00:00If your husband is a dismissive avoidant, his silence is not maturity. His shutdown is not
00:06wisdom. His distance isn't leadership. I know some men love to dress up emotional cowardice
00:13as being calm or logical or not wanting drama, but come on. Refusing to talk is not emotional
00:20strength. Avoiding hard conversations is not masculine. Making your wife feel stupid for
00:27having feelings is not stability. It's avoidance with some better branding around it. And here's
00:33the part that needs to be said out loud from the rooftop so everyone can hear it. Dismissive
00:39avoidant husbands are very comfortable letting their wives carry the entire emotional weight
00:46of the marriage. She initiates the talks. She names the problems. She asks for repair. She reads the
00:53books. She suggests therapy. She cries. She begs. And he sits there acting inconvenienced
01:00by the emotional mess he helped create. At some point, being quiet stops being harmless.
01:08it becomes neglect.
01:09connect.
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