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90 Day Fiance S11E15 (2025)
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00:00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiancé.
00:00:04Ladies and gentlemen, Mrs. Rosie Cheeks.
00:00:07You know, drinking, having fun,
00:00:09it reminds me of the good old days when I was on the boat.
00:00:12Did you have a good night?
00:00:14Let me have a great night.
00:00:15Boat.
00:00:16Boat.
00:00:17Boat. There's both.
00:00:19Couple days ago, a hot call from the cruise line.
00:00:24Love your job or love your family.
00:00:26Don't waste my time.
00:00:27Don't do it.
00:00:28It's up to you.
00:00:31Getting married in two weeks,
00:00:33and I can't guarantee you that our marriage would survive
00:00:36if you had gender reassignment surgery.
00:00:41Just thinking about the end,
00:00:43and we have not even started our journey.
00:00:46Now it's something that I'm not thinking about,
00:00:49but I cannot tell you that I'll think like that forever.
00:00:56I am excited to meet him,
00:00:58but how would that play out if me and him didn't necessarily get along?
00:01:03I would definitely choose my daughter over love.
00:01:05So if Sophie doesn't give her blessing, then I wouldn't marry him.
00:01:10What did Vic say about the dowry?
00:01:12I don't know how he's really going to pay for the dowry,
00:01:15because he's not financially stable.
00:01:18The dowry I had told you about is 15 cows.
00:01:23Realistically, though, how does somebody afford 15 cows?
00:01:25People do afford it.
00:01:26It's just you who can afford.
00:01:30Put your hands together for the one, the only, the gorgeous,
00:01:32Ms. Juno!
00:01:34I don't know why Stevie would put me in this situation.
00:01:43It's just so against my upbringing.
00:01:45You still have 60 days, so maybe take some time.
00:01:49I definitely don't feel like I'm rushing anything.
00:01:51He needs to know the truth,
00:01:53that maybe she's actually bisexual,
00:01:55and I'm gonna talk to her.
00:01:57You could have just told us,
00:01:59hey, my real name is this, but I'd like to be called Ani.
00:02:02I dare you, I don't want to fight more.
00:02:07Here we are trying to get divorced for you,
00:02:08and bring you to our family.
00:02:10You've lied about all this for a year.
00:02:12Betrayal is honestly an understatement.
00:02:16What a show.
00:02:19I feel bad.
00:02:20I want to be honest, but I need my time.
00:02:27You're 100% sure about doing this?
00:02:41Yeah, are you?
00:02:42Yeah, for sure.
00:02:43I have no hesitation.
00:02:53And I want it in red ink, which is not removable.
00:02:56By the way.
00:02:57You are brave, you know?
00:02:58But I know it.
00:02:59I mean, women are more brave than men.
00:03:01Babe, it's not about being brave.
00:03:02It's about being sure about you.
00:03:04Like, I'm sure about you.
00:03:05That's good.
00:03:07I always wanted a tattoo on my neck,
00:03:09and it started with me wanting his name on my neck.
00:03:11First, you said on my face.
00:03:13Yeah, I wanted it right here on my face.
00:03:15I said, no, I mean, it's very crazy.
00:03:18I'm very mental.
00:03:20Writing someone's name, I mean, even it's me.
00:03:23Yeah, that's like the ultimate commitment.
00:03:25I mean, it's more than wearing a ring.
00:03:27I can't take a tattoo off, especially if it's in red ink.
00:03:30Oh, my God.
00:03:31Okay, do it.
00:03:34Are you excited to get my lips on your neck?
00:03:36Yeah.
00:03:37Yeah.
00:03:38Yeah?
00:03:39Mm-hmm.
00:03:40I mean, the most visible thing when I first saw you was your lips.
00:03:48I remember my mother first asked when she saw you about your lips.
00:03:52Wait, you didn't tell me about this.
00:03:53Yeah, I didn't.
00:03:54What did she ask you?
00:03:55I mean, what are those lips?
00:03:57What are those lips?
00:03:58Yeah.
00:03:59Wait, your mom went and got lip filler, though, after I met her.
00:04:01Yeah, after you.
00:04:02Oh, my God.
00:04:03I mean, you all chemistry of our family.
00:04:06You like what these lips do.
00:04:07So you deserve to have my neck to be filled with your lips, babe.
00:04:12Hey, how's it going?
00:04:22Hi, Rachel.
00:04:23Hey, welcome back.
00:04:24Good to see you.
00:04:25Doing great.
00:04:26Good to see you.
00:04:27Nice to meet you, sir.
00:04:28Yeah, pleasure.
00:04:29Nice to meet you.
00:04:30Good to see you.
00:04:31Good to see you as well.
00:04:32Why don't you two come on back?
00:04:33Okay.
00:04:34We can get going.
00:04:35Sure.
00:04:36So, I heard you wanted some lips.
00:04:37Yeah.
00:04:38Yeah?
00:04:39Yeah.
00:04:40First start with her.
00:04:41Okay.
00:04:42And then my name.
00:04:43Okay.
00:04:44With my name on her neck.
00:04:45Yeah.
00:04:46As a reward, I want her lips on my neck.
00:04:47Okay.
00:04:48And I think we both want the red ink.
00:04:50Okay.
00:04:51Yeah.
00:04:52You can't remove red ink, right?
00:04:53Yeah, it's more difficult, so.
00:04:54Very serious.
00:04:55Are you sure?
00:04:56Yeah.
00:04:57Yeah.
00:04:58We'll still even talk about getting rid of it yet.
00:04:59Right, yeah.
00:05:00We haven't even gotten them.
00:05:01Sounds good.
00:05:02I can grab us some paper.
00:05:03Okay.
00:05:04You need to kiss the sheet, right?
00:05:05Yes.
00:05:06And we'll get going, right?
00:05:07Sounds good.
00:05:08There you go.
00:05:09Yeah.
00:05:10Try to do a good job.
00:05:12I feel like a student that you are...
00:05:14Okay, I will watch.
00:05:15You try to...
00:05:16Okay.
00:05:17Just give options, though.
00:05:20That's cute.
00:05:21Yeah, that's good.
00:05:23Okay.
00:05:24I'm gonna have you lay down.
00:05:25Okay.
00:05:26And then we're gonna stretch your neck over.
00:05:27So, my neck.
00:05:28Yep.
00:05:29Perfect.
00:05:30Doing good, yeah.
00:05:31Perfect.
00:05:32I'm gonna start with one of the smaller letters first, okay?
00:05:35Okay.
00:05:36So, how did this idea come about today?
00:05:41She kind of had a talk with her daughter.
00:05:43Mm-hmm.
00:05:44About us and our marriage.
00:05:46Mm-hmm.
00:05:47So, I just wanted to talk to you a little bit because I told you that I wouldn't marry
00:05:53Sarper unless you were okay with it and you liked him.
00:05:58Mm-hmm.
00:05:59And so, I just wanted to check in with you.
00:06:01Are you feeling good about me going into a marriage with him?
00:06:05Well, you see, I'm gonna go into college, too.
00:06:08So, this is really just you living your life.
00:06:11I just feel like, you know, like, you're doing what you think is right.
00:06:14So, like, if you feel confident about it, then that makes me feel more reassured.
00:06:19Are you crying?
00:06:20A little.
00:06:21Yeah.
00:06:22It just means so much to me because we've been through a lot together and Sophie's approval
00:06:34is the most important thing to me because, you know, that's my daughter and I love her
00:06:38more than anyone.
00:06:39And I just really care about what she thinks.
00:06:43So, the fact that she's okay with me, marrying Sarper just means so much.
00:06:48And I'm glad that she's saying that.
00:06:50I've been wanting to hear that.
00:06:51So, I'm really happy.
00:06:56So, she was positive.
00:06:58So, it's kind of a commitment for our wedding and relationship.
00:07:05So, it's a good timing, I think.
00:07:08Symbol for the love, huh?
00:07:09Like, kind of.
00:07:10Yeah.
00:07:11Something symbolic.
00:07:12Yeah.
00:07:13Okay.
00:07:16You have my name.
00:07:17Yay.
00:07:18Take your time sitting up, okay?
00:07:19As long as you feel okay.
00:07:20Where's the mirror at?
00:07:21There it is.
00:07:26Wow.
00:07:30You're a crazy guy.
00:07:31You are too.
00:07:32You are more crazier than me.
00:07:34We're a crazy couple.
00:07:35When we are fighting every day.
00:07:37I mean, what kind of risk that we are taking?
00:07:43Your turn, Ben.
00:07:44Okay.
00:07:47When I lay down, I'm...
00:07:48Yeah, just on your back, I think.
00:07:49Yeah.
00:07:50Okay.
00:07:51Give me your phone.
00:07:52Let me see your neck real quick.
00:07:53Let's see.
00:07:54Like a picnic blanket.
00:07:55Huh?
00:07:56Tablecloth.
00:07:57Let's see like this.
00:07:59Some girls like bubble baths with candles and like all these like little romantic things.
00:08:04Rose petals, all that stuff.
00:08:05But this is romantic to me.
00:08:07You chose a great shape.
00:08:08The lips look really nice.
00:08:09This is kind of like a promise that no matter how much we fight, we're always going to get through it and we're always going to stay together.
00:08:17You say that?
00:08:18Yeah.
00:08:19Oh my God.
00:08:20Well, if we have tattoos of each other, we have to make it work.
00:08:24Whatever happens, I will keep that lips there. I promise you.
00:08:29Unless you cheat on me.
00:08:31Don't worry.
00:08:32Say something.
00:08:33I won't.
00:08:34Don't worry.
00:08:35I won't.
00:08:36I won't.
00:08:37All right, bud.
00:08:38Nice.
00:08:39You're okay to sit up and take a look.
00:08:41Yeah.
00:08:42Yep.
00:08:43Wow.
00:08:44Oh my God.
00:08:45Babe, those are really big lips.
00:08:47I feel like it's really big lips.
00:08:49I feel like it's really big lips.
00:08:51It's really big lips.
00:08:52It's really big lips.
00:08:54It's really big lips.
00:08:55It's really big lips.
00:08:56It's really big lips.
00:08:57I feel like having lips on your neck is like the ultimate bad boy.
00:09:00It's like the tramp stamp for bad boys.
00:09:02Really?
00:09:03Yeah.
00:09:04The retired one?
00:09:05Well, you are.
00:09:06Am I?
00:09:07Are you?
00:09:08I am.
00:09:09Resigned.
00:09:10Not retired.
00:09:11Resigned.
00:09:12Okay, good.
00:09:13I like that.
00:09:14Love you.
00:09:27No way to rise above.
00:09:30I made you coffee this morning, but you didn't drink it.
00:09:36It's there if you decide you want it later.
00:09:38How did you feel last night?
00:09:53It was fine.
00:09:55It was fine.
00:09:58Hmm.
00:09:59Maddie has been extremely quiet since the bachelor bachelorette party.
00:10:04And I am a little bit worried as to where his head is.
00:10:07I don't know if it's from exhaustion or if he's still like trying to process everything that we've been through.
00:10:13But our wedding is tomorrow.
00:10:16So I'm really needing him to communicate with me right now.
00:10:22It was just too much.
00:10:23I needed something.
00:10:24You didn't tell me.
00:10:25But you were enjoying it.
00:10:27I wasn't.
00:10:29Hmm.
00:10:31I just didn't want to just like you think about like.
00:10:35You want me to think about what?
00:10:37I don't know.
00:10:38Tell me.
00:10:39I've been trying really hard to push all the thoughts about Stevie being bisexual in the back of my mind and not think about them.
00:10:50But the fact that Stevie was enjoying the show so much, that is totally a red flag to me.
00:10:57And I've always told her that we don't have any secrets.
00:11:02Not only am I totally against about these kind of things, I'm also against not telling the truth.
00:11:09You know that I wasn't comfortable.
00:11:17We were not expecting anyone to be like fully exposed.
00:11:22Yeah.
00:11:23You were enjoying it.
00:11:24Maddie.
00:11:26You were.
00:11:28You were enjoying it.
00:11:31Yeah.
00:11:32I guess Saeed is waiting for me in the lobby.
00:11:37I need to go and thank him for like coming to the party last night and.
00:11:44How do you think Saeed feels about me though?
00:11:48Saeed is just super worried about me.
00:11:50But what changed because I felt like he was super excited to like fly in and see you and go to the wedding.
00:11:56And then when he got here, I felt like he was like a little apprehensive about it.
00:11:59I guess it was my problem.
00:12:00Not you.
00:12:03I just.
00:12:05Told him too much.
00:12:08What did you tell him?
00:12:09I told him about the painting.
00:12:15Uh-huh.
00:12:16Why?
00:12:17I was just feeling too comfortable.
00:12:20So I'm assuming now that I know that, whenever he saw Claire from the very beginning, it was awkward.
00:12:26Do you see what I'm saying?
00:12:27You guys have made up this whole scenario of who I am.
00:12:33Cringe.
00:12:38I just want you to understand.
00:12:40I just wanted someone to be super honest without feeling I'm being judged.
00:12:47That's not fair.
00:12:49I have been very honest with you and you said things that hurt my feelings.
00:12:52And now because of that, you're not telling me things.
00:12:54Because I don't want to make you mad.
00:12:57How are we supposed to get married if you can't tell me things?
00:13:00You can't just be completely shut off.
00:13:04Tomorrow is our wedding.
00:13:06And I think I really regret rushing everything.
00:13:11I'm just thinking about every single person that told me that 90 days is not enough to get to know a person.
00:13:19From my parents to the officer in the embassy of the U.S. to say to everyone, because right now I'm just like seeing something that I did not expect.
00:13:32What is that?
00:13:33I need you to sign that so I can move forward with this.
00:13:46So a prenup, do you think I want to stay off your money?
00:13:51I've been pretty supportive through all your changes, but I need to protect myself in case, you know, the changes get too much.
00:14:01Hello?
00:14:02We can talk.
00:14:03I want to slay about last night.
00:14:04Anya has a different legal name.
00:14:05Apparently it's Brenda.
00:14:06So I don't even know what to call her anymore.
00:14:07She's probably still legally married.
00:14:08She's here.
00:14:09Like, I'm thinking, like, that this is where we walk away.
00:14:10Like, this cannot be saved.
00:14:11Hola.
00:14:12Hola.
00:14:13Oh my god.
00:14:14I need you to stay with me.
00:14:15Come here.
00:14:16And I'm thinking.
00:14:17We got to go back.
00:14:18And you know how to get married?
00:14:19What's up?
00:14:20No, no, no, no.
00:14:22And we're going down.
00:14:23Don't worry about that.
00:14:25It's Ben.
00:14:26Hey.
00:14:27Hey.
00:14:28Hey.
00:14:29Hey.
00:14:30Hey.
00:14:31Hey.
00:14:33Hey.
00:14:34Hey.
00:14:35Hey.
00:14:36Hey.
00:14:37Hey.
00:14:38Hey.
00:14:39Hey.
00:14:40Hey.
00:14:41Hey.
00:14:42Hey.
00:14:43Hey, honey, good morning.
00:14:49Good morning.
00:14:59I woke up feeling so heavy.
00:15:04Yeah, to be honest, the more and more I think about it,
00:15:08the more and more I don't know what last night was.
00:15:13Last night was f***ing crazy.
00:15:19I didn't even know how to describe it.
00:15:21It was an emotional rollercoaster.
00:15:23How did Dre know more than we did
00:15:25and they only dated for like half the amount of time we dated?
00:15:29Anya has a different legal name.
00:15:31Apparently it's Brenda,
00:15:32so I don't even know what to call her anymore.
00:15:34She is probably still legally married,
00:15:37which means that's going to affect the K-1 visa.
00:15:41I don't know why I'm saying it's going to affect the K-1 visa.
00:15:43I don't even know who I'm marrying.
00:15:44And also she refuses to give any explanation
00:15:48to everything we just heard.
00:15:52Our baby's at home missing their parents
00:15:54and we're dealing with this s*** like.
00:15:58You go home?
00:15:59I'm close, not going to lie.
00:16:04Come on, I don't want to be in bed all day.
00:16:08Like I'm thinking like that this is where we walk away,
00:16:11like that this cannot be saved.
00:16:15Here we are trying to get divorced for you
00:16:17and trying to bring you to our family
00:16:18and she's taking it for granted.
00:16:22She's taking it lightly.
00:16:24You want to just lounge by this hot dog?
00:16:27Yeah.
00:16:33Oh, yeah, that feels good actually.
00:16:34Ooh.
00:16:36What do you think we should do from here?
00:16:41I don't want the sob stories.
00:16:44I don't want the b****.
00:16:45I just want an explanation.
00:16:47And I don't want the lost in translation either.
00:16:49Yeah, at least like seeing that vulnerability
00:16:52from her for the first time ever.
00:16:55Oh.
00:16:57Should I pick up?
00:16:58Yeah.
00:17:00Hello?
00:17:01Hello, good morning.
00:17:05What's up?
00:17:07Yeah?
00:17:08I want to play about last night.
00:17:13I have one friend.
00:17:15He speaks very well English.
00:17:18I'm very well Spanish.
00:17:20She's very Spanish.
00:17:20We can use for translate.
00:17:23We can use?
00:17:25Yes.
00:17:26Do you want to come to our rental?
00:17:30We're by the pool.
00:17:32Okay.
00:17:33See you later.
00:17:37Interesting.
00:17:38It is.
00:17:39The word that I love is like, I want to explain.
00:17:42Because I'm like, I need that.
00:17:45If this is just a more proper explanation of what's already said,
00:17:48that's not what we need.
00:17:49That's not what we're looking for now.
00:17:51This is like the last chance.
00:17:52It really is.
00:17:55Last night was hard.
00:17:57It was chaos.
00:17:59I was ready to walk away, and that was the first time ever
00:18:02I felt that way.
00:18:03I feel this morning that the only thing we're doing
00:18:07is looking in the rearview mirror, and she's there.
00:18:11So I think that she needs to explain herself.
00:18:13Um, here.
00:18:22Oh.
00:18:23Oh.
00:18:23I am not nervous.
00:18:27I'm sad.
00:18:28I don't know.
00:18:29Maybe this relation is broke.
00:18:32But I want to try to talk.
00:18:38I want to explain all of them.
00:18:42I think that would be easier to communicate.
00:19:07Um, well, um, I can't explain all about last night.
00:19:23Ray talked with you.
00:19:26He told many things liars.
00:19:28My old name is Brenda Anaí.
00:19:31So, yo quería decirles mi nombre completo, pero...
00:19:35I want to tell you my full name.
00:19:36No lo vi al principio importante.
00:19:39But I didn't think it was important at the beginning.
00:19:44Eh...
00:19:45Cuando yo me casé, tuve muchos problemas,
00:19:48porque yo fui víctima de golpes.
00:19:50When I got married, I had a lot of issues
00:19:52because I was victim of abuse.
00:19:55Abuse?
00:19:55Abuse.
00:19:58Um...
00:19:59Yo tuve que poner una orden de restricción.
00:20:03She had to ask for a restraining order.
00:20:05Is-is your divorce finalized?
00:20:08Yes, definitely.
00:20:09Tengo mi papel.
00:20:10I have my paper.
00:20:12Cuando otra persona quiere divorciarse
00:20:14y él no quiere,
00:20:17son muchas investigaciones.
00:20:19Getting a divorce,
00:20:20when one party's not willing,
00:20:21there's a lot of, uh,
00:20:22investigation going on.
00:20:24Yo costó mucho trabajo conseguir ese papel.
00:20:27Muchos años.
00:20:28Wow.
00:20:28Muchas lágrimas.
00:20:29It was very tough and it took her,
00:20:31like, it was blood, sweat, and tears
00:20:32to get that paperwork in order.
00:20:34A lot of work.
00:20:35Porque yo no podía poner nada mi nombre
00:20:38porque él estaba casado conmigo.
00:20:44So she couldn't have anything under her name
00:20:46because she was still married to him.
00:20:50Just without even...
00:20:52So she started going with the other name
00:20:55and put stuff under that name?
00:20:57I'm not keeping anything in her name at all.
00:20:58Yeah, I'm not keeping anything in her name.
00:21:04I honestly feel bad
00:21:07or ashamed for, like, thinking the worst.
00:21:09Like, she's just a swindler or something.
00:21:12But there is a valid reason
00:21:14why actually someone could lie about their name.
00:21:17It makes so much sense.
00:21:18When it came down to it,
00:21:20she did something she was very uncomfortable with
00:21:22just for us to not pass judgment on her.
00:21:27No solamente le crean a una persona
00:21:53que no está en la relación.
00:21:54La relación es de tres, no de cuatro.
00:21:57So don't believe a fourth party
00:22:00that comes and makes accusations
00:22:02that the relationship is three people,
00:22:04not four people.
00:22:06Yeah.
00:22:08Would you be able to make a promise
00:22:10that from now on
00:22:12you will continue being this open
00:22:14and vulnerable with us?
00:22:15Que si les puedes prometer
00:22:17el mantener esa apertura
00:22:20y esa confianza con ellas?
00:22:21No more secrets.
00:22:24Yeah, I think this gave a lot of clarity.
00:22:26I don't think this is any kind of detriment
00:22:28to our relationship.
00:22:29And I've been looking for it, Guadalajara.
00:22:31I've been wanting to learn so much
00:22:32about you and your family.
00:22:34Yeah, my family will tell you
00:22:36more things about me if you want.
00:22:40I'm going to be the girlfriend, right?
00:22:44Okay.
00:22:45All right.
00:22:47Come, come.
00:22:51I'm coming around.
00:22:52I worry that we'll go in
00:22:57and she'll tell her family,
00:22:59like, here's my boyfriend
00:23:00and here's my friend.
00:23:02And that is absolutely a deal breaker for me.
00:23:05And maybe she introduces her to her family
00:23:09and they don't like us
00:23:10and that's a deal breaker for her.
00:23:11Right.
00:23:14I don't want five, Mom.
00:23:15Poison perfume
00:23:28Don't you know I have my eyes on you
00:23:31Don't you tell you that
00:23:33I never met her
00:23:34I didn't want to break
00:23:37I just can't resist
00:23:42Care for what you wish for
00:23:45I'll be your favorite fan of at all
00:23:49Hey.
00:23:54Hey.
00:23:55So you're doing your new
00:23:57laser hair removal toy that I bought you?
00:24:00How's it working?
00:24:01Oi!
00:24:03It's a little painful, but it's okay.
00:24:06Well, you look like a rock star
00:24:07while you're doing it.
00:24:08With those glasses.
00:24:09Oh.
00:24:10Yeah, it's for protection.
00:24:12With all the things that are going on
00:24:15and, you know,
00:24:17the fact that everything with us
00:24:19seems too uncertain
00:24:20and too ever-changing,
00:24:22I've decided that
00:24:23what I really need to do
00:24:24is have a pre-nup sign.
00:24:30Preparing for every possibility
00:24:32will make me feel more at ease
00:24:34about moving forward.
00:24:38Do you think you can take a break
00:24:40from that for a minute?
00:24:42I need you to look at this.
00:24:48What is that?
00:24:50This is a pre-nup.
00:24:54So, for my sake,
00:24:56I need you for me
00:24:58to sign that
00:25:00so I can move forward
00:25:01with this wedding
00:25:03because it's my biggest hang-up
00:25:05more than anything.
00:25:06So, I bring up...
00:25:09I'm just trying to be practical.
00:25:13I'm not trying to put some
00:25:14damper on our wedding
00:25:16or some feeling
00:25:17that we're not going to make it.
00:25:20It's like a contract.
00:25:24At the end of the day,
00:25:25I think, you know,
00:25:26you realize, like,
00:25:27I've been pretty supportive
00:25:29through you
00:25:30and all your changes
00:25:31and what we've been going through
00:25:34and the transitioning and all.
00:25:37So, this is just something
00:25:39I feel like I need to
00:25:41protect myself with
00:25:42in case, you know,
00:25:44the changes get too much
00:25:45or things get too far.
00:25:48It's almost like one week
00:25:50for the wedding.
00:25:52So, this is some sort of guarantee,
00:25:55something you can do for me
00:25:56that makes my mind
00:25:57at ease with all of it.
00:26:02When I was at the beach with Sean,
00:26:04he was talking
00:26:05about my possible surgeries
00:26:07and he was having
00:26:09difficult thoughts
00:26:10about everything
00:26:11that I attend.
00:26:13And now he's just
00:26:14giving me a pre-nup.
00:26:16Just one more thing.
00:26:18That shows me
00:26:19Sean's continuous feeling insecure
00:26:21about the future.
00:26:24Do you think
00:26:25I want to have, like,
00:26:27other things
00:26:27and stay off your money?
00:26:32No, but I think
00:26:33that people with
00:26:33the best of intentions
00:26:35going into a marriage,
00:26:36when things get bad
00:26:38or they decide to end,
00:26:39then all sorts of things happen,
00:26:42right?
00:26:42People get their feelings hurt.
00:26:44They decide to take it out
00:26:45on somebody
00:26:45in the only way they can.
00:26:46So, maybe that looks like,
00:26:47well, I'll hurt you financially
00:26:49because that's my only way
00:26:50of getting back at you.
00:26:52But this kind of
00:26:53spells out everything
00:26:54because, of course,
00:26:55I've spent
00:26:55many years, decades,
00:26:59you know,
00:26:59building up my lifestyle.
00:27:01He knows me
00:27:05and he knows
00:27:06why I'm with him.
00:27:08I made all this big move
00:27:10to be here
00:27:11and to finally be
00:27:12by his side
00:27:13and get married
00:27:14because I love him.
00:27:15But I was not expecting
00:27:17a pre-nup.
00:27:19There's things in there
00:27:20that benefit you
00:27:21and it's not just
00:27:23about me in there.
00:27:24And I think it's
00:27:25fair.
00:27:27This is important to me.
00:27:28This needs to happen.
00:27:31It's hard to focus
00:27:33on the wedding
00:27:33and it's hard
00:27:34to be happy
00:27:35if Sean is thinking
00:27:37about the end.
00:27:44I think I'll finish
00:27:45the laser later.
00:27:47It's just a lot.
00:27:48How does this work?
00:28:01Babe, where are you?
00:28:02All right, man,
00:28:03is the blindfold on?
00:28:04Yeah.
00:28:05Oh, crap.
00:28:06You know,
00:28:06Jonah's been asking me
00:28:07a lot lately
00:28:07if I paid the dowry.
00:28:09That's 15 cows
00:28:10at $200 a pop.
00:28:11What's going on?
00:28:12All right,
00:28:13take the blindfold off.
00:28:14Oh, my God.
00:28:16Why are you dressed
00:28:17like a big cow?
00:28:18Some significance to it.
00:28:20What does he mean
00:28:21he's going to go back
00:28:22to the cruise?
00:28:23The cruise is ready
00:28:24for him whenever
00:28:24he's ready.
00:28:26I mean,
00:28:26he's got to learn
00:28:26to let that go.
00:28:28If he wants to go back
00:28:29to the cruise,
00:28:30then I'm done.
00:28:31What was that last night?
00:28:33There is an opportunity.
00:28:36There's a lot of parents
00:28:37working on those boats
00:28:38and they have to be
00:28:39a way for their families, too.
00:28:41She might not like it,
00:28:42but it is what it is.
00:28:43All right.
00:29:01What a magnificent day.
00:29:06Great.
00:29:06So I'm going to surprise her
00:29:15with a little bit
00:29:16of costume here.
00:29:17I paid the dowry
00:29:18so we can actually
00:29:19get married now.
00:29:20So I'm going to just show up
00:29:21in a cow costume
00:29:22and surprise the hell out of her.
00:29:25You know,
00:29:26Joan has been asking me
00:29:27a lot lately.
00:29:27It's getting closer
00:29:28and closer to the wedding.
00:29:29If I paid the dowry,
00:29:31it's 15 cows
00:29:32at $200 a pop.
00:29:33That's $3,000.
00:29:35Fortunately,
00:29:35my mom and dad
00:29:36have paid for the wedding venue
00:29:37so it's freed up
00:29:38some money in my savings.
00:29:40To transfer the money
00:29:41felt a little like
00:29:42the weight has been
00:29:42lifted off my shoulder,
00:29:44you know?
00:29:45The weight has been
00:29:46lifted off my hooves,
00:29:47you know?
00:29:49Now we can really
00:29:50have the family's blessing,
00:29:52truly begin our marriage.
00:29:57Let me just give her
00:29:57this blindfold real quick.
00:30:00Babe, throw this on!
00:30:04I do what?
00:30:06You've got to wrap it
00:30:07around your eyes.
00:30:07It's a blindfold.
00:30:10So...
00:30:14This is warm.
00:30:17Babe, where are you?
00:30:18Is the blindfold on?
00:30:20Yeah.
00:30:21Okay.
00:30:29What's going on?
00:30:30All right,
00:30:31take the blindfold off.
00:30:34Oh, my God.
00:30:39What's that?
00:30:40Oh, baby.
00:30:41What do you think?
00:30:42That was crazy or what?
00:30:43Yeah, very crazy.
00:30:47Why are you dressed
00:30:48like a big cow?
00:30:50Some significance to it.
00:30:52I paid the dowry.
00:30:56Oh, wow.
00:30:57You know?
00:30:58Oh, that's good.
00:31:02Love you.
00:31:02So, we can finally
00:31:06get married, baby.
00:31:07Yeah.
00:31:11I love you.
00:31:14In my culture,
00:31:15fathers usually
00:31:16set dowries
00:31:17for their daughters.
00:31:19So, my father
00:31:19decided my dowry
00:31:20before he died.
00:31:22I'm proud of you.
00:31:23Greg has finally
00:31:26paid the dowry.
00:31:27So, he has really
00:31:29respected my culture,
00:31:31my family,
00:31:31and my father's
00:31:32last wishes.
00:31:33So, I really love him
00:31:34and I'm thankful
00:31:35that he has done this.
00:31:38I'm proud of you
00:31:39that you've paid the dowry.
00:31:41Thank you, baby.
00:31:41I love you.
00:31:46I love you, baby.
00:31:48God damn.
00:31:49I love you.
00:31:52Mmm.
00:31:52Mmm.
00:31:54Mmm.
00:31:54Mmm.
00:32:07Mmm.
00:32:08Hi, Tati.
00:32:09Hi.
00:32:10Buenos días.
00:32:11Buenos días.
00:32:13Actually, buenos tardes.
00:32:14Yeah.
00:32:15Yeah.
00:32:27No, I know.
00:32:31Yeah.
00:32:45I don't know if it was a good idea or if it wasn't a good idea to tell her last night
00:32:52about the call, but I mean, I thought she was happy, you know, she just had a lot of fun,
00:32:58maybe I was a little bit too drunk, then I was like, you think this is the right time
00:33:02and it seems like it wasn't the right time.
00:33:15She's a person who used to be working all the time, now he's not working, it's like the
00:33:23thing, like the macho man is coming out, like, why are you supporting me, I'm not used to
00:33:28it, but Jessica needs to be in Juan's shoes to understand what he feels and what he thinks
00:33:35about it.
00:33:38How do you feel last night, Whit?
00:33:40Well, then I got in a little argument, he's getting with frustrating mommy.
00:33:44Uh-oh, would you guys get in an argument about him wanting to maybe go back to the cruise
00:33:50if he can't find a job, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
00:33:54What does he mean he's going to go back to the cruise?
00:33:57Basically, like, the cruise is ready for him whenever he's ready.
00:34:01I mean, he's got to learn to let that go.
00:34:03I mean, he has to learn to find opportunity here.
00:34:06Right.
00:34:08Hi, guys.
00:34:09Morning.
00:34:10Are you out of here?
00:34:11Yeah, good morning.
00:34:13Good morning.
00:34:14Two contracts ago was supposed to be his last contract, but our visa wasn't done,
00:34:18and so his last contract was supposed to be his last contract, and so, like, that was
00:34:22our game plan, and now he's here, and the game plan's like, eh, I'm not sure, and I'm
00:34:27like, you're frustrating me.
00:34:29You're wasting my time, and it's not fair to me, and it's not fair to David.
00:34:32I'm going to give you some more chancha.
00:34:36Okay.
00:34:36It's so nice you could come.
00:34:40Bye, guys.
00:34:41Bye, guys.
00:34:43Bye, guys.
00:34:43Bye, drive safe, fly safe.
00:34:46Bye.
00:34:46Bye.
00:34:47Bye.
00:34:47There goes the guy.
00:34:51Oh, baby.
00:34:51I get that, but I want you to try to find a job and be happy here.
00:35:17I'm not saying I'm not.
00:35:22This affects a lot.
00:35:23It affects me.
00:35:24It affects that guy mainly.
00:35:27Yeah.
00:35:27I mean, you hate being away from him for a day now.
00:35:33Imagine being away from him for eight months.
00:35:35I know.
00:35:36That'll be hard.
00:35:38I don't want to be away from Jessica and my baby, because it's going to be really hard
00:35:43on me, but, I mean, if I have to go in order to make good money, well, then I have to, and
00:35:48that's life sometimes, and there's a lot of parents, mothers, and fathers working on those
00:35:53boats, and they have to be away for their families, too.
00:35:56And she might not like it, but it is what it is.
00:36:01What I already talked about last night doesn't mean I don't love you, so.
00:36:06I guess we're together.
00:36:07We're in this, and we're going to make it work out.
00:36:10The wedding is just a few weeks away, so, you know, Juan really needs to decide what
00:36:14he wants, because I didn't sign up to be a cruise wife.
00:36:17We had talked about this a lot, and if he wants to go back to the cruise, then I'm done.
00:36:22How do you feel about going to meet with everyone?
00:36:29I'm sure they're going to be really curious why they haven't gotten a wedding invitation.
00:36:32I'm sure they're expecting for us to invite them to the wedding tonight.
00:36:36That's probably what they think we're going to tell them.
00:36:39So what's going on with the wedding?
00:36:42We will have no wedding.
00:36:44What?
00:36:44My shirt's still not ironed.
00:37:13Will you?
00:37:14Yes, I will.
00:37:15My princess.
00:37:16You look gorge.
00:37:17You look gorge.
00:37:20A girl kissed me, huh?
00:37:22Oh my God, you scared me.
00:37:25I was like, what?
00:37:26A girl kissed my man?
00:37:30How do you feel about going to meet with everyone?
00:37:33Friends gatherings.
00:37:34And explaining our plan.
00:37:36I'm sure they're going to be really curious why they haven't gotten a wedding invitation.
00:37:39We're going to meet up with friends.
00:37:44I'm sure they're expecting for us to invite them to the wedding tonight.
00:37:47That's probably what they think we're going to tell them.
00:37:50I can say that to Dan, that he's not invited.
00:37:54Oh, wouldn't you love that?
00:37:58Wow, it looks good.
00:38:00You look good.
00:38:01You should just go with that shirt.
00:38:02Will you?
00:38:07We're not going to present it like you're not invited.
00:38:10We're going to say we decided to do something intimate, just the two of us.
00:38:15And then they'll of course know, like, they're not invited.
00:38:19No.
00:38:20Are we going to start with, like, the bottom button?
00:38:22Yeah, just that's easy enough.
00:38:23Just these two?
00:38:24Yeah.
00:38:25Why am I like this?
00:38:26I like it.
00:38:27I see you standing there trying to look the way
00:38:31My eyes are
00:38:35This is a nice shot.
00:38:37Baby, I'm here to stay
00:38:38Papa
00:38:39Looks cozy.
00:38:41So pretty.
00:38:42I like it.
00:38:43Pretty in pink.
00:38:45Baby, meet me on the day
00:38:48Hi, guys.
00:38:49Hey.
00:38:50Hey.
00:38:52Hi, sweetie.
00:38:53You look so beautiful.
00:38:54You, too.
00:38:55Hi, Dan.
00:38:57Long time no see.
00:38:58Good to see you.
00:38:59Hi.
00:39:00Hi, Millie.
00:39:01I love you in white because you're so tan.
00:39:05Oh, my God.
00:39:06Dan, Dan, Dan.
00:39:07Everywhere.
00:39:09I cannot pretend.
00:39:10I mean, I'm not a guy like this.
00:39:12I cannot.
00:39:13How are you?
00:39:14I'm not that kind of.
00:39:16I mean, if I don't like someone, I don't like someone.
00:39:18That's all.
00:39:20But I went to his castle.
00:39:21We agreed on something, and he's better to respect my relationship from now on.
00:39:28Nice to see you guys.
00:39:31Nice to see you.
00:39:32Cheers, dear buddy.
00:39:33Oh, my God.
00:39:34Cheers.
00:39:35I think the last time we were all together in one place is when Sarpur first arrived, and
00:39:39I was introducing him to you guys.
00:39:41Yeah.
00:39:42I'm coming to end of three months.
00:39:44Yeah.
00:39:45We're at the end of the 90 days almost.
00:39:47Clock is ticking.
00:39:48Wow.
00:39:48Yeah.
00:39:49Tick tock.
00:39:49Tick tock.
00:39:50Tick tock.
00:39:50It's a big deal anyway.
00:39:51So what's going on with the wedding?
00:39:53When are you guys going to get married?
00:39:57Oh, I mean, we will have no wedding.
00:40:04What?
00:40:06What do you mean, no wedding?
00:40:07Hello?
00:40:08We will have a wedding.
00:40:12What?
00:40:13We're having a wedding.
00:40:14Bedding.
00:40:15A wedding?
00:40:16A wedding.
00:40:17A wedding.
00:40:18What does that even mean?
00:40:19What does that...
00:40:20We decided to do it in bed.
00:40:23What?
00:40:23Like a wedding in your bed?
00:40:25Exactly.
00:40:26We were in bed one night just brainstorming, what should we do?
00:40:30And I said, well, we should just get married in bed.
00:40:34And I was kind of joking, but then he said, yeah, I like that idea.
00:40:38And I was like, oh, actually, that's a good idea.
00:40:42Yeah?
00:40:42It's not a wedding.
00:40:43It's a wedding.
00:40:44It's where we're most comfortable.
00:40:47It's where we spend the most time.
00:40:49So we're going to get married in bed.
00:40:51Do you want to invite all of us in your bed?
00:40:54No one's invited.
00:40:55It's just for us.
00:40:56I'm completely shocked.
00:41:00They're getting married in bed.
00:41:03All right.
00:41:05She kind of lives in the moment, and we love that about her.
00:41:08She's spontaneous and heartfelt.
00:41:10But I just want them to think everything through and just have a little bit of a plan.
00:41:16I have a question.
00:41:19Don't hate me, but what about a prenup?
00:41:24I never thought of it, babe.
00:41:26I don't know.
00:41:27Does he know what a prenup is?
00:41:28Of course.
00:41:29In my culture, prenup is a very rude thing to ask, especially a woman to ask a man.
00:41:34Okay.
00:41:34Listen, Sarper, myself, and nobody here would ever want to offend you in any way.
00:41:44We can't control the U.S. government, and neither can you, about when you're able to work and contribute.
00:41:50That could be two months.
00:41:52That could be two years.
00:41:53Who knows?
00:41:54And so all this is is something that would be put in a drawer in case the worst scenario happens.
00:42:03It doesn't mean it's going to be a failure.
00:42:05It's a safety net for both of you.
00:42:06It works with Wes.
00:42:09My friend Alexandra brings up the word prenup.
00:42:12She asks if we're going to have one, and I see my friend Wendy just take the reins with it and go full throttle.
00:42:20I can see it in her eyes.
00:42:22She's actually getting emotional.
00:42:23She's very afraid for me, and I understand her point of view.
00:42:28She is my business manager.
00:42:29She's worked really hard to get me the deals that I have with different companies and to build up my finances,
00:42:36and then to see me risk it all for a marriage with someone, I can see why she's concerned.
00:42:43Babe, you know I trust you, but it might be a good idea for me to just get that, just...
00:42:49Peanut?
00:42:50Yes, for both of us.
00:42:51I agree.
00:42:52I mean, what's it hurt to get it?
00:42:55I mean, you only get hurt if you don't, so...
00:42:58What the f***?
00:43:00Sharp, it also protects you, though.
00:43:01That's the greatest advantage.
00:43:03Oh, my God.
00:43:04I am shocked.
00:43:05We have never talked with Shikaina about prenup before.
00:43:09If you are married, you are committing to be together.
00:43:13I mean, in bad day, in good day, something like that in my culture.
00:43:18But if you want it, I have one clothes.
00:43:21We will add to the prenup.
00:43:23Are you okay with that?
00:43:24What is the clothes?
00:43:26You know...
00:43:27Babe, you're getting really excited here.
00:43:30Calm down.
00:43:30Put your finger down, first of all.
00:43:33I have a weight target for you, right?
00:43:35128 pounds.
00:43:36I will weigh you in every first week of every month.
00:43:41And for every pound you owe her, I will fine you for a thousand dollars.
00:43:48You're just...
00:43:48Are you okay with that?
00:43:49You're just upset right now.
00:43:50No, are you okay with that?
00:43:52Oh, my gosh.
00:43:54Tonight, we're giving Joan her bachelorette party.
00:44:03I've never been to a strip club.
00:44:08Like two water balloons.
00:44:11Going to a strip club with my future mother-in-law is a bit awkward.
00:44:20She's been keeping secrets from you.
00:44:22Maybe you want to just take some more time to think about it.
00:44:27I didn't expect to have so many questions, problems, a day before our wedding.
00:44:33The problems that we have, I think I can fix it after the wedding.
00:44:38You want to wait until after the marriage to resolve your problems?
00:44:42That doesn't make sense to me.
00:44:44Hey.
00:44:57I fell down the darkness that'll rain down, rain down over me.
00:45:10Hey, how's it going?
00:45:13How's it going?
00:45:14How's it going?
00:45:15How's it going?
00:45:16How's it going?
00:45:17How's it going?
00:45:18How's it going?
00:45:19How's it going?
00:45:20What happened last time?
00:45:25Wasn't it crazy?
00:45:28Yeah.
00:45:29I've been here for about 10 years, and it was new to me.
00:45:33Let alone you.
00:45:34You've been here only about a month.
00:45:36Before coming to the U.S., I was like, I'm not a narrow-minded person.
00:45:41I can get adjusted to so many things.
00:45:44But last night, I realized that there are some things I'm not going to be okay with,
00:45:51like for a long time at least.
00:45:53It's just a day before your marriage.
00:45:56Yeah.
00:45:57I just want her, like there's the problems that we have.
00:46:00I think I can fix it after the wedding.
00:46:04I'm just being so hopeful about that.
00:46:07But right now, honestly, we do not have time to talk about this stuff.
00:46:11You want to wait until after the marriage to resolve your problems?
00:46:18That doesn't make sense to me.
00:46:20I don't want to look like I'm insisting or I'm trying to break up this marriage.
00:46:25I just want him to know that if there are issues that are bothering him, he'd better want to get them sorted out before the wedding.
00:46:34I know after you found out about the drawings, you suspected that Stevie might be bisexual.
00:46:40So is that resolved or is that something you're okay with?
00:46:45Right now, if I ask her, she's going to be like, I have told you multiple times.
00:46:50Now you're not respecting me.
00:46:51So I'm just trying to respect her.
00:46:53You're compromising.
00:46:55Matthew, do you want to live with someone who you can't be honest with for the rest of your life?
00:47:02I've been married for 15 years and my wife and I, we're on the same page.
00:47:08But you and Stevie, you guys don't seem to be on the same page.
00:47:13How long do you think you can keep doing this?
00:47:16Like, I'm one of those people that I will sacrifice myself for love.
00:47:24When I love someone, I always try to keep everything smoothly and peacefully.
00:47:32I learned it from my father.
00:47:34My father has been always doing that for my family, even me.
00:47:40Like, if he knew that something is going to make me upset, he would just keep it for himself.
00:47:45And I think I'm kind of like showing my love by sacrificing the things that I really need in my life.
00:47:53What I'm concerned with is that she's been keeping secrets from you.
00:48:01Something I didn't tell you is that I hadn't told dad anything about you yet before you got here.
00:48:07Like nothing?
00:48:09I hadn't told him anything.
00:48:11Like, he didn't even know I was in a relationship.
00:48:17Why do you have boobs everywhere?
00:48:19Just around paintings.
00:48:21Oh.
00:48:22So I told you I do, like, nude portraits.
00:48:28Did you paint her?
00:48:29Yeah.
00:48:30I didn't clear nude.
00:48:32Why haven't you told me that?
00:48:33I didn't think it was a big deal.
00:48:38Maybe you want to take a few more weeks, just take some more time to think about it and not rush to it.
00:48:46I think Saeed has a point.
00:48:49This is so important to me that I know everything about her before the wedding.
00:48:54Because after the wedding, I have these thoughts that I'm stuck here and I can't do anything about it.
00:49:01And those thoughts are so strong in my brain.
00:49:04I think I need to talk to her more before the wedding.
00:49:09I agree.
00:49:11If I can't get a solid answer from Stevie, we can't get married.
00:49:17You don't want to live the rest of your life compromising for the sake of making her happy.
00:49:23Yeah.
00:49:24I just don't want to feel trapped after the wedding.
00:49:26That's it.
00:49:34I love your hair like that, baby.
00:49:46Yeah.
00:49:47Wow, that thing is really blowing out, huh?
00:49:49No, I don't want it to be that straight.
00:49:51I freaking love it.
00:49:52You look so beautiful.
00:50:01Where are you going tonight?
00:50:02Laura organized my bachelorette party.
00:50:06I've never been to one, so everything is new to me.
00:50:09So I can't wait to just see what happens then.
00:50:14In Uganda, a bridal shower would be like, where are your friends, your girlfriends?
00:50:20They take you to a nice place.
00:50:21You have cake, food.
00:50:23They'll give you marriage advice.
00:50:25Greg's friend, Laura, she's throwing a bachelorette party for me.
00:50:29Since I have no family here, so what can I say?
00:50:32When you are on Long Island, you have to act like Long Islanders.
00:50:36So I can't wait to see what really happens there.
00:50:40So where are you going?
00:50:42Strip clubs?
00:50:43Yeah.
00:50:45You're going to have like schlongs swinging in your face?
00:50:47What are schlongs?
00:50:48What's that?
00:50:49It's a slang word for a penis.
00:50:53Yeah, exactly.
00:50:55Greg is worried that there are going to be schlongs, the schlongs in my face.
00:51:00But we are going to a ladies' strip club, so they're going to be ladies.
00:51:04I think it's more the boobs and the ass, so...
00:51:07It's not written in the Bible that you're not supposed to go to a strip club, so I'm good to go.
00:51:12I'm enjoying my life.
00:51:16You sure I can come?
00:51:25Tonight we're going out with Joan.
00:51:27We're giving her her bachelorette party.
00:51:30It's exciting.
00:51:32I wasn't invited to the fitting for the dress.
00:51:35Woo!
00:51:37But I can get over that.
00:51:39Let's just have a good time and rock and roll.
00:51:46Get on it!
00:51:49Am I moving over?
00:51:51Alrighty.
00:51:52Like we said, you gotta have fun before you went.
00:51:55Like we said, you gotta have fun before you went.
00:51:58To Joanie!
00:52:00To Joanie!
00:52:02Yay!
00:52:04Myself, I've never been to a strip club.
00:52:08So, I don't know what to expect.
00:52:10How much they take off or anything, I don't know.
00:52:13Alright, so, I would like to play the Never Have I Ever game.
00:52:18The rules of the game are, if you've done it, take a drink.
00:52:20If you've never done it, you don't take a drink.
00:52:23Okay.
00:52:24Never have I ever had sex in a public place.
00:52:27No.
00:52:28Me, I've never.
00:52:29Nope, I haven't.
00:52:30Unfortunately, no.
00:52:32I do!
00:52:34I want to know, like, what...
00:52:36I can't even remember.
00:52:37Okay.
00:52:39Then it wasn't that good.
00:52:41I got another good one.
00:52:42Never have I ever peed in the shower.
00:52:45Now, my question is to Joan.
00:52:46How many times have you peed in Lucille's shower?
00:52:48Alright.
00:52:49Woo!
00:52:50Always, I like that.
00:52:51Yeah.
00:52:52But she cleans a lot, so...
00:52:56Yeah.
00:52:57Right!
00:52:58Woo!
00:52:59Yay!
00:53:00That's so much fun!
00:53:02Ready to go, Joanie?
00:53:03Yeah.
00:53:05Wow.
00:53:06Yeah.
00:53:07Yeah.
00:53:08Big stepping with my shoes on.
00:53:09I just go and get that money, then I own phone.
00:53:11Promise you won't fall in love, cause I'll be too gone.
00:53:16Me walking in a strip club, I'm seeing ladies with the big bus being out.
00:53:22So, I'm like, what's this?
00:53:23VIP?
00:53:24Yeah.
00:53:25Cheers to Joan.
00:53:26Welcome to a U.S. strip club, girl.
00:53:27Woo!
00:53:28Like two water balloons.
00:53:29Yeah.
00:53:30You're getting a couple of dollars.
00:53:31Yeah, they always like a...
00:53:32Make it rain, make it rain, you know.
00:53:35If you don't mind, I'm gonna get you a lap dance so that you see how we doing here in
00:53:53the U.S.
00:53:54Okay?
00:53:55All right?
00:53:56You want to put her bums on me?
00:53:57She's going to put her bum on you, yes.
00:54:00Oh, yeah.
00:54:01Oh, yeah.
00:54:02Come on now.
00:54:03Oh yeah, come on now, why not?
00:54:07Look at her, she's beautiful.
00:54:08Why wouldn't you want that in front of your face?
00:54:11Come on now.
00:54:14That's a nice hat.
00:54:16Going to a strip club with my future mother-in-law
00:54:19is a bit awkward.
00:54:21My future mother-in-law is just besides me,
00:54:23so I'm scared to just say like, oh, I need a lap dance.
00:54:26But looking at Mrs. Lucille, she's really enjoying this.
00:54:30So I'm just going with the floor.
00:54:32Go, Jodi, go, Jodi, go, Jodi.
00:54:36Not many girls got a booty like that.
00:54:37Fish mystery!
00:54:40Don't be kidding ideas, Joan.
00:54:42I don't want to hear you doing that booty dance upstairs.
00:54:46Just hold off on that for a little bit, OK?
00:54:48All right.
00:54:50Give me that hug.
00:54:52Shake it.
00:54:54She's going to get this stupidity.
00:54:56You're killing this.
00:54:58Go, girl.
00:55:00Oh!
00:55:03With all the last minute planning, what have you guys been doing?
00:55:07He did a prenup, and he gave to me.
00:55:10I'm still thinking about everything.
00:55:12So you have not signed?
00:55:14Not yet.
00:55:15No!
00:55:17I thought that Pavisa was the hard part, but this is the hard part.
00:55:23You're OK with just going back to Brazil?
00:55:28You ready for a long car ride?
00:55:37You're going to have enough energy, are you?
00:55:41Go see Wookie and Grandma, hmm?
00:55:44Ah, yeah.
00:55:45Today we head to Sonoma County.
00:55:48Then we have a day to organize and get all of our stuff together and get ready for the
00:55:56actual big event.
00:55:58Everything seems to be going pretty well as far as getting the wedding ready.
00:56:01But the biggest loose end happens to still be that the prenup is still not signed and in my hands.
00:56:15And I don't want to put a lot of extra pressure on her, but in order for us to get married, I really need to have that paper signed.
00:56:33I think that's the big impending, most important piece of the puzzle.
00:56:49The last couple of days has been, like, a little odd for me because, like, this paper became the most important thing of the relationship.
00:57:02I had a lawyer who speaks Portuguese and he explained everything that was on the prenup.
00:57:09But it's still something, it's, like, a lot for me, something that I still need to think about.
00:57:16I can understand that Sean is trying to protect the things that he has been meeting all these years, like work, house and everything.
00:57:27But Sean is thinking about, like, a divorce.
00:57:32And I want the wedding to be about love and about our future together.
00:57:37Getting married, it's like a dream for me.
00:57:40And I was waiting for this moment.
00:57:43And for now, I just want to think about how beautiful it is, how beautiful is our love.
00:57:49And my dress, my accessories.
00:57:53And all these kind of things, like, to bring the magic and happen to our special day.
00:57:59Bye-bye monkeys.
00:58:03Miss you never.
00:58:04Here we go.
00:58:06I'm tired.
00:58:07I know.
00:58:08Or Maxwell.
00:58:09Okay.
00:58:10Here.
00:58:11We're here.
00:58:12Finally.
00:58:13Hey, Mom.
00:58:14Oh, my goodness.
00:58:15Sean!
00:58:16Alina!
00:58:17What?
00:58:18What?
00:58:19What?
00:58:20What?
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00:58:35What?
00:58:36What?
00:58:37Alina!
00:58:38What?
00:58:39You finally made it!
00:58:40Happy Fourth of July.
00:58:41Oh, my God.
00:58:42Love.
00:58:43You just did it.
00:58:44Happy Fourth of July!
00:58:46This is our Fourth of July party.
00:58:48It looks like somebody got out of the loony bin early.
00:58:51I did all this for Alina.
00:58:53Oh.
00:58:54This is her first Fourth of July.
00:58:56I'm surprised.
00:58:57Oh!
00:58:58Independence Day in Brazil, they, like, walk in the streets, wave the flags,
00:59:03and we have all that, so...
00:59:05and i get the american version people get excited but i wasn't i did not know that
00:59:10here in america also people and make like a big thing
00:59:16it's funny i want to try oh that looks great on you everything looks good on you
00:59:22oh that's thank you can i open oh yes please
00:59:26boyfriend is you lying oh so good to see you oh my goodness long trips funny very long i'll be the
00:59:38star seems appropriate with all the last minute planning what have you guys been doing i had to
00:59:44find a hair braider for alia i had her ring resized but uh seems like we might only be having a party
00:59:56because some things haven't happened to make it more than a party
01:00:03he did a prenup and he gave to me everything was okay yeah i understand everything that says that
01:00:11but it's like i'm still thinking about everything oh so you have not signed not yet you know no okay
01:00:26and what happens if you decide that you're not going to sign it great question you have a party
01:00:35but just a party yeah you're not going to get married and then i can leave and whatever
01:00:41she'll have to be deported or whatever go back but then no four days or something
01:00:49and you're okay with just going back to brazil no that's not something that i want but it's
01:00:55he just put that he throw that to me and i'm just taking my time
01:00:59this 19 days has been difficult i supposed to be feeling wonderful happy and love it but i'm just
01:01:10feeling anxious because like all these worries of sean about our future i think you just start
01:01:18unpacking my things and everything organize everything for the next days okay okay i thought that the visa
01:01:28process was the hard part but now i'm here and i think i was wrong because this is the hard part
01:01:41do you really think that she's not gonna sign the prenup
01:01:48i mean she hasn't signed it yet and times are ticking but she knows
01:01:52she knows what's gonna happen oh sean my goodness do you think i'm being too cautious by asking for
01:02:01her to sign a prenup no because i know you i know how hard you've worked it's your life you have just put
01:02:11so much into where you're at sean i was all excited about this marriage and now i'm not feeling that
01:02:24way any longer i know what i need i know how it has to happen for me so she's just gonna have to decide
01:02:30how it happens for her and then we'll take it from there
01:02:43so juan like the morning after deadwood why'd you bring the cruise up i know you want to make money
01:02:51and provide but i don't want to be a cruise wife so it's you're the cruise is that what you're saying
01:02:59yeah
01:02:59hey mama mama mama mama mama
01:03:17megan and herbie are going to be stopping by soon to bring some decorations okay
01:03:34here they are hi hi hey baby yes ma'am megan and herbie are here okay how are you
01:03:43i'm good i brought all the stuff that you asked for so we can make paper flowers
01:03:54how are you doing man good good good what you guys bringing you've been complaining that you don't have
01:03:59enough colombian stuff in the wedding and we get to make paper flowers paper flowers
01:04:07it's not i asked for paper you asked for colombia and i'm bringing you colombia with the paper
01:04:14flowers in one like yeah all right let's do it yes do you do paper flowers in colombia
01:04:21i've never seen paper flowers in colombia ever in my life internet searched the paper flowers and
01:04:27luckily megan has said that she knows how so she is going to be our paper flower tutor what colors do you
01:04:35want the flowers one i mean the colombian flag okay yellow blue and red yeah yellow blue and red okay
01:04:40so we want the red yellow and blue to be stacked together and then we're going to accordion style
01:04:47this like about an inch each so accordion it okay and you're going to cut a triangle out of the middle
01:04:57and then you tie a string around the middle oh megan no you're okay i'm sorry
01:05:12like that looks good it looks great it takes a lot of work just to make one you know you wanted
01:05:17colombia at the wedding i got you colombia oh david you're being a great helper
01:05:22so once like the morning after deadwood i
01:05:32i'm just a little confused why'd you bring the cruise up like why are you wanting to go back
01:05:39on the cruise that makes no sense to me
01:05:43my career has been always out there in the ocean that's my career i know i didn't study anything
01:05:49in school to come here and you know i'm gonna go find a job out there that i can get paid good money
01:05:54you know just makes me worried because cruise life isn't the life for your family
01:06:01the cruise life isn't for him anymore you can always come back to the money right now your family
01:06:07needs you i'm really hoping he decides against the cruise life because i think it will be really
01:06:12detrimental to their relationship um juan will you give me a big trash bag
01:06:21oh i mean thanks guys i'm gonna go try to get him laid down because he's like super tired
01:06:28we have to get married within 90 days and i feel like he hasn't completely made up his mind and there's
01:06:35always like a easy i can go back and i feel like he thinks it's something that we could manage and we
01:06:43could be flexible in and i disagree are you ready for night night he really needs to decide what he
01:06:51wants if he wants to go back to the cruise or not and i feel like it's time that we talk bye bye guys see
01:06:57you guys see you guys see you guys see you guys see you sleep yep he's asleep another win from mama good
01:07:14hi it was successful thank you for including my culture in in the wedding that makes me feel better
01:07:20about the wedding venue too yeah i'm happy about it too i mean i know you were wanting that so yeah it's
01:07:27well appreciated yeah thanks a lot you're welcome so they didn't want to bring it up well megan and her
01:07:37were here but i know it's been a big change and this isn't the ideal situation and you want to make
01:07:46money and provide and but it's like i don't want to be a cruise wife that's not what i want that's not
01:07:54what i signed up for and because it's like a choice you can make but you will lose me
01:08:07so is your the cruise is that what you're saying yeah
01:08:11and i just want to make that clear to you
01:08:24i don't know what to say
01:08:27never thought you asked me to make a choice between the cruise or you though i mean
01:08:31this stuff never happened with jessica like she telling me what to do feels like i'm being controlled
01:08:40a little bit you just can't do this and you have to do something else otherwise you lose me
01:08:46i think that's a little bit unfair i love my job
01:08:50you being away for eight months is not fair to us
01:09:12well if you want me to make a choice in between my family and the cruise ship or a job i would
01:09:17take my family first the baby is my priority and you too
01:09:27okay i'm not going back on the cruise ship i'm going to stay i promise
01:09:37i promise
01:09:38the first time i did this cruise job i didn't know what to expect
01:09:47but when i got there everything was just so amazing to me that i kind of developed like
01:09:54like a huge passion for it like that was something i wanted to do
01:09:58it is going to be hard to leave cruise life behind especially with the type of jobs i can get in this
01:10:06area so yeah that's going to be tough for me but that's what it is i guess
01:10:13love me i love you
01:10:22if you put agreements to a marriage it's business so she comes with me a offer and i go with her with
01:10:28a contract this is beyond like my brain is on the floor right now sarper's suggestion about adding a
01:10:37clause in the pre-nup it's just a way of him getting back at me for asking for a pre-nup
01:10:42this is not fair to ask her this
01:10:52if you put agreements to a marriage it's business so she comes with me offer and i go
01:10:58her with her with a counter offer that's a close i'm adding to you
01:11:13we have a meet in turkey when a woman gets married he doesn't look after herself that's not my fear
01:11:20i know you but let's do it if you want to bring up from sure okay sure i'll do that because i care
01:11:26more about it probably than you do wait wait hold on hold on just because i literally said i don't
01:11:32care like no you should listen he's just upset you're just acting no you can't make it as a term
01:11:39of your contract like he said yes she wants a contract from me and i've been are you giving
01:11:46this is not fair to ask her this like come on sarper's suggestion about adding a clause in the
01:11:53prenup about my weight is not a shock of course he's saying that he's the same guy that was trying
01:11:58to weigh me from day one come on let's see wait 132 132 4 pounds i think also it's just a little way
01:12:10of him getting back at me for doing something like asking for a prenup which to him was offensive
01:12:17maybe he's trying to offend me a little i'm asking her what if she gains five pounds yeah
01:12:22well you're gonna could five thousand dollars so you're gonna divorce you're actually one i'm not
01:12:27divorcing are you you're serious
01:12:32it's it's just ridiculous man like seriously like i'm trying to respect this relationship
01:12:38but i also try as a friend to kind of tell she kind of hey wake up like you cannot accept those
01:12:45type of things so that's what makes me wonder how deep she's getting manipulated by him in that
01:12:54relationship the fact that he's setting that standard for you that is a sense it's literally
01:13:01like me doing the dishes and him coming up and telling me to do the dishes i'm already doing it
01:13:05no but you know you cannot like add this as a term of your contract come on like let's be serious one
01:13:11minute so i'm sorry you lose your mind you're losing your mind i'm not going to gain weight so i
01:13:16don't care this is beyond i like my brain is on the floor right now this is so absolutely absurd i
01:13:24have more assets than her yes why are you putting that on her if you have more assets then you should
01:13:31be grateful that she's doing that because you keep yours she keeps hers i don't want the prenup she
01:13:36wants prenup so i'm going then you should be grateful for it if you have more assets it protects
01:13:40you more than it protects her i don't care my assets okay then why are you putting implications
01:13:45on her that if she gains weight he's saying that he's this is a vindictive that's what you're saying
01:13:49you're just being vindictive it's not a business transaction you want to marry her because you love
01:13:53her you see a future with her and you see forever with her like that's it
01:13:59it shouldn't matter what comes with whether she wants to share her finances with you whether you want
01:14:04to share her finances with you that's all about it matters because i'm i'm getting leave me room
01:14:11please thank you it's their relationship i don't want to understand me
01:14:23i don't care what they think how can i request such a thing how can she request prenup to me
01:14:30that's the same thing i mean it's really i mean disrespectful it's so disrespectful are you okay
01:14:42is there anything else that you need to say that you haven't said
01:14:46are you bisexual are you serious i'm sorry but this is the very last time i'm telling you
01:14:53i don't understand what's happening i feel like i made a mistake over here
01:15:03personally
01:15:13thank you
01:15:16thank you so much thank you
01:15:17thank you
01:15:34are you ready for the wedding
01:15:38i think i am but we need to talk about some stuff
01:15:41i'm not opening up to her because i'm afraid and i'm just like i can't live like this
01:16:11i think tonight is my last chance to ask that one question again are you bisexual
01:16:28we're here
01:16:34it's so cute
01:16:35you first are you sure yes bring that maybe ring the thing i'll stand behind you
01:16:46hello welcome to ross mansion i'm jerry thank you so much
01:16:50maddie so it's the night before the wedding and maddie and i are getting to check into the ross mansion
01:16:55which is a historical beautiful place in downtown hattiesburg so this is ross mansion this is where
01:17:02y'all will be staying tonight it was built in 1903 by the ross family it's so pretty
01:17:07i booked the room in the mansion instead of staying at my house because i thought it would
01:17:12be nice to get away from like the ordinary day of our life is this real yeah actually this is
01:17:20probably from the 20s i just thought it would be a nice thing to do for us to have time together alone
01:17:26all right so this is the peacock chamber where you will be spending your time
01:17:32how cute
01:17:38it's really amazing oh my god
01:17:43well i will leave you to it thank you all right
01:17:50everything is so real here like the bed
01:17:53okay it's too late for what for history we can look tomorrow it's too late for history lessons
01:18:15i have noticed that you have not been talking a lot
01:18:24yeah and you've just been kind of like quiet and reserved like you don't want to say much
01:18:29because you don't hurt my feelings i know i wanted to talk to you about that
01:18:37before coming here when you were talking over the phone and texting and stuff
01:18:40it has never happened that i say something to you and you're like super mad at me so back then
01:18:48i could share my mind and talk about anything so there's gonna be problems and you have to work
01:18:55through them sometimes yeah but not in an argument way no i'm not just walking around trying to get mad
01:19:00at you because that's how i feel okay well i'm sorry that you feel that way
01:19:10uh-huh so is there anything else that you need to say that you haven't said
01:19:23say it
01:19:28you know that i would love you no matter what you know that right i just want you to know that
01:19:35and then answer me are you bisexual
01:19:44serious i'm sorry but this is the very last time i'm telling you
01:19:59i'm too tired
01:20:05no it wasn't a good moment to ask these questions i'm just tired i've driven a long way and i can't
01:20:11think sometimes when i'm tired and that's why i'm just saying it's not a good moment but we don't
01:20:17have any more time
01:20:21i don't understand what's happening
01:20:34stevie is not giving me a solid answer and right now i'm just looking at the whole relationship
01:20:42and i feel like it's just falling apart and it's really hard to see that
01:20:52i have sacrificed a lot my family my job my life everything i had in iran and now i'm here and it's not
01:21:01worth it
01:21:10i feel like i made a mistake i want to hear
01:21:12next time on 90 day fiance you seem upset i am what happened screwed up big time
01:21:39that's not good that's not good i want to be that man that she knows that she can wake up to and
01:21:45rely on i the bed
01:21:49yeah
01:21:57i really want to make sure my language and my culture to be part of this family
01:22:03you just can't say to your son's culture that you don't have time to learn
01:22:07i don't know why we have to have this talk right now we're getting married more than we're having
01:22:10this conversation you know so it's like a make or break you learn spanish or i don't marry you
01:22:14hello
01:22:22oh my god
01:22:25i'm not married
01:22:26you're welcome
01:22:30server is missing
01:22:33it's the day before our wedding we're going to the wedding venue today and i have no idea where he is
01:22:39this is like the fourth time i've called him him disappearing like this is terrifying for me
01:22:46oh my god sarper where is he
01:22:50i look for the blessing but my aunt and my brother is religions
01:23:00there's still no sign or even word from malia well so far we're an hour late
01:23:20finally i just said like no more and i'm done
01:23:24oh is he leaving
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