00:00Should you kiss on the first date? Well the answer is yes, but also maybe no.
00:04Whether you kiss or not on the first date is gonna depend on a lot of different
00:07factors, so keep the following points in mind when you're deciding whether you
00:10want to go for a kiss on their first date. I'm Eddie Baller and I'm a dating
00:13coach and the owner of ConquerWin.com and I've been coaching men since 2011 to
00:16build the confidence and get the kind of woman they want. And I know what works
00:20from thousands of personal experiences as well as watching my clients infield
00:23regardless of their height, age, race, looks or financial status. So let's jump in.
00:30Number one, chemistry or mood. This is basically how the date is going, right?
00:36Do you feel something over here? Do you feel a connection? Do you feel like this
00:39might go somewhere or do you feel like you've got a cold wall in front of you
00:42and you're just not connecting, you're just not clicking. Normally obviously if
00:45you're feeling like things are going well, there's a moment and you want to just go
00:48for it, it's worth it, right? It's worth a shot. But sometimes even when things are
00:51going badly or it seems like they're going badly, it may actually work. Sort of like
00:55a bunker buster kind of move. I had this happen to me before in particular on one
00:59date that turned out very, very well. Out with this girl, we were at a pub and
01:02we're sitting across from each other on this little table and it was pretty
01:05mundane, pretty slow, not really feeling a lot of chemistry. You know, it wasn't
01:09terrible, but it wasn't great. And I knew if I didn't do something, something big,
01:13this date was going to go nowhere. While we were chatting, just out of the blue, I
01:16just reached over, grabbed her gently and I leaned over and I kissed her on the lips.
01:20Now she was kind of surprised, but she didn't move away. But you know, her eyes kind of bugged out of her head for a second,
01:25kind of like what's happening because it was so out of the blue. But I figured, hey, I got to go for something.
01:29So we kept chatting for a few more minutes and we went to her car and while I was putting my seatbelt on,
01:33she said, do you want to come over for a drink? And so that turned into a great night.
01:36And it would have never happened if I didn't go for that kiss.
01:38So obviously this is not always going to work if you have a date that's not going well.
01:41This isn't the magic trick solution for every date, but it's something you might want to try.
01:45Number two, location. If you're in a really busy spot or certain events, it may not be appropriate.
01:51Really, you can kiss someone anywhere. But if you're in a quieter area, this would make it a lot easier to kiss.
01:55Number three, what's your date goal? Do you want to take this date somewhere?
01:58Or are you holding back and waiting for another date to do something?
02:01Usually that's a bad strategy because it ends up leading nowhere. You don't end up getting that second date.
02:06So it's often worth giving it a try. Personally, the majority of time I like to wait till I get someone home before I try going for a kiss.
02:11But like in the previous story, sometimes this could work while you're on your date to make something happen.
02:15So basically just assess your situation and see where this date is going and see where you want to take this date.
02:20If you feel the moment and you want to try, just go for it.
02:22The worst thing that could happen is that she rejects your kiss and it's like, well, so what?
02:26The best that could happen is you get another date or even take her back home.
02:28For more info on first dates, check out the link in the description or comment section below.
02:31And until next time, conquer and win.
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