00:00This is a society where women are programmed to meet the needs of men, emotionally speaking.
00:06If the men's needs are in some ways infantile, the woman tends to take that on.
00:13And it becomes partly an adult-to-adult relationship, but partly it's a mother-child relationship.
00:20And that has two built-in problems, which occurred in my own marriage.
00:27One is it's exhausting for the woman, and it's a source of physical and mental illness, number one.
00:37Number two, the men, as much as they want that kind of mother energy, they also resent it, because they don't want to be controlled.
00:49And the women tend to get kind of...
00:51You experience that?
00:52Yeah, yeah, we experience that.
00:54On my work addiction and my shopping addiction, they really tried to control me, and I hated it.
01:01And thirdly, real children come along, and the mother energy that the woman puts into the adult male is deprived from the real children.
01:14And the fourth problem is sexual, because once I get into a mother-child relationship with a woman, no healthy guy wants to sleep with his mother.
01:28And no mother wants to sleep with their child.
01:30No healthy mother wants to sleep with her son.
01:32Yeah.
01:32So sexually, people wonder what happened to the sexuality and the passion.
01:39That's what happened.
01:40So, not to give away secrets, but if you get older, and as you get older, you let go of these childlike needs on the one hand,
01:51and these automatic mothering roles on the other, the passion can come back.
01:58Because now you're with this person that you really love, and you want to be with.
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