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00:09:51C'est une chose qui est très bien.
00:09:54Donc, maintenant,
00:09:56à quelque chose qui est très bien avec Vanessa,
00:09:59c'est quelque chose qui est...
00:10:04...intrigue.
00:10:06All right, c'était fun.
00:10:07All right, c'est bon.
00:10:08OK.
00:10:14Hey, boys, comment ça va ?
00:10:16C'est bon.
00:10:16C'est bon, c'est bon.
00:10:18Je vois que vous étiez avec Jolene un peu.
00:10:21C'est bon.
00:10:22C'est bon.
00:10:23Oh, man, c'est juste増é.
00:10:26Tout est bon et c'est juste, comme,
00:10:28c'est amplifié.
00:10:30Nous savons ce que nous avons,
00:10:31et la connection est juste, comme...
00:10:33C'est bon.
00:10:34C'est bon.
00:10:35Je pense qu'elle est plus jeune que moi.
00:10:37Je suis plus jeune que moi.
00:10:39Je ne sais pas.
00:10:41Elle a très bon skin.
00:10:42C'est bon.
00:10:44C'est bon.
00:10:44C'est bon.
00:10:45C'est bon.
00:10:47C'est bon.
00:10:49Il est juste, c'est bon.
00:10:49C'est bon.
00:10:50C'est comme...
00:10:53... de la bande de la personne.
00:10:56Je ne pas que ça.
00:10:57C'est pas une personne que je pense que je suis en un relation
00:11:00...
00:11:01...
00:11:01...
00:11:02Je suis toujours dans ma partenaire de l'honneur,
00:11:05donc je suis essayé de trouver un bon partenaire pour vivre avec,
00:11:09parce que c'est ce que c'est ce que c'est.
00:11:11Je pense que c'est le Promets room et tout ça,
00:11:13je suis le type qui est, comme, le lover boy.
00:11:16Je veux voir ce que je veux.
00:11:17Je veux voir ce que je veux.
00:11:18Je veux voir ce que je veux.
00:11:20Et je suis prêt à aller yesterday.
00:11:31J'ai été prêt à aller au Promets room avec Jolene
00:11:34depuis la première fois que j'ai mis yeux sur elle.
00:11:37Jolene, je suis Jolene.
00:11:38West.
00:11:39C'est corny et cheezy, mais c'est vrai.
00:11:43Je suis un homme assez facilement et j'ai vécu avec une femme que j'ai rencontré,
00:11:48donc je comprends les do's et les don'ts.
00:11:51Je vais prendre ça pour vous.
00:11:52Merci, c'est très sweet.
00:11:56Comment est-ce que votre belle, ça fonctionne ?
00:11:59Oh, c'est ça que ça marche !
00:12:01Vous avez pas une belle sur votre bike ?
00:12:02Je suis mis en train de faire.
00:12:07Je pense que nous sommes totalement sur la même page
00:12:09avec ce que nous voulons et ce que nous voulons faire.
00:12:11Je veux juste que j'ai plus de temps avec elle.
00:12:12C'est ce qui fait me sentir bien et c'est ce que je veux être.
00:12:22Je suis venu ici pour trouver l'amour dans un environnement d'âge,
00:12:27c'est surtout pour les paramètres que j'ai posé autour de la rencontre,
00:12:32et pour concentrer sur la connaissance de la personne.
00:12:35Mais c'est un peu de problème avec moi.
00:12:37Quand je fais un commitment, je veux que ça se sentait bien.
00:12:41Et la prochaine phase pour Wes et moi
00:12:44ça signifie que nous devons vivre ensemble,
00:12:46se réveiller ensemble.
00:12:49Donc, il y a beaucoup de choses pour moi à penser.
00:12:53On est un peu plus proche pour nous penser.
00:13:07On est un peu plus proche pour les autres crawl business.
00:13:08Oh, mon Dieu.
00:13:10On est un peu plus proche pour nous.
00:13:14Je suis suis venu d'abord.
00:13:15Merci pour vous présenter.
00:13:16Bien, merci pour vous inviterz uh,
00:13:20I kind of think it's undeniable
00:13:21The connection we had in the beginning
00:13:23Like pretty much right when I sat down with you
00:13:25And looked at you
00:13:27I kind of wanted to say that
00:13:28I was just so dead set on you from the beginning
00:13:31I was just like so into
00:13:33Your vibe and everything
00:13:35And how you look and all of that
00:13:37How you carry yourself
00:13:38That I didn't really see any of the girls as an option
00:13:42I think you're
00:13:43Such a young spiritual heart and soul
00:13:46That I want to
00:13:47Continue this journey with you
00:13:49I definitely want to let you know
00:13:51That I care a lot about you
00:13:53I care about you too
00:13:55Yeah, thank you
00:13:56I just feel like our time together
00:13:58Has been so good
00:14:00And it's only getting better
00:14:01And it can only be so great moving forward
00:14:05So I was wondering if you wanted to
00:14:08Accept the promise
00:14:09And
00:14:11Continue on with me in this journey
00:14:20I think that our connection was really
00:14:23It is really strong
00:14:25But
00:14:29No, I'm not ready to like make
00:14:32The commitment of moving in
00:14:35And living together right now
00:14:41I think that you're much younger than me
00:14:43And that shouldn't matter
00:14:44But
00:14:44I think that you're much younger than me
00:14:46And that
00:14:47Maybe you have some growing to do
00:14:50For us to like work on
00:14:52Like taking that next step in a relationship
00:14:57Moving in together
00:14:59Do I have a chance to persuade you right now
00:15:01Or is that your decision?
00:15:02What's your persuasion?
00:15:06I think that
00:15:07The time we spent together
00:15:09Is just so easy
00:15:10And it flows
00:15:11Yeah
00:15:12That I felt moving in with each other
00:15:14Would just continue that
00:15:16So
00:15:16I agree
00:15:17It wouldn't have to be serious
00:15:18Well, it is serious though
00:15:20See, that's
00:15:20That's what I mean
00:15:22Like as far as
00:15:24You know, maybe growing
00:15:26And understanding that
00:15:28That next step
00:15:29Is
00:15:30Not just for fun
00:15:32You know
00:15:33Um
00:15:34Okay, I'll put this back down then
00:15:36You have pieces of you
00:15:38That are so mature
00:15:39But
00:15:39I just
00:15:41Think that we shouldn't
00:15:42Make that commitment
00:15:43Right now
00:15:46I am mature
00:15:47I mean, I am
00:15:48You know
00:15:49Serious
00:15:49How old are you?
00:15:52I'm 30
00:15:54Oh
00:15:54So
00:15:55I knew you
00:15:56You might think that I was like 25 or something
00:15:58Yeah
00:15:59Exactly
00:15:59I know
00:16:00I get that
00:16:00But
00:16:01As I said before
00:16:02I'm a little older than you thought
00:16:04A little
00:16:07Yeah
00:16:08Okay, so
00:16:09Are you going to tell me how old you are?
00:16:11Or are you going to keep that a secret?
00:16:12Oh, yeah
00:16:13So I'm 48
00:16:16Did you guess that?
00:16:18How old would I?
00:16:19I never
00:16:22I can't really believe that either?
00:16:27I think you say 48
00:16:29But I
00:16:30I barely see 38
00:16:31You know
00:16:32It's like insane
00:16:34What?
00:16:35Yeah
00:16:35No
00:16:36It's okay
00:16:36Oh, come here
00:16:38Thank you
00:16:40Thanks for meeting me here
00:16:42I'm glad you didn't just say like
00:16:43No, you didn't want to do it
00:16:44So
00:16:45Oh, no
00:16:45Of course
00:16:46Of course I wanted to
00:16:47Appreciate it
00:17:16Bet you never saw the end
00:17:18I feel like she just didn't take me seriously enough
00:17:20And broke up with me
00:17:22Before we even started
00:17:25Something I learned from this
00:17:26The age is a thing
00:17:28But it's not everything for me
00:17:33In making the decision not to move forward
00:17:36I just feel bad that
00:17:38You know, I'm letting him down
00:17:40But
00:17:41I think he has to think of the bigger picture
00:17:43I'm so much older than him
00:17:45I've been married, divorced
00:17:47I have two kids
00:17:49And I know that marriage
00:17:50Isn't always going to be
00:17:53Fun
00:17:55I'm looking for someone that isn't
00:17:57Only just trying
00:18:00To have like good times
00:18:02I want someone in it for the long haul
00:18:04And ultimately
00:18:05I think age
00:18:07Can be a parameter that you let go of
00:18:09If there are life experiences
00:18:11That
00:18:12Both people have gone through
00:18:14That
00:18:15Kind of complement each other
00:18:16Bet you never saw the end
00:18:20How else to best be friends
00:18:23It's definitely a dent
00:18:24In the armor
00:18:25But
00:18:26As we learned
00:18:27And you know
00:18:27She's
00:18:2818 years older than me
00:18:29So
00:18:30She has
00:18:31Lived a lot more life than I have
00:18:39It is a shocker
00:18:40It is crazy
00:18:46But hey
00:18:46What am I going to do about it
00:18:47You know
00:19:06So in your case
00:19:07How's the connection
00:19:08With Fiverr?
00:19:09Yeah
00:19:09It's good
00:19:10Like I trust it
00:19:11You know what I mean
00:19:11I think it's great
00:19:13Like I've opened up
00:19:14About things that are
00:19:15Dear to me
00:19:16That I wouldn't share
00:19:17With someone
00:19:18That I'm just
00:19:19You know
00:19:20Dating
00:19:20Or I'm just hanging out with
00:19:22Like these are things
00:19:23That are dear to me
00:19:24This is who I am
00:19:25As a person
00:19:54If you can accept those things
00:19:56That's where I'm at
00:19:56Do I feel comfortable
00:19:57Going in there
00:20:00I feel like I am
00:20:01But why am I being so hesitant
00:20:03That's what's scaring me
00:20:03Right
00:20:04If you go through that process
00:20:06Right
00:20:07Age is disclosed
00:20:08All of that
00:20:08You move in with somebody
00:20:09Then damn
00:20:10You got something
00:20:11You can look at it
00:20:11Like okay
00:20:12It's kind of like
00:20:12We've been dating for like a year
00:20:13A thousand percent
00:20:15If we made it through
00:20:15This whole process
00:20:16You know what I mean
00:20:17So
00:20:18I'm very proud of myself
00:20:20For allowing myself
00:20:21To be vulnerable
00:20:23To someone else
00:20:24Because my parents' relationship
00:20:26Definitely
00:20:26Has had a lasting effect on me
00:20:29They actually split
00:20:31When my mom was
00:20:32Eight months pregnant with me
00:20:34Essentially the only room
00:20:35We've been in together
00:20:36Is a courtroom
00:20:37I would say
00:20:39I have the most amazing relationship
00:20:41With my mom now
00:20:42You know
00:20:43And that's been great
00:20:46With that being said
00:20:48For me
00:20:58Give me a second
00:21:02I think that I probably
00:21:04Haven't been as open
00:21:05You know
00:21:06That was how I dealt with
00:21:07Disappointment
00:21:07Was to
00:21:09Close it off
00:21:12So it was like
00:21:13I have to
00:21:13Open myself up
00:21:14You know
00:21:15If I truly want to
00:21:17Have a partner
00:21:19That
00:21:19Truly understands
00:21:20All of me
00:21:22That's what you want
00:21:23To get to
00:21:23In a relationship
00:21:24Because you don't ever
00:21:25Want to feel like
00:21:25You're putting on
00:21:26You know what I mean
00:21:261000%
00:21:35So who do you talk to
00:21:36So far
00:21:36So we went on
00:21:37A group date
00:21:38And I hung out
00:21:39With Chris a little bit
00:21:41We had fun
00:21:42But I didn't feel
00:21:43Like it was
00:21:44Something I could
00:21:45Keep going
00:21:46For longevity
00:21:48So how about you
00:21:49What makes this
00:21:50Timing now
00:21:51Like right for you
00:21:52Um
00:21:53Like my last
00:21:54Serious relationship
00:21:55Was three years
00:21:56And the last year
00:21:57Realistically
00:21:58It's just been
00:21:59I was like
00:21:59You know what
00:22:00Like kind of
00:22:01Focus on like
00:22:02Myself and my career
00:22:03It's kind of hard
00:22:04To like
00:22:05Focus on
00:22:06You know
00:22:06A lot of things
00:22:07At the same time
00:22:07So yeah
00:22:08I've kind of
00:22:08Put dating
00:22:09On the back burner
00:22:10A little bit
00:22:10In the last year
00:22:11What about you
00:22:11Um
00:22:12Yeah so I have
00:22:13Been single for
00:22:14Four years
00:22:14Actually
00:22:15Yeah
00:22:15So I just
00:22:17Kind of went
00:22:18I kept having
00:22:19Like toxic relationships
00:22:21Really
00:22:21You know
00:22:21And like the last
00:22:22One was like
00:22:23Super toxic
00:22:23I was actually
00:22:24Engaged
00:22:26Yeah
00:22:26And it didn't
00:22:27Work out
00:22:28And so
00:22:28I ended up
00:22:30Um
00:22:30Like
00:22:31I really wanted
00:22:32To like explore
00:22:32And be like
00:22:33Why am I picking
00:22:34People that are
00:22:35Not healthy for me
00:22:36So did you
00:22:36Wait so you never
00:22:37Got married
00:22:37No I've never
00:22:38Been married
00:22:39Have you been married
00:22:39No I've not
00:22:40No I haven't
00:22:41So yeah
00:22:41So never married
00:22:42No kids right
00:22:43Um well I have
00:22:44One kid
00:22:45Okay
00:22:46I was 18 years old
00:22:47And I was very young
00:22:48And you know
00:22:50He wanted to go party
00:22:52And I was like
00:22:53I'm at home
00:22:54With a baby
00:22:55Like that's not
00:22:56Going to work out
00:22:57You know
00:22:57This is how
00:22:58You were engaged
00:22:58So I've been engaged
00:23:00Twice
00:23:00Okay
00:23:00So that was
00:23:01The other one
00:23:01Well actually no
00:23:03I've been engaged
00:23:03A few times
00:23:04I've been engaged
00:23:05Girl you're
00:23:06Collecting rings
00:23:07Like J-Lo
00:23:08So actually
00:23:08I've been engaged
00:23:09Four times
00:23:10I have as many
00:23:11Four
00:23:11Whoa
00:23:12I've had as many
00:23:13Rings as LeBron James
00:23:14I was about to say
00:23:15That's LeBron
00:23:15So I'm telling you
00:23:16My relationship
00:23:16So not quite Kobe
00:23:17But you're a LeBron
00:23:18Kobe
00:23:18Let me
00:23:19Go ahead
00:23:20Let's have a sip
00:23:21Let's have a sip
00:23:22Let's have a sip
00:23:23Let me
00:23:23Yeah
00:23:25Cheers
00:23:25And I'm sure you want to share
00:23:26Okay
00:23:27Yeah
00:23:27And I'm breaking down these walls
00:23:43Before I came here
00:23:46I was feeling a bit closed off to love
00:23:50And I used to think someone younger
00:23:52Wouldn't be able to understand
00:23:53The responsibilities that you have
00:23:56As a single father
00:23:58But then I met Pfeiffer
00:24:02When I look at Pfeiffer
00:24:04I feel at peace
00:24:06Like in a happy state
00:24:08I just love being around her
00:24:12I want to take Pfeiffer to the promise room
00:24:14Because I want to continue our journey
00:24:16I don't want it to end here
00:24:19I'm feeling some nerves
00:24:21Knowing that I'm moments away
00:24:23From revealing my age to Pfeiffer
00:24:26I'm trying not to love you so much
00:24:30But what's stronger for me
00:24:32Is definitely the hope of love
00:24:38The promise room to me means commitment
00:24:40And it means acceptance
00:24:43I'm very confident in who Derek is as a person
00:24:46And so I'm hoping he can accept me
00:24:48For what he knows now
00:24:49Regardless of my younger age
00:24:52This whole time truly
00:24:54I have not thought about his age
00:24:55A single time
00:24:57And getting to know Derek more
00:24:59Has only confirmed
00:25:00That we have a connection
00:25:02Really he just gives me space
00:25:04To be myself
00:25:06I mean there's like nothing more
00:25:08That you could want really
00:25:09Like I do feel
00:25:11Oh my god sorry
00:25:14Sorry
00:25:21I've had some bad relationships
00:25:26And it took a lot
00:25:27For me to
00:25:31Like accept
00:25:33That
00:25:34And like come into my own person
00:25:37So being around somebody
00:25:39Who
00:25:40Is so the opposite of that
00:25:42Is like
00:25:44It's something that I didn't think
00:25:46That I would find so soon
00:25:50It feels like too good to be true
00:25:52I think
00:25:53I'll try anything
00:25:56Not to love you so much
00:26:01I'm trying
00:26:05Hi
00:26:06Hi
00:26:07How are you?
00:26:08I'm good
00:26:14A little stressful?
00:26:16Yeah
00:26:16It's a little bit nerve wracking
00:26:18This whole situation
00:26:20This whole process
00:26:21Yeah
00:26:23So much alliance for us
00:26:24Like it's been crazy
00:26:26Yeah that's true
00:26:26You know
00:26:27And like literally from the jump
00:26:29Like we said
00:26:29Like from our speed day
00:26:31Like it just felt comfortable
00:26:32With us
00:26:33Like I love that
00:26:34Obviously I was extremely
00:26:35Attracted to you
00:26:38Thanks
00:26:38You're beautiful
00:26:39Like obviously you understanding
00:26:41Being raised by your dad
00:26:42Me being a father
00:26:43Right
00:26:43You understand all that
00:26:45Family being big
00:26:46Clearly it's big to me
00:26:47And knowing that that's big to you
00:26:50And me being willing to obviously add
00:26:52To the family as well
00:26:53Whatever differences
00:26:54Challenges
00:26:56All those things
00:26:57I feel like we could definitely
00:26:58Get through it together
00:26:59No I totally agree
00:27:01Yeah
00:27:02Coming here
00:27:03I never would have thought
00:27:04That I would have found a connection
00:27:06A like great connection
00:27:08My past relationships
00:27:10Have definitely been rough
00:27:13I would say
00:27:13And so being around someone like you
00:27:16Is like refreshing
00:27:19It's nice to be treated well
00:27:23Even if it's someone you don't know
00:27:25For very long
00:27:30And it's like it's
00:27:31I have a really hard time
00:27:35Opening up to people
00:27:38Just based on
00:27:40My past
00:27:41You know
00:27:42But being able to
00:27:45Meet you
00:27:46And
00:27:47Like talk about
00:27:49What we've talked about
00:27:50So easily
00:27:52Obviously we haven't
00:27:53Known each other for very long
00:27:57But it feels like
00:27:58I've known you for a long time
00:27:59Or longer than I have
00:28:00Which is
00:28:01I don't know
00:28:02I didn't think that that would happen
00:28:04So it's nice
00:28:05Yeah
00:28:06Sorry
00:28:07You're good
00:28:07You're good
00:28:08Yeah I don't know
00:28:09It's been great
00:28:09It's been great
00:28:10And
00:28:12Yeah
00:28:13Anyway
00:28:15I'm looking forward to the next step
00:28:17I know I can't wait
00:28:18I want to keep going
00:28:19Yeah me too
00:28:20Obviously
00:28:21Let's keep going
00:28:22Let's rock out
00:28:25This is my promise to you
00:28:27My commitment to obviously
00:28:28Continuing down the path that we're on
00:28:31Continue to get to know
00:28:32And grow with you
00:28:33I'm loving every part of it so far
00:28:35I know it's only going to continue to get better
00:28:37Even with you just opening up like that
00:28:39Like that just solidifies to me
00:28:41Honestly
00:28:42What your heart is
00:28:43It's a heart of gold
00:28:44It means the world
00:28:45Thank you
00:28:46Absolutely
00:28:53I've really had no hesitations and no doubts
00:28:56At all
00:28:56There's no one else here that I would ever want to
00:28:59Put over here
00:29:01Can be my family
00:29:02Um yeah
00:29:03Thank you
00:29:04Of course
00:29:07Now we're ready to move on
00:29:08Oh my god
00:29:10To the next stage
00:29:11And so I'll um
00:29:13First I'll start with my voice
00:29:15Right
00:29:15Um so
00:29:16Dominic is 5
00:29:18And Carter's 15
00:29:20Okay
00:29:22And I'm 43
00:29:24Okay
00:29:29That's older than I thought
00:29:30But I don't really
00:29:31I don't care
00:29:32I don't
00:29:32I've never really thought about it
00:29:34You're a turn
00:29:35I haven't either
00:29:36Okay good
00:29:37Um
00:29:39Yeah
00:29:39I mean do you have any
00:29:41Do you want to
00:29:41Do you have any guesses
00:29:43Mid-20s
00:29:44Like we're all my guesses
00:29:45Okay
00:29:45I'm 23
00:29:4923
00:29:49Okay
00:29:51Alright
00:29:52I have no problem with it
00:29:54I know you
00:29:54The connections are with you
00:29:56So
00:29:56It's shocking
00:29:57Because
00:29:58I think more so like
00:29:59It's about experiences
00:30:01Right
00:30:01And obviously you've had life experiences
00:30:03And that
00:30:04Supersedes
00:30:04Just age
00:30:05For me so
00:30:06I'm excited
00:30:08Me too
00:30:09Me too
00:30:12Can I have a kiss
00:30:13Yeah we can
00:30:32I'm happy
00:30:33Hmm
00:30:34I'm happy
00:30:35I'm happy
00:30:35Oh my god
00:30:36I'm blessed
00:30:38I'm blessed
00:30:39I'm blessed
00:30:40I would have never thought
00:30:43That I would connect like this
00:30:45With somebody who is nearly double my age
00:30:47It's kind of unbelievable
00:30:48How quickly we were able to connect
00:30:50And truly how accepting
00:30:52He is of me
00:30:53Of my age
00:30:54Of my story
00:30:54Of my emotions
00:30:55Of everything
00:30:56That isn't to say
00:30:57That I'm totally fearless
00:30:58With no anxiety
00:31:00But at the end of the day
00:31:01I got to know Derek
00:31:02Based on who he is
00:31:03Like I got to know Derek
00:31:04Not Derek the 43 year old
00:31:0820 years
00:31:09When you first say it
00:31:09It's like wow
00:31:10A 20 year age gap
00:31:12There will obviously be challenges
00:31:13But that's a part of it
00:31:14That's a part of the growth
00:31:16Obviously we're starting
00:31:17The next phase
00:31:18But the overall objective
00:31:20Is to create a family together
00:31:23Create a home together
00:31:25And all those things
00:31:25So I think the next phase
00:31:26Will give us like a snapshot
00:31:27Into what that'll look like
00:31:30And then we'll go from there
00:31:50I appreciate you holding the umbrella
00:31:52I got you girl
00:31:53Yeah
00:31:53I like that
00:31:55I like that
00:31:55Thank you
00:31:57So far my strongest connection
00:31:59Has been with Logan
00:32:00He just seems very caring
00:32:02And supportive
00:32:04And affectionate
00:32:06And it's really what I like
00:32:09And it's really what I needed
00:32:10Yeah
00:32:10Yeah
00:32:11I want to know that he is somebody
00:32:14That wants to like
00:32:15Build something together
00:32:16And yeah
00:32:18I could see some potential here
00:32:20I hope I didn't scare you away
00:32:22With telling you about my history
00:32:25I was trying not to do the mental math
00:32:27Okay
00:32:27Yeah
00:32:28Like the four rings
00:32:29Yeah
00:32:29This was like
00:32:30Four years, four rings
00:32:32Yeah
00:32:33Yeah
00:32:33So this is hard
00:32:34But
00:32:35Yeah
00:32:35So I don't know
00:32:39Yeah
00:32:39Yeah
00:32:39No I mean
00:32:40One of those things where I just
00:32:41I'm still trying to
00:32:43I don't know
00:32:43Figure
00:32:43Yeah
00:32:44Figure it all out
00:32:45Yeah
00:32:45I don't think
00:32:47Are you afraid of like
00:32:48Outside judgment?
00:32:49Is that something that concerns you?
00:32:51I don't know
00:32:51I mean I'm just
00:32:51Yeah
00:32:52What do you think?
00:32:53Like uh
00:32:54I don't know
00:32:54How do you feel about
00:32:55I mean because like
00:32:57There's obviously a visible
00:32:58Age gap
00:33:00Yeah
00:33:00I mean I
00:33:01You know
00:33:02Geez thanks
00:33:02No I mean
00:33:03Do you think people are going to
00:33:05Think I'm your mom?
00:33:06No I mean
00:33:07I'm just saying
00:33:07I mean
00:33:08It's not
00:33:09You know
00:33:10Like what do you feel?
00:33:14Yeah that was a little insulting
00:33:15Him saying these things
00:33:17Are just raising all the red flags
00:33:20He doesn't know how old I am
00:33:22I don't know how old he is
00:33:23But
00:33:24I'm starting to see
00:33:25You know
00:33:25Some of the immaturity
00:33:29So I'm definitely in a dilemma
00:33:31When it comes to Vanessa
00:33:32Like I like her a lot
00:33:34I feel a strong connection
00:33:36She's
00:33:36Super energetic
00:33:38She's
00:33:39Friendly
00:33:39She's so easy to talk to
00:33:41She has the same interest
00:33:42But you know
00:33:43When people are older
00:33:44Have more life experience
00:33:46They have things
00:33:47That come with them
00:33:48There's
00:33:49More than just
00:33:50An age difference
00:34:00At the end of the day
00:34:03I want to say
00:34:04That I tried
00:34:06I want to know
00:34:07That I faced it
00:34:09With my head held high
00:34:11I'm taking Chris
00:34:12To go to the promise room
00:34:13With me
00:34:14Because I love
00:34:15Who he is as a person
00:34:17He makes me feel seen
00:34:18And he chooses me
00:34:20I got you though
00:34:21Thank you
00:34:23I got you though
00:34:24I got you though
00:34:25And that's what I've been wanting
00:34:27And missing
00:34:30I came here to find my person
00:34:32And you know
00:34:34I'm hoping he's my person
00:34:36We're on the same page
00:34:38With almost everything
00:34:39We've discussed
00:34:40Which is kind of rare
00:34:41You ready to settle down
00:34:43Get married
00:34:44And have some kids
00:34:44I'm very ready
00:34:45I don't want to waste time
00:34:48I want my happily ever after
00:34:50You look hot
00:34:51Ditto
00:34:52Will you marry me?
00:34:58It's very important
00:34:59That Chris accepts me
00:35:01For me
00:35:02Including my age
00:35:04All of it
00:35:05I just want him
00:35:06To see me for me
00:35:07I mean I can't change
00:35:08My birth year
00:35:09You know
00:35:10It's a little scary
00:35:12And like what if he does
00:35:14Act different
00:35:15When I do tell him
00:35:16My real age
00:35:17I'm afraid of that
00:35:22Looking back
00:35:22At the beginning
00:35:23Of this process
00:35:24And my relationship
00:35:25With Vanessa
00:35:26I am so happy
00:35:28To have had that experience
00:35:29I feel like
00:35:29If I didn't have
00:35:30That moment
00:35:30With Vanessa
00:35:31I wouldn't have
00:35:31Understand how important
00:35:32My relationship
00:35:33With Leah is
00:35:36I want her to know
00:35:37My family
00:35:39My brother
00:35:40My dog
00:35:41All these things
00:35:42And that's something
00:35:44That I've never felt before
00:35:45I'm nervous
00:35:46I'm super nervous
00:35:46For this
00:35:47There's no question about it
00:36:02You look beautiful
00:36:07You look amazing
00:36:18I'm so happy
00:36:19You were here
00:36:19Me too
00:36:22You are genuine
00:36:24Kind
00:36:25Empathetic
00:36:26Consistent
00:36:27And you're fun
00:36:28To be around
00:36:29And that's all
00:36:30The qualities
00:36:31That I'm looking for
00:36:31In my future
00:36:32Partner
00:36:34Wow
00:36:36Don't make me cry
00:36:37No I'm sorry babe
00:36:39I know
00:36:39In general
00:36:41I struggle with
00:36:41Sharing and being emotional
00:36:43Because I know
00:36:44That it leads to connections
00:36:45And connections
00:36:46Leads to hurt
00:36:47Yes
00:36:47But you know
00:36:48It's led me here
00:36:49It's led me to
00:36:52Sit in front of somebody
00:36:53That I could see myself
00:36:54Building a long term
00:36:56Connection with
00:36:56And I can't wait
00:36:57To get to know more
00:36:58So excited
00:37:00Likewise
00:37:07Okay let's see
00:37:10I commit to you babe
00:37:12I choose you
00:37:14And I see you
00:37:16And I want to be with you
00:37:18That's beautiful
00:37:20Look at this cute little ring
00:37:21Is this going to fit?
00:37:22Yes it is
00:37:24This is cool huh?
00:37:27The rings do look pretty
00:37:28They look pretty cool
00:37:30It matches your
00:37:31I know
00:37:32Who would have thought?
00:37:35Ooh are you nervous?
00:37:37A little bit
00:37:39Cause you know
00:37:40I'm going to ask your age
00:37:41Mine first?
00:37:43Yeah
00:37:45You have to go first
00:37:49Now?
00:37:50Uh huh
00:37:52Okay
00:37:53I am 26
00:37:55Years old
00:37:56I knew it
00:37:59I've never dated
00:38:00A 26 year old
00:38:02You were chirping me out
00:38:04When can I ask you?
00:38:05Can I ask you now?
00:38:06Okay
00:38:12What if I said
00:38:12I was 41?
00:38:15Nah
00:38:18Are you really?
00:38:19I am
00:38:20Wow
00:38:21Um
00:38:22I'm shocked
00:38:23I knew
00:38:24I figured
00:38:24I knew you thought
00:38:25I was at least mid 30s
00:38:26Yeah
00:38:26I was going to say
00:38:2836 maximum
00:38:28And then like
00:38:29Yeah
00:38:29And then like
00:38:29I thought
00:38:30Okay
00:38:31First I thought
00:38:3130, 31, 32
00:38:33And then I started
00:38:33And then I was like
00:38:34Okay she's a decade older
00:38:3536
00:38:35I was not going to say
00:38:37Older than that
00:38:39So you're happy
00:38:41I'm happy
00:38:41Me too
00:38:42Um
00:38:43I'm a little bit nervous
00:38:44But it's a good nervous
00:38:45I've never been able to
00:38:46Open up to somebody
00:38:47As much as I have with you
00:38:49Agreed
00:38:49No matter what
00:38:50Let's just commit
00:38:52To being 100% ourselves
00:38:54I love it
00:38:55Throughout this next process
00:38:56I've never lived with anybody
00:38:58You've never lived with anybody
00:38:59This is
00:38:59Going to be a journey
00:39:01It is
00:39:01A good journey
00:39:03I'm excited for this
00:39:04Yeah
00:39:04I mean
00:39:05It's going to be a good journey
00:39:08You ready?
00:39:08Uh-huh
00:39:10Let's do it
00:39:12Let's do it
00:39:13Give me a kiss
00:39:17Don't kiss my forehead
00:39:19I have to
00:39:29I knew there was an age gap
00:39:30I didn't think it was going to be that big
00:39:3215 years
00:39:33Bigger than I expected
00:39:34But I am
00:39:35I'm so excited
00:39:36To get to know more about Liam
00:39:41It was nerve-wracking
00:39:42For me to tell Chris
00:39:43My real age
00:39:44I didn't know how he'd react
00:39:45There was definitely a fear
00:39:47Of him
00:39:48Being like
00:39:48Oh no
00:39:49You're too old
00:39:49For me
00:39:51I would be lying
00:39:52To say that
00:39:52There's no hesitation
00:39:53About moving in
00:39:54With each other
00:39:55These next few weeks
00:39:57Will determine
00:39:58The rest of my life
00:39:59Possibly
00:40:20Our time here is like
00:40:22Coming to an end soon
00:40:24Right
00:40:24And I feel like
00:40:26We don't really have
00:40:27Any clarification
00:40:28Like where we stand
00:40:29So that's what I was hoping
00:40:30To talk about today
00:40:31Yeah, absolutely
00:40:32And I want
00:40:34To get some things
00:40:35Off my chest as well
00:40:36Okay, good
00:40:37Good
00:40:37That's what I was hoping
00:40:38Vanessa is definitely
00:40:39The strongest connection
00:40:40That I've made
00:40:40But when I brought up
00:40:42The age the other day
00:40:42You know, obviously
00:40:43I messed up
00:40:44I shouldn't have said that
00:40:45We're here on this retreat
00:40:46Not to worry about that
00:40:48I remember saying
00:40:49You know, we'll talk again
00:40:50And we kind of didn't
00:40:52And that's when
00:40:53I kind of had this
00:40:55You know, realization
00:40:56That I need to
00:40:57Actually try
00:40:58With Vanessa
00:41:00And she's somebody
00:41:01That I really care about
00:41:03You know, sometimes
00:41:04You either run
00:41:05Or you stay
00:41:06And that's when
00:41:07I told myself
00:41:08I want to stay
00:41:09After we had that talk
00:41:11Like I feel like
00:41:12I kind of shot myself
00:41:13Look for her
00:41:14Yeah
00:41:14And so from that point forward
00:41:16It's like
00:41:17Well, she's still into me
00:41:18Is she not
00:41:19Like do you still feel this?
00:41:20Do you want to talk
00:41:21To other people?
00:41:21Which is fine if you do
00:41:22Yeah
00:41:23But like I'm still
00:41:24Like trying to get a read
00:41:25Yeah
00:41:25It's been very difficult for me
00:41:27Yeah
00:41:27I just feel like
00:41:29Yeah, you've been
00:41:30My strongest connection here
00:41:31Right
00:41:31You know what I mean?
00:41:33But like
00:41:33Do you feel confident enough
00:41:35To like
00:41:35Make this grow?
00:41:37Is this age thing
00:41:38Going to really bother you?
00:41:40You know?
00:41:40And like
00:41:41How do we know
00:41:42Unless we try?
00:41:43Right
00:41:44But like
00:41:44Do you want to try?
00:41:45Or do you feel
00:41:46Is there still something
00:41:47Holding you back?
00:41:48You know?
00:41:49Yeah
00:41:49I mean
00:41:49At this point
00:41:50I think I was in my head
00:41:51About it obviously
00:41:52But to be honest
00:41:54I don't think there's anything
00:41:54Holding me back
00:41:55From at least making
00:41:56An attempt
00:41:57Yeah
00:41:57So I feel like
00:41:59I want to
00:42:01Kind of take a step back
00:42:03And give you
00:42:04Kind of like
00:42:05The real me
00:42:05Right
00:42:06He's taking
00:42:07Accountability for his actions
00:42:09And that really means a lot
00:42:10And now
00:42:11It's like
00:42:11Moving forward
00:42:12I need to see
00:42:13If actions are going to
00:42:14Line up with words
00:42:16As far as the promise room
00:42:17I feel like
00:42:18I need him
00:42:20To be that person
00:42:21To make that decision
00:42:22So
00:42:23It lies in his hands
00:42:26I'm gonna
00:42:27Put in the effort
00:42:28To
00:42:28Man up
00:42:29And
00:42:30You know
00:42:31Be the person
00:42:32That I feel I am
00:42:33And that's
00:42:34With Vanessa
00:42:44When I look at Vanessa
00:42:47I feel excitement
00:42:48There's a part of me
00:42:50That just wants to know
00:42:51What else is there
00:42:52To this woman
00:42:53That I'm already
00:42:54So attracted to
00:42:55So intrigued by
00:42:58Vanessa and I
00:42:59Have had a rocky road
00:43:00But
00:43:02She makes me
00:43:03Want to commit
00:43:04And that's a good sign
00:43:06Now
00:43:07We're going to
00:43:08Reveal our ages
00:43:12It'll
00:43:12It'll be interesting
00:43:20I came here
00:43:21Without putting
00:43:22Parameters on age
00:43:23To try to find love
00:43:24In an ageless environment
00:43:26And
00:43:27I want
00:43:28Someone to share
00:43:29Holidays with
00:43:30And milestones with
00:43:31I'm tired of being
00:43:32The only one in my family
00:43:33That's single
00:43:34My sisters are married
00:43:36My daughter's married
00:43:37I mean
00:43:37I'm just kind of
00:43:38The black sheep
00:43:39I don't want to go
00:43:40Into the last years
00:43:42Of my life alone
00:43:49I know age is a concern
00:43:50For Logan
00:43:51So
00:43:52I'm a little worried
00:43:53Logan might see me
00:43:54Differently
00:43:54When he knows my age
00:43:57I just don't know
00:43:58What to expect right now
00:43:59I won't have to wait
00:44:05For someday
00:44:10Hi
00:44:11Hey gorgeous
00:44:13How are you?
00:44:14Good
00:44:15Good
00:44:15Have a seat
00:44:17You look nice
00:44:18You look hotter and hotter
00:44:20Every single day
00:44:20I swear to God
00:44:21Thank you
00:44:22How you feeling?
00:44:24Good
00:44:24You look absolutely stunning
00:44:26Thank you
00:44:28Dating for me
00:44:30It's been
00:44:31There's been some ups and downs
00:44:33Obviously
00:44:33As you've known
00:44:34And
00:44:35I chose to go here
00:44:37Get on this retreat
00:44:39Because I wanted to
00:44:40Just
00:44:41Leave the outside world
00:44:43To come here
00:44:43And find that special connection
00:44:46And I think I was so concerned
00:44:49With
00:44:51Finding
00:44:51Finding this connection
00:44:53Right
00:44:53Finding the right one
00:44:55I didn't take the time
00:44:56To appreciate
00:44:57I was right in front of me
00:44:59And that's this Midwestern girl
00:45:02This amazing woman
00:45:04And
00:45:05That's why I'm here
00:45:06And that's why
00:45:07I invited you here
00:45:10I appreciate that
00:45:12I mentioned the other day
00:45:14Like I lost my mom
00:45:15Like
00:45:15Less than a year ago
00:45:17And I was just in a really dark place
00:45:18And I
00:45:20Realized like
00:45:20It's time for me
00:45:21To settle down
00:45:22And find my person
00:45:23You know
00:45:24Watching my dad be there
00:45:25For my mom
00:45:26Like to the end
00:45:27Like
00:45:27It really meant a lot
00:45:28And that's like
00:45:30Something that I wanted to find
00:45:31So I came here
00:45:33Trying to find the right thing
00:45:34And to find my light
00:45:36At the end of the tunnel
00:45:37You know
00:45:38We hit a rocky road
00:45:40And
00:45:41My instinct
00:45:42When I hit a rocky road
00:45:43Is to run
00:45:44But
00:45:45Something
00:45:46Told me to like
00:45:48Talk to you
00:45:49About it
00:45:50Don't run away from it
00:45:51And
00:45:52I'm glad that we're here
00:45:53I'm glad that we made it
00:45:55And
00:45:55You know
00:45:55Sometimes I think
00:45:56The hard things
00:45:58Can make you stronger
00:45:59In the long run
00:46:00And
00:46:01I
00:46:01Don't want to run away
00:46:03I'm good
00:46:14I had it
00:46:15I love it
00:46:16I love it
00:46:18You
00:46:18Kissed me so good
00:46:19It knocked my breath
00:46:20What up
00:46:21Yeah
00:46:22Okay
00:46:24Well
00:46:27Here's this for you
00:46:28Yeah
00:46:29I got this
00:46:30To symbolize
00:46:32My
00:46:33Commitment
00:46:34To you moving forward
00:46:35To continue this journey
00:46:38And this relationship
00:46:39With you and only you
00:46:41And nobody else
00:46:43I want that too
00:46:46Okay
00:46:47And
00:46:47I'm giving you this
00:46:48Because I promise
00:46:50Not to run away
00:46:51Okay
00:46:52And I promise to talk to you
00:46:53Through all the bumps
00:47:01Okay
00:47:02Oh god
00:47:03I forgot about this part
00:47:06Alright
00:47:06Here's the hard part
00:47:08Okay
00:47:10Last thing
00:47:11Okay
00:47:13I
00:47:16I'm 29 years old
00:47:24I was worried
00:47:26That's good for me
00:47:27Yeah
00:47:27So
00:47:28I
00:47:29Am
00:47:3449
00:47:35I was gonna guess
00:47:3829
00:47:39Honestly
00:47:41What did you think
00:47:41I was 49
00:47:42No
00:47:43How old did you think
00:47:44I was gonna say
00:47:45Maybe
00:47:46Eight years older than me
00:47:48I was thinking
00:47:48Oh wow
00:47:48Mid to late 30s
00:47:49Okay
00:47:50So now
00:47:52Is it gonna bother you
00:47:54Do you still wanna try
00:47:58Hell yes
00:47:59Okay
00:47:59Of course
00:48:00Come on now
00:48:01I'm excited
00:48:01Ready
00:48:02Yes
00:48:02Alright let's go
00:48:12If I knew Logan was 29
00:48:14Let's say I'm on a dating app
00:48:15I'd say 29 now
00:48:16Like without even like
00:48:17Looking at the rest of his stuff
00:48:19But I came here
00:48:21With an open mind
00:48:23And I feel like
00:48:25Through all the ups and downs
00:48:26We're in a really good place now
00:48:27I was really hesitant about
00:48:29Am I gonna find a connection
00:48:31Is it gonna be the right connection
00:48:32But you know
00:48:34At the end of the day
00:48:35It's Vanessa
00:48:37I was very nervous
00:48:39To share my age
00:48:40Because it was something
00:48:40That he was nervous about
00:48:42But he's willing to push through
00:48:44Time will tell
00:48:45Like where this goes
00:48:47I have strong feelings for her
00:48:49And I you know
00:48:49I think that
00:48:50It's up to me
00:48:51To prove that
00:48:51You know
00:48:52I'm somebody
00:48:53That can be in it
00:48:53For the long haul
00:48:54And I'm looking forward
00:48:55To continuing
00:48:56To build this connection
00:48:57But you know
00:48:58You go from the retreat
00:48:59Out into the real world
00:49:01To now living together
00:49:02I mean
00:49:03You know
00:49:04Of course I'm nervous
00:49:08But I'm excited
00:49:09Nervous excited
00:49:22Upon arriving at this retreat
00:49:24A group of singles
00:49:25Of all ages
00:49:27Came looking for love
00:49:28Without knowing anyone's age
00:49:30They dated
00:49:31Connected
00:49:31And got to know each other
00:49:33Without the usual judgments
00:49:34Age can bring
00:49:35Some found love
00:49:37Within their age group
00:49:38The big reveal
00:49:3946
00:49:39Stop it
00:49:41I'm 47
00:49:44I'm 26
00:49:45Really
00:49:46Yeah
00:49:47I'm 23
00:49:48Oh
00:49:4940
00:49:5140
00:49:5240
00:49:5244
00:49:5344
00:49:53Yeah
00:49:54Oh wow
00:49:54I am 48 years old
00:49:56Okay
00:49:57Yeah
00:49:58While others
00:49:59While others
00:49:59Were shocked
00:50:00By the age difference
00:50:01I'm 60
00:50:09Now
00:50:09Six of those couples
00:50:11With age differences
00:50:12Ranging from 15 years apart
00:50:14To as much as 33 years apart
00:50:16Move forward
00:50:17In the next phase
00:50:17Of this journey
00:50:23They'll live together
00:50:24Share their daily lives
00:50:26And meet each other's closest
00:50:27Friends and families
00:50:29Putting their relationships
00:50:30To the real world test
00:50:31At the end of this experience
00:50:39They will face a big decision
00:50:41That could change their lives
00:50:43Forever
00:50:43They'll take the journey
00:50:45To the top of this mountain
00:50:46To face the person
00:50:48They've built something with
00:50:49And decide
00:50:50Is this just the end
00:50:51Of an experiment
00:50:53Or the beginning
00:50:54Of something life changing
00:50:59Will age and all
00:51:00That comes with it
00:51:01Be the thing that separates them
00:51:03Or the thing they overcome
00:51:05Can the love they found
00:51:06Survive what's coming next
00:51:18I just can't believe
00:51:23I'm here with Derek
00:51:24Cheers
00:51:25We really have gotten along
00:51:27Great so far
00:51:29And it's almost been
00:51:30Unnervingly easy
00:51:32But this really is
00:51:34The next phase
00:51:35In this experience
00:51:37And the real world
00:51:38Is about to smack us
00:51:39In the face
00:51:40I'm definitely worried
00:51:41About the stigmas
00:51:42And the judgments
00:51:43That will come
00:51:44I mean Derek
00:51:45Is nearly twice my age
00:51:47Which saying that out loud
00:51:48It feels crazy
00:51:49I would be lying
00:51:50If I said like
00:51:51Thoughts haven't crossed my mind
00:51:53Like what would my family think
00:51:54What will my friends think
00:51:56We made it
00:51:56We did
00:51:57But that doesn't dissuade me
00:51:58From continuing with Derek
00:52:00I'm happy to face
00:52:01The judgments
00:52:02Because he means so much to me
00:52:04But it will be challenging
00:52:07Oh my gosh
00:52:09Oh my gosh
00:52:11Oh my gosh
00:52:11I can't wait to see everybody
00:52:13But I'm nervous
00:52:15I still have some reservations
00:52:17Over the whole age gap
00:52:19Staying in the bubble
00:52:21Would have been a much more
00:52:22Comfortable situation
00:52:23But that's not reality
00:52:24Look who it is
00:52:33I've definitely had
00:52:34A little bit of time
00:52:35Now to kind of
00:52:38Decompress
00:52:38From Libby telling me
00:52:39Her age in the promise room
00:52:41It'll be good for us
00:52:42To get to actually spend
00:52:43Like a little bit more
00:52:45Quality one on one
00:52:46Time together
00:52:47To the first three couples
00:52:49And hopefully we got some
00:52:50Friends and girlfriends
00:52:52Right behind us
00:52:53That's right
00:52:58Leah and Chris
00:53:00I'm a little bit surprised
00:53:02But they really did have
00:53:03That physical connection
00:53:05And they seemed so
00:53:06Deeply involved
00:53:08With each other
00:53:09I do kind of question
00:53:11Do they have
00:53:12The strength of
00:53:13Knowing each other's
00:53:15Values
00:53:16And everyday character
00:53:18Because
00:53:19It's been a lot of
00:53:21Touching
00:53:22And kissing
00:53:23And less talking
00:53:24But
00:53:25You know
00:53:26That could maybe
00:53:27Go a long way
00:53:27So
00:53:28We'll just have to
00:53:29See there
00:53:32We made it
00:53:33We made it
00:53:36Hey girl
00:53:37Last time I saw
00:53:39Vanessa and Logan
00:53:40They were broken up
00:53:41And I have heard
00:53:42Some comments
00:53:43Regarding optics
00:53:45That one was really
00:53:46Out of left field
00:53:47For me
00:53:47But it was kind of
00:53:48An exciting surprise
00:53:49And I hope that
00:53:50They're happy
00:53:51Ever after
00:53:51And in love forever
00:53:52I don't know
00:53:53If I see it though
00:54:01Jorge and Vanell
00:54:02Are so cute
00:54:03I wasn't really sure
00:54:05Who Vanell
00:54:05Was going to pick
00:54:06So that was good
00:54:08To see her
00:54:09Where she's at
00:54:10I think that
00:54:11They're a great match
00:54:11I just see their
00:54:13Energy together
00:54:14Like they're so
00:54:15Affectionate
00:54:16I feel like
00:54:17A lot of the
00:54:17Other couples here
00:54:18Are more affectionate
00:54:20Than Logan and I are
00:54:22Tell us about
00:54:23Your journey
00:54:23I don't really know
00:54:24I was going to say
00:54:25Like what's
00:54:25Yeah
00:54:25I love listening to
00:54:26Him talk
00:54:27So do it
00:54:28Tell him our journey
00:54:28Yeah he's really good
00:54:29Alright so
00:54:30We had no communication
00:54:31Like it just
00:54:32It's natural
00:54:33We had nothing
00:54:34It was out of nowhere
00:54:35You didn't get to meet
00:54:36On the speed day
00:54:37Nope
00:54:37Nothing
00:54:37But
00:54:38Immediately the conversation
00:54:39Was super natural
00:54:40It was like
00:54:40We didn't have to
00:54:41Force anything
00:54:42I wish I could say
00:54:43There's a lot more to it
00:54:43But there's not
00:54:44Yeah
00:54:44Yeah
00:54:45Today all day long
00:54:46Like seeing you guys
00:54:47Together made me realize
00:54:49Like how wonderful
00:54:50You are together
00:54:50Because like
00:54:51I hung out with him
00:54:52Like we had a great time
00:54:54Wait why didn't you guys
00:54:55Work out then
00:54:56They're not getting all
00:54:57Serious huh
00:54:58You had another connection
00:54:59Yes so they went on a date
00:55:00Okay
00:55:01Well it was a group activity
00:55:02Just kidding
00:55:02It was a group activity
00:55:04Look at that
00:55:04Very much cool
00:55:05It was a group activity
00:55:07It was a group activity
00:55:07Okay
00:55:08We had a beautiful
00:55:09Hold on
00:55:09Let me
00:55:11It was beautiful already
00:55:12It was
00:55:13Did you guys kiss
00:55:14Or something like
00:55:15Dang what happened
00:55:15On this group date
00:55:17Did you have
00:55:18Oh
00:55:19Yeah
00:55:21I feel like
00:55:22I may have made a mistake
00:55:23Part of me was already
00:55:24Battling with
00:55:25Whether I should share
00:55:26That or not
00:55:27About
00:55:28The kiss that me
00:55:29And Vanessa had
00:55:29Prior to me
00:55:30And Leah's relationship
00:55:31There was some wine involved
00:55:32Oh now there's wine
00:55:33We're getting woozy
00:55:34I was sober
00:55:34And every day
00:55:36We're hot
00:55:36We did get married
00:55:37We're hot
00:55:37And you know
00:55:38It was a very simple
00:55:39Yeah
00:55:39It was
00:55:40Simple
00:55:40It was
00:55:41Oh I heard you were
00:55:42Sucking face
00:55:43No
00:55:43No
00:55:44No tongue
00:55:45I didn't know
00:55:46That Chris and Vanessa
00:55:49Kissed
00:55:50So that was interesting
00:55:51To find out today
00:55:52I just thought
00:55:53He would have told me
00:55:54Ahead of time
00:55:56Because apparently
00:55:56Logan already knew
00:55:57Apparently maybe
00:55:58Everyone knew
00:55:59I have no idea
00:56:00We gotta see what's up
00:56:01Now
00:56:01That's unacceptable
00:56:03Period
00:56:04I mean you know
00:56:04The reality is
00:56:05Like we're on a
00:56:06We're at a retreat
00:56:07We're finding connections
00:56:08I mean I didn't find any
00:56:09So I don't know
00:56:10I think it was a mistake
00:56:12To not reveal that
00:56:13And talk about that earlier
00:56:15Did I mess up?
00:56:16I guess
00:56:17I don't know
00:56:17I'll find out soon
00:56:19Okay so Fife
00:56:20As somebody who's
00:56:21In a similar situation
00:56:22Right
00:56:23How are you feeling
00:56:24About Derek having kids
00:56:26The age gap
00:56:27All the things
00:56:27Yeah
00:56:28I don't have experience
00:56:29Dating someone
00:56:30Who does have children
00:56:31Same
00:56:32I mean
00:56:33I like Derek
00:56:34For all that he is
00:56:35Including his children
00:56:36And he wouldn't be
00:56:37The person that he is
00:56:38If he didn't have
00:56:39His children
00:56:39Right
00:56:40And like family
00:56:41And being a dad
00:56:42Like that
00:56:43Those are things
00:56:43That are so important
00:56:44To me
00:56:44That it's like
00:56:45It only adds
00:56:46To his character
00:56:46Yeah
00:56:47Okay so how are you feeling
00:56:49Yeah
00:56:49About the whole kids thing
00:56:51Yes
00:56:51Honestly
00:56:52Everything you said
00:56:53I second that
00:56:54When I heard you had kids
00:56:56I felt like
00:56:57I took them more seriously
00:56:58Because like I said
00:56:59I'm looking for a guy
00:57:01Who's more mature
00:57:02It grounds them
00:57:03More established
00:57:04And to hear that
00:57:04He's like
00:57:06Uninvolved
00:57:06Good father
00:57:07Like honestly
00:57:08Yeah
00:57:09He's quality
00:57:10He's high value
00:57:11Attractive
00:57:12Yeah
00:57:12How about you Andrew?
00:57:14Only one girl
00:57:15That I've ever dated
00:57:16Some of my daughters
00:57:17But it didn't
00:57:18You know
00:57:18It didn't work out
00:57:19And ever since
00:57:19And I've been super
00:57:20Protective of them
00:57:21So no one else
00:57:22Has ever met my children
00:57:24I told myself
00:57:25That no one else
00:57:26Would unless I knew
00:57:27That that was going
00:57:28To be my person
00:57:29You told me about
00:57:31Your daughters
00:57:32I lead with it
00:57:33They're a huge part
00:57:34Of my life
00:57:34So it's tough
00:57:35I mean you know
00:57:36This when you have kids
00:57:36It's like
00:57:37You know
00:57:37You don't want people
00:57:39Coming in and out
00:57:39Their lives
00:57:40You know
00:57:41And it's
00:57:41She showed you signs
00:57:42Of being that person
00:57:44I mean we're going to
00:57:45Find out
00:57:45To be honest
00:57:46My situation is
00:57:48I have two children
00:57:49When did you share
00:57:50With her
00:57:51Your children
00:57:51I haven't
00:57:52I'm about to
00:57:53And so you know
00:57:54She doesn't really
00:57:55Have kids
00:57:55No
00:57:55Wait
00:57:56I totally didn't
00:57:58Even think about
00:57:58The fact
00:57:59Does
00:58:00Does
00:58:00Jorge have kids
00:58:01Yeah
00:58:01He does not
00:58:02Have any kids
00:58:03Yay
00:58:03I don't think so
00:58:05I haven't really
00:58:06Yeah
00:58:07Are you worried
00:58:08About that
00:58:08No I'm not
00:58:09Worried about it
00:58:09At all
00:58:09Because if in fact
00:58:11We wouldn't have
00:58:11Got here
00:58:12If that was
00:58:13Right
00:58:13Right
00:58:14Right
00:58:14When I told her
00:58:16My age
00:58:16She didn't blink
00:58:17Vanell didn't care
00:58:18About my age
00:58:18And I was really
00:58:19Happy
00:58:19I'm relieved
00:58:19About that
00:58:20But something
00:58:21That's weighing on me
00:58:22Something I really
00:58:22Want to discuss
00:58:23With her
00:58:23Is my children
00:58:24And their ages
00:58:25Right
00:58:26So my kids
00:58:27Age are
00:58:27Right around
00:58:28The same age
00:58:28As her
00:58:28And it's a concern
00:58:30Because I need
00:58:31To see her reaction
00:58:32And how she
00:58:32Feels about it
00:58:33I believe that
00:58:34Our connection
00:58:34Can withstand it
00:58:35But we're
00:58:35Going to find out
00:58:36He doesn't want
00:58:37Kids outside of marriage
00:58:39Okay
00:58:39Perfect
00:58:40I respect that
00:58:43Because I'm
00:58:44The same way
00:58:51I need my hope
00:58:58Wait for me
00:59:02You got some demons
00:59:04In my head
00:59:05Going crazy
00:59:06I can't bury me down
00:59:09Dancing on me
00:59:11Like a woman's shadow
00:59:12Waiting to watch me drown
00:59:15They want you
00:59:17To listen
00:59:17And your wicked ways
00:59:19Don't care
00:59:20How long it takes
00:59:23Take me down
00:59:24To where the devil lies
00:59:26When you're still me
00:59:28I know that you'll
00:59:32Treat me somewhere
00:59:36As you pull me down
00:59:38Closer to him
00:59:42Break the way
00:59:46As you pull me down
01:00:12You
01:00:13You
01:01:44...
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