In this video, I'm going to teach you the biggest mistake guys make when they think they're falling in love on a first date, and how to tell if it's love or lust.
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00:36 Can you fall in love on the first date? 01:48 What does it takes to fall in love on a first date? 02:30 Tips to deal with falling in love on the first date 03:06 How soon is too soon to fall in love? 03:20 Is falling in love fast a red flag? 03:36 How fast is too fast for a relationship?
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00:00Can you fall in love on a first date? You may have had a first date where everything just clicked and it seemed right and it was easy and fun and you're really attracted to her and it felt like you were falling in love. But while it's certainly possible to make a strong connection on a first date, chances are your balls are tricking you into thinking that you're falling in love. Keep watching to learn the biggest mistake guys make when they think they're falling in love on a first date and how to tell if it's love or lust. I'm Eddie Bowler and I'm the owner of conqueringwind.com and I've been coaching men since 2011 to build the confidence and meet the kind of woman they want. So let's jump into it.
00:30Can you fall in love on a first date? Let's start with what's really going on when you feel like you're falling in love with a date or falling in love at first sight. When you're attracted to someone your blood releases a flood of dopamine which is associated with pleasure and obviously you're going to connect her with your pleasure. This instant chemistry is basically sexual attraction not much else. Falling in love is a process which takes weeks, months or even years sometimes and that process involves getting to know that person and finding out how they react to that person.
01:00different situations if they're actually loyal to you or not. And of course lust is involved with this too. Because think about it, on a first date you're literally dealing with a stranger. You don't know her at all and doesn't matter what she tells you about her life, you still don't know her.
01:13And all you have to go on is your smile and good looks and what she tells you about herself. And we're sort of biased towards really liking attractive women and that can cause problems for us sometimes. So falling in love on a first date is sort of like falling in love with an Instagram picture.
01:26Really you're only missing the conversation in that case. But you don't know that girl in that Instagram picture either. And that may sound stupid compared to falling in love with an Instagram picture but I've had communications with guys who thought they were falling in love with Instagram models.
01:39Who they never had talked to and they never have met. And yes that is a little more extreme obviously than falling in love with someone you met at the very least. But in both cases we're talking about strangers.
01:48What does it take to fall in love on a first date? To fall in love on a first date we're really talking about winning the lottery here. And sure it does happen we do all hear those stories about someone falling in love on a first date and they get married and they stay together their entire lives.
02:00But this is not the reality for the vast majority of people. And when people are really quick to fall in love it will often lead them to making great mistakes like moving in with somebody really early.
02:10Someone you don't really know. Or even ignoring red flags of somebody who may actually be very toxic. And none of this means you can't have a lot of fun with somebody on a first date and
02:18really get into them. It may actually be a really good sign because hey who doesn't want some passion and they really want somebody.
02:23But don't make your plans just quite yet after your first date. Get to know her first and see if she's really what she seems beyond her good look.
02:29Here's some tips to deal with falling in love on a first date. Don't let your emotions get the best of you. Realize that it's just love. She's really hot and you like her a lot that's great and even her personality is really awesome.
02:40But it's just lust and it's an initial impression. To avoid making any mistakes slow down. Don't make any big decisions right up front.
02:47And watch for red flags. This is more likely to come up over time after having some more dates or dating for weeks or months even.
02:52Don't allow your lust and your emotions to get the best of you and cause you to ignore red flags which may be leading you to a disaster relationship.
02:59And finally just enjoy yourself. Hey it's a date and if this one doesn't work out you'll find another girl.
03:03Now here are some common questions about falling in love over the first date. How soon is too soon to fall in love?
03:08There isn't really a direct answer to how soon is too soon to fall in love because this is going to be different for everybody and it's going to be different for different relationships.
03:15Just pay attention to your emotions and make sure this is something that's good for the long run and not just for the short run.
03:19Is falling in love fast a red flag? Falling in love fast can be a red flag.
03:23Very often people who fall in love fast basically burn the candle at both ends.
03:27Relationships can be very passionate and intense but they can also be full of drama and trauma.
03:32And it's very often the sign of someone who's needy and jumps into things way too fast.
03:35How fast is too fast for a relationship?
03:37There's no set time frame for getting into a relationship that's going to be a personal decision and it's going to depend on the person you're dating as well as yourself.
03:44What do you want?
03:45But generally speaking going a little bit slower is a good idea than beginning a relationship while you're getting to know somebody before you get too attached.
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