Should You Pick Up a Girl On The First Date? (NO)

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00:00Should you pick up a girl on the first date?

00:06Well, if she's independent and don't need no man, then why would you?

00:09After all, she's your equal, right? And she can drive her damn self.

00:12But seriously, don't drive girls around unless you want to be their personal chauffeurs.

00:15And let me guess, you were planning a dinner date that you were going to pay for and even going to bring her flowers?

00:22Well, I hate to break it to you, but if you're doing all that, then you're simping for Satan.

00:26And this approach of dating basically being a servant to your dates will get you nowhere.

00:32And yeah, I guess it's romantic in some kind of Disneyland fantasy bullshit land.

00:36But in reality, throwing yourself at women and bending over backwards, trying to please them will not make them like you.

00:42And it's certainly not going to get you any respect from your dates.

00:44A lot of girls will use you as a meal ticket and even a taxi driver.

00:48So respect your own time, let her drive her damn self and you drive her damn self and go from there.

00:53The bottom line here is doing all these things will not create attraction.

00:57It's not going to make her like you.

00:58It's not going to make her sexually attracted to you.

01:00If she's not sexually attracted to you, it's just not going to go anywhere.

01:03Whether you want a one night stand or you want a relationship, it doesn't matter.

01:06But it will end up using a lot of your time, your gas money and your pocket money.

01:11That's all for today.

01:12Until next time, conquer and win.

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