00:00Why do women always expect men to change? Men, why do you want to stay the same? You just want
00:06to tell your wife, you get what you get and you don't throw a fit. This is just who I
00:09am.
00:09That's what a man child would say. I sure as hell hope who you are today is not who you
00:13are next
00:13year. For an intimate relationship to work, change is inevitable. If you do not grow, you die. Your
00:19relationship dies. Why do women want men to change? Why do men want to stay the same? It's because she
00:24exposes your weakness. And that can be a bad thing or that can be the biggest gift you've ever been
00:29given. When your wife has high expectations, the only reason it feels like a nag and comes across
00:33as criticism is because you don't have high expectations for yourself. If she has to drag
00:38you along, you both are miserable. Men, rise up and create the standard where you want to live and
00:43connect in your relationship, even beyond what your wife wants. Drag her along for once. Read a book on
00:48communication. Do some emotional work. Become a better lover because that's what you want, not
00:53because she's pulling you to counseling sessions. Change is great. When you're hesitant to look at
00:57your stuff because she's bringing it up, that's when it doesn't become fun. So if you want to
01:01change your relationship, stop dragging your feet. Don't make her have to remind you to work on
01:05yourself. Make it your priority first, man. You'll thank me later.
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