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In this video, I'm going to explain you why I gave up on online dating.

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Transcript
00:00I gave up on online dating.
00:05I gave up on online dating many years ago,
00:08but not for the reasons you might think.
00:10It wasn't because I wasn't getting dates,
00:11it wasn't because I was spending too much time on there,
00:14although I spent a fair bit of time on there developing my system,
00:17but rather I gave up on online dating
00:18because it was much more satisfying meeting women in real life.
00:22Now I did do both for a while,
00:23I was meeting women online and in real life,
00:25and that was great because I was getting a lot more dates that way.
00:28But I found that being able to start a conversation with somebody in public,
00:31whether you're shopping at the grocery store, at a coffee shop,
00:34talking to your waitress, or even just walking down the street,
00:37was much more satisfying because it actually took some balls.
00:40Now online dating also takes some skill if you want to get success,
00:43there's more to it than just pretty pictures,
00:45because it's basically like online marketing.
00:47But it's much more satisfying when you see a woman
00:49and you know what you're getting,
00:51and you can walk up to her and start a conversation
00:53and walk away for a number,
00:54or even walk away with her and have an instant date.
00:57Was one day I was standing at a crosswalk,
00:59waiting across,
01:00and there was a beautiful blonde standing right next to me,
01:03and I thought,
01:04why can't I talk to her?
01:05She's right there.
01:06Sure I was getting dates online,
01:08but suddenly I didn't feel very manly anymore,
01:10when all I could do was message women online,
01:12looking at photographs and profiles,
01:14and yet there was a beautiful woman standing right beside me,
01:16and I couldn't say anything to her.
01:18That pointed out a problem to me.
01:19And if you're a man who decides to quit online dating,
01:22you may recognize that problem too,
01:23besides the fact that you may not be getting the best results online.
01:26But when you start venturing outside,
01:28and you start talking to women in natural situations,
01:30you get so much more than just a date.
01:32In fact, you develop your social skills,
01:34you develop your courage,
01:35and you learn how to overcome your inhibition,
01:37and get things done.
01:38If you can overcome social anxiety and fear
01:41to go talk to a woman in public,
01:42there's really nothing else you can't do.
01:44And learning these skills will also help you advance your career,
01:46because you need social skills
01:47when you're talking to bosses or higher-ups
01:50in order to get those promotions.
01:52Or even if you have your own business,
01:53it requires social skills talking to your clients or your customers,
01:57or learning communication,
01:58even if it's online marketing.
01:59As well as becoming assertive enough to ask for what you deserve.
02:03So giving up on online dating
02:04was probably one of the best things I ever did.
02:06But it's not the easy route.
02:08It is the difficult route,
02:09because you have to learn how to overcome your own fears,
02:11your inhibitions,
02:12and develop the skills you need
02:13in order to be able to attract women,
02:15and make connections with them,
02:16and obviously not scare them.
02:18But if you're willing to step outside your comfort zone
02:20and you want more than just getting dates,
02:23then quitting dating apps
02:24may be one of the best things you ever did, too.
02:26What's your opinion on online dating?
02:28Leave a comment in the comment section below,
02:30and until next time,
02:31conquer and win.
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