Should You Kiss On A First Date?

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Are you unsure whether you should kiss on a first date or not? You're not alone! In this video, we'll be discussing the pros and cons of kissing on a first date, so you can decide what's best for you. From creating a deeper connection to avoiding awkwardness, there are many factors to consider. Watch this video to learn everything you need to know about first date kissing!  WHAT YOU WILL SEE:  00:34 Chemistry or mood 01:46 Location 01:56 What's your date goal?  WATCH NOW: How to Meet Girls for Relationships, Dating, & Sex (Exact Steps!) https://youtu.be/DcbLq0e9HLc  IF YOU ARE INTERESTED IN THIS KIND OF CONTENT, YOU SHOULD READ THIS ARTICLE: https://www.conquerandwin.com/why-women-go-cold-on-text-messages-and-how-to-write-messages-that-work/  WHO AM I:  Hi, I’m Eddy Baller, author & founder of Conquer & Win.  I’ve been a dating and relationship coach since 2011, and since then I have helped men across the globe to build their social confidence and get the dates and relationships they deserve.    FOR COACHING, GO TO: https://www.conquerandwin.com/vancouver-dating-coach/   GET IN TOUCH:  If you’d like to talk, I’d love to hear from you. Emailing me at eddy@conquerandwin.com directly will be the quickest way to get a response. I try my best to reply to things but there sadly aren’t enough hours in the day to respond to everyone though I’d get there as soon as I can.    ▼ see below for links & more ▼ ✉️  Sign up to my weekly email newsletter - https://www.conquerandwin.com/contact/ 🌍  My website / blog - https://www.conquerandwin.com 📸  Instagram - https://instagram.com/conquerandwin

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00:00Should you kiss on the first date? Well the answer is yes, but also maybe no.

00:04Whether you kiss or not on the first date is gonna depend on a lot of different

00:07factors, so keep the following points in mind when you're deciding whether you

00:10want to go for a kiss on their first date. I'm Eddie Baller and I'm a dating

00:13coach and the owner of ConquerWin.com and I've been coaching men since 2011 to

00:16build the confidence and get the kind of woman they want. And I know what works

00:20from thousands of personal experiences as well as watching my clients infield

00:23regardless of their height, age, race, looks or financial status. So let's jump in.

00:30Number one, chemistry or mood. This is basically how the date is going, right?

00:36Do you feel something over here? Do you feel a connection? Do you feel like this

00:39might go somewhere or do you feel like you've got a cold wall in front of you

00:42and you're just not connecting, you're just not clicking. Normally obviously if

00:45you're feeling like things are going well, there's a moment and you want to just go

00:48for it, it's worth it, right? It's worth a shot. But sometimes even when things are

00:51going badly or it seems like they're going badly, it may actually work. Sort of like

00:55a bunker buster kind of move. I had this happen to me before in particular on one

00:59date that turned out very, very well. Out with this girl, we were at a pub and

01:02we're sitting across from each other on this little table and it was pretty

01:05mundane, pretty slow, not really feeling a lot of chemistry. You know, it wasn't

01:09terrible, but it wasn't great. And I knew if I didn't do something, something big,

01:13this date was going to go nowhere. While we were chatting, just out of the blue, I

01:16just reached over, grabbed her gently and I leaned over and I kissed her on the lips.

01:20Now she was kind of surprised, but she didn't move away. But you know, her eyes kind of bugged out of her head for a second,

01:25kind of like what's happening because it was so out of the blue. But I figured, hey, I got to go for something.

01:29So we kept chatting for a few more minutes and we went to her car and while I was putting my seatbelt on,

01:33she said, do you want to come over for a drink? And so that turned into a great night.

01:36And it would have never happened if I didn't go for that kiss.

01:38So obviously this is not always going to work if you have a date that's not going well.

01:41This isn't the magic trick solution for every date, but it's something you might want to try.

01:45Number two, location. If you're in a really busy spot or certain events, it may not be appropriate.

01:51Really, you can kiss someone anywhere. But if you're in a quieter area, this would make it a lot easier to kiss.

01:55Number three, what's your date goal? Do you want to take this date somewhere?

01:58Or are you holding back and waiting for another date to do something?

02:01Usually that's a bad strategy because it ends up leading nowhere. You don't end up getting that second date.

02:06So it's often worth giving it a try. Personally, the majority of time I like to wait till I get someone home before I try going for a kiss.

02:11But like in the previous story, sometimes this could work while you're on your date to make something happen.

02:15So basically just assess your situation and see where this date is going and see where you want to take this date.

02:20If you feel the moment and you want to try, just go for it.

02:22The worst thing that could happen is that she rejects your kiss and it's like, well, so what?

02:26The best that could happen is you get another date or even take her back home.

02:28For more info on first dates, check out the link in the description or comment section below.

02:31And until next time, conquer and win.

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