00:00A man who goes quiet, shuts down or goes into problem-solving mode when his woman is sharing
00:06how she's feeling is unconsciously teaching her that it is not safe to rely and depend
00:15on this man emotionally because of how overwhelming or uncomfortable it is for him to hold space
00:23for her emotions. This leaves her feeling completely alone over time where she feels unmet on an
00:33emotional level because she doesn't actually trust his ability to hold safe containment for
00:39her expression or trust his ability to meet her in the depth that she yearns to be met.
00:46When a man is still operating from the consciousness or the maturity or the emotional capacity
00:53of a boy because as a boy there was no one that held space for his emotions, this leaves
01:02him emotionally disconnected as a man in adult relationship because there's a little boy
01:08within him who is still seeking for someone to hold space for his emotions. So until a man
01:14meets these deeper parts of himself, heals the boy and awakens the emotionally mature man,
01:21he will really struggle to meet his partner in the way that she is really needing and seeking
01:27to be met from him on a deep emotional level.
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