00:00Does a gentleman kiss on the first date? That depends. And if you're obsessed with this idea
00:04about being a gentleman, then there's a good chance, not 100%, but there's a good chance that
00:08you may be what's called a nice guy. And you're probably going to get in your own way. A lot of
00:13guys who identify with this idea of being a gentleman are very often the nice guy types.
00:17They're the kind of guys who get passed over for other guys and the kind of guys who hear that,
00:21you know, their date wants to be friends all the time. Now, if that's not you, then obviously this
00:25video is not for you. But I'm going to be addressing the nice guy type of gentleman for
00:29this video. Now, obviously not being a gentleman doesn't mean you have to be a dick, but I'm just
00:33talking about not showing up to be a servant for all the girls you're going on dates for or a push
00:37over more accurately because nobody respects that. And it's a very hard way to go about dating. They
00:42try to attract women. Women are attracted to guys who have some balls. Basically, they can be
00:46assertive. So instead of worrying if a gentleman can kiss on the first date, instead focus on what
00:50you want and focus on what works in dating. And obviously you're dating goals as well. Do you want
00:55to kiss her? Then go for it. If she's into you, then it's going to probably work. And even if she's not
00:59ready yet, at least you're going to be showing some assertiveness and setting a line in the sand
01:03saying, hey, this is a romantic thing. This is not a friendship thing. And that will help you create
01:06some attraction. And yes, you can be polite, but don't fall over yourself trying to be a gentleman.
01:10For more info on first dates, check out the link in the description or the comment section below.
01:14And until next time, conquer and win.
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