When She Tears Up During Conflict… Don’t Walk Away

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When she tears up during conflict, she’s saying: “I need you, I need you, you matter.” But many men withdraw, making her feel abandoned. Emotional maturity means staying present and saying, “I’m not leaving you emotionally.” That’s love, not weakness.  👉 Follow for more wisdom on emotional growth and building secure, lasting love.  #EmotionalHealing #MensGrowth #HealthyRelationships #LoveWisdom #SelfGrowth  ©️ All rights and credit reserved to the respective owner(s).

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00:00During conflicts, and she starts getting watery in her eyes,

00:03are those tears saying, I need you, I need you, I need you, you matter to me,

00:07please move toward me.

00:09And see, some guys kind of get uncomfortable at that point,

00:12and so just kind of ice over.

00:15That's not the solution to this situation,

00:17but in order to melt a little bit along with her concern,

00:21you need to understand that she's normal.

00:23You didn't marry someone who's abnormal.

00:25Simply because she's not like you doesn't make her wrong.

00:29So that's why when you walk away or you stay too quiet,

00:32it can feel like emotional abandonment.

00:34You just need to understand, you can justify all day long

00:37that you're not seeking to emotionally abandon her,

00:40but why not just say, hey, I know this may appear

00:42that I'm abandoning you emotionally, but I'm not.

00:45I'm not trying to do that.

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