00:00Too many guys think they need something really interesting or funny or witty to say to start a
00:08conversation with a girl and this is used as an excuse for missing opportunities. Guys always
00:13say well I don't know what to say because they're waiting for something perfect to say. Well I'm
00:17challenging you right now. Dare to be dull. You do not need anything interesting to say to a woman
00:22to start a conversation. That is just insecurity speaking. Women are like AI machines that need
00:27some kind of special code word to start a conversation in the proper way. Of course
00:31there are good ways and less good ways to start conversations but the only way you're going to
00:35know is that when you try. And really you can start a conversation with almost any kind of comment.
00:39It's going to come down to more the way you say it than anything else. And it could be completely dull
00:43and mundane and very basic or average whatever. It doesn't matter. You've got to open your mouth
00:48and talk to her. And after 11 years of coaching I know that some things definitely work better than
00:52others but usually it comes back to how the guy is saying it. If he's full of energy and he's
00:56enthusiastic, has a smile, he can say the most boring thing and spark a conversation and interest.
01:01And that practice is not going to happen while you're still thinking about the perfect thing to
01:04say. So dare to be dull, say something instead of nothing and learn the ropes of starting conversations
01:09with attractive women. So start experimenting and start facing the rejection you've been avoiding for
01:14so long so you can start reaping the rewards. But if you're not willing to take any risk at all then
01:18you need to stop complaining about not getting dates. That's all for today. Until next time conquer and win.
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