some of Stella's, yeah.
06:33You've got no rights to burn my stuff.
06:34You have no right to burn my stuff.
06:35Who the hell do you think you are?
06:36That's my stuff, Andrew.
06:38That's like if I had anything of yours.
06:40I wanted my stuff back, but you're not giving me my stuff back.
06:43And you're calling me a druggy, but you always had the bank card.
06:45You take drugs yourself.
06:47The only thing I've got of yours, Andrew, is that phoning.
06:49You're not getting it back until I get my things back.
06:52Do you take drugs?
06:53No, I don't.
06:53You're a liar, because you always have my bank card in your...
06:55I cannot do drugs, Andrew.
06:56Get a lie detector test done.
06:57Get a lie detector test done.
06:59We're not doing a lie detector test.
07:01Why can't you just download divorce and go in the opposite direction?
07:03Well, she wants a divorce.
07:05She's cheated.
07:05Behind my back.
07:06She wants a divorce.
07:07I'm not paying for it.
07:08You said she would last time.
07:09Well, she just wound me up like much, harassing me.
07:12I'm sorry.
07:13Are you harassing him?
07:13No, I'm not.
07:14How can I harass him, Jeremy, when he's blocked my phone?
07:17I can't.
07:18You're doing it on Sophie's phone.
07:19No, I don't.
07:20Did you make 65 calls?
07:21No, I don't.
07:23Do you want to be with him?
07:24No, I don't.
07:24What stuff have you got of...
07:25What am I doing?
07:26I sound like a divorce lawyer.
07:28He's still got my clothes.
07:29He's got a pen of yours.
07:30No, my clothes.
07:30You took all your stuff with you.
07:31No, I didn't.
07:32I've got Sophie's stuff.
07:33And if you don't believe me, you can ask my mum.
07:34Why don't you just give her back whatever it is?
07:37It's got pen of yours.
07:37I'm willing to give it back if she gives me my belongings back.
07:40It's like a blooming game.
07:41Until I get that phone back, you know, I've been nothing.
07:43What phone?
07:43The Samsung Galaxy A4.
07:45What cost me £90.
07:47Why don't we get that phone?
07:50Do you know why she really wants you to sign the divorce papers?
07:52Why don't you tell him?
07:53F***.
07:54I hate you, Andrew.
07:55I love you the first time I was with you.
08:06You actually...
08:07No, you didn't.
08:08You're actually...
08:10You're not using for his money and sell everything.
08:13No, I didn't.
08:13No, I didn't.
08:13Can we do it again?
08:14Can we do it again?
08:15Why do you want to get divorced?
08:16Because I want to get married to Gavin.
08:18Who's that?
08:19Who makes me better.
08:20How does she know?
08:20I'm not gonna give you a divorce.
08:21Simple.
08:22You are, Andrew.
08:23Right.
08:24After the break, my friend...
08:25You are giving me that divorce because I want to get...
08:28You want it.
08:29You want it.
08:30You pay for it.
08:31Because I'm not.
08:31Right.
08:32After the break, Gavin, who's been with her 21 days, they've had lots of sex.
08:35Apparently, he says you're a pain in the backside.
08:37You want to marry him.
08:37That's why you want a divorce from Andrew and your mother, who you call Cruella de Vil.
08:40I'm right back.
08:41Don't go anywhere.
08:42Just swallow it.
08:43No.
08:44No.
08:45No chance.
08:45I don't know what I'm going to say.
08:47Another chance.
08:48If you want a divorce, you can play.
08:50I want that now.
08:51I'm going.
08:51I can't do it anymore.
08:52See how I'm doing.
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09:33Welcome back.
09:33Before the break, Stella and estranged husband Andrew, you two don't like each other.
09:37Last time we talked about pornographic photographs, Stella, that you'd sent to other men.
09:41Then we talked about a dog.
09:42We thought that there was going to be an agreement.
09:45Well, there was an agreement on the last show that you would divorce.
09:47Split the cost and go your separate ways.
09:49What are you getting harassed?
09:50What?
09:50It's the excuse of harassing me, sir.
09:52Well, she says you're harassing her and you say he's harassing me.
09:54It's not me.
09:55It's not me that's harassing you, Andrew.
09:56You're harassing my family.
09:57Well, I've got to witness this.
09:57To prove it.
09:57My mum will be inside of me.
10:00If it's not you and your mum harassing my family, you need to stop it, Andrew.
10:04You need to stop your mother or people thousands when she doesn't need you asking for money.
10:11Let her go.
10:11Let her go.
10:13Andrew.
10:13I'm still paying your debts.
10:14Why was she on the phone to my mum's family?
10:15I'm still paying your debts out of my bank account.
10:18Why are you going red in the face for her, Andrew?
10:20Because you ain't had a beer.
10:21Is that what your problem is, Andrew?
10:23Because you're going angry.
10:23You're in that much debt.
10:24Because you ain't had a beer today, Andrew.
10:26That's what your problem is.
10:27You need sectioning then, don't you?
10:29Because I want drugs.
10:29Why do I need sectioning?
10:30I've got nothing wrong with me, Andrew.
10:32You're the one that's got the problem.
10:33You still smoke drugs.
10:33You used to buy me my drugs.
10:35Yeah, because if I didn't buy them, you used to beat me up.
10:38No.
10:38I don't think so.
10:39I've never laid a finger on you.
10:41It's a prison on me.
10:42I'm sorry if he's a witness to Andrew.
10:44She used to live with me.
10:45Right, so let me just talk about, not Andrew.
10:47Let me talk about Gavin.
10:48Gavin, she...
10:49Oh, be quiet, Granny.
10:52You say that Gavin is the love...
10:58Gavin is your new partner.
11:00You say that he is the love of your life.
11:03Um, and he's not like Andrew.
11:05I...
11:05He's not a two-minute wonder.
11:07Nope.
11:08He don't drink every day.
11:10So the sex is good?
11:11Yeah.
11:11Better than it is.
11:12The sex is better than it was with Andrew?
11:15What was wrong with the sex with Andrew?
11:16Two-minute wonder.
11:19Gavin's on the Jeremy Cowell show.
11:28Well, it didn't last long, did it?
11:31Well, the only thing is just wait.
11:32I think the professor, texting her, she's making the climb when I come back from work.
11:37She doesn't need it.
11:39Well, she's been texting me as well.
11:40How can she text you, Roy?
11:42How can she text you?
11:43You've been texting her.
11:44But how do you know about me?
11:45You don't know nothing about my business.
11:47You don't know nothing about me, mate.
11:48He knows everything about you, Andrew.
11:50Well, every night, you've been texting her, threatening her, making the phone calls.
11:53Oh, Granny's on the port back again.
11:55Oh, have I been threatening her?
11:55You have been threatening her.
11:56You've been texting her, saying no problem.
11:58Well, she's been texting me as well.
11:59How can she text you?
12:00I haven't got her phone.
12:02I haven't got her phone.
12:03I haven't got her phone.
12:03I saw Sophie's number.
12:05You blocked the phone.
12:06One at a time.
12:07I blocked the phone because they paid for it.
12:09Sophie is not living with me anymore.
12:11I don't see...
12:11Who's Sophie, your daughter?
12:12That was on the show last time with me.
12:14Oh, I should remember.
12:15Sophie actually wants to live with me.
12:17And I've got all messed up.
12:18Sophie does not want to sleep.
12:20Sophie doesn't want to stay with you because you're a smack rat, Andrew.
12:23And you've got crabs.
12:24Because you sleep with a prostitute.
12:26Yeah.
12:26You're a smack rat.
12:27There you are.
12:28Sorry.
12:28You're a smack.
12:29You're a smack.
12:30You're a smack.
12:30I was sleeping about after we got...
12:33After the last show, though.
12:34After we separated.
12:35You're a smack rat who's got crabs.
12:39After the last show when we was on here, yeah?
12:41Yeah.
12:41What did you do?
12:42What did you do when you went back home?
12:44Who did you sleep with?
12:45The prostitute, Andrew.
12:47Alright.
12:48Yeah.
12:48You fired me up and told me, Andrew.
12:51Yeah, alright.
12:51The only time that you came in contact with me when you...
12:53Do you sleep with prostitutes?
12:56No.
12:59To the next prostitute.
13:01She still is a prostitute.
13:03She still is a prostitute.
13:04What career did she change to?
13:07Well, she's...
13:09Because of the past and that.
13:12What job does she do, Andrew?
13:14What job does she do?
13:15Yes, it's not difficult.
13:16She goes on long street.
13:18So she's still a prostitute?
13:20Yes.
13:23So you did...
13:25Stella's a prostitute.
13:27Stella's a prostitute!
13:28I'm not a prostitute!
13:29I'm not a prostitute!
13:30I'm at home seriously all because of you, Andrew.
13:32In the weekend!
13:32But I've been in hospital since we've separated.
13:34I've been out in hospital 30 times.
13:36Because it's a dream.
13:36You're making me ill and you're making my mum ill.
13:38How can I make you ill?
13:39Go on.
13:39How can I make you ill?
13:40How can I make you ill?
13:41At the weekend.
13:42At the weekend.
13:43When you phone me to tell me what you've done with my stuff, yeah?
13:46Are you a prostitute?
13:48No, I'm not.
13:49Have you ever been there?
13:49It's men and women.
13:50I don't think so.
13:52Basically, my mum knows her but there are two of them.
13:58What are you doing?
14:00What are you doing?
14:01She has to stop telling lies.
14:03You come on when I tell you to come on.
14:05Goodbye.
14:13Please welcome Pat to the Jeremy Kyle Show.
14:24You want to stop telling lies.
14:26You want to stop telling lies then, don't you?
14:28I don't tell lies.
14:29You shouldn't even be here.
14:30It's nothing to do with you.
14:31And he shouldn't be here.
14:31Because he's going to be here three weeks.
14:33So what?
14:34He's the one that's supporting us.
14:36I've told her to go to women as well.
14:38When have I been with women?
14:39She was married with women.
14:40Yeah.
14:41That's you.
14:41You don't know her as well as I do.
14:43Yeah, he does.
14:43I knew him when he was little.
14:46Yeah, man.
14:48Ask her if she's been here.
14:48Get off the stage.
14:49You're not welcoming her.
14:50Ask her what she's got to do with you.
14:52And ask her what she's done to me.
14:54I ain't done what she's done to me.
14:55All the money.
14:56Because I ruined it.
14:57My uncle left me.
14:58I don't think so.
14:59I ruined all the money with you.
15:01I forgot to make this funeral in.
15:01Where is it for you two then?
15:03Why do you keep phoning one of my family members
15:05asking him for things?
15:06You're the specially one, Pat.
15:08You are the main one.
15:09Emma?
15:10You're the main one.
15:11No.
15:12You're the main one.
15:14You're the main one.
15:15You're the main one.
15:17Pat.
15:17Pat.
15:18Welcome to the show.
15:19You said when you came out.
15:20You don't know, Gavin, what she's done to my son and to me.
15:23What's she done to you, Pat?
15:26She's made me ill.
15:27Why?
15:28Because of all the lies and she's took at me son for a ride.
15:31Has she?
15:32She's took all his inheritance.
15:33I don't think so.
15:34It's true.
15:35It's true.
15:37Give her a lie detector and we'll prove it.
15:39No.
15:40Have a lie detector.
15:41No.
15:41We had enough money to pay for my uncle's funeral.
15:48How did I spend it all, Andrew?
15:49I could find the funeral people.
15:51You sent it all down.
15:52You sent it all down.
15:54You never used to let me go down to see my family.
15:56You used to kick off.
15:57You used to.
15:58You used to.
15:58You used to.
15:59You used to.
16:00You used to.
16:00You used to.
16:00You used to.
16:01You used to.
16:03You used to.
16:04His money.
16:05He took his card and money.
16:07You've always had my bankied.
16:10I've got a witness.
16:12Sophie's here.
16:12You were always here.
16:14Who's Sophie?
16:15My daughter.
16:15Who the artist.
16:16Sophie's on the Jeremy Carl show.
16:17She's coming out now.
16:18He's trying to say.
16:22He's trying to say.
16:22He's trying to say.
16:23You know the other thing.
16:25You know the other thing.
16:28Sophie?
16:29Yeah.
16:29She knows all about it.
16:30She can tell me back up here with me. Do you want to live back with that smart right? No,
16:36I don't
16:37There's your answer
16:39He's trying to say he's trying to say
16:41things into a
16:44My uncle didn't even want me to marry it. Well, why did you listen to what?
16:52Why did you not admit because isn't you said um
16:56you
17:00I'm speaking now mother. I haven't heard any about Sophie's belongings. Just a few of Stella's thing
17:04Yes, that's right
17:06I won't burn anything in verse office. Are you close to him? Were you close to him? Yes, he was
17:11Why used to be shut up?
17:14What happened when they split up?
17:16We used to talk sometimes, but we don't know more
17:19We don't why did you come here today Stella because I want to get it David to the thick head
17:24of him telling him that
17:25I want to divorce something. Well, stop falling in and off then. Stop falling in at the 2 o'clock
17:28in the morning
17:29Sophie, tell your mum, tell everyone what it was like then when you got locked in the house and Stella
17:32were out then
17:33And when you then got me
17:34And when you begged us to get your house, I've never locked in the house
17:37She'll lock you in the house
17:37I know you fell in the house
17:39Andrew, shut the f*** out
17:44Shut up!
17:45Right, do you not want to tell you?
17:47You should shut up as well and get off the stage you little quail of the veil
17:49Right, do you not lie to the truth?
17:50I don't lie to the truth
17:51Because you like your fellas too much and your women
17:53Yeah
17:54What's up with you?
17:56Because you have everybody else living with you
17:58I don't need women, I don't need fellas neither
17:59Nobody wants a pancake f***er like you
18:01We don't want a pancake
18:04Everybody calls a pancake f***er because she's got no f***er
18:08There's nothing wrong with my brother
18:09I don't think they could call you that, could they?
18:12No
18:12No, give people black eyes
18:14What?
18:15She just sells her body
18:16Just sells her body
18:16She just sells her body
18:18No, you don't
18:18Do I sell my body to anybody?
18:20No, no
18:20Um, sorry
18:21I can't believe you as well
18:23You were giving it large
18:23Yes, she did
18:24You were giving out
18:25You were giving out
18:26She was born, me
18:26You were, you, hello
18:28Oi, crow, I'm in power
18:31P***er
18:31Shut up!
18:32You should f***er
18:33Because you ain't got no rights to be here
18:34You've only come into power as Matt Rhapsody
18:36Well, I'm doing all the hell
18:37The stone is in it
18:38It's con because I'm not f***er out because of what you said
18:41He doesn't even know us
18:42He doesn't even know us
18:44He's f***er
18:45You've been phoned, not
18:46You've been phoned
18:47You told my team
18:48Oi, will you shut up?
18:50Oi, and you, Crowella, be quiet
18:53You told my team
18:54I'm coming here to defend the honour of my girlfriend
18:56You've sat there like a mouse
18:58No, I'm sitting here on my girlfriend
18:59Because they'll sign
19:00Because he doesn't know nothing mouse we've got
19:02I know more about Stella and Sophie than what you did
19:06Shut up for a minute
19:06Right?
19:07In the minute, I'm working
19:08Because on Saturday, she'll come back down basically from home
19:12Because I'm work
19:12She was upset
19:13She told me
19:14She's not known you 21 days
19:16Shut up!
19:17Apparently she's got a broken arm
19:18Shut up!
19:18Shut up, Pandrin!
19:19Apparently she's got a broken arm
19:21When she attacks me on the night and phoned me
19:22Oh, I've got a broken arm
19:36Are you getting married to her?
19:38In the future
19:39In the future
19:39But not now
19:39Not the minute
19:41In the future
19:42We've only known each other 21 days
19:44Yeah, in bed probably the first night
19:46I don't think so
19:47You just slept with a prostitute
19:48How do you feel about your son sleeping with a prostitute?
19:51I don't agree with you
19:53How much did you pay?
19:54Didn't pay nothing
19:57It was a freebie
19:58What?
19:59Do you have a voucher or something?
20:02How do you feel about your son sleeping with a prostitute?
20:05Stupid
20:05You actually told my team
20:07You're determined to prove to everybody that Stella is in fact a prostitute
20:11You used to call her a prostitute, weren't you?
20:13They used to phone her up
20:14She told me on the phone
20:15That's because
20:16She used to give me the phone
20:17And get him in the air
20:18Thanks, Ryan
20:19That was his
20:21Gave quite a number out of
20:23That's a lot of
20:26I've been told different
20:27Because she just answered the phone to him
20:29I've been told different
20:30I answered the phone for you
20:31Yeah, because
20:32I didn't know anybody who picked Andrew
20:35Do you think that some people watching this, Andrew, might believe that one of the reasons why you won't go
20:40halves on this divorce and carry through what you promised last time is because you're stood in love with Stella
20:44Yeah, he is
20:45He tells me all the time
20:46I don't want nothing to do with you
20:47She wants a divorce
20:48I'm not paying for it
20:49Because she's wound me up that much now
20:51So I'm not paying for it
20:52Simple as
21:04Where's she?
21:04Because you know she's done wrong, that's why
21:06What's she done wrong?
21:08I'm not paying for a divorce
21:09I'm getting
21:10I'm getting
21:10Come here
21:11Come here
21:12Can you help Graham?
21:13Can you help?
21:14Sorry
21:14Can you help me?
21:15This is ridiculous
21:17Going round in circles here, Steve
21:19Prostitutes
21:19Everything's going on
21:21I don't understand why you arrived, you said absolutely nothing
21:24Are you a prostitute?
21:25No, I'm not
21:26Have you ever been a prostitute?
21:27No
21:27Where is he?
21:29What's the point of this?
21:30It's going to go on forever
21:31I've been told different
21:32I have never in my whole life been a prostitute and you know that
21:36Well, why has it been so different?
21:38It was
21:39He gave my number
21:40No, she didn't
21:41Yes, you did
21:41You were putting your number here, there and everywhere
21:44Do you?
21:45You didn't
21:46Get your breasts out and show people pictures of them
21:48I have never
21:49I have never
21:50I swear that in my life
21:52Well
21:52That was last time Andrew
21:54I'm in now to get a divorce from you and I'm doing it
21:57Why don't you just
21:57Divorce each other
21:59Well, you pay for it
22:00Why don't you just
22:01You're paying off of it
22:02No, I'm not
22:02No, I'm not
22:03Why not
22:04But then everybody will think that you still want to be with her
22:06No, I don't want to be with her
22:07It's not me
22:08It's cheating
22:09It's her
22:10It doesn't matter
22:10It's 20 times
22:13Who's the money?
22:14Yes, she does
22:14No, she don't
22:15Yes, she does
22:16What's your name?
22:17You don't know her advantage
22:18Well, I know her advantage
22:19It's into a nail
22:20I know his family, Andrew
22:22If you want her gone and you don't want to be accused of holding on because you're apparently not still
22:26in love with her
22:27Half and half
22:29Pay it and do it
22:30No, I'm not paying it
22:31It's not me
22:32She's cheating
22:32She's cheating
22:34All the time I was with her
22:35I didn't cheat once
22:36It was her who cheated
22:39Liar
22:41Liar
22:41Liar
22:41You're only saying this because your mum's with you
22:43Or because you ain't had a beer, Andrew
22:45That's what your problem is
22:46Yeah, you're a liar
22:47You're a liar
22:48You're not a liar
22:49So about the other time with the pictures
22:51That's in the past
22:52That's your friend
22:53That's in the past now
22:54Yeah
22:54You did send pictures of your breasts
22:58This is not a time
23:00This is my part
23:01This is my part
23:01Put it into your thick head, Andrew
23:03But I do not want to be with you
23:04I don't love you
23:05And I don't want to be with you
23:06Why accuse me then
23:07How much is the divorce costing to do?
23:10Well, I've been quoted £950
23:12And he can pay it because I'm not
23:15You're not paying off
23:16No, I'm not
23:16Yeah, you are
23:17Yeah, you are
23:18No, I'm not
23:19I'll take it to court then
23:20You want a divorce?
23:22You can pay for it
23:22Final answer
23:23On the last show
23:25Final answer
23:25You agreed
23:26Ask the audience
23:27On the last show
23:28You agreed to pay half a bit
23:29So
23:31Why don't you just deal with it?
23:32Do you want to phone a friend?
23:34What's the matter with you?
23:35I'm not paying for that
23:35Oh, God
23:36If you're like a child
23:38It's not me
23:38It's cheating
23:39Gemma
23:39It doesn't matter if it's over, does it?
23:42If it's over, it's done
23:43Move on
23:44Stop harassing me then
23:45Turn the page
23:46You stop
23:47Alright then
23:48You've just said that yet
23:49Stop harassing her
23:50Asking her what I'm doing
23:52Who I'm with
23:52Oh, God
23:53There she comes
23:54She's arrived
23:57You've just started telling truth for a change
24:00Get out of my face
24:00Someone will speak to you
24:01I know, because you don't like truth
24:03Don't you be
24:03Yeah, whatever, Pat
24:05Get out of my face
24:06Well, leave him alone
24:07Stop phoning him at two o'clock
24:09You'd stop phoning my family then
24:11Stay out of my house
24:12She wants the marriage
24:14Let it pay for her own marriage
24:16Why don't you just
24:17She can pay for the divorce
24:18Why don't you just go halves
24:19And get it done
24:20And finish
24:20Why?
24:20He doesn't
24:21He's not bothered
24:22You agreed on the last show
24:23That you'd pay half of the divorce
24:24Yeah, and if you didn't keep
24:26Pawning up at two o'clock
24:27You'd stop harassing
24:28Have I always
24:28You're the one that phoned me
24:30When you
24:31Stoned out your face
24:32You're the one that phoned me
24:33Can I ask you a question?
24:34I'm gonna use that in a minute
24:35To get out of it
24:36Can you um
24:37On Sophie's phone
24:38Say
24:38Have I ever missed your phone?
24:40I've texted
24:40Hello Andy, but don't tell anybody
24:42I've texted you
24:43But will you hear me please?
24:44What advice would you give to him?
24:46What advice would I give to him?
24:48She'll do the same on yours
24:48She'll do the same on yours
24:49She'll do the same on yours
24:50What she told her son
24:51Yes, she won't
24:52Yes, she will
24:53She knows my family
24:53Come back to me
24:55In two years time
24:56Why?
24:57Why?
24:58Why?
24:59Why do you take your so special out
25:01After three weeks
25:02Quiet
25:02I'm gonna give you a few money
25:03Have you money in a
25:04F*** off like she's done my
25:05Every other guy
25:06And that's my word
25:07That's my word
25:08I'm going back with him
25:09He's not the first guy
25:10She's done the first guy
25:11In the morning
25:13Half of the divorce
25:15Just
25:16Swallow it
25:16No
25:17No chance
25:18I didn't want to
25:19She's one of your bad voice now
25:20Another chance
25:21If she won't be in one
25:22She can play for
25:23I want that now
25:23I'm going
25:24I can't do it anymore
25:25See I'm done
25:26I'm sorry
25:26I'm done
25:29I'm not doing that anymore
25:31I'm done
25:32After the break, a couple of breaking points. I'm right back. Goodbye.
25:36You love your kids, you love your missus, you love your family, and this is tearing you apart.
25:39What's the relationship like right now?
25:41There ain't one. It's nothing.
25:45Tell me now, you actually think I have teeth on you.
25:48Tell me now, 100% in your heart, you think I have.
26:00Thank you very much, Eddie. Welcome back.
26:01My next guest, Jamie, is here to get the answers he desperately needs, in his words, to save his relationship
26:06before it really is too late.
26:08Now, he says, a few weeks ago, during a night out in London, he got slightly carried away and ended
26:12up getting arrested and thrown in a cell.
26:15Carried away.
26:15After being released in the morning, there was no sign of partner Tony and she had turned her phone off.
26:19Now, to make matters worse, the other people he'd been out with told him she'd left the group with another
26:24man and cheated.
26:25He desperately needs to find out what went on, because he says, I don't know which way to turn.
26:29Jamie is on the Jeremy Kyle Show, that way.
26:39Apparently, it's a bit difficult to walk this far, so I have to go there.
26:47Jay, how are you?
26:51Couldn't be better, mate.
26:53How are you?
26:55Can you shake me hand?
26:58Are we going to be straight with each other?
26:59Why have you been such a pain in the backside to everybody that works here?
27:03Look at me.
27:05Why have you been such a pain when we're trying to help you?
27:09I'm asking you a question, man to man.
27:11Why have you been such a pain?
27:12I want to find out if everything's...
27:14I knew that.
27:15Everything's wrong.
27:16Look at me.
27:17Look at me.
27:17I knew that.
27:19You haven't done anything wrong, though, have you?
27:22I absolutely knew this morning when they said to me, this guy's been a pain in the backside
27:27with the taxi, with this, with that, with the other.
27:30I said he's digging, because you don't want to know, do you?
27:33I need to hear what happened from your point of view, pal.
27:36Tell me about the night.
27:37You mean together seven years?
27:38It's not just a three-minute wonder.
27:40You've got three kids.
27:41Tell me what happened, pal.
27:42Seven years, three kids.
27:44Tell me about the night out.
27:45Goes out for a night out to me.
27:47She don't really know her family.
27:48Yeah.
27:49Trying to make her happy.
27:51I was silly.
27:51I was drunk.
27:52I got nicked, obviously.
27:52Well, let's just, you've got to say, obviously, I need to get a bit of detail.
27:56You go out, you have a few drinks.
28:00Why were you arrested?
28:01Drunk disorderly, because I started, well, fighting on the street with my mate.
28:06Why?
28:08Because we always do it, you know what I mean?
28:10It's where we're from, we can do that.
28:12But when we go to London, obviously, we do that where we've done it.
28:15Where were the kids?
28:17With babysitters.
28:19So, you're in the cell for the night.
28:20Right, and then when you come out in the morning, I think your worst nightmare starts
28:25to unfold.
28:25Tell us what happened, pal.
28:27Well, I've been told all these different things.
28:29I try ringing her phones off, and then she's booked on a coach at eight o'clock in the
28:33morning.
28:33She don't get on a coach until eight o'clock at night.
28:36What are you told?
28:37I've been told loads of stuff.
28:38I've been told she's...
28:39Forget him.
28:40She's cheated on me.
28:41I've been told she's slept with this other man.
28:43I've been told this other man's groped her.
28:46Have you asked her?
28:46I've asked her.
28:47And she just says nothing happened.
28:49She denies everything.
28:50And then I said to her, where was your Sunday?
28:52She's got no explanation.
28:53Apparently this other man has admitted it to his girlfriend.
28:55Yeah, and I've heard it down the phone.
28:58You say that she did a runner because she was guilty.
29:01I can't answer her questions.
29:03What did you hear down the phone?
29:05I just heard loads of stuff.
29:06I heard that she's slept with this other geezer.
29:08She's done this with him.
29:09They went to a hotel and stayed in a hotel.
29:12Erm, and I'll just...
29:14Do me a favour?
29:15I need to know the truth.
29:16Look at me.
29:17Don't look away.
29:18Answer me a question.
29:20You believe she's done it, right?
29:21If you're being honest man to man.
29:23I don't know what to believe.
29:24Something says yes, she has.
29:25A lot says no, she ain't.
29:28But I hear a lot of things and she ain't got nothing to fight her corner.
29:32What's she saying?
29:34Not a lot really.
29:35She said she wouldn't do it to me because she's been with me all these years.
29:38She would never do something like that to me.
29:40You love your family.
29:41You've made a point of that.
29:42I know you've been a pain in the backside but you love your kids,
29:44you love your missus, you love your family and this is tearing you apart.
29:46What's the relationship like right now?
29:48There ain't one.
29:50It's nothing.
29:51It's just...
29:56Listen.
29:58Look at me.
30:00I know what everybody says but I get exactly where you're at.
30:03I get exactly what you feel like.
30:05We've got to go and do this, OK?
30:07I don't want to go out there.
30:08I just can't.
30:08Why?
30:09I can't face it.
30:11Got to.
30:12Can I say something to you without anybody taking this the wrong way?
30:17I know this from the last few months.
30:19Sometimes you have to face stuff you don't want to face, OK?
30:22I can't handle facing something I don't want to hear.
30:25I'd rather not know.
30:26You're a man.
30:26That's what we do.
30:27We run back and go and hide in our caves, don't we?
30:30But it ain't going to make any difference.
30:32The truth is the truth, OK?
30:34And strangely enough, you'll find it in your heart and soul to deal with it.
30:38But running away from it ain't going to make it any better.
30:41I'm asking you to sit on a chair and I'll do...
30:43I can't do it here.
30:44I'm not allowed to do it here.
30:45Don't do it then.
30:46That's because you don't want to know.
30:47I can't go no further than this.
30:49Why?
30:49This is enough.
30:51Because of the audience?
30:52It's just bringing myself this far, going this low.
30:55Thanks.
30:57Listen, you brought the problem to us.
30:59We're trying to find a solution for you, OK?
31:01All right, get her over here.
31:02Get Tony on the show.
31:03Come over here, Tony.
31:04Give her a round of applause.
31:15Is she coming or what?
31:21So let's do it, yeah?
31:24Lift your head up, you're OK.
31:27Right, Tony, listen, let's get your side as well.
31:30You tell my team I didn't cheat on him whilst he was in a prison.
31:32So let's hear the evening, the night, from your point of view, please.
31:36We went to be...
31:39..for the first time, well, the second time.
31:43And she brought her boyfriend, a little foul mate.
31:48Jamie got arrested.
31:52And we walked towards the police station to go and get him.
31:56And I didn't get him out, but I didn't cheat.
31:58And he knows that.
31:59Where did you go, then?
32:01He said, in the morning, I'll go out the cell.
32:03She left me stranded.
32:04She did a runner.
32:05Why did you miss the bus by 12 hours, the coach?
32:08I didn't.
32:08I sat in the Victoria coach station, which he also see the ticket.
32:12Why are you here?
32:13To fight for what I've got left.
32:15Tell him.
32:16Listen to her.
32:17I've tried.
32:17He won't.
32:19He won't listen.
32:20I've tried.
32:22He knows I've got no family or no-one.
32:25I've literally done everything for that boy.
32:27Literally everything.
32:29I've stood there through thick and thin.
32:31He's never accused me of cheating the whole seven years we've been together.
32:34But this one time...
32:37..because I have three kids.
32:39Do you know what you said to us?
32:41You did say you know, don't you?
32:43He said he knows.
32:44He knows in his heart and soul.
32:46That's what you told us, wasn't it, Jamie?
32:47I've got a funny feeling.
32:49And I've said it before about this show.
32:50People come on with definitive proofs.
32:52They also, actually, to be fair, a lot of people go with gut.
32:55Look at me.
32:58Did you cheat?
32:58No.
32:59He's literally all I've got.
33:01I've built my whole life up with my kids, with him.
33:04I asked you if you cheated.
33:05I swear to you, we'll find out, won't we?
33:09If she's right, OK?
33:11OK?
33:12We've got a lot of making up to this.
33:14Because this is tearing the two of you apart.
33:19What's the ideal scenario here, Jay?
33:22That she passes the test?
33:23I just want to move on.
33:24Why am I if she fails the test?
33:28I can't answer that one.
33:32This is a really obvious comment,
33:34which is going to go down like a lead balloon.
33:37This isn't how it's supposed to be.
33:38This is miserable.
33:39This is wrong.
33:40This is not good for the kids.
33:42They're the ones that are seeing it all.
33:43They're the ones who are in the middle.
33:45Are they?
33:49It's not fair on them.
33:50That's what I need to know.
33:52Do you want the results, then?
33:54Sure.
33:58As ever, questions that were asked,
34:00answers that were given.
34:05I can't believe you put me through this.
34:08And I can't believe you put me through this.
34:13Jamie, get your head up.
34:15Do you know the one thing I hate?
34:16Don't get angry, mate.
34:17I'm just going to be really honest with you.
34:18Do you know what I hate more than anything
34:19is when people lie.
34:20I've already said to your boy,
34:23I don't respect the fact that you can treat my team
34:25the way you've done.
34:26You've had them running around like whatever.
34:28Why did she, by the way, just out of interest?
34:29Why did she cause criminal damage to a taxi?
34:32I don't know, but it's a lot of...
34:33You won't charge for that, just so you're aware,
34:35because I'm not paying the bill.
34:36It's a lot of...
34:37You're being a pain in the backside, both of you.
34:38And then this.
34:40Sorry about this, Jay.
34:41Before the test,
34:43Tony disclosed health issues
34:44that she admitted she'd kept
34:46from the production team
34:47during their research.
34:48And as a result,
34:49your lie detector
34:50has come back inconclusive.
34:52So there you are, darling.
34:54Not only have you managed to lie,
34:57right,
34:57to the team
34:58and not tell them the truth,
34:59because you wouldn't have been able to do it,
35:01right,
35:01that means you've now got an inconclusive,
35:03which doesn't sort the problem out at all.
35:05So here's the thing, Jay, listen.
35:06I've done the test with the man
35:08three times.
35:10Inconclusive, darling,
35:10because of the fact
35:11that you've got medical issues
35:12that you didn't tell us about before.
35:14True or false?
35:15You didn't admit them, did you, before?
35:18Before this morning's test,
35:19you didn't admit those issues, did you?
35:22Now, Jay, I don't want you to get annoyed.
35:23I want you to look at me.
35:25Why do you think she only admitted
35:26to those afterwards?
35:28Mate,
35:29absolutely.
35:30What?
35:31I told him that I've had problems
35:32in the past.
35:33You think I'm going to believe you
35:34after you did what you did to a taxi?
35:36You think I'm going to believe people
35:37that have worked for me for ten years?
35:38You only disclosed...
35:39I didn't do anything to a taxi.
35:41You admitted you kept them
35:42from the production team.
35:44True or false?
35:44And do you know the worst thing about that?
35:46He now thinks you did that
35:47for a reason, don't you, Jay?
35:49That's why you're...
35:50What do you want me to say?
35:51I would love to have opened that
35:53and gone,
35:53she's telling the truth
35:54and send you on your merry way.
35:55You did not admit those issues
35:58to my team before the test,
35:59did you?
36:02Did you?
36:02So why did the test carry on then?
36:04They spoke to me.
36:05I told them.
36:06How would they know that then?
36:07You know exactly
36:08what I'm telling you is the truth.
36:10I'm not too...
36:12I'm sick of all this.
36:13I thought I was going to be able to help you
36:15but if you don't disclose health issues
36:17and you keep it from the production team,
36:19Graham will back me up.
36:20That affects our ability to get a result.
36:23Listen, this guy's worked for me ten years, Jay.
36:25I'm just being honest to you.
36:26If he's done something,
36:27just tell me
36:28and we'll work this out.
36:29Oh my God,
36:30I have not done anything to you.
36:31OK, then look at all the stuff
36:33and the c*** I've took off you.
36:35Do you think I would still,
36:35still be stood here
36:36after all of this?
36:38Are you being serious?
36:40Come on,
36:40no one else knows me,
36:41Jamie, you do.
36:42Yeah, I know.
36:43That's what makes me think
36:44you won't do it.
36:44Tell me now,
36:45you actually think
36:45I have cheated on you.
36:47Tell me now,
36:47100% in your heart,
36:48you think I have.
36:50Or is this because
36:51everyone else
36:51is telling you stuff
36:52and what a surprise.
36:54I've been there
36:55for you thick and thin
36:56for you.
36:57Mate, I've done that test.
36:59I sat there
36:59in that hotel room
37:00with the Logitech test
37:01absolutely fine.
37:02Inconclusive
37:03because of the medical issues
37:04that you talked about.
37:05Fact.
37:06I'm not,
37:06look at me.
37:07You start kicking off at me.
37:09Can't get a result
37:09because you didn't tell the truth.
37:11We can only do
37:12what we're asked to do
37:13with the information
37:14and the criteria we're given.
37:16Isn't that right, Graham?
37:17Yeah,
37:17but how do we move it forward?
37:20That all depends on you.
37:23Doesn't it?
37:24Because it's you
37:25that's stopping this
37:26from moving forward.
37:27Either you put it to bed
37:28in your head, Jay,
37:30and you get on
37:31with your life
37:31and your believer
37:32or it eats away
37:33and you can't make it work.
37:36We've done what we said
37:37we would try and do
37:38but that isn't the way it is
37:40because we weren't told the truth.
37:43Do you want to sit with Graham?
37:44It's how you get beyond this impasse.
37:46It really is.
37:48I've got to think about the kids though,
37:49haven't I?
37:50That's my problem,
37:51my kids.
37:52In what respects?
37:53Whether I stay with her,
37:54whether I leave her.
37:55Okay.
37:55I'll come here to get an answer
37:56and I still ain't got it.
37:57So what better off am I
37:59sat in my house?
38:00But you said the kids
38:01are suffering
38:02as a result of this relationship
38:03so this relationship
38:04has to improve,
38:06doesn't it?
38:06Oh yeah,
38:06but getting these answers
38:07ain't improving nothing,
38:08is it?
38:09No.
38:09That's the problem.
38:10It's just making me think
38:11even more.
38:16So yeah,
38:16you do have to make
38:17some important decisions today.
38:19You might not want to listen to me
38:20but I'll tell you something.
38:23Don't just stay in a relationship
38:24because you've got kids
38:25because they'll grow up
38:26witnessing everything
38:27that goes on.
38:28You've already said
38:28that they're being affected
38:29by this.
38:30Make sure you both spend
38:31a bit of time with Graham
38:32and we'll see what we can do,
38:33all right?
38:33Give them a round of applause
38:34so you gentlemen
38:35I'm sorry about that.
38:39Really frustrating for us,
38:40said it before.
38:41Got to be absolutely true
38:43to your disclosures
38:44to the team.
38:44Otherwise, like that,
38:46inconclusive result.
38:47They don't move forward.
38:48We'll let you know what happens
38:48and after the break
38:49on this stage,
38:49a woman who was battered
38:51and left for dead
38:52tells the story exclusively
38:54on the Jeremy Karshaw.
38:55I'm right back.
38:55This was a year and a half ago.
38:57Apparently,
38:57you woke up 48 hours later
39:00having been in a coma
39:02on the couch.
39:03When you see that,
39:04your daughter,
39:04what's that like?
39:06Horrendous.
39:07And anybody
39:08could actually
39:09do what they did,
39:10leave her in that state.
39:12Laying next to you
39:13for 48 hours.
39:24Thank you very much indeed.
39:25Welcome back.
39:25My next guest,
39:26Colleen,
39:26is sitting in the green room.
39:27I am so inspired
39:28by this young lady.
39:29She has been through
39:30some of the worst things
39:32you can imagine.
39:32She suffered horrific injuries
39:34at the hands
39:34of a violent ex-partner
39:35who left her comatosed
39:36after a horrific attack.
39:38She recovered.
39:38She got her life back
39:39and bravely,
39:40she says,
39:41I want to come here
39:42and tell my story,
39:43not really for me
39:44but for other people
39:45and let them know
39:45you can survive
39:46and you can get out.
39:47We're just going to go this way.
39:48She's an amazing girl,
39:5025 years of age.
39:51Give Colleen a round
39:52of applause, guys.
39:53I'm just going to go in here.
39:58How are you, sweetheart?
39:59Hello.
39:59Nice to meet you.
40:00Your mum, Jane?
40:01Hello.
40:02Thank you so much for this.
40:04Whenever I do
40:05stories like this,
40:07sweet,
40:07I always start
40:09the same way
40:09because I think
40:10it's the right way
40:11to start.
40:11Why?
40:12Why would you want
40:13to do this?
40:14I want for people
40:15to be aware
40:17of what abusive
40:20relationships are like
40:21and what the signs are,
40:23the early signs
40:24to look out for
40:25and how you notice
40:27that it is abuse
40:28because at first
40:29you just think
40:30that it's not.
40:31But what's interesting
40:32about your story
40:32and I admire your honesty
40:33because it shows
40:35great integrity,
40:36this guy had previous.
40:37Yeah.
40:38And this guy,
40:42let me ask you this,
40:43you knew he had previous
40:46is it that age-old thing
40:47of I can change him,
40:49I'm the one
40:49that'll make him different?
40:51Did you not believe it?
40:52What was it
40:53that made you think
40:53I know that
40:55but I'm going to fall
40:56in love with him anyway?
40:57Because he never showed,
40:58I believed that
41:00he did have previous
41:00but he never showed
41:02any signs of that
41:03towards me.
41:04He treated me
41:05completely different.
41:06He treated me,
41:06he was like a model boyfriend
41:08and he couldn't have
41:08been nicer to me.
41:10Let's talk about,
41:11we can't go into
41:12any detail
41:12but let's talk about
41:13in terms of him
41:14but let's talk about
41:15how you met,
41:16how long you were together,
41:17when it started
41:17to go wrong really.
41:19We met when I was at work,
41:20he was a customer
41:21in the bank
41:22and we was together
41:24two years.
41:26First time that he was violent,
41:27do you remember it?
41:28Yeah.
41:29What happened?
41:29He shoved me,
41:32he shoved me against the wall
41:34so hard that my feet
41:35actually came off the floor
41:36and I hit the wall
41:37and fell in a pile
41:39on the floor.
41:40At that moment,
41:41does the light come on
41:43and do you think,
41:43oh my God,
41:44this is going to get worse
41:45or do you bury your head
41:46in the sand thinking,
41:47it's not going to happen to me,
41:49that was a one-off?
41:51Instantly I was terrified
41:52and I thought,
41:53I'm leaving.
41:54Did you?
41:54And then within a few days
41:57I'd forgot about it all.
41:59He'd pleaded with me,
42:01he'd cried at me,
42:02told me how sorry he was
42:03and I was a fool
42:05and believed it.
42:07What I liked
42:07in terms of honesty
42:09for people watching this
42:10about your story
42:11was when you said
42:13physical abuse is one thing
42:14but mental cruelty
42:15is absolutely as bad.
42:16Not bruises and cuts
42:19but actually that
42:20they dig away in your brain
42:22and make you feel
42:22that this is your lot in life
42:23and you wouldn't do any better
42:24anywhere else
42:25and so you stay
42:26and you put up with it.
42:27Yeah.
42:27Let's talk about that
42:28nighting question if we can.
42:30Tell me about that.
42:32I'd gone round
42:33to see his children
42:35and him
42:35and play Monopoly
42:36and we was playing
42:38a board game
42:39we was laughing
42:39we was joking
42:40we was having fun
42:41and it reminded me
42:42of old times.
42:44Were you together
42:45at that point?
42:47We'd split up
42:48we'd split up
42:49some time before
42:49we hadn't spoken
42:50for three weeks
42:51pretty much before
42:52that night
42:54until that week
42:56leading up to it
42:57we bumped into
42:57each other
42:58and that's when
43:00we arranged
43:00to meet up
43:02that night
43:02and we see
43:03the children
43:06and that's
43:07the last thing
43:07I remember really
43:08it was happy
43:09laughing
43:09playing Monopoly
43:10You don't remember
43:11anything after that?
43:12I've got little
43:13glimpses that have
43:14come back
43:16since
43:18them shouting
43:19at me
43:20and pushing me
43:22but that's it.
43:23This was a year
43:24and a half ago
43:24apparently
43:25you woke up
43:2748 hours later
43:29having been in a
43:30coma
43:31on the couch
43:32Yeah
43:33Right when you woke up
43:36That picture was taken
43:37wasn't it?
43:38Yeah
43:38And when you woke up
43:40Yeah
43:42Terrific
43:43So he'd beaten you up
43:44and left you to die
43:46Pretty much
43:47I think so
43:48How difficult is it
43:49to look at that picture?
43:51It's not nice
43:52You're doing great
43:54It's
43:55It's a good reminder
43:56though isn't it?
43:57When you woke up
43:58Were you aware
43:59of the extent
44:00of the injuries
44:01or no?
44:02I wasn't aware
44:03of the extent
44:04of the injuries
44:04for quite some weeks
44:07afterwards
44:07when you've had
44:08a brain injury
44:09you don't recognise
44:10what's wrong with you
44:11Was he in the house
44:13when you woke up?
44:14Yeah
44:14He was lying
44:14on the sofa
44:15next to me asleep
44:17He left you
44:18in a coma
44:19and laid next to you
44:20for 48 hours?
44:21Yeah
44:26This is your recovery
44:27isn't it?
44:28Yeah
44:29What were the injuries
44:30you sustained on?
44:31I had a slight bleed
44:34on the brain
44:35a swollen brain
44:37my skull was fractured
44:38from the back
44:39straight the way around
44:40and down
44:41and across the roof
44:42of my mouth
44:42and I had two
44:44broken cheekbones
44:46one of which
44:46was so severe
44:48that I had to put
44:48a plate in
44:49to put it back
44:50in place
44:52and I'm deaf
44:53in my right ear
44:55from it
44:55I've got 8% hearing
44:56in my right ear
44:57Mum, Jane
45:00I want to get by
45:01I never liked him
45:02when I first saw him
45:02when you see that
45:03your daughter
45:04what's that like?
45:06Horrendous
45:07that anybody
45:09could actually
45:10do what they did
45:12leave her in that state
45:14laying next to you
45:15for 48 hours
45:16not allowing her
45:17to call home
45:18when she did wake up
45:19we'd text and said
45:20are you ok
45:21and we'd had her
45:22text back saying
45:23yeah I'm fine
45:24but Colleen
45:25hadn't used the phone
45:26how'd you get out?
45:28he eventually
45:29let me call my mum
45:30he helped me call my mum
45:31and my mum
45:32came and got me
45:33and I think
45:35he was quite scared
45:36of my mum
45:36and just let her
45:37take me
45:38tell me you went
45:39to the police
45:40I didn't believe
45:41he did it
45:41he told me
45:42I fell over
45:42and that's what
45:44I believed
45:46it was my mum
45:47who went to the police
45:48did you?
45:49yeah
45:49I went on the Tuesday
45:51what happened to him?
45:53they arrested him
45:54on the Tuesday
45:55was he jailed?
45:57yes
45:57for how long?
45:586 years
45:599 months
46:00God bless you
46:01God bless you
46:04I thought you were
46:05going to say
46:0518 months
46:06no but he will
46:07come out
46:07in December 17
46:10so yeah
46:10I've done
46:11probably about
46:123 years
46:12why then?
46:13how does that
46:13make you feel?
46:14does it scare you?
46:16I'm quite scared
46:17I'm scared now
46:18even before he's out
46:20erm
46:21are you scared mum?
46:22no
46:24no
46:25you told my team
46:27this has ruined my life
46:28why?
46:29because
46:30it's taken away
46:31who I am
46:32it's taken away
46:33my career
46:34can I tell you
46:35something?
46:37I'm sure you hate
46:38all men
46:38I'm sure you've
46:39lost huge amounts
46:40of confidence
46:41I'm sure you
46:42can never see
46:43yourself being
46:44in a normal life
46:46again
46:47first of all
46:48not all men
46:49are like that
46:49he's an evil
46:50piece of
46:50that should
46:51rot in hell
46:52for all eternity
46:53but I want to
46:53tell you something
46:54you have got
46:54your life back
46:55you've sat here
46:56and you've
46:57told your story
46:57to help other people
46:58there's far more
46:59about you
46:59than he's got
47:00in his
47:00I mean
47:01just
47:02somebody said to me
47:03the other day
47:04and it's true
47:05and it always does
47:06strike me to be
47:07the most poignant
47:08thing
47:08when somebody's
47:09really had
47:09the worst thing
47:10happen to them
47:12somehow they
47:12do find forgiveness
47:14and they do find
47:14the ability to move on
47:15because this guy
47:16said to me
47:16yesterday
47:16I wouldn't want
47:17that piece of
47:18whatever to get
47:19away with
47:19ruining my life
47:22best revenge
47:23that you can have
47:24is to have a happy
47:24and
47:26you know
47:26sustained life
47:27I'm not talking
47:28about jumping
47:29into a relationship
47:29but go to work
47:30face the world
47:32go out with your
47:33head held high
47:34because
47:34you survived
47:35and he's
47:36let me tell you
47:38people like that
47:39don't survive
47:39not in the wrong way
47:40be proud of her
47:45and you've got your mum
47:46and
47:47and
47:47and
47:48you know
47:49he won't come
47:50anywhere near you
47:51because you'd have
47:51to get past your mum
47:54you know you talk
47:55about
47:55you said
47:55oh I'm nothing
47:56how many people
47:57do you think
47:57you'll inspire today
47:59I hope a lot
48:00I hope that
48:01even if just one
48:02person takes
48:03something from
48:04from this
48:04then that
48:06that'll be enough
48:06for me
48:07just
48:08just
48:08and they will
48:09I promise you
48:11really nice to meet you
48:12thank you very much
48:12indeed for sharing
48:13this story
48:13Jane thank you very much
48:14too thanks for watching
48:15we'll see you very soon
48:16take care bye bye for now
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