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In this video, I'll be discussing a question that many of us have wondered about: How often should you text after the first date? Should you wait a day, two days, or text right away? So if you've ever struggled with texting etiquette after a first date, be sure to watch this video!

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Transcript
00:00How often should you text after the first date?
00:05Well, if you haven't had a date in five years, you might feel compelled to text her every single day
00:10and basically just send her your entire life story every day.
00:13But don't do that.
00:14Whether you're a needy guy or you're a guy who actually has something going on,
00:17the best thing they do after a first date is not bother texting at all,
00:21except for setting up the second date.
00:23Girls do not need some sort of maintenance text after the first date in order to keep interest in you.
00:27If you're interesting, if you have a good personality and you did a good job on the first date,
00:31then they're interested.
00:32But that doesn't mean you should wait a really long time before you invite them out for the second date.
00:36Basically, you should do it within the first one to three days afterwards,
00:39after the first date that is.
00:40But you do not need to have a text conversation after the first date in order to keep that interest going.
00:45However, if she texts you and she feels chatty and she's asking you questions and that kind of thing,
00:50then yeah, go for it.
00:51Have a conversation with her.
00:52But as a man, you do not need to engage her again and constantly text her.
00:56More often than not, it's just going to show neediness and probably push her away.
01:00And so now I'm going to cover some common questions about texting after the first date.
01:03Will a guy text you every day if he's interested?
01:05A needy guy will text you every day if he's interested.
01:08But this is really a red flag.
01:10Unless it's mutual and you're both texting back and forth because you're so excited to talk to each other,
01:14that's a different story.
01:15But if somebody starts texting you every single day,
01:18starting with good mornings and then how's your day and all these kind of useless, frivolous texts,
01:22probably best to start running.
01:23How long should I wait to text her after a first date?
01:25You should wait anywhere between one to three days to text a girl after the first date to set up the second date.
01:30That way when you text her, you're still fresh on her mind
01:32and it's not so long that she starts forgetting about you.
01:35Well, that's all for today.
01:36Until next time, conquer and win.
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