00:00Here's some relationship advice that's kind of ruining your love life. If they wanted to,
00:06they would. Sometimes true and sometimes not. People freeze, avoid, shut down, overthink,
00:14and assume that you don't want more. Stop pretending you're a mind reader and use your
00:20words. If you can't communicate your needs, don't expect anyone to magically meet them.
00:26Two, you shouldn't have to teach anyone how to love you. Actually, you should. Your partner doesn't
00:32know your wounds. Your partner doesn't know your history or what safety looks like for you. Healthy
00:39relationships are two people learning to understand each other. It's never guessing games. Three,
00:45just follow the let them theory. Sure, let people reveal who they truly are. Let them text late.
00:53Let them pull back. Let them be inconsistent. But don't silence yourself just to look unbothered.
01:00You can observe the behavior and still express how it made you feel. Four, you can't love someone
01:07until you love yourself. False. You don't need to be perfectly healed to be worthy of love. You just
01:13need self-awareness, accountability, and willingness to grow. Five, high standards means zero compromise.
01:21Now, standards are important. But some people use them as emotional armor. And a real partnership,
01:28it will challenge you. It's not about finding someone who's flawless. It's about finding someone
01:34who's willing. Six, stay in your divine feminine to attract a man. No, you don't need to shrink. You
01:41don't need to soften. And you don't need to perform a persona to be loved. You're allowed to lead.
01:46You're allowed to initiate. You're allowed to speak up and still be desirable. Be you, not a curated
01:53energy template. Seven, cut off anyone who triggers you. Not every trigger is a red flag. Sometimes it's
02:01a mirror. So if you run every time you're uncomfortable, that's avoidance. That's not
02:06healing. Growth comes from learning how to stay in a conversation, not escape it. And the truth is that
02:12most advice online teaches you how to run away from the pain, not how to build connection. And I think
02:17that real love takes emotional courage. So don't be afraid to feel, to stay, to speak, and to grow.
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