00:0069% of all divorces are initiated by women over the age of 40.
00:05Why is that?
00:06And I know that men all want to go out, women are just not happy.
00:08Or we could look at it really with the reality of this.
00:11Men stop doing what they need to do.
00:13You stop growing.
00:14You stop changing.
00:15You stop helping out.
00:16You stop pursuing her.
00:18You stop chasing her.
00:19You stop bringing her flowers.
00:20You stop taking her on dates.
00:21You stopped.
00:22She didn't stop.
00:24Most of the time, she didn't stop.
00:25She's at home and she's doing everything that she's trying to do.
00:28And she told you, hey, I need this from you and I need that from you.
00:31And you ignored it.
00:32You ignored it.
00:33And then now we got to the place where it's too late.
00:35And so many times I counsel men that are like, man, I wish I knew what I had before it
00:42was
00:42gone.
00:43Because once a woman is gone, it's really almost impossible for her to come back.
00:47Women are designed to be super loyal.
00:49They'll go to the ends of the earth and they'll keep going and going until one day they're done.
00:54And when they're done, they're done.
00:55And so men don't allow that to happen.
00:57I don't know where you are in your marriage right now, but become intentional on meeting
01:02her needs.
01:03Be intentional and not speaking harsh to her.
01:05Be intentional of once again romancing her, chase her, come home and chase her and want
01:09to talk to her and be in her world.
01:11Make sure to be intentional what you think about her.
01:13Think nothing but good thoughts.
01:15Be intentional with your time.
01:16Date her every single week.
01:18You'll find that, man, we can greatly lower that number, men, if we'll simply do what we
01:24were designed to do, which was love her.
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