Should A Guy Pay For The First Date?

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Should A Guy Pay For The First Date?  In this video, I dive into the age-old question of whether or not a guy should pay for the first date. I explore different perspectives and share my own thoughts on the matter. From chivalry to gender roles to modern dating etiquette, we'll examine the various factors that can influence this decision. So, if you're curious about who should foot the bill on a first date, join me and let's explore this topic together!  WATCH NOW: How to Meet Girls for Relationships, Dating, & Sex (Exact Steps!) https://youtu.be/DcbLq0e9HLc  IF YOU ARE INTERESTED IN THIS KIND OF CONTENT, YOU SHOULD READ THIS ARTICLE: https://www.conquerandwin.com/why-women-go-cold-on-text-messages-and-how-to-write-messages-that-work/  WHO AM I:  Hi, I’m Eddy Baller, author & founder of Conquer & Win.  I’ve been a dating and relationship coach since 2011, and since then I have helped men across the globe to build their social confidence and get the dates and relationships they deserve.    FOR COACHING, GO TO: https://www.conquerandwin.com/vancouver-dating-coach/   GET IN TOUCH:  If you’d like to talk, I’d love to hear from you. Emailing me at eddy@conquerandwin.com directly will be the quickest way to get a response. I try my best to reply to things but there sadly aren’t enough hours in the day to respond to everyone though I’d get there as soon as I can.    ▼ see below for links & more ▼ ✉️  Sign up to my weekly email newsletter - https://www.conquerandwin.com/contact/ 🌍  My website / blog - https://www.conquerandwin.com 📸  Instagram - https://instagram.com/conquerandwin

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00:00Should a guy pay for the first date? No. Thanks for joining me today. I'll see you next time.

00:04Just kidding. There is more, but not much more. So I'm going to explain why you should not pay

00:08for your first date and what to do instead so you can stop simping for the female Illuminati

00:12or whatever. Let's go. Should a guy pay for the first date? If you're a guy, you're probably used

00:20to the idea that you have to pay for the first date and every other date until you die. But

00:24what happened to equality? You see, everyone's equal until the bill comes. So let's get real

00:29here. Many women will take advantage of you as a guy and use you as a meal ticket and you'll get

00:33nothing in return. No kiss, not even a peck in the cheek and no sex. And you'll be lucky to even get

00:39an awkward friend zoning side hug. So why doesn't paying for the first date work? Well, it's because

00:44the act of paying for the first date is not a turn on. It's not a factor in attraction, right? It's

00:49not eye contact. It's not your confidence, your smile. It's not your personality. Think about it.

00:55How horny is she going to get just because you paid for dinner? Attraction is not created by

00:59paying for a thing. But there is a catch 22 here. If you go for a date and the bill comes

01:03and you don't pay and you bring up, Hey, um, what's your, what's your portion? You know,

01:08how much are you paying? That's going to be a turnoff too, because now you're just going

01:11to look cheap. And this happened to me once I was on a day with a really beautiful girl.

01:15We went to a restaurant. It was pretty nice having dinner and chemistry was strong.

01:19Everything was going well. And when the bill came, uh, I got her to split it. I said, Oh yeah,

01:24that's, uh, that's your glass of wine there. So anyways, there was an immediate reaction to that.

01:31And, uh, unfortunately, I feel, I a hundred percent feel like I've taken it all the way,

01:35but because of that, that basically just killed the mood completely. So I, you know,

01:39because of the fact that I took it for dinner, I should have just sucked it up and paid for the

01:44goddamn date. And I'm not saying that paying for the date in that instance would have turned

01:47her on, but it would have avoided turning her off. So what's the alternative? If you're paying for

01:52your date, you're just a meal ticket. And if you don't pay for your day, you turn it off. Uh,

01:56what can we do then try one of the following number one, a no cost date, do something that

02:00doesn't cost any money. And that can be a walk to the beach, the park, or some kind of other

02:05attraction. And option number two is go on a low cost date, go for a tea, have a coffee,

02:10have a drink. And I mean, literally one drink. Otherwise that could be very expensive. And if you

02:14choose either of these options, you're not going to be put in the place where you were basically

02:17forced to pay for a date or sacrifice any kind of mood there might've been, but Hey, it's your

02:22choice. That's all for today. Until next time, conquer and win.

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