How Long Does a Girl Usually Wait To Text Back

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00:00How long does a girl usually wait the text back? If you're asking this question, you're probably

00:03waiting on someone right now and you're thinking to yourself, how long should I wait before I throw

00:07in the towel and give up on her? Keep watching to learn if the girl you're waiting for has gone

00:10to Flake City. And how to follow up. I'm Eddie Baller and I'm a dating coach and the owner of

00:15conquerandwin.com and I've been coaching men since 2011 to build their confidence and meet the kind

00:19of woman they deserve. And I know what works from thousands of personal experiences as well as

00:23watching my clients infield regardless of their height, age, race, looks or financial status.

00:28So let's jump into it.

00:34How long does a girl usually wait to text back? This will vary a lot, but on average you can expect

00:39to get a text message by the next day if she's interested. But if the next day has come and gone

00:43then it's very unlikely you're actually going to receive a message from her. But there is one thing

00:46you can do. Which brings us to the next section. What to do if you haven't received a text message

00:51from a girl in two days. If she hasn't responded to you in a couple days then she's really not very

00:55interested. But very often there's going to be some fence sitters who aren't taking initiative

00:59and they may be a little bit nervous and a little nudge will actually knock them off the fence and

01:03get them a reply to you. But to nudge her, don't ask her if she's seen your text message, right?

01:07Because obviously she has seen your text message. She just hasn't replied to you because she's

01:11nervous and she wasn't, you know, maybe not 100% interested but also maybe not 100% disinterested.

01:17So for this kind of girl all you have to do is send a question mark. Literally just a question

01:21mark. Hey, you've already said what you needed to say on the first message. There's nothing

01:25magical you're going to say on a second message that's going to make her super interested. So

01:29send that question mark and then forget about it, right? If she doesn't respond to you, you should

01:32have another girl lined up, right? You should have another date. And if not, you should be figuring

01:37out how to get another date. Now keep in mind this question mark thing is a low percentage move.

01:41That means most girls aren't going to respond to it. But like I said, a few fence sitters will respond

01:45back to it. But it kind of depends how many date options you have. If this is the only girl you've had

01:50contact with in the last year, it's very unlikely it's going to ever work, right? Because you don't

01:55have enough options. But if you're lining up dates on a weekly basis, you are going to get some girls

01:59responding back to you with this kind of message. But if you're thinking a lot about this one girl

02:03who's not texting you back, it really points to something else, something about you. Brings us to

02:07the next section, what it really means when a girl doesn't text you quickly. So let's put this in

02:11perspective. What matters more, the girl's lack of responding to your text messages or your lack of

02:18options. If you have a lot of options for dating, then one girl's response isn't going to really

02:21matter that much, right? You're just going to go and talk to the next girl. But if you only have one

02:25option, and if that one option is the only option you've had in the last few months or the last year

02:30or worse, then she's going to seem so immensely valuable, right? You're going to be waiting on that

02:35message and wiping the sweat off your brow, right? You're going to be nervous about it because this is

02:39the only thing that's popped up for you in a long time. And you're hoping something's going to happen.

02:43It's just basic supply and demand. If you have a lot of dating options, then each individual date

02:47is not going to be as important. But if you do not have a lot of dating options, each individual date

02:52is going to seem really important. So if you want to expand your dating options, check out my link

02:55below on how to approach women. And if you want to learn more about how to text women, then check out

02:59the link below as well. Any questions or comments, leave them in the comment section below. And until

03:03next time, conquer and win.

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