00:00Should a guy pay for the first date? No. Thanks for joining me today. I'll see you next time.
00:04Just kidding. There is more, but not much more. So I'm going to explain why you should not pay
00:08for your first date and what to do instead so you can stop simping for the female Illuminati
00:12or whatever. Let's go. Should a guy pay for the first date? If you're a guy, you're probably used
00:20to the idea that you have to pay for the first date and every other date until you die. But
00:24what happened to equality? You see, everyone's equal until the bill comes. So let's get real
00:29here. Many women will take advantage of you as a guy and use you as a meal ticket and you'll get
00:33nothing in return. No kiss, not even a peck in the cheek and no sex. And you'll be lucky to even get
00:39an awkward friend zoning side hug. So why doesn't paying for the first date work? Well, it's because
00:44the act of paying for the first date is not a turn on. It's not a factor in attraction, right? It's
00:49not eye contact. It's not your confidence, your smile. It's not your personality. Think about it.
00:55How horny is she going to get just because you paid for dinner? Attraction is not created by
00:59paying for a thing. But there is a catch 22 here. If you go for a date and the bill comes
01:03and you don't pay and you bring up, Hey, um, what's your, what's your portion? You know,
01:08how much are you paying? That's going to be a turnoff too, because now you're just going
01:11to look cheap. And this happened to me once I was on a day with a really beautiful girl.
01:15We went to a restaurant. It was pretty nice having dinner and chemistry was strong.
01:19Everything was going well. And when the bill came, uh, I got her to split it. I said, Oh yeah,
01:24that's, uh, that's your glass of wine there. So anyways, there was an immediate reaction to that.
01:31And, uh, unfortunately, I feel, I a hundred percent feel like I've taken it all the way,
01:35but because of that, that basically just killed the mood completely. So I, you know,
01:39because of the fact that I took it for dinner, I should have just sucked it up and paid for the
01:44goddamn date. And I'm not saying that paying for the date in that instance would have turned
01:47her on, but it would have avoided turning her off. So what's the alternative? If you're paying for
01:52your date, you're just a meal ticket. And if you don't pay for your day, you turn it off. Uh,
01:56what can we do then try one of the following number one, a no cost date, do something that
02:00doesn't cost any money. And that can be a walk to the beach, the park, or some kind of other
02:05attraction. And option number two is go on a low cost date, go for a tea, have a coffee,
02:10have a drink. And I mean, literally one drink. Otherwise that could be very expensive. And if you
02:14choose either of these options, you're not going to be put in the place where you were basically
02:17forced to pay for a date or sacrifice any kind of mood there might've been, but Hey, it's your
02:22choice. That's all for today. Until next time, conquer and win.
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