How to Get a Girls Number

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In this video, we'll be sharing some tips and tricks on how to confidently ask for a girl's number and increase your chances of success.   WHAT YOU WILL SEE:  00:51 When to ask for a girls number 01:21 The best way to ask for a girl's phone number  WATCH NOW: How to Meet Girls for Relationships, Dating, & Sex (Exact Steps!) https://youtu.be/DcbLq0e9HLc  IF YOU ARE INTERESTED IN THIS KIND OF CONTENT, YOU SHOULD READ THIS ARTICLE: https://www.conquerandwin.com/why-women-go-cold-on-text-messages-and-how-to-write-messages-that-work/  WHO AM I:  Hi, I’m Eddy Baller, author & founder of Conquer & Win.  I’ve been a dating and relationship coach since 2011, and since then I have helped men across the globe to build their social confidence and get the dates and relationships they deserve.    FOR COACHING, GO TO: https://www.conquerandwin.com/vancouver-dating-coach/   GET IN TOUCH:  If you’d like to talk, I’d love to hear from you. Emailing me at eddy@conquerandwin.com directly will be the quickest way to get a response. I try my best to reply to things but there sadly aren’t enough hours in the day to respond to everyone though I’d get there as soon as I can.    ▼ see below for links & more ▼ ✉️  Sign up to my weekly email newsletter - https://www.conquerandwin.com/contact/ 🌍  My website / blog - https://www.conquerandwin.com 📸  Instagram - https://instagram.com/conquerandwin

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00:00So you really like someone and you're wondering how to get a girl's number. This is very simple

00:03and I'm going to explain a few easy ways that you can get a girl's number, whether she's a

00:07complete stranger that you just approached or somebody you already like. So keep watching and

00:11find out more. I'm Eddie Baller and I'm a dating coach and the owner of conqueringwin.com.

00:14I've been coaching men since 2011 to build their confidence and get the kind of love lives they

00:18deserve. And I know what works from thousands of personal experiences as well as watching my

00:22clients infield regardless of their height, age, race, looks or financial status. So let's jump

00:27into it. Now the following methods are going to give you some options for getting a girl's number

00:36easily. But remember, they're only going to work if you approach her properly and she likes you,

00:41she's interested, right? Nothing you text her will matter if you didn't do the approach properly. You

00:46have to build a connection, otherwise nothing else matters. So let's start with when to ask for a

00:51girl's number. Now whether you approach her cold on the street or you already knew her, maybe bumped

00:55into her or you ran into her party and you asked for her number, the best time to ask is before you

01:00split because it's easier to ask as you're leaving and you make that part of your exit. Now one of the

01:04downsides to doing this though is it's possible, depending on the situation, that something distracts

01:09her and she runs off. So if you're at a party and her friends suddenly show up when you're talking to

01:13her, it might have been a good idea to get it a little bit earlier. But you can fine tailor this to

01:17your situation. But usually on a street, I always wait until the end. The best way to ask for a girl's

01:21phone number. After chatting with her, simply say, hey, I gotta get going, but let's have a coffee

01:25sometime. Then if her response is positive, then ask for her number. But do it in an assertive way.

01:29It's much more attractive and it's being more consistent with showing some balls. Such as, great, I'll grab

01:33your number then. Remember, assertiveness is attractive, right? Women love it when men are

01:38assertive. That doesn't mean being rude or pushy. It just means asking for what you want in a direct

01:43manner. So don't ask her in these kind of methods like, would you like you? Or can we? Or maybe

01:48sometime maybe we could? These kind of things all kind of show a little bit of insecurity. It's

01:53kind of like asking her, but not really believing she's going to say yes. Or being overly polite,

01:58right? Instead of being overly polite, just be assertive. And you know, your body language,

02:02your eye contact, your voice, all these things are going to communicate what kind of guy you are.

02:06And you don't have to be a pushy guy, but being assertive is going to be much better for you. It's

02:10going to get a lot more girls. If you want to be more clever, there's other ways to ask. But you really

02:13don't have to be creative or clever or make this complicated, right? You're just getting her phone

02:19number. If she's interested in you, if you made the connection in your conversation, then she's

02:23going to be very interested in giving you her number. It's not going to be a big deal. But if you still

02:26want to try something different, try one of these. Now, this one is going to be specific to the situation

02:29where she says, oh, I'll take your number. Usually it's a deflection. It means she's not going to

02:33contact you back. So what I usually do is kind of break it down, rationalize it, and downplay it,

02:39basically. I'm saying, hey, this is not that important, but I'll take your number, right? And

02:43I usually say something like this. You know what? How about I just take your number and I'll text

02:47you later. And if we have time, then maybe we can have a coffee sometime, right? So I'm just

02:51downplaying. I'm saying if we have time, maybe. And it works. It works very well. I've done this

02:54many times and get a response and have gotten dates many times by doing this. But if you give her your

02:59number, she's not going to send a message to you. And the next one's kind of stupid. It's basically a

03:03pickup line. Just say something like, hey, I forgot something. And she's like, what? Your number. I've

03:08never actually done that before. Do it if you like. Pickup lines actually can work if you use them as a

03:13joke, right? If you're not serious about it. So in any case, give it a shot if you like and you want

03:18to be creative. But there's really no point to being creative in this case because you're just

03:21getting a phone number. So stick to the, you know, straight to the target method. If you want to learn

03:26more about texting girls, then check out the link in the description. And until next time, conquer and win.

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