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90 Day Fiance S11E16 (2025)
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00:00:01Previously on 90 Day Fiancé...
00:00:04Why are you dressed like a big cow?
00:00:06I paid the dowry.
00:00:08Oh, that's good.
00:00:10Greg has finally paid the dowry,
00:00:13so he has really respected my culture,
00:00:16my family, and my father's last wishes.
00:00:19Now we are going to get married.
00:00:25I don't want to be a cruise wife.
00:00:29So it's you or the cruise?
00:00:31Is that what you're saying?
00:00:32Yeah.
00:00:33It is going to be hard to leave cruise life behind,
00:00:36but that's what it is, I guess.
00:00:39I'm not going back on the cruise ship.
00:00:41Oh, better.
00:00:48What is that?
00:00:50This is a prenup.
00:00:52Everything with us seems too uncertain,
00:00:54and preparing for every possibility
00:00:57will make me feel more at ease about moving forward.
00:01:00We are getting into a marriage,
00:01:02thinking about the end.
00:01:07Ray told many things liars.
00:01:10Is your divorce finalized?
00:01:12Tengo mi papel, I have my paper.
00:01:15I honestly feel bad for thinking the worst.
00:01:19I've been looking forward to Guadalajara.
00:01:21I've been wanting to learn so much about you and your family.
00:01:24I worry she'll tell her family that I'm just a friend.
00:01:28And maybe they don't like us,
00:01:30and that's a deal-breaker for her.
00:01:32Mark, you'll adopt Clayton as his son.
00:01:37You good?
00:01:38Yeah.
00:01:39I'm very happy that Mark would adopt Clayton.
00:01:42It's new, but it's not Clayton.
00:01:45If Clayton's not here, you're not going to get married?
00:01:49Baby, if you're thinking you won't get married,
00:01:52that means you're going back to friends.
00:01:55Don't hate me, but what about a prenup?
00:02:00I mean, you only get hurt if you don't, so...
00:02:04What the ?
00:02:05We have never talked about prenup before.
00:02:08If you want it, I have one close.
00:02:11I have a weight target for you, right?
00:02:13128 pounds.
00:02:14For every pound you owe work,
00:02:16I will fine you for a thousand dollars.
00:02:19Okay.
00:02:20Wait, Shikaina.
00:02:21Why would you agree to that?
00:02:23Just because I literally said I don't care.
00:02:25Yeah, you should care.
00:02:26Listen.
00:02:27Don't leave me room, please.
00:02:28Try and thank you.
00:02:50Okay.
00:02:51Now tell me how does it taste.
00:03:01Guadalajara.
00:03:02You're out to explore.
00:03:09It's so beautiful here.
00:03:10Yeah.
00:03:11I love my culture.
00:03:13I love my culture.
00:03:14We're finally here.
00:03:15We're in Guadalajara.
00:03:19Okay.
00:03:20One.
00:03:21Two.
00:03:22Three.
00:03:23Woo!
00:03:24I think we're in such a good place.
00:03:25The best place we've been in the relationship so far.
00:03:27And that means the world to us.
00:03:29And now it's time to meet your family.
00:03:31I am never present with my family.
00:03:33Boyfriends before.
00:03:35Relationships before.
00:03:36And this is a big, big .
00:03:39Big .
00:03:40Hell.
00:03:41Hell.
00:03:42Hell.
00:03:43Hell.
00:03:44Hell.
00:03:45Hell.
00:03:46Let's go find something for your family.
00:03:47Oh.
00:03:48Okay.
00:03:49I want to buy some flowers for my aunt.
00:03:52Because I don't know.
00:03:53What is the reaction about her?
00:03:55Yeah, I know.
00:03:56Absolutely.
00:03:57We should get her some colors.
00:03:58I need to offer some, you know.
00:04:00I'm born in Guadalajara.
00:04:02When I have children, I lose my mother, my father.
00:04:09I don't have too much important person in my life.
00:04:13But for me, my aunt is very important for me.
00:04:16Because she takes care of me when I am children.
00:04:21Yes, I want those.
00:04:22I like them.
00:04:23When I was very young, I am really poor.
00:04:27But it's a great life.
00:04:29Because my aunt gave me what I could.
00:04:35Let's sit down for a bit since your feet hurt you.
00:04:37Yeah, get off our feet.
00:04:38Yeah.
00:04:40Oh, thanks, God.
00:04:42So, I'm nervous, baby.
00:04:47Mom, I'm really, really nervous, too.
00:04:50Because I don't know what's going to happen.
00:04:54What's the plan?
00:04:55I was like, I want to give you time.
00:04:57But there's no time anymore.
00:04:58Okay.
00:04:59Yeah, we're here.
00:05:00What do we do?
00:05:01I don't have any plan.
00:05:02The plan is not playing great.
00:05:04For such a planner, I'm, like, stressing.
00:05:07Yeah, it's hard because my aunt is very, very religious.
00:05:13I'm nervous, you know?
00:05:15So...
00:05:16I want to know.
00:05:17I understand out of anybody.
00:05:18how hard this is for you.
00:05:19because of my similar family and culture.
00:05:20Maybe that's what I want to know.
00:05:21I want to know.
00:05:22I understand out of anybody how hard this is for you.
00:05:25because of my similar family and culture.
00:05:26Maybe that's why I'm the hardest on you when it comes to this.
00:05:28I don't want to be there, like, okay, is it happening now?
00:05:29Is it happening now?
00:05:30Or even worse.
00:05:31step in and do it for you, which is not my place.
00:05:33I don't know.
00:05:34I don't know.
00:05:35I don't know.
00:05:36I don't know.
00:05:37I don't know.
00:05:38I don't know.
00:05:39I don't know.
00:05:40I don't know.
00:05:41I don't know.
00:05:42I want to know.
00:05:43I understand out of anybody how hard this is for you.
00:05:47Because of my similar family and culture.
00:05:49Maybe that's why I'm the hardest on you when it comes to this.
00:05:53I don't want to be there, like, okay, is it happening now?
00:05:56Is it happening now?
00:05:57Or even worse, step in and do it for you, which is not my place.
00:06:00To do that.
00:06:01Give me time, okay?
00:06:03Mm-hmm.
00:06:05I wish my family is with this.
00:06:10Okay?
00:06:11I grew up with a lot of religious people, and they can be not accepting.
00:06:17I'm scared because if her aunt doesn't approve the relationship, I'm worried that's a jailbreaker for Ani.
00:06:25But at the same time, I'm not willing to be the secret.
00:06:32There's no more time left.
00:06:34You know, she asked for the time.
00:06:35And I'm feeling like, please, don't make it seem where you're maybe chickening out.
00:06:39Like, that's my fear.
00:06:40Now you're gonna get it.
00:06:41Now you're gonna get it.
00:06:42Now you're gonna get it.
00:06:46Now you're gonna get it.
00:06:47Now you're gonna get it.
00:06:48Now you're gonna get it.
00:06:53Now you're gonna get it.
00:06:54Now you're gonna get it.
00:06:55Now you're gonna get it.
00:06:56Now you're gonna get it.
00:06:57Now you're gonna get it.
00:07:00Look, he's not awake yet.
00:07:06Bye.
00:07:07Now I am awake.
00:07:08For sure.
00:07:09Oh, no.
00:07:10Here comes the germ.
00:07:11Good morning.
00:07:12Today is a big day.
00:07:24And I'm very, very excited.
00:07:27Now it's gonna be crazy hot today.
00:07:30Yeah?
00:07:31Mm-hmm.
00:07:32Your dress is probably gonna melt.
00:07:35Yeah.
00:07:36I have a surprise for you.
00:07:39Mm-hmm.
00:07:40Good surprise?
00:07:41Mm-hmm.
00:07:42Yes.
00:07:43Okay.
00:07:44It's the morning that I'm supposed to marry Sean if I sign the prenup.
00:07:50I want the wedding to be about love and about our future together.
00:07:55But I understood how this agreement is important for Sean and the things that he wants for our future.
00:08:04I love Sean and I do know that I want to spend my life with him.
00:08:12And that's why I'm going to sign this agreement.
00:08:19Uh...
00:08:21Does this include an autograph?
00:08:26Not yet.
00:08:27Not yet?
00:08:28Not yet.
00:08:29So, let's sign that.
00:08:30I think I have a...
00:08:32Ben here.
00:08:38I hope that you never need to use this.
00:08:41Well, that's the hope.
00:08:42Me too.
00:08:50Here you go.
00:08:52Happy wedding day.
00:08:54I'll take this home and have it framed and put over our bed.
00:08:58Oh, amazing.
00:08:59So, that reminds me every day.
00:09:01Yes.
00:09:02Every day that you never divorce, then you get to go see another blessed day.
00:09:07Oh, thank you.
00:09:08Thank you, thank you.
00:09:10Jackie, we're going to be here soon.
00:09:11So, pick me up.
00:09:12And then you get ready together and I will not see you anymore.
00:09:16Just in the right moment.
00:09:19And is that right moment going to look like an hour after the right moment supposed to be with people?
00:09:25No.
00:09:26Okay.
00:09:27Not today.
00:09:28That's why it's early.
00:09:29I have a plan of time to do everything.
00:09:31I can't wait to see this happen.
00:09:38Do you enjoy it?
00:09:40Do you enjoy it?
00:09:41Yes.
00:09:42Are you excited now?
00:09:43I'm very happy, yes.
00:09:44And now we get to proceed to the wedding.
00:09:46Finally.
00:09:47Finally.
00:09:53Ah, you're ready for me?
00:09:55Yes.
00:09:56Good job.
00:09:57There's nothing I like better on all my weddings than to do your hair.
00:10:02How it always is with you every time we go someplace or do something, you're stuck with everybody's hair.
00:10:07Every occasion I say, next occasion, I'm not doing it.
00:10:11Is today actually going to be a wedding day or what?
00:10:16Oh, we're gonna have a wedding.
00:10:18Aaliyah's on the pre now.
00:10:20This is wonderful news.
00:10:22Hey, good morning.
00:10:25Oh, hello.
00:10:26Hey.
00:10:27How are you?
00:10:28Excited?
00:10:29Yes.
00:10:30Especially now that I know that it's gonna be a wedding.
00:10:32This is good.
00:10:34Wonderful.
00:10:35Yes.
00:10:38Jackie.
00:10:39Oh, my goodness.
00:10:40I mean that.
00:10:41Oh, it's Jackie.
00:10:44Hi. Oh, my God.
00:10:45You look beautiful.
00:10:47How are you?
00:10:48Hi, I'm good.
00:10:49Hello, hello.
00:10:50Hi.
00:10:51Hey, Jackie.
00:10:52This is my mom, Jeannie.
00:10:53Jeannie, Jackie.
00:10:54Hi.
00:10:55Nice to meet you.
00:10:56I've heard so much about you.
00:10:58All good, I'm sure.
00:11:03So, you guys are off for adventures in wedding land?
00:11:06Yes.
00:11:07Yeah.
00:11:08Okay, let's do this.
00:11:09Things are gonna go so smooth today.
00:11:10I work in a business where everything is punctual to the minute, like military time even.
00:11:17So, the wedding today starts at 5.
00:11:18So, the wedding today starts at 5.
00:11:20The ceremony is gonna be about 15 minutes.
00:11:22There's a champagne toast between 5.15 and 5.30.
00:11:26Then from 5.30 to 7, we're going to have dinner.
00:11:29Then from 7 to 8, Aaliyah's going to do a dance number.
00:11:34And then from 8 to 10, we'll party like rock stars.
00:11:42All right.
00:11:43See you.
00:11:44Now I don't move for the next three hours.
00:11:45Right.
00:11:46Don't get in the wind.
00:11:51This is so pretty.
00:11:52This is so damn hot.
00:11:54All right.
00:11:55We're here.
00:12:01I'm dying.
00:12:02I think here it's like crazy hot, but I think it's the same weather.
00:12:05As Brazil?
00:12:06Yeah.
00:12:07It's like I'm used to that.
00:12:09And, but a few weeks ago when I talked to you, it was cold, so.
00:12:13Yeah, it was like freezing.
00:12:14Yeah.
00:12:15Like dying.
00:12:19Oh, it's so cute.
00:12:20It's beautiful.
00:12:21Oh, and I'm feeling good here.
00:12:24It's a whole house just for us.
00:12:26I know.
00:12:27Just for you.
00:12:28It's your day.
00:12:29Sean hates how much time it takes me to get ready, but this is the most important day of
00:12:34my life.
00:12:35I will take shower, put my wig cap and glue that, put my wig and glue my wig, brush and make
00:12:42that looks exactly the way that I want, prepare my skin, do my skin, the foundation, contour,
00:12:48my eyes, mascara, my lips.
00:12:51I just want everything amazing.
00:12:54So are you showering, okay?
00:12:55Okay.
00:13:09Mom?
00:13:10Mom!
00:13:11Mom!
00:13:12Mom!
00:13:13Mom!
00:13:14Mom!
00:13:15I am getting ready to leave.
00:13:16I hear a noise and I run out and find that my mom's sprawled out in agony on the floor
00:13:34in the kitchen.
00:13:35it's painful at the moment i'm hoping it'll get better quickly we got her to her feet and then we
00:13:53got her to sit down on the couch but she was having trouble moving and she said she hurt her
00:13:59hip and at 85 she broke her hip that you know so many people die from that if you got your leg up
00:14:07it's not like you just oh it's just a little tiny something or other true it's like am i taking you
00:14:14to the hospital now no and i uh will be fine by five o'clock i guarantee it i've seen her have a
00:14:24broken knee and still hobble around and act like she was fine in order to not disappoint me and that
00:14:31wasn't even for a wedding so to hear everything is fine but i can't move i know that that's really bad
00:14:39if that doesn't feel better then just don't come oh i'm not missing no hey caramba
00:14:48i know my mom and she will die at that wedding rather than miss that wedding
00:15:00this is something that i definitely don't want to be dealing with nor did i think i would ever in
00:15:10my wildest dreams be dealing with on my wedding day
00:15:13i mean do you plan to divorce me in the future what if you cheat on me someday or something this
00:15:26is a very rude thing the universe is playing with me and i'm not sure to be honest i don't know what
00:15:32to do this conversation needs to be shelved for now i need to get ready always let's keep
00:15:39leave
00:16:02Wait, your coffee is good.
00:16:32Oh, my God.
00:16:34Do you feel hungover?
00:16:36Yeah, kind of.
00:16:37I mean, not hungover because of drinks, but because of everything, you know.
00:16:41It was an intense night.
00:16:44To be honest, when Alex told about that prenup thing, I was expecting she kind of to say,
00:16:51no way, no need such a thing.
00:16:54But she was okay with it, you know.
00:16:57And it made me so disappointed.
00:17:00I mean, so devastating.
00:17:05I'm scared that she doesn't see me as I see her.
00:17:10That's the problem.
00:17:13The thing that I'm so upset is, I mean, do you plan to divorce me in the future?
00:17:20No, that's not what it's about.
00:17:21It's just about protecting my assets for the sake of Sophie.
00:17:26What if you cheat on me someday or something?
00:17:27This is a very rude thing for our culture.
00:17:30But it's not.
00:17:30It's not for me.
00:17:32You're not in Turkey anymore, babe.
00:17:33Now you're in the U.S.
00:17:35I am Turkish and I will stay as Turkish.
00:17:38I don't know how to explain that to my family, you know.
00:17:41Sarper is taking this very personally, but my friends are very aware, as am I, of Sarper's past.
00:17:50So, you know, it does make sense that I protect myself.
00:17:55I mean, I'm going to do it because maybe one day he's going to just tell me, I cheated on you.
00:18:00I don't know.
00:18:00I don't know.
00:18:01He could.
00:18:04I need to go get in the shower, babe.
00:18:06I feel like this conversation needs to be shelved for now because it's not really going anywhere.
00:18:12I need to get ready.
00:18:13Always escape.
00:18:14In Turkey, if you are married, you are committed.
00:18:22You don't marry to think that you are going to divorce.
00:18:26That doesn't make sense.
00:18:28It's so uncommon in Turkey.
00:18:32Why?
00:18:33I mean, we are belong to each other.
00:18:34I mean, you're everything is mine.
00:18:36Mine, everything is yours.
00:18:38Because you're my family.
00:18:39You will be my family.
00:18:40That's Meryl.
00:18:41That's Meryl.
00:19:10Dün arkadaşlarıyla bir yemeğe gittik.
00:19:17Arkadaşlarından bir tanesi bir konu açtı.
00:19:20Şikainaya.
00:19:22Prinup denen bir şey.
00:19:23Evlilik sözleşmesi.
00:19:28Şey gibi oluyor.
00:19:29Belki ayrılırız zaten diye.
00:19:31Önden kabul etmişti.
00:19:33Bir de bunu son dakika, hani sayılı gün kalmış orada.
00:19:38is not a problem.
00:19:40I don't have any credit for trust.
00:19:42Okay, we will get a chance to go.
00:19:44But I have a challenge.
00:19:46I have a goal.
00:19:48I have a goal.
00:19:50I gave a goal.
00:19:52I have a lot of dollars.
00:19:54I have a limit.
00:19:56I have a limit.
00:19:58I have a limit.
00:20:00I have a $1000 dollar, I have a $1000 dollar.
00:20:02That's a way.
00:20:04Yeah.
00:20:06I really like the character of the life.
00:20:10If you have an advice for an interview,
00:20:14you can have an advice for me.
00:20:17You really think about this?
00:20:21Our end is generally in the situation if you have a divorce,
00:20:26if something is wrong with you,
00:20:28if you have a divorce,
00:20:30you will be like,
00:20:31or you will fall off?
00:20:33I don't know.
00:20:34I was married before when I was 31 years old.
00:20:40The girl in my life was an angel.
00:20:43And I thought that it would be a great mother for my future children.
00:20:47So I just married with her.
00:20:50But as soon as we signed the paper,
00:20:53my ex-wife didn't want my family to visit us.
00:20:56She changed her behavior towards me.
00:21:00She changed totally.
00:21:01I mean, the girl that I married was not there.
00:21:05So it's a fobic for me.
00:21:07I don't want to leave the same experience, same things again and again.
00:21:11If you do it something once it's a mistake.
00:21:13But if you do the same mistake twice, you are stupid.
00:21:16But if you do it something else, you don't want to leave the same way.
00:21:22So you don't want to leave the same way.
00:21:24No, no, let's talk about it.
00:21:25Let's talk about it.
00:21:26Let's talk about it.
00:21:26Let's talk about it.
00:21:27Let's talk about it.
00:21:28Okay.
00:21:29Let's talk about it.
00:21:30Let's talk about it.
00:21:30Let's talk about it.
00:21:31Let's talk about it.
00:21:32Let's talk about it.
00:21:33Let's talk about it.
00:21:33I'm sorry.
00:21:35Bye.
00:21:36Bye bye.
00:21:37Bye bye.
00:22:04And I'm not sure, to be honest.
00:22:06I don't know what to do.
00:22:13Bienvenidos.
00:22:14Huh?
00:22:15Bienvenidos.
00:22:16Bienvenidos.
00:22:17For four years, she's been promising me
00:22:20that she's going to learn Spanish.
00:22:22The spelling was right in my head.
00:22:25After such a long time,
00:22:27to not have learned anything at all,
00:22:29that has to be fixed.
00:22:31Because I will marry her if she doesn't speak Spanish.
00:22:39Allo?
00:22:40I'm not married.
00:22:50Wait, come on.
00:22:51No, no.
00:22:52It's not possible for me.
00:22:54Miracle.
00:23:01It's the place that I want to be.
00:23:04So do you guys know what your role is at the wedding?
00:23:07Or what you guys are going to do?
00:23:08I'm the ring bear.
00:23:09You are all three the ring bearers?
00:23:10Yeah.
00:23:11Are you nervous to be a ring bear?
00:23:14You dress up as a bear.
00:23:16Yes.
00:23:18in the wedding show who just put...
00:23:29Oh.
00:23:31Okay, let's do this.
00:23:33Let's go check the place out.
00:23:34Let's do it.
00:23:35Let's go find our bedrooms.
00:23:37Well, the wedding is in two days
00:23:38The wedding is in two days, and we are at the rental house in Colorado.
00:23:43Besides everything going on, we're still really happy.
00:23:46It's been such a long time, and...
00:23:48And?
00:23:49And we're getting married.
00:23:50Yes.
00:23:51All right?
00:23:52Don't forget that key piece.
00:23:53I know. We're getting married. That's true.
00:23:55Okay, here we are.
00:23:58It's huge!
00:23:59Look, here's a nice big kitchen and living room.
00:24:03I have a couple people coming to the wedding, which is pretty exciting.
00:24:06I have people coming from Spain.
00:24:08Then I have Leonardo coming from New York, and I have my uncles and aunties and cousins coming from Spain.
00:24:15A fireplace, a fire pit.
00:24:18Since I came here in Wyoming, I've just been staying at home with the kids and not being surrounded by my people, you know?
00:24:26And it's going to be such a special time and family all together.
00:24:32Hi!
00:24:33Hi!
00:24:33Oh, is it right?
00:24:34Hi!
00:24:35Yeah!
00:24:35Hi!
00:24:36Hi!
00:24:36Hi!
00:24:36Hi!
00:24:37Hi!
00:24:37Welcome, bienvenidos.
00:25:07You will never replace my parents, but at least they're going to be there seeing me getting married. That's amazing.
00:25:16That's your cousin, primo.
00:25:37Because it's not the same, but to replace her a little bit.
00:25:44Salud.
00:25:46Welcome.
00:25:48Welcome.
00:25:50Welcome.
00:25:52The spelling was right in my head.
00:26:07Yo, nice car.
00:26:20Let's get papi.
00:26:23Leonardo just made it here.
00:26:29And I'm really happy to have him because he's my best man.
00:26:33So he's the guy. I need him here now.
00:26:35Are you hungry or what?
00:26:38I'm hungry.
00:26:40Besides that, he hasn't seen my uncles and my auntie like in a long time, 20 years ago.
00:26:4423 years ago was the last time they saw each other.
00:26:47So it's going to be a blast for them.
00:26:48And I just can't wait to see their expressions.
00:26:50You know, they're going to cry or not.
00:26:51They're going to be happy.
00:26:52It's going to be like a whole mix of feelings.
00:27:02She hasn't seen this guy in a long time.
00:27:04I know you can tell, but I'm fine.
00:27:07It's been a long time.
00:27:08Definitely having my family here made me feel like my culture is here.
00:27:12My peoples here make me feel more comfortable.
00:27:18Cute.
00:27:19I'm really happy that they came from so far away just to see me get married.
00:27:23I appreciate them having all of them now.
00:27:26So I'm hungry.
00:27:27What you got to eat?
00:27:28No, everything.
00:27:29We don't have very much.
00:27:31We don't have nothing?
00:27:32Oh, my God.
00:27:33We have a little bit of fruit.
00:27:34Well, maybe you guys should go grocery shopping, man.
00:27:36Yeah, we should do.
00:27:37Let's go.
00:27:38I'll get my jacket.
00:27:39I'll be back in a couple of minutes.
00:27:40I'll see you soon.
00:27:41Let's go.
00:27:42Let's go.
00:27:44Let's go.
00:27:47Are you playing the car?
00:27:48Uh, quality health.
00:27:49How about you?
00:27:51Yeah, so.
00:27:52Well, then, how are you going?
00:27:58I'm adapting to being a father, adapting to the new life.
00:28:02Mr. Dad.
00:28:04After that, the kids are calm, the things work.
00:28:10What I worry about is that the kids don't lose their own culture.
00:28:15No, don't be afraid.
00:28:17For example, my two kids speak Spanish 100%.
00:28:22They don't speak English for anything.
00:28:24English is in the school.
00:28:27Leonardo's situation was a little bit different than mine.
00:28:31He could speak Spanish with his kids all the time
00:28:34because his ex-wife spoke Spanish too.
00:28:38But for me, it's different
00:28:40because I'm the only one who speaks Spanish in the house.
00:28:42Welcome. Welcome to the house.
00:28:45Casa.
00:28:48It's a beautiful house, grande.
00:28:51Dawson, tu gusta.
00:28:54Football.
00:28:55Delibio.
00:28:56Irimi grande.
00:29:01Yeah, of course.
00:29:02I've been a little bit worried about
00:29:03they be learning Spanish or losing my culture here in America
00:29:07and he not being able to talk to his family back in Colombia, you know.
00:29:11Los dardos.
00:29:15Nah.
00:29:16Nah.
00:29:17That's what I was saying in the car.
00:29:19I have to find the way
00:29:22that the kids learn Spanish,
00:29:24that Jessica learn Spanish.
00:29:26They're going to speak English all the time.
00:29:28That's what I'm saying.
00:29:29Yes.
00:29:30You have to find the way to introduce them
00:29:32to the four kids.
00:29:34The two kids of Jessica.
00:29:36No, man.
00:29:37Jessica and the baby.
00:29:38That's impossible.
00:29:39No, that's impossible.
00:29:40No.
00:29:41That's impossible.
00:29:42No.
00:29:43Sobre todo la comunicación, no?
00:29:44Yes, that's the turn.
00:29:45Hablar las cosas.
00:29:46La comunicación, hablar con Jessica.
00:29:48Pasa esto.
00:29:49Así me siento.
00:29:50Jessica and I have been together for four years
00:29:54and since then she's been promising me
00:29:57that she's going to learn Spanish.
00:30:00We got engaged, say, well, I'm going to learn Spanish.
00:30:03Then she got pregnant and she said,
00:30:05now I need to learn Spanish.
00:30:07Now we're getting married
00:30:08and I think it's not an excuse
00:30:10after such a long time
00:30:11to not have learned anything at all.
00:30:14Before I say the idols,
00:30:16that has to be fixed
00:30:17because I won't marry her
00:30:19if she doesn't speak Spanish.
00:30:35Oh, you know, you have this bread.
00:30:41I'm not going to eat that.
00:30:43Try.
00:30:44It's American.
00:30:46The food is bad.
00:30:48No, I miss my baguette.
00:30:50Here is impossible.
00:30:52I have the grocery ciabatta.
00:30:56But it's not the same ciabatta to Europe.
00:30:59Of course not.
00:31:06Mark, breakfast.
00:31:13Stop looking at your phone.
00:31:16I know that today, you know, it's the last day.
00:31:19It's the last day, but maybe they are sleeping.
00:31:23We don't have the same hour.
00:31:27J'essaye vraiment de pas trop penser à Clayton.
00:31:30Donc, c'est un peu comme une obsession, en fait.
00:31:32J'essaye de l'enlever, mais ça revient toujours.
00:31:36Wow, smells good.
00:31:37Come on, baby girl.
00:31:38Let's see what they got down here.
00:31:59We should probably get going, you know?
00:32:01We're late, Alex, as always.
00:32:03Maria.
00:32:04Au revoir.
00:32:05Bye, Alex.
00:32:06Bye, Maria.
00:32:08Bye, Justin.
00:32:10Let's go check out this venue, baby.
00:32:11See if they got it all ready, you know?
00:32:12Yeah.
00:32:13You know, it's strange for me is you organizize the only wedding.
00:32:28I'm scared it can come in.
00:32:30Your surprise is not my surprise.
00:32:33I think you'll like it.
00:32:34I think you'll like it.
00:32:35It's pretty, it's waterfronts, and it's gonna be really beautiful.
00:32:40Like Lake Como, I'm telling you.
00:32:42This is...
00:32:43Don't see you.
00:32:44Don't see you.
00:32:50You're gonna like it.
00:32:51It's a beautiful place.
00:32:52Wow.
00:32:53They're pretty.
00:32:54Blue water.
00:32:55Baby, this is where we're gonna get married.
00:32:56Yeah.
00:32:57It's very beautiful.
00:32:58The tent is cocktail hour.
00:32:59And then over there on the lawn, they'll put the chairs.
00:33:01It's over there.
00:33:02I told you.
00:33:03Hey, Caroline.
00:33:04Hi.
00:33:05How are you?
00:33:06Oh, it's so good.
00:33:07I'm so glad you're finally here.
00:33:08In person.
00:33:09Hi, Caroline.
00:33:10So nice to meet you.
00:33:11Nice to see you again, Mark.
00:33:12Good to see you again.
00:33:13Good to see you.
00:33:14Is it everything you hope for?
00:33:15It's amazing.
00:33:16Good.
00:33:17Yeah.
00:33:18I know there's some things that we need to finish up and go over weddings this weekend.
00:33:35I'm looking for a couple of details still from you guys.
00:33:38Are you prepared to give me the final head count?
00:33:40Is that something that you know?
00:33:41I think so.
00:33:43There's maybe one or two that may fluctuate.
00:33:47I'm waiting for the one special person.
00:33:52I'm not sure he's coming with my son.
00:33:55Oh, gosh.
00:33:56Yeah.
00:33:57Oh, goodness.
00:33:58Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:33:59So she's literally waiting on a phone call.
00:34:00That's so nerve-wracking.
00:34:01To find out.
00:34:04All right, come on.
00:34:05Let's go.
00:34:08All right.
00:34:09Come on in, guys.
00:34:10Let's go ahead and take care of this final balance.
00:34:12All right.
00:34:13So I can get you guys all set.
00:34:17All right.
00:34:18So we've got a bunch of different charges here.
00:34:20Here's all the charges for the wedding.
00:34:22So it kind of goes over those counts up top.
00:34:24Your guarantee.
00:34:25All your final food selections and counts.
00:34:29Here's all your bar information here.
00:34:31So it's got the open bar package.
00:34:33OK.
00:34:34So you're going to process this.
00:34:35Yeah.
00:34:36Let me go ahead.
00:34:37Let me go take care of this.
00:34:38OK.
00:34:39Yeah.
00:34:40Oh, she's Nancy.
00:34:41OK.
00:34:42I hope we have good news for you.
00:34:44Fingers crossed, babe.
00:34:45All right.
00:34:46Yeah.
00:34:47We'll be here.
00:34:48Yeah.
00:34:50This, I think, is far finer now.
00:34:52Hopefully.
00:34:53Hello.
00:34:54Hello, Nancy.
00:34:55Hello, how are you?
00:34:56Yes, how are you?
00:34:57Yes, how are you?
00:34:58I'm all stressed.
00:35:00I'm really stressed.
00:35:02I'm really stressed.
00:35:03Wait.
00:35:04I can't tell you a good news.
00:35:07Sorry, there's a bad news.
00:35:09Oh, yes?
00:35:10What's there?
00:35:11Oh, OK.
00:35:12OK, I'll tell you.
00:35:13OK.
00:35:14OK.
00:35:15OK.
00:35:17OK.
00:35:18OK.
00:35:19OK.
00:35:20OK.
00:35:21OK.
00:35:22OK.
00:35:36OK.
00:35:37OK.
00:35:38I don't know if she's coming back.
00:35:59We didn't realize it would take this long.
00:36:08I don't know if I go home.
00:36:20Yeah.
00:36:22Yeah.
00:36:24Yeah.
00:36:28Yeah.
00:36:33Yeah.
00:36:38What?
00:36:42What?
00:36:44What?
00:36:46It is not possible.
00:36:50It doesn't come in.
00:36:54For me, this is...
00:36:56I don't know.
00:36:58You don't know.
00:37:00You don't know.
00:37:02What?
00:37:04This is not coming.
00:37:06For me, this is...
00:37:08I'm not married.
00:37:10Come on, baby.
00:37:12It's not possible for me.
00:37:14Meena, come on.
00:37:16Meena.
00:37:20Baby!
00:37:22I'm coming.
00:37:24Wow.
00:37:26Since Joan's family's not gonna be able to be here,
00:37:28I've decided to bring Africa to Long Island a little bit.
00:37:30This is Fufu's food goat.
00:37:32Is this typically spicy food?
00:37:34How many questions do you ask?
00:37:46Day before the wedding.
00:37:48This is a big, big night for us.
00:37:50Just like saying that we had to leave home.
00:37:52We had to just be only us.
00:37:54I don't know if your mom was going to come upstairs.
00:37:58What are you guys doing?
00:38:00Can I come in?
00:38:02I got another dress to show you.
00:38:06Go away.
00:38:08I don't care no more.
00:38:12Don't worry about I'm down.
00:38:14Boo, boo, boo, boo, boo.
00:38:16Tonight, on the dinner rehearsal, meeting everyone.
00:38:20Mm-hmm.
00:38:22So what else?
00:38:24You'll see.
00:38:26I hate surprises.
00:38:28Why do you hate surprises?
00:38:30It's nothing bad.
00:38:32I mean, it's not like we're gonna have male strippers coming in,
00:38:34swinging their schlongs in everyone's face.
00:38:36It's just gonna be good stuff, man.
00:38:38This day before my wedding,
00:38:40I've rented a house for Joan and I for the next couple of nights.
00:38:44So I just wanted to just kind of break out a little bit
00:38:46and just surprise the hell out of her.
00:38:48This is it, baby, right here.
00:38:50Wow.
00:38:52Come on with it.
00:38:54Wow.
00:38:56Grego, you killed this one.
00:39:00I should have proposed to you right here.
00:39:02Yeah.
00:39:03Look at that.
00:39:05I wish one day I could own something like this.
00:39:08Absolutely.
00:39:09Raising some children here.
00:39:10Yes.
00:39:12Just can't wait for us to get our own house,
00:39:15like create our own family, just me and you.
00:39:18I have a very vivid imagination,
00:39:20so just picturing me sitting there on the couch at the house
00:39:22and, you know, just picturing some little kids running around,
00:39:25mom yelling at them,
00:39:26because she's definitely gonna be the more strict one.
00:39:28I'm probably gonna be the laid-back one.
00:39:30Of course.
00:39:31I'm very strict.
00:39:32I know I'm gonna be a strict mom.
00:39:34Oh, yeah.
00:39:35We'll be having little bambinos running around.
00:39:37Yes, it's going to be like a dream come true.
00:39:39Absolutely.
00:39:40All right.
00:39:46Nice.
00:39:48So we have a konzu
00:39:50and a traditional dress for Joan
00:39:52from a shop in Brooklyn.
00:39:55And hopefully she's gonna be really happy.
00:39:57Hopefully she's gonna be really, really surprised.
00:40:00You know, the fact that Joan's family's not gonna be able to be here,
00:40:03I've decided to bring Africa to Long Island a little bit.
00:40:06I couldn't really find Uganda and stuff,
00:40:08so I got as close as I possibly could.
00:40:10These are traditional Nigerian outfits.
00:40:13I've got a big head, man.
00:40:16Seems like a chef's hat, yeah.
00:40:18I also got some caterers to come in with some African food.
00:40:21I just hope she sees that, you know,
00:40:23even though she is 7,000 miles away from home,
00:40:25home can kind of be here sometimes.
00:40:28Joan?
00:40:29Yeah.
00:40:30You want to come in?
00:40:31Come on, baby.
00:40:32Come on.
00:40:34Stay here.
00:40:36All right, you ready?
00:40:37Yeah.
00:40:40This is...
00:40:41Oh, um...
00:40:44It's hard to find authentic Ugandan wear.
00:40:48Oh, my God.
00:40:49I love it.
00:40:56This has to be on top.
00:40:57That goes on top.
00:40:58Yes, but...
00:40:59Oh, my God.
00:41:00I'm so excited.
00:41:02Massive, right?
00:41:03Yes.
00:41:04Yeah, that's how it's supposed to be.
00:41:05It's supposed to be big?
00:41:06Yeah.
00:41:07I don't know how even...
00:41:09This is New York, baby.
00:41:10You get whatever you want, okay?
00:41:11As long as you got the scratch, right?
00:41:13Greg's surprising me with an African attire.
00:41:16It's really...
00:41:18Impressing.
00:41:19He has done everything for me.
00:41:20I didn't know if...
00:41:21That he knew even my size,
00:41:22that he could get something that really fits me,
00:41:24so...
00:41:25He really surprised me.
00:41:27All right, we got some people coming over,
00:41:29so...
00:41:30What do you say we get ready?
00:41:32I love you.
00:41:33I love it.
00:41:34I never thought I'd be wearing something like this.
00:41:48All right.
00:41:50Jo!
00:41:51Yeah?
00:41:52Baby!
00:41:53I'm coming.
00:42:05Wow.
00:42:07You look amazing.
00:42:09Do a spin for me.
00:42:11And you got the sandals on.
00:42:13Wow.
00:42:14That looks awesome.
00:42:16That looks good.
00:42:17Yeah?
00:42:18You look great, baby.
00:42:22Oh.
00:42:23Hello.
00:42:24Hey.
00:42:25What's up?
00:42:26What's up?
00:42:27Hello.
00:42:28What's going on?
00:42:29Long time no see.
00:42:30Oh, my God.
00:42:32Beautiful.
00:42:33Beautiful.
00:42:34Beautiful.
00:42:35Wow.
00:42:38This is traditional?
00:42:39Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:42:40Beautiful.
00:42:41You really nailed it.
00:42:42It looks good on you.
00:42:44I feel like the Pope.
00:42:45Is that the...
00:42:46Oh!
00:42:47Hello.
00:42:48Oh, how lovely.
00:42:49How lovely.
00:42:51Did you bring this with...
00:42:52Oh, I didn't look over to my lamp yet.
00:42:54Very nice.
00:42:56I was surprised to see him in that,
00:42:58in this garment he had.
00:43:02I think I'd rather see him in the traditional suit.
00:43:06Lovely.
00:43:07The snacks are coming at me.
00:43:08But Joan looked beautiful.
00:43:10I know.
00:43:11Made her feel, you know, just more, you know, welcome and,
00:43:15you know, comfortable being here.
00:43:17Then we'll do everything for her to make her happy, you know?
00:43:21As long as she makes Gregory happy.
00:43:23There's food.
00:43:24We got drinks.
00:43:25The caterers brought food, goat, spinach.
00:43:26It's all traditional African stuff, so...
00:43:27That looks amazing.
00:43:28Everything looks good.
00:43:29So this is what?
00:43:30Spinach and what else?
00:43:31I feel bones.
00:43:32Joan, do you know what this is with the spinach?
00:43:33No.
00:43:34Gregory, what's this bone in?
00:43:35What kind of meat is this?
00:43:36So there's chicken.
00:43:37Oh, chicken.
00:43:38Chicken.
00:43:39Oh, chicken.
00:43:40Is this typically spicy food or not?
00:43:41Very spicy.
00:43:42Oh, is it?
00:43:43What are these, Greg?
00:43:44How many questions do you have to eat?
00:43:45Sweet.
00:43:46Yeah.
00:43:47Just getting started.
00:43:48You know who you're marrying?
00:43:49Of course I know.
00:43:50A Long Islander.
00:43:53That's how we do it.
00:43:55Go big or go home.
00:43:56Does everybody have some champagne?
00:43:57I just want to say thank you everybody.
00:43:58So there's chicken.
00:43:59And then there's chicken.
00:44:00Chicken.
00:44:01So there's chicken.
00:44:02Chicken.
00:44:03Chicken.
00:44:04Is this typically spicy food or not?
00:44:06Very spicy.
00:44:07Oh, is it?
00:44:08What are these, Greg?
00:44:09How many questions do you have to eat?
00:44:10Sweet.
00:44:12Yeah.
00:44:13We're just getting started.
00:44:15You know who you're marrying?
00:44:16Of course I know.
00:44:17You know?
00:44:18A Long Islander.
00:44:19I still just can't believe the fact
00:44:21that I am getting married tomorrow, you know?
00:44:24But the fact that you embrace Joan wholeheartedly,
00:44:27you show all the love that you give to me,
00:44:29it's truly amazing, and that's really what matters to me the most.
00:44:32She has nobody here but us.
00:44:34So, thank you. Seriously, thank you so much.
00:44:38And it really means a lot to me. Cheers.
00:44:41But I also do have one last surprise.
00:44:43If we could all maybe go out by the seaside
00:44:46and just show Joan one last thing here.
00:44:52Oh, my God, babe.
00:44:54Everything with you doesn't end.
00:44:56Are we going on a boat ride?
00:44:58Just be ready.
00:45:00Pulling rabbits out of hats all night.
00:45:04Babe, what's going on? What's happening?
00:45:06I don't know.
00:45:08Oh, my God.
00:45:10I'm scared.
00:45:11I'm scared.
00:45:12You're here, no?
00:45:16I flew him in, man. I flew him in.
00:45:23Oh, God, you want to go?
00:45:27Oh, wow.
00:45:28Go ahead, baby.
00:45:29Go Joan A!
00:45:30Go Joan A!
00:45:31Woo!
00:45:32He's out of patio.
00:45:36Greg, nailed it.
00:45:37I'm overwhelmed.
00:45:38I don't know what to say.
00:45:41Come on, Joan.
00:45:42I'm going to go with you, babe.
00:45:45This day
00:45:47is my best day, I think.
00:45:50Woo!
00:45:55It really took me back home.
00:45:57My family not being here on this day is really sad
00:46:00because I would like to share these special moments with them.
00:46:03But I feel embraced with Greg's family.
00:46:06I know I'm loved.
00:46:10Maybe.
00:46:15He is really the right guy for me.
00:46:18So I can't wait for us to get married tomorrow
00:46:20because I'm conkshua.
00:46:22He's my man.
00:46:27Thank you, tia, for receiving us.
00:46:32Ay, Mijana, it's a pleasure.
00:46:36This is my close family.
00:46:39I'm worried because maybe my family is on me.
00:46:43Él es mi novio.
00:46:45Ella es tu amiga.
00:46:49Ella es mi novio también, tia.
00:46:52Son tres.
00:46:57How many minutes to the house
00:47:09so I know when this starts really stressing, stressing?
00:47:11I think we probably got 20 minutes.
00:47:14You nervous?
00:47:16You got butterflies?
00:47:17Yeah.
00:47:18What do you say, butterflies?
00:47:20Mariposas?
00:47:21Mariposas.
00:47:23That's a beautiful word.
00:47:24It's the moment we've been waiting for.
00:47:36Oh, y'all ready?
00:47:38Here we are.
00:47:39I'm nervous.
00:47:42My God, I've never went to someone's house like this
00:47:45where I'm dating.
00:47:46Like, f***.
00:47:48I'm scared.
00:47:50Is it not till date to run right now?
00:47:51This is the real deal.
00:47:55We're meeting her aunt, her brother.
00:47:59I look for the blessing, but my aunt and my brother
00:48:05is more religions.
00:48:07So I'm worrying because maybe my family is on me.
00:48:12Hola, hola.
00:48:13Hi, I'm coming in.
00:48:32Nice to meet you.
00:48:32Hi, how are you, señoritas?
00:48:38How are you?
00:48:39How are you?
00:48:39How are you?
00:48:39How are you?
00:48:40How are you?
00:48:41How are you?
00:48:42How are you?
00:48:43She's Amani, and she's Amani, tia?
00:48:44Amani.
00:48:45Hi, I'm really nice to meet you.
00:48:46It's for you.
00:48:47Oh, yeah.
00:48:48Everybody.
00:48:49Is it, um, Virgenia?
00:48:51Virgenia.
00:48:52Virgenia.
00:48:53Virgenia.
00:48:53Virgenia.
00:48:54Hi, uh, uh, Thelma.
00:48:55Thelma?
00:48:56Oh, thank you.
00:48:57Oh, thank you.
00:48:57Thelma, thank you.
00:48:58Thelma, present.
00:49:00All right, girl.
00:49:22Salut.
00:49:23Cheers.
00:49:23Cheers.
00:49:24Cheers.
00:49:25No, sirs.
00:49:25I'm sorry to all parents.
00:49:26Yes, Mrs.
00:49:27です.
00:49:28Bye, girls, please.
00:49:29Yeah.
00:49:29It's a pleasure.
00:49:31Um...
00:49:33Uh...
00:49:37Um...
00:49:39Este...
00:49:41Sí.
00:49:43Oh, I'm dying.
00:49:45Lo reuní aquí para presentarlos.
00:49:47Este...
00:49:49You okay?
00:49:51Excuse me.
00:49:53I'm so nervous, so I'm trying to, like,
00:49:55sip out of this drink, and
00:49:57it goes through the wrong hole.
00:49:59That's how nervous I am.
00:50:01And I cough and cough and cough,
00:50:03and it doesn't want to stop.
00:50:05Uh...
00:50:07Sí.
00:50:09Uh...
00:50:11Ella es tu amiga.
00:50:13Eh...
00:50:15Ella es mi novio también, tía.
00:50:19También me gustan las niñas.
00:50:23Ellos están casados.
00:50:27Con...
00:50:29Quiero tener una relación con él y con ella.
00:50:31¿Cómo?
00:50:37She seems angry.
00:50:39Um...
00:50:41Quisiéramos casar.
00:50:43¿Cómo?
00:50:45¿Cómo?
00:50:47Son tres.
00:50:49Off the ukamily.
00:50:50I don't understand what's going on.
00:50:53I can see Anya getting flustered.
00:50:55The brother and the wife are just, like,
00:50:58eyes wide open, completely shocked.
00:51:00And then unto here, she just
00:51:03completely shuts down.
00:51:03She's not even looking at us.
00:51:06She's just...
00:51:08not happy.
00:51:11Ella...
00:51:12My son won't be able to communicate with his family in Colombia because he doesn't speak
00:51:25the language.
00:51:26I'm busy.
00:51:27I mean, I'm like, now you're here and I have help with David, but before I was doing everything
00:51:32on my own.
00:51:33It's all I heard.
00:51:34Only her skills, skills, and skills.
00:51:35And then I'm trying to say something.
00:51:36You're just stopping, stopping, stopping, and then can you talk or you don't want to
00:51:39talk?
00:51:40What I'm asking for is to not lose my culture.
00:51:43It is a must for this marriage to work out.
00:51:48Who's winning?
00:52:02That does not count.
00:52:07No, you hit it.
00:52:11So how are you guys feeling about tomorrow?
00:52:13Are you guys feeling okay?
00:52:14Yeah.
00:52:15Nervous?
00:52:16Yeah.
00:52:17For the wedding, yeah?
00:52:18Having family here, having my stepkids, seeing them play with my other cousins all together,
00:52:24it's just pretty special.
00:52:26I also got to wine.
00:52:28I didn't realize how I wanted my culture to be part of my family until now.
00:52:36Oh, I know.
00:52:37Crawfish, everything.
00:52:38And now that I can see that my son can lose part of it, I really want to make sure that
00:52:44won't happen.
00:52:45Do I need my coat?
00:52:47Probably not.
00:52:48You're American.
00:52:49I know, but it doesn't mean I don't get cold.
00:52:54Ooh, cold on my butt.
00:52:56Cold on your butt.
00:52:57Cold on my butt, too.
00:52:59I just want to talk about your concern I have about, you know, most of my son, like,
00:53:10losing his culture, my culture, you know, like Spanish.
00:53:14And he won't be able to communicate with his family in Colombia because he doesn't speak
00:53:19the language.
00:53:20And I mean, some others might be easier to learn Spanish in their house because they can
00:53:24speak Spanish all the time, but then you come in here, you speak English, the boys will
00:53:28come in here and they'll speak English, and I'm the only one who will be speaking Spanish.
00:53:34I mean, I literally have never taken any Spanish, and I can do basics if you think of where I
00:53:40started.
00:53:41I mean, I probably only knew how to count to 10.
00:53:42I know.
00:53:43I know, I know, I know.
00:53:44There's a lot of...
00:53:45And I'm busy.
00:53:46I mean, I'm like, now you're here and I have help with David, but before I was doing
00:53:51everything on my own.
00:53:52You just can't say to your son's culture that you don't have time to learn it, you
00:53:58know?
00:53:59And, you know, seeing my cousin's husband having that Spanish label...
00:54:05But he went and lived in Colombia or wherever he went.
00:54:08I know, just let me...
00:54:09Can I finish what I'm saying, please?
00:54:10Yes.
00:54:11It don't matter how he learned, he learned.
00:54:13If he has that label Spanish, I've never heard anybody...
00:54:16For 20 years...
00:54:17Yeah, can I finish, please?
00:54:19He's been speaking Spanish for 20 years.
00:54:23Did you know his level 20 years ago?
00:54:25Yes.
00:54:26You knew him since you were 10?
00:54:27Well, 10 years...
00:54:2810 years ago.
00:54:29Okay, so he had 10 years.
00:54:31Well, you had four.
00:54:32Where you at now?
00:54:33I mean, I don't know.
00:54:34It's all I heard.
00:54:35I only heard skills, skills, and skills, and then I'm trying to say something.
00:54:38You're just stopping, stopping, stopping.
00:54:39Then can I talk?
00:54:40Yes.
00:54:41Go talk.
00:54:42Talk.
00:54:43It's kind of like a low blow because for the past four years of our relationship,
00:54:55I've been raising children.
00:54:57I've been working full-time.
00:54:59You know, I've been really busy, and it's been really hard to find time to learn Spanish.
00:55:03I don't appreciate being blindsided by this conversation, and, you know, tomorrow's our
00:55:08wedding day, and now I feel like I'm going to go into our wedding stressed out.
00:55:12I mean, I've told you this like 8,000 times, so I don't know why we have to have this talk
00:55:17right now, but...
00:55:18Well...
00:55:19Yeah, you know, we're getting married tomorrow.
00:55:22That's why we're having this conversation, you know?
00:55:23Got it, yeah.
00:55:24So it's like a make or break, you learn Spanish, or I don't marry you?
00:55:26I think Jessica don't fully understand the sacrifice I'm making to be here, to be with
00:55:37her and the family, and all I'm asking for is to not lose my culture in this country and
00:55:44for the baby to learn part of it.
00:55:47It is a must for this marriage to work out.
00:55:50Okay, Sarfer's missing.
00:56:01It's the day before our wedding.
00:56:03He left the house without telling me, and he hasn't been answering my calls or my texts.
00:56:08Oh my God, Sarfer.
00:56:10I have no idea where he is.
00:56:12Where is he?
00:56:14This is like the fourth time I've called him.
00:56:36Okay, Sarfer's missing.
00:56:46Oops.
00:56:47I knew I was going to be packing pretty much by myself, but I do need him for part of
00:57:01this.
00:57:04I'm here at the house packing all by myself, and Sarfer's supposed to be here helping me.
00:57:09It's the day before our wedding.
00:57:10We're going to the wedding venue today for the first time.
00:57:14There's so much left to prepare, and I have no idea where he is.
00:57:17He left the house without telling me, and he hasn't been answering my calls or my texts.
00:57:22What was the issue this morning?
00:57:25The issue, well, the thing that happened this morning is I set things on the ledge there
00:57:32that need to go downstairs, and I set the empty coffee pot and the basket full of grinds
00:57:37there, and he was trying to be helpful.
00:57:40He picked it up.
00:57:41He set the grinds on top of the coffee pot, and it just fell off very quickly, and so coffee
00:57:46grinds went all down the stairs.
00:57:48He hates to make a mess, and so he started yelling at me, and I was like, don't yell
00:57:52at me because you made a mistake.
00:57:54And then I guess he left, but I didn't hear him leave, and I've been calling and texting
00:57:58him.
00:58:00When Sarpra gets really upset, I mean, he has a hot temper.
00:58:03Like, he flares up really fast, but he also cools down quickly.
00:58:07So, even if he did just leave the house to cool down, he should be back by now because
00:58:13we're about to leave.
00:58:14How long since he had left?
00:58:17It's been an hour.
00:58:19Maybe he's nervous.
00:58:20Is that a concern?
00:58:25I don't know.
00:58:29Okay, I'm just going to call him.
00:58:37I'm sorry.
00:58:38You can't leave a message because the person you called...
00:58:41And he refuses to set up his voicemail.
00:58:49Actually, you know what I have?
00:58:53I have an air tag on his keychain, so I can actually find out where he is.
00:59:00I put an air tag on Sarpra's keychain because if he loses his keys, we need to be able to
00:59:05find them.
00:59:06Where is this?
00:59:11And what's the real reason there's an air tag on Sarpra's keychain?
00:59:16The real reason there's an air tag on Sarpra's keychain is because he won't share his location
00:59:23with me in maps.
00:59:25And I think that if somebody is that against sharing their location, it's kind of suspicious
00:59:31and it feels shady.
00:59:32It feels like they're up to no good and they're being secretive.
00:59:35It looks like it's a coffee shop, actually.
00:59:38Maybe he's getting a coffee, but that doesn't explain why he wouldn't answer my calls.
00:59:42I want to go find him and see what his problem is.
00:59:57Let me turn on my GPS so I know where I'm going.
01:00:05We do not have time today to be doing all this.
01:00:16What's going on?
01:00:18She kind of said she was calling you and you weren't picking up.
01:00:22I just want to be alone.
01:00:25It's more real right now.
01:00:27It's a big decision.
01:00:28I, a decision that I made a promise to myself.
01:00:31Never done again in my life and I'm doing it again.
01:00:35I was married 15 years ago and it was a complete disaster.
01:00:42Still, right now I am doing the same mistake again maybe, who knows.
01:00:46I need to clear out my mind and I have to figure out what I want here.
01:00:53What am I doing?
01:00:54How far away are we right now?
01:00:56We're three minutes.
01:00:57I did this mistake once.
01:01:01Everything is so overwhelming.
01:01:03I'm so scared that she will change.
01:01:05For two years, we never talked about it.
01:01:07Clean up things.
01:01:08And then at the last point, she comes with an agreement.
01:01:18What are you doing?
01:01:20Why are you here?
01:01:21I'm so scared.
01:01:27Oh, my God.
01:01:28Scared?
01:01:29Of marriage.
01:01:32What?
01:01:33Are you 100% sure?
01:01:38Yeah, well, I mean, I was 100% sure, but you're making me really nervous now.
01:01:42Do you not want to get married?
01:01:48You see him upset?
01:02:13What happened?
01:02:14He screwed up, big time.
01:02:15I wish I would have realized the mistake a little bit sooner, because I want Joan to
01:02:21be able to trust me, and I'm freaking out.
01:02:25What happened?
01:02:27No, no no.
01:02:37No, no, no, no.
01:02:38No, no.
01:02:39No, no no religion is that you could've been married.
01:02:41Do you have you thought about that?
01:02:43Legalmente solamente me puedo casar con uno
01:02:53Porque pues ellos están casados y ellos se tienen que divorciar para que yo me case
01:02:59Yo sé que es difícil de entender
01:03:03Pero son las personas con las que quiero estar realmente
01:03:07Wow, es una noticia nueva, sorprendente, impactante
01:03:17Yo realmente pensaba, me iba a presentar a su novio y a algunos amigos
01:03:24Y pues resulta pues que es otra situación
01:03:28Tell them, we have been married for almost 10 years
01:03:35For us to divorce for someone
01:03:40Should show you how much we care about you
01:03:44So you can also have a better life with your kids
01:04:00Y sé que pues tendría una mejor familia para ofrecerle a Antonella
01:04:05Lo más que así como que todavía no me entra en la cabeza que diga
01:04:18Mi hermano va a vivir con una mujer y con un hombre a la vez
01:04:23Yo soy abierto
01:04:25Si es contigo, contigo, contigo
01:04:29No tengo objeción
01:04:32Muchas gracias hermano
01:04:34Me preocupa por Brenda
01:04:39Su niña es difícil
01:04:43Yo estoy, siempre estoy al pendiente de ella
01:04:46Viendo su felicidad
01:04:49Pero lo que no acabo de entender yo
01:04:51Como es de que los dos son novios
01:04:55Yo siento que esto no es normal
01:04:58Sobre todo mi religión
01:04:59Tell her you're not alone anymore
01:05:05Tell her for a long, long time
01:05:16It was Brenda against the world
01:05:18But now it's the three of us against the world
01:05:21Dice que Brenda estaba sola
01:05:25Y que ahora pues Brenda va a estar cuidada
01:05:28Es difícil, es difícil para mí
01:05:42Aceptarlo así
01:05:45Pero, ¿sabes qué?
01:05:51Me da mucho gusto
01:05:53Veo en tu mirada
01:05:55Que también la quieres mucho
01:05:57¿Sí?
01:05:58Sí, sí
01:05:58He's happy because
01:06:00He look, uh, you love me
01:06:02Aw, we do
01:06:03Very much
01:06:04Gracias, tía
01:06:06Pero usted cree que, pues
01:06:09En algún momento
01:06:10Pudiera darme la bendición
01:06:13De que, pues, que nos vaya bien en la relación
01:06:15Sí
01:06:17Y te quiero mucho
01:06:18So you'll come to the wedding
01:06:22Aw, thank you
01:06:31Thank you
01:06:33Thank you
01:06:35Thank you
01:06:38Aw
01:06:39Gracias, tía
01:06:41Gracias
01:06:42I'm a hugger
01:06:43I feel so happy
01:06:50Because this is a big deal
01:06:52For my own
01:06:53To give me a blessing
01:06:55Aw, so sweet
01:06:59This is the moment
01:07:06We've been waiting for
01:07:08This is what we came here for
01:07:10It's better than any of us
01:07:12Could have expected
01:07:13And I definitely have
01:07:16That gut feeling
01:07:17That I feel like
01:07:18A thousand percent sure
01:07:19About taking the next step
01:07:21Cry
01:07:22Worth divorcing for
01:07:23And we're so ready
01:07:24To bring her
01:07:25To live with us
01:07:26You know, there's
01:07:27There's no one else
01:07:28That I would do this for
01:07:29And
01:07:29Aw
01:07:30There's nobody
01:07:32I would rather block
01:07:33This earth
01:07:34Triple hug
01:07:35Triple hug
01:07:35Aw
01:07:39Good morning
01:07:59I can't believe
01:08:00You're getting married
01:08:01I know
01:08:01It's crazy
01:08:02This is like
01:08:04The greatest moment
01:08:04Of my life
01:08:05It really is
01:08:06It's so beautiful
01:08:07You had a good night though
01:08:09Yeah
01:08:10That was a good surprise
01:08:12Yeah
01:08:13You're crazy
01:08:14I know
01:08:14Crazy about you, baby
01:08:16All right, let's do this
01:08:18Oh, wow
01:08:28Breakfast
01:08:31So today's our wedding day
01:08:35Let's go
01:08:37You know, I'm ready
01:08:38I'm ready
01:08:39I'm hyped
01:08:40I feel like
01:08:40Dreamed for this day
01:08:42I'm happy
01:08:43And I'm excited
01:08:43To marry my king
01:08:45Oh, my queen
01:08:46Okay
01:08:47I think it's getting late
01:08:49I have to go to the
01:08:50Saloon
01:08:51Saloon
01:08:52Saloon
01:08:54I mean
01:08:58The fact that
01:08:59The next time
01:09:00I'm gonna see
01:09:01Joan
01:09:01Is gonna be at the altar
01:09:02We're gonna be
01:09:04Telling each other
01:09:04Our vows
01:09:05And within a few hours
01:09:07She's gonna be my wife
01:09:08It's, um
01:09:08It's everything
01:09:10I've ever wanted
01:09:11Yeah
01:09:12All right, babe
01:09:12I'll let you go
01:09:13It's the best feeling
01:09:17I've ever felt
01:09:17In my life
01:09:18It really is
01:09:18And I just can't wait
01:09:21To say I do
01:09:22Love you
01:09:23Hi, good morning
01:09:30Hello
01:09:30I'm heading to
01:09:35The hairdresser
01:09:36In Uganda
01:09:38It's very easy
01:09:39Because everything
01:09:40Is cheaper
01:09:41So you will get
01:09:42The hairdresser
01:09:43To come at the house
01:09:43You have a makeup
01:09:44Artist
01:09:44The hairdresser
01:09:45Everything
01:09:46Just do everything
01:09:47In your room
01:09:47Thank you
01:09:51Hi, Ralph
01:09:55How are you?
01:09:56I'm good, thank you
01:09:56We're gonna start
01:09:57With your nails
01:09:58Yes, I'm ready
01:09:58Okay
01:09:58Make yourself comfortable
01:10:00Okay
01:10:01Lily
01:10:07Daisy, Lily
01:10:08You see him upset?
01:10:15I am
01:10:15What happened?
01:10:16He screwed up
01:10:17Big time
01:10:17Man
01:10:19What happened?
01:10:20So
01:10:21The arrival time
01:10:23On the invitation
01:10:24Is 6.30
01:10:25The ceremony
01:10:26Starts at 6.30
01:10:27So people are gonna
01:10:29Be arriving
01:10:29To the wedding
01:10:30While I'm getting married
01:10:31That's not good
01:10:33You don't want
01:10:36People walking
01:10:36In and out
01:10:37Or, you know
01:10:38While you're
01:10:38Saying your vows
01:10:39And stuff
01:10:40Yeah
01:10:40You didn't put
01:10:42Like a little note
01:10:43Please arrive early
01:10:43The ceremony
01:10:44Will start promptly
01:10:45At 6.30
01:10:46I didn't even think
01:10:46About it
01:10:47I screwed
01:10:48The bed, man
01:10:49You know
01:10:50Yeah
01:10:52I'm just so like
01:10:56Everything gets set back
01:11:00If people start
01:11:00Showing up later
01:11:01If we start
01:11:02The ceremony late
01:11:03Then the cocktail hour
01:11:04Starts late
01:11:04I mean, these are all
01:11:05Things that we've paid for
01:11:06They could also
01:11:07Go ahead and turn around
01:11:08And charge me extra
01:11:09What are you gonna do now?
01:11:11I mean
01:11:12I just have to say
01:11:13A mass text message
01:11:14Or something
01:11:14I wish I would have realized
01:11:20A mistake a little bit sooner
01:11:21Because I want Joan
01:11:23To be able to
01:11:24Trust me
01:11:25She wanted me
01:11:26To get a job
01:11:26And get my life together
01:11:28I want to be that man
01:11:30That she knows
01:11:30That she can wake up to
01:11:31And rely on
01:11:32To just know
01:11:33That I'm dependable
01:11:34And reliable
01:11:35I don't think
01:11:43She would appreciate
01:11:44People walking in
01:11:45On her ceremony
01:11:46As she's walking
01:11:46Down the aisle
01:11:47So
01:11:47It sucks
01:11:48I feel like
01:11:49I kind of dropped the ball
01:11:49And I'm freaking out
01:11:52Let's see
01:11:53We'll start with Kelly
01:11:54I'm feeling nervous
01:12:01Because I feel like
01:12:02I'm late
01:12:02Well so far
01:12:07We're an hour late
01:12:07There's still no sign
01:12:09Or even word
01:12:10From Aaliyah
01:12:11What time is this
01:12:12We're supposed to be here?
01:12:13Five
01:12:14It's like 6.30
01:12:15And we're supposed to be
01:12:16Eating at six
01:12:17Things are feeling
01:12:19Out of control
01:12:20And people are
01:12:21Melting in 104 degree heat
01:12:23Including my mom
01:12:25Aaliyah
01:12:35You want a glass of champagne?
01:12:44Okay
01:12:44I'm so happy to be here with you
01:12:45And I'm so excited
01:12:47And I'm so happy for you
01:12:48I really appreciate
01:12:49You're the only person that I have
01:12:50Aw I love you
01:12:52Amazing
01:12:52I think I will start with my
01:13:03Hair
01:13:04Okay
01:13:05This is hair
01:13:07I'm like this is all hair stuff
01:13:11Let me just get
01:13:12I'm doing my own hair
01:13:14And I feel most more oriented
01:13:16About Sean
01:13:17How he reacts
01:13:19Of my production
01:13:20This is the biggest day ever
01:13:23So I need to look like
01:13:25Everything needs to be perfect
01:13:26Especially that hair
01:13:28How long we have?
01:13:29How many time?
01:13:30How much time
01:13:31Would you say you would need?
01:13:33I think one hour and thirty
01:13:35Two hours
01:13:36You still
01:13:37You need two hours from now?
01:13:38Yes
01:13:39We have
01:13:43No you don't have
01:13:45We don't have
01:13:47You don't have it at all
01:13:50You have about 90 minutes
01:13:53So you have
01:13:53Thirty minutes like short
01:13:55Of what you wish you had
01:13:56My mom had a slip and fall
01:14:06Just now
01:14:06Oh god
01:14:08Yeah
01:14:08And I mean bad
01:14:09And I'm like trying to figure out
01:14:11A way
01:14:11For her to get from the house
01:14:13To her car
01:14:14To the venue
01:14:15You know
01:14:15She's not gonna
01:14:16Okay
01:14:17I'll head up to her house
01:14:18Send me your address
01:14:19Okay
01:14:19Alright
01:14:20Alright
01:14:20Thanks
01:14:21Okay
01:14:21Bye
01:14:22Stacey's bringing my mom
01:14:30And a wheelchair with her
01:14:31I feel like she's
01:14:33Being taken care of
01:14:34So that's a huge relief
01:14:35To me at this point
01:14:36Oh my goodness
01:14:36Alright
01:14:36So here's this
01:14:38Okay
01:14:38Gorgeous
01:14:39Yeah
01:14:40And just
01:14:40Let her know
01:14:41This
01:14:42Needs to be
01:14:43Brushed out
01:14:43And it's an alternate
01:14:44In case something goes awry
01:14:46With the originals
01:14:47And I have
01:14:48The dog
01:14:49The rings
01:14:50The flowers
01:14:52My suit
01:14:53And it's a hundred
01:14:55And something degrees outside
01:14:56So every part of me
01:14:58Is sweating
01:14:59I still have the rings
01:15:01I'm pretty nervous
01:15:09Because I feel like I'm late
01:15:10And that is
01:15:12I'm very perfectionist
01:15:14So for me
01:15:15I'm never
01:15:16Done
01:15:17Aaliyah
01:15:24Yes
01:15:26So I just talked to Sean
01:15:31And he said that
01:15:33Jean had a fall
01:15:34This morning
01:15:35So she has hurt
01:15:37Her hip
01:15:37And her ankle
01:15:38Jean?
01:15:39Yes
01:15:40His mother?
01:15:41Yeah
01:15:41She fell?
01:15:44Yeah
01:15:44At the house
01:15:45Earlier
01:15:46I guess after we left
01:15:47To come here
01:15:48To get ready
01:15:49I don't know
01:15:51How hard
01:15:51Was like
01:15:52When she fell
01:15:53And I started
01:15:54To worry about Sean
01:15:55Because I know
01:15:56How much he cares
01:15:57To his mom
01:15:57I'm feeling worried
01:16:00I'm feeling overwhelmed
01:16:01I'm feeling anxious
01:16:02So it's a lot of things
01:16:03Dropping inside my mind
01:16:04And just a lot
01:16:06Are you okay?
01:16:12I'm not okay
01:16:12But I try to be
01:16:14Alright
01:16:15I'm gonna let you finish
01:16:16So it's time
01:16:24For the ceremony
01:16:25Can you meet my husband
01:16:27By the way?
01:16:27I'm gonna walk
01:16:28She's
01:16:29You can't walk
01:16:30Is it me
01:16:31Or does the bar
01:16:32Not open yet?
01:16:36I'm good to go
01:16:40The first thing
01:16:43I'm looking for
01:16:44Is to see
01:16:44If my mom
01:16:45Is there
01:16:46Or at the hospital
01:16:46Oh
01:16:48You guys warm enough?
01:16:55Yeah I am
01:16:55But it's not too bad
01:16:56Right?
01:16:56Look at the sparkles
01:16:58Oh my goodness
01:16:59Hi
01:17:00Hey
01:17:01Mom
01:17:01I'm relieved to see
01:17:03She's in the front row
01:17:05Her foot is propped up
01:17:06And she's got eyes
01:17:07So at this point
01:17:09In my mind
01:17:09I know
01:17:10I just need to
01:17:11Have the ceremony happen
01:17:13And then
01:17:13Ship my mom
01:17:14To the hospital
01:17:15With whoever
01:17:15Will take her
01:17:16And then continue
01:17:17On with the wedding
01:17:18Is anyone
01:17:26Standing up there
01:17:27With Aaliyah?
01:17:28Her girlfriend
01:17:29Is gonna stand up there
01:17:30All right
01:17:37Okay
01:17:40Let's go
01:17:40Get the dress on
01:17:41Yeah
01:17:42We need to like
01:17:43Open
01:17:43So I can get into
01:17:45Yeah
01:17:45And now
01:17:46We need to open
01:17:47One fit
01:17:50And the other side
01:17:52Yeah like that
01:17:55Hello
01:17:59Getting a little tardy
01:18:02Are we sure
01:18:03That this is coming?
01:18:04Maybe not
01:18:05Says it's gonna start at 5
01:18:07Oh no there's no way
01:18:08It's not going to
01:18:08No
01:18:09It's 6 right now
01:18:10And it was my last words
01:18:13To him was
01:18:14Do not let this be
01:18:16Like the engagement
01:18:17Yeah
01:18:18Two hours late
01:18:19So far we're an hour late
01:18:22Good luck getting out
01:18:25Of this
01:18:26Wow
01:18:35It's
01:18:36Stunning
01:18:37It's beautiful right
01:18:42You look so great
01:18:43You look beautiful
01:18:44Yeah
01:18:44Look at it
01:18:46Oh my god
01:18:46It's beautiful
01:18:47How does it feel?
01:18:50I just
01:18:51Like feel
01:18:52Complete
01:18:53I'm feeling wonderful
01:18:54Now I'm just
01:18:55I cannot wait
01:18:56Time is going
01:19:04And going
01:19:05And going
01:19:06And there's still
01:19:07No sign
01:19:08Or even word
01:19:09From Aaliyah
01:19:10What time is this
01:19:12Supposed to be here?
01:19:135
01:19:13It's like 6.30
01:19:15And we're supposed
01:19:15To be eating at 6
01:19:16I'm here if you need me
01:19:21Getaway cars outside
01:19:23Fantastic
01:19:23Well if it's another
01:19:2445 minutes
01:19:25I'll meet you over there
01:19:26Alright
01:19:29Maxwell
01:19:33No
01:19:34Oh my god
01:19:46We have no idea
01:19:49What's going on
01:19:50At this point we should have already been like almost done with dinner
01:19:53Yeah
01:19:53I have a heart out at 8
01:19:56Yeah
01:19:57I'm over it
01:20:01I'm no longer sitting
01:20:02I'm no longer cooperating
01:20:03They should be providing some kind of drinks for people
01:20:06Things are feeling out of control
01:20:08And people are melting in 104 degree heat
01:20:12Including my mom
01:20:13And finally I just said
01:20:16You know
01:20:17No
01:20:18Like no more
01:20:20I'm done
01:20:20Literally like
01:20:23No going back
01:20:25Done
01:20:25Next time on 90 Day Fiance
01:20:33I asked her if she's bisexual
01:20:36She said
01:20:37No
01:20:38She's not
01:20:38Basically you don't have an answer
01:20:40I know
01:20:41Your family is not here
01:20:43And I kind of feel
01:20:44This responsibility
01:20:46And I'm going to tell her that myself
01:20:48Since the days I got here
01:20:50I've been worried about him
01:20:52What if
01:20:53He says something
01:20:54And I lose
01:20:55To his trust
01:20:56Steve I was hoping I could have a conversation with you before the wedding
01:21:01Is he nervous?
01:21:06Yeah you know why
01:21:07Because he didn't tell everybody to arrive a little earlier so
01:21:10I screwed up
01:21:12We're going to have people going making their way to their seats
01:21:15While Joan is walking down the aisle
01:21:16Let's hope they all got the message and we'll turn up a few minutes earlier for the ceremony
01:21:22Hopefully
01:21:22Not to myself
01:21:24This is the first time where I really truly start to panic
01:21:28How did you find me?
01:21:34I put an air tag on your keys so that we can find the keys if they get lost
01:21:39The level of mistrust is unbelievable
01:21:42And right now this is the last drop
01:21:44In the last day
01:21:46If we don't get married you have to go back to Turkey
01:21:49Yeah
01:21:50Is that what you want?
01:21:51Hey now come on
01:21:56No he never
01:21:57He doesn't ever believe me
01:21:59I promise he's coming
01:22:01Maybe did you call Clayton yet?
01:22:08You know it's for me it's a big stress
01:22:11You have to tell him like this he can't wait
01:22:13He has to know now
01:22:14Hi Clayton
01:22:20Are you good?
01:22:27It's saddened me that we're leaving tomorrow
01:22:29But in the back of everyone's mind at this point
01:22:32It's the big question
01:22:33Who does she want to marry?
01:22:35She has to choose
01:22:37So I know I can marry it with only one
01:22:40Whatever decision you make
01:22:42You'll be happy with the outcome
01:22:43The person
01:22:46Oh my god
01:22:48I want to marry it with
01:22:50Sorry
01:22:56Not having it
01:22:59You're not supposed to see her
01:23:01I don't give a f***
01:23:03It's now an hour and 45 minutes
01:23:06After the time that our wedding's supposed to happen
01:23:08I am so mad at them
01:23:11And so angry
01:23:12I love your suit
01:23:14That's great
01:23:14You can see me in the car
01:23:15Driving off in it
01:23:17Maybe it's not meant to be
01:23:19Maybe I can't be in this relationship
01:23:21You can see me in the car
01:23:23You can see me in the car
01:23:23You can see me in the car
01:23:24You can see me in the car
01:23:25You can see me in the car
01:23:25You can see me in the car
01:23:27You can see me in the car
01:23:27You can see me in the car
01:23:28You can see me in the car
01:23:29You can see me in the car
01:23:30You can see me in the car
01:23:31You can see me in the car
01:23:31You can see me in the car
01:23:32You can see me in the car
01:23:32You can see me in the car
01:23:33You can see me in the car
01:23:33You can see me in the car
01:23:34You can see me in the car
01:23:34You can see me in the car
01:23:35You can see me in the car
01:23:36You can see me in the car
01:23:37You can see me in the car
01:23:38You can see me in the car
01:23:39You can see me in the car
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