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90 Day Fiance S11E14 (2025)
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00:00:01Previously on 90 Day Fiancé...
00:00:03Times Square, one of the most iconic places in New York City.
00:00:06Whoa.
00:00:08Should I be spending money? No.
00:00:10Should I, you know, be saving for a house? Yes.
00:00:13But you know what? I just got a job. We're feeling good.
00:00:16Man, it's New York City. We're going.
00:00:19Cheers.
00:00:20Going to a doctor, it's like a big step in my transition.
00:00:25Where would you say you are right now in your transition process?
00:00:28I just have some questions about gender assignment.
00:00:32For genital surgery, uh-huh.
00:00:34It is difficult for me.
00:00:36I don't know how I'm going to feel once every nuance of that person that I fell in love with has been erased.
00:00:43I mean, I think she's beautiful just the way she is.
00:00:48We're coming, Sin City.
00:00:50They booked us a burlesque show to go to, like watch girls dancing.
00:00:55I know these parties are for fun, but I go back to the question, if she's bisexual or not.
00:01:01The background that we come from, it's taboo, right?
00:01:05It can ruin everything.
00:01:07I signed a friend, but one condition, you adopt officially Clayton Samuel's son.
00:01:19I already was planning to adopt Clayton.
00:01:21Really?
00:01:22Yes.
00:01:23No second did I not want to adopt him.
00:01:28Ah!
00:01:30Before me, other people are performing and listening to them makes me more nervous because I don't want to be embarrassed.
00:01:41Let's imagine you are all sexually healthy and attractive men, okay?
00:01:48Even you, Dan.
00:01:51I think he's highly insecure about me.
00:01:53Dan is upset.
00:01:54Dan is upset.
00:01:55I don't care.
00:01:56What about my friends?
00:01:57If he wants to be a real man, then we're going to need to have a serious conversation eye to eye.
00:02:02So, I've been texting Ray.
00:02:05Like her ex-boyfriend?
00:02:06Yeah.
00:02:07I want us to meet him.
00:02:09We've been sending her money through this bank account that they opened when they were dating.
00:02:14We saw Annie.
00:02:16You know who's Brenda?
00:02:18Her name is Brenda?
00:02:20She's a completely different person.
00:02:25Hi, Brenda.
00:02:39I love this weather in this city, you know?
00:02:48It makes me more happier, you know?
00:02:50Yeah, of course.
00:02:52My princess.
00:03:05You're welcome.
00:03:06Let's go outside.
00:03:10It's cute out here.
00:03:11Yeah.
00:03:17How are you feeling after your big comedy debut, babe?
00:03:22It's still blurry, you know?
00:03:24Yeah.
00:03:25Something happened, but my mind couldn't process it yet.
00:03:29Yeah, it's overwhelming, probably.
00:03:30I don't know how was it.
00:03:31It was good.
00:03:32You did good.
00:03:33I mean, a lot of those people have done it so many times, so...
00:03:36I could do a lot better.
00:03:37I know myself.
00:03:38Yeah.
00:03:39A lot better.
00:03:40More experience.
00:03:41But, I mean, it was a new thing, you know?
00:03:43If it was in my native language, it would be a lot easier for me, you know?
00:03:47Of course.
00:03:48Because...
00:03:49You have a lot of bravery to try something like that that's not in Turkish.
00:03:52In Turkey...
00:03:53In Turkey, we have an education system.
00:03:55We are always forced to talk perfect English as much as possible, you know?
00:03:58Really?
00:04:00Thank you so much.
00:04:01That's the problem.
00:04:02Oh, my God.
00:04:03It looks so good.
00:04:04That's the problem.
00:04:05We are always forced and pushed to talk perfect English.
00:04:07Mm-hmm.
00:04:08Uh, so the tenses you use, always my mind is turning, you know?
00:04:13I mean, we are always pressurized because of something in our country.
00:04:17Your English was so good, though.
00:04:20I'm glad you liked it.
00:04:21I did like it.
00:04:22I just felt like the Dan part, we could have done without.
00:04:28Oh, Shikaina.
00:04:30Dan, dan, dan, dan, dan, dan, dan, dan.
00:04:33Babe, you need to understand that my friends are like my chosen family.
00:04:37I know.
00:04:38I have a lot of issues with my actual family, but those are people that are close to me like family.
00:04:43You told me 15 times this.
00:04:46Okay, but I want you to take that seriously.
00:04:48Because if my friends start hating you, it's going to cause so many problems for me.
00:04:53Like what?
00:04:54Well, I've had problems in the past with exes that got on the bad side of, like, my friends.
00:05:00And it was hell to deal with because I constantly am getting negative feedback from them about the person I'm dating.
00:05:09And that just makes everything super uncomfortable.
00:05:13This comedy night really blew up because Sartre made a job at Dan, and it was a low blow.
00:05:19And he refused to apologize.
00:05:22He can't just come to L.A. and blow up my friend group because that affects my life here, too.
00:05:26I mean, I understand how important your friends are for you, but I'm excluding him in your friend group.
00:05:34I mean, you cannot be a friend with a guy that you dated.
00:05:37Yeah, well, I never slept with him, so it makes things a lot less complicated.
00:05:40Don't talk about details.
00:05:42Well, I'm just being honest.
00:05:43Right now, I'm drinking coffee.
00:05:44I don't want to think about those, okay?
00:05:46But let me tell you something.
00:05:48Yesterday, he found a reason to show himself as a victim.
00:05:52You gave him that reason.
00:05:54You literally handed it to him on a silver platter because you were the villain.
00:05:59When Dan showed up, he was probably showing up to support you.
00:06:04He knew everybody else was doing that, and he came along, too.
00:06:08You cannot understand that vibe between men.
00:06:12I can sense it.
00:06:13You cannot.
00:06:14You have a good intention.
00:06:15Oh, he came there to support you.
00:06:17Then I made such a joke, and he got upset.
00:06:19I mean, he played the victim, and you were into it.
00:06:23He didn't play the victim.
00:06:24He was the victim.
00:06:26If he was that upset, really upset, he would leave.
00:06:30Are you just going to be in a bad mood about it, or what?
00:06:32Just get over it.
00:06:33Just get over it.
00:06:34Like, do you need to talk to Dan or something?
00:06:36We should.
00:06:37Dan, Dan, Dan, Dan.
00:06:38No, I think you actually should talk to him.
00:06:39No.
00:06:40You should clear the air and tell him that you're sorry.
00:06:42You are not the one that you can say, what will I do about it, okay?
00:06:45What I will do about it.
00:06:46I'm just suggesting it.
00:06:47I'm not saying, go do it.
00:06:48I'm just saying, think about that.
00:06:49What I want to do, okay?
00:06:51It's so annoying that Sarper still can't handle me telling him directly what I need him to do.
00:06:57It's just a control thing.
00:06:58Like, he wants to feel in control, and when someone's telling him what they need him to do,
00:07:03he feels like he's being controlled.
00:07:06I just want to be the only guy.
00:07:09You're the only one that I care about, okay?
00:07:13He's not my competitor, by the way.
00:07:16Don't take it like this.
00:07:17I don't see.
00:07:18I trust you.
00:07:19I've told you how I feel.
00:07:20I trust you.
00:07:21It's the balls in your court.
00:07:26To be honest, I don't want Dan to be an issue between me and she, kind of, anymore.
00:07:32If he wants to talk and solve it in a modern way, I'm okay with that.
00:07:37But if it's by force, I'm happy to.
00:07:41Let's go, babe.
00:07:42No playing victim this time.
00:07:46Positive or negative.
00:07:48I have to erase that problem from my list.
00:07:51She's gonna hate this.
00:07:52She's gonna hate you.
00:07:53You only yell at once.
00:07:54Hey.
00:07:55Hello.
00:07:56Hey.
00:07:57Hello.
00:07:58Hi.
00:07:59I know.
00:08:00You have to do it.
00:08:01You have to.
00:08:02Oh my God.
00:08:03Yeah.
00:08:04Yeah.
00:08:05I hate it.
00:08:06Oh, I hate it.
00:08:07Oh, I hate it.
00:08:08It's really cute actually.
00:08:09This is a lot.
00:08:10I know.
00:08:11I didn't say hi.
00:08:12Hey Maddie.
00:08:13Hey Maddie.
00:08:14How are you?
00:08:15How are you?
00:08:16How are you doing?
00:08:17Good.
00:08:18How are you?
00:08:19Good.
00:08:20How are you?
00:08:21Good.
00:08:22My friends have set up a joint bachelor bachelorette party and this is the first time that Maddie's
00:08:24getting to see Claire since he found out about all of the nude stuff.
00:08:25I know.
00:08:26How are you?
00:08:27How are you?
00:08:28How are you?
00:08:29How are you?
00:08:30Good.
00:08:31How are you?
00:08:32My friends have set up a joint bachelor bachelorette party and this is the first time Maddie's
00:08:50getting to see Claire since he found out about all of the nude stuff.
00:08:54And we're going to a burlesque show so I don't know that this is probably the best setting
00:08:57for them to see each other again but here we go.
00:09:00All right.
00:09:01Are you ready?
00:09:02Are you all ready?
00:09:03Let's go.
00:09:04Hold on.
00:09:05Hold on.
00:09:06We have to wait for Saeed.
00:09:07My friend.
00:09:08His friend from California.
00:09:09Oh my God.
00:09:10Yay.
00:09:11He's a cool guy.
00:09:12Well he's kind of like bringing a piece of home to your new home.
00:09:16Yeah.
00:09:17The only thing that I know about bachelor party in the US is based on the things that
00:09:24I have seen in the movies and some of them were really wild.
00:09:28I really hope we don't have any wild things.
00:09:32Hi everyone.
00:09:33Oh hey.
00:09:34Saeed here.
00:09:35Adam.
00:09:36Hi.
00:09:37Nice meeting you.
00:09:38I'm Claire.
00:09:39Claire.
00:09:40Yes.
00:09:41Okay.
00:09:42I'm Megan.
00:09:43Megan.
00:09:44Nice meeting you.
00:09:45Nice meeting you.
00:09:46Nice meeting you too.
00:09:47He's heard a lot about me.
00:09:51Oh Claire.
00:09:52You're Claire.
00:09:54I have no idea at this point what Maddie is told Saeed about Claire.
00:09:58I can just tell that it was awkward.
00:10:00Have you ever been to a burlesque show?
00:10:03I have not.
00:10:04I have no idea what it looks like so.
00:10:06It's like a grown up adult themed dance recital.
00:10:09Yeah.
00:10:10There you go.
00:10:11I would know.
00:10:12You're going to enjoy it.
00:10:13It's really awesome.
00:10:14All right.
00:10:15Let's go.
00:10:16All right.
00:10:17Are you okay?
00:10:18Yep.
00:10:19I'm fine.
00:10:20Hello.
00:10:21Oh he's here.
00:10:22I really don't know what's going to happen.
00:10:35Like I've heard of burlesque show but I don't know is there going to be like strippers.
00:10:40So many things in Iran are banned and taboo so everything is just making me really uncomfortable.
00:10:47Are you ready?
00:10:48Yeah.
00:10:49I just want you to enjoy yourself and have a good time but if you're uncomfortable then
00:10:56I want you to let me know so that we can get up and leave.
00:10:59Like that's the biggest thing.
00:11:01Hey.
00:11:02So far away.
00:11:03So how long have you known Stevie?
00:11:08I've known Stevie about three years but we work together.
00:11:13Oh you work together.
00:11:16Earlier this morning Mahdi had told me that he's thinking Stevie and Claire might have some
00:11:22history and Stevie might be bisexual.
00:11:26This is just against everything we grew up around.
00:11:29I don't want to break up anything or ruin their plans but I want him to know the whole
00:11:35truth about this before making a decision.
00:11:38Make some noise and welcome to the Vanela Bordela.
00:11:48We're so happy to have all of you here tonight.
00:11:50My name is Lola Vanela.
00:11:52I am the madam of this here little house of ill repute.
00:11:57This salacious little speakeasy.
00:12:01It's a brothel.
00:12:03Yes.
00:12:04Making sure you know what you signed up for tonight.
00:12:07Okay.
00:12:08Is that what it is?
00:12:10Are you ready to have a good time or what?
00:12:15That's right.
00:12:16Put your hands together for the one, the only, the gorgeous, Ms. Juno.
00:12:22She's the original.
00:12:23She taught the caveman how to smooch.
00:12:24She's the original.
00:12:25She taught the caveman how to smooch.
00:12:26She's the original.
00:12:27She taught the caveman how to smooch.
00:12:28She's the original.
00:12:29There's no taming this beast.
00:12:30The original.
00:12:31It was her Bermuda Triangle that caused all those shipwrecks.
00:12:35She gave birth to Jesus.
00:12:36They invented sex.
00:12:37She's the original.
00:12:38Original.
00:12:39Original.
00:12:40Original.
00:12:41It was her Bermuda Triangle that caused all those shipwrecks.
00:12:47She gave birth to Jesus.
00:12:49They invented sex.
00:12:50She's the original.
00:12:51Original.
00:12:52Original.
00:12:53Original.
00:12:54Original.
00:12:55Original.
00:12:56Original.
00:12:57Digital.
00:12:58This was strongph reden by my 러.
00:13:00It was your skin, your skin, your skin, your six sakes, d or you?
00:13:04traditional.
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00:13:09Oh my god.
00:13:18on imagine a couple of weeks ago I was in a country that you could have been arrested
00:13:32or have been killed just because of not having a job it's just so against my upbringing and
00:13:41I don't know why Stevie would put me in this situation I'll be back sorry I'm done
00:14:03hey Alex my relationship with my sister Alex on a tour you ate a trip rush
00:14:11I'm big now you can just put it on and I can help you zip it up if you okay
00:14:17I'm hurry it's more for me because I come in here I eat too much I'm so crying
00:14:25c'est maria tu sais qui vient aujourd'hui alex alexis coming today ok c'est marie c'est ma chanson
00:14:51hey baby you know it's very very nice for me now I I have my family because every time is your
00:15:09family is completely I just just me here now I have Alex yeah no I know it's great you know I'm glad
00:15:18you got her to uh help with all the wedding stuff you know I'm not very good at this and Alex I'm sure
00:15:25would be much better I'm ready let's just go on down so we can be ready yeah yes let her know we're
00:15:32waiting in the lobby okay okay okay yeah my relationship with my sister Alex on a toujours
00:15:39été très proche très lié on s'appelle every time every day you excited to see Alex yeah I'm so stressed
00:15:48yes infaillible à ma vie en fait je sais que si j'ai un problème peu importe la grandeur du problème
00:15:55vous voyez les sortes de relations qu'on se dit la personne peut tuer et t'aider à garder le cadavre
00:16:03c'est un peu ça dans ce sens là mais on va battre oh hey hey Alex thank you thank you for coming
00:16:27I'm so happy I know you want to see how are you doing good to see you you look good you look great
00:16:41oh my god wow wow the premier fois que je suis aussi très loin de nos relations avec ma sir
00:16:52Maria wow wow she don't forget you I'm so excited she's coming to see me in my new country Alex
00:17:02this room is right next to ours so you're real close to us yeah perfect wow yeah wow me and
00:17:09Manny get in a fight she can come stay with you I'm not going to do a pyjama party you know Alex
00:17:20my dress appointment is 3 30 and it'll go soon okay so I'll let you guys go and me and Maria go
00:17:27hang out yeah you have Maria back she knows the program ah she knows the program right you ready
00:17:32now Alex it's Lila on va essayer en fait qu'elle m'accompagne et tout pour ma robe de marié cette robe je l'ai
00:17:43acheté quand même il y a des ans passé quand j'ai commencé tout justement la grossesse et on va aller un peu
00:17:51faire l'ajusteur faire des petits ajustements une et de ta robe belle c'est important ici les
00:17:58cintures alors dis moi ça fait quoi de vivre aux états unis ah c'est vraiment très bizarre tu sais
00:18:07parce que je sais qu'elle marque me disait toujours voilà chez moi c'est calme c'est tout ça là mais voir à la
00:18:18ville comme ça ça me plaît en fait c'est vrai oui ils ont pas de trottoir en fait chez nous on n'a pas
00:18:27de trottoir c'est vraiment fait pour les gens qui conduisent c'est possible
00:18:32là je suis en train de t'imaginer dans un coin où t'en train de crer tes vaches tu fais ton lait tu fais ton
00:18:46beurre on n'est pas encore arrivé à ce point là mais on y arrive tout doucement
00:18:50tu es prête oui j'ai hâte je serai juste il va rentrer dans la robe
00:19:18je suis big now
00:19:21je vais récupérer
00:19:22come on
00:19:23come down
00:19:24i'm hurry
00:19:26it's more for me because i come in here i eat too much
00:19:29i'm very stressed
00:19:31all right would you like to come in
00:19:34okay
00:19:35you can just put it on and i can help you zip it up if you need to
00:19:38okay thank you
00:19:39you're ready for see me alex yes that's your high scale
00:20:00okay okay
00:20:05okay
00:20:06one two three oh oh oui
00:20:15Yes, you're so beautiful.
00:20:22You're beautiful.
00:20:24The fact that I have seen my image,
00:20:30reflecting on the mirror,
00:20:33I really loved it because I was very, very beautiful.
00:20:39Humility.
00:20:42White wedding dress.
00:20:45It is a big dream for the only girls.
00:20:48And for me, it's amazing because
00:20:50I see that these days,
00:20:52it will never happen.
00:20:53Finally, I'm here.
00:20:56And my sister is here.
00:20:58It's perfect.
00:21:00I have something for you.
00:21:02Really? Yes.
00:21:03OK.
00:21:05Oh, wow.
00:21:07Oh, my God.
00:21:09Oh, my God.
00:21:12You're standing.
00:21:14Wow.
00:21:15It's very nice.
00:21:19Because you're here.
00:21:20Yes.
00:21:21To the moment back, I love you.
00:21:22I love you too, my sister.
00:21:25I have one more thing for you.
00:21:39Really?
00:21:40Yes.
00:21:41Wait.
00:21:48Open it.
00:21:50There is an inscription.
00:22:06Read it.
00:22:07Today is the day I say I do.
00:22:11And I carry this in memory of you.
00:22:14Yes.
00:22:15Yeah.
00:22:16It's a picture of dad and mom.
00:22:20Like this, we can be with them at the wedding.
00:22:29This is amazing, no?
00:22:32Wow.
00:22:36You're welcome.
00:22:38It's a very emotional day because she already dreamed about spending this day with our mom.
00:22:46And unfortunately, our mom, she passed a couple of years ago.
00:22:52Thank you so much.
00:22:53Stop crying.
00:22:54I have makeup on my hands.
00:22:55I can't touch your dress anymore.
00:22:57So.
00:22:58Me too.
00:22:59And I go to my wedding dress.
00:23:01My dress is dirty.
00:23:02Yes.
00:23:03Yes.
00:23:04For me, it's not just my wedding.
00:23:06It's too the dream for my mom.
00:23:09But she's not here with me.
00:23:12But Alex is here.
00:23:14And I mean, I'll be fine and happy.
00:23:18And I hope just for make me complete.
00:23:21Clayton's coming soon with my brother.
00:23:24Make me complete and my wedding's perfect.
00:23:28Why don't we know your name?
00:23:33Because you are hungry all the time.
00:23:38Because of this stuff.
00:23:41I tell you, I don't want to fight more.
00:23:45Are you crying because you got caught?
00:23:49Or are you crying because there is something deeper to this?
00:23:52What?
00:23:53I can tell by your reaction.
00:24:10You know that we know.
00:24:11What do we know?
00:24:41Oh, ****.
00:24:56Why don't we know your name?
00:25:06Would you be honest for the first time?
00:25:10What's going on?
00:25:20What's going on?
00:25:22I don't know.
00:25:23I'm still confused.
00:25:24Do you feel like you're in danger?
00:25:27I thought it was the marriage thing,
00:25:31or the being married.
00:25:33It doesn't matter.
00:25:47You could have just told us, hey, my real name is this,
00:25:50but I'd like to be called Ani at some point.
00:25:52You know, I think that was worth mentioning.
00:25:54My real name is Brenda Anahi.
00:25:56For this, for Anahi, I use Ani.
00:25:59Why wouldn't you tell us that?
00:26:01Because I protect myself.
00:26:03From what?
00:26:04I want to stay with you, Tal.
00:26:06What will I know about your name?
00:26:08What are you protecting?
00:26:12The whole timeline of our relationship, like,
00:26:14flashed in front of me, and I just tried to make sense
00:26:16of things like, oh, I never booked her a flight ticket
00:26:19ever before.
00:26:20I never actually looked at her ID.
00:26:23I never seen any paperwork that shows her name.
00:26:26Like, why would you lie about your name?
00:26:31Answer me.
00:26:34They care about you, Ani.
00:26:36When I, when I told this, I, the, Ensenada,
00:26:41I think you are angry if I told you my real name.
00:26:50Because you are angry all the time.
00:26:55Because of this stuff.
00:26:58Yeah, but you are angry for my family, for, I don't
00:27:03talk with Anjo, for everything.
00:27:04I just wanted you to love me.
00:27:06And give me as much of the restroom as I'm giving you.
00:27:09Is that so much to ask for?
00:27:11I tell you, I don't want to fight more.
00:27:15Are you crying because you got caught?
00:27:24Or are you crying because there is something deeper to this?
00:27:27You've lied about all this for a year, and here we are trying
00:27:32to get divorced for you and trying to bring you to our family.
00:27:35Betrayal is honestly an understatement.
00:27:39Are you still married?
00:27:46You talk about my marriage?
00:27:48No, I thought you were working on that, remember?
00:27:57No?
00:27:58No, she said she not.
00:27:59So why did she say that to you then?
00:28:01Maybe I misunderstood.
00:28:02I don't know.
00:28:03There's no way you misunderstood.
00:28:04You speak Spanish.
00:28:07Why does he think that your potential is still legally married
00:28:10and need to take care of that?
00:28:12No, I misunderstood.
00:28:14The fact that you switched is mind-blowing for me.
00:28:17I'm an old man.
00:28:18My time, my head, I don't, my timeline's up.
00:28:21Well, she said she's not married, so there you go.
00:28:25That's whether you believe it or not.
00:28:28It's up to you.
00:28:30You know, he changed his story to I'm mistaken.
00:28:33Any woman that can snap her fingers like that
00:28:36and change a man's memory, that's trained.
00:28:40I don't know where to go from here.
00:28:43I never thought in a million years this is how today's gonna turn out.
00:28:46I'm mentally, emotionally exhausted.
00:28:50Yeah.
00:28:51I know she's very private.
00:28:55I don't think she's lying.
00:28:57Well, she's hiding something.
00:28:59I don't know what that is.
00:29:00Before they leap into this life-changing decision,
00:29:06they need to find out what they're getting into.
00:29:09So Annie needs to show her cards on the table
00:29:13and don't hide anything.
00:29:15I think we all need to sleep on everything.
00:29:21I'm going to need a translator when I talk to her
00:29:24because I cannot afford anything lost in translation.
00:29:27Good night. It was nice meeting you, right?
00:29:30It was nice meeting you guys.
00:29:32This is, like, crazy, man.
00:29:41Like, what a show.
00:29:47Sacha, I'm going to get finally answers and finally honesty.
00:29:50Yeah, I didn't think so.
00:29:51That's the stuff.
00:29:52I am so disappointed in this conversation.
00:29:54I feel sad. I feel bad.
00:30:04I'm being honest.
00:30:05I want to be honest.
00:30:07But I need my time.
00:30:09I hope the best.
00:30:11I really do.
00:30:12You know, I want the best for you and them.
00:30:14Anyways, I'll see you later, okay?
00:30:17I don't, I am not liar with, anymore.
00:30:23Only with my name.
00:30:27But she don't believe me.
00:30:30She don't believe me.
00:30:34The two, I want to stay with them.
00:30:37I want to marry with them.
00:30:39I don't know.
00:30:40Maybe she don't want to stay with me more.
00:30:43You want it tight?
00:30:57Yes.
00:30:58With Greg working, Mrs. Lucille has offered to bring me around
00:31:02to get my wedding dress altered.
00:31:04Do you want me to come in with you and help you?
00:31:06I'd love to, but, uh, I'm going to be talking to my family.
00:31:11I see.
00:31:14I was expecting to go into the shop with Joan.
00:31:18Okay.
00:31:20I did feel a little hurt, but it's always payback.
00:31:27Aaliyah, she's not happy with how she looks.
00:31:29She'd like to get a lot of things done.
00:31:32I see Sean making sacrifices that I wouldn't expect him
00:31:37in the past to have made.
00:31:39If you knew for sure if Aaliyah was going to have bottom surgery today,
00:31:45would you go through with the marriage?
00:31:48I could pull the 90-day visa.
00:31:50It's not like I'm not thinking about it.
00:31:52It's a million-dollar question.
00:31:54You know, maybe you should ask that question.
00:31:56It's taking forever.
00:32:09I know.
00:32:10My gosh.
00:32:11Greg!
00:32:12Yeah!
00:32:13You going to work today?
00:32:16Yeah, just getting ready.
00:32:17All right.
00:32:18They say I'd never be nothing.
00:32:19Boy, what ain't wrong.
00:32:20Got my city on my back and my team is strong.
00:32:26Oh, man.
00:32:27You excited?
00:32:28Yeah, no, I'm definitely excited.
00:32:30I've been fasting, though.
00:32:31I'm trying to, uh, you know, we went a little crazy with the food in Manhattan.
00:32:35So I was trying to, like, you know, counteract a little bit.
00:32:37Oh.
00:32:38Yeah, yeah.
00:32:39Is this good for you to eat?
00:32:41No, it's sugar.
00:32:42I've got to stay away from the sugar.
00:32:44I've been gaining weight since she's been here, and I've got to stop that.
00:32:47I really do.
00:32:53I'll do the chicken.
00:32:54Give me a piece of chicken and some sausage.
00:32:56That would be great.
00:32:57I'll get your lunch bag.
00:32:58I'll be right back.
00:32:59Okay.
00:33:00First day at work.
00:33:01This is crazy, man.
00:33:02I've just been doing nothing but rideshare, and, uh, it's going to be weird.
00:33:06You nervous?
00:33:07Definitely.
00:33:08Definitely nervous.
00:33:09I don't even know how to, like, you know, talk to my supervisor or anything like that.
00:33:14It's been so long.
00:33:16Whew.
00:33:17Today is my first day at work.
00:33:18Um, I'm feeling great.
00:33:20I-I just can't wait to get in, see what I'm expected of.
00:33:23Especially that Joan's here.
00:33:24You know, every time I am getting a little stressed out or worn out, I definitely just-I just know it's for her.
00:33:29And I know it's, you know, not for her, just for her, but for us.
00:33:31I just can't wait to come home to her and tell her all about my day.
00:33:35All right.
00:33:36I've got to go.
00:33:37I want to be early.
00:33:38All right, Greg.
00:33:39All right.
00:33:40You got that for me, baby.
00:33:42All right, Mom.
00:33:43I love you.
00:33:44I'll see you later.
00:33:45All right, Greg.
00:33:46Have a good day.
00:33:48See you tonight.
00:33:49Yep.
00:33:51Good luck.
00:33:52Love you.
00:33:53Love you.
00:33:54I love you, baby.
00:33:55I love you.
00:33:56Love you.
00:33:57Love you.
00:33:58Love you.
00:33:59I love you.
00:34:00Love you.
00:34:01Yeah.
00:34:02You're still here?
00:34:03You're going to be late.
00:34:04All right.
00:34:05All right, see you.
00:34:06I love you, baby.
00:34:07I love you, Mom.
00:34:08Bye, Greg.
00:34:09I can't wait for you to come back and do everything you want.
00:34:11Are you still here?
00:34:13You're gonna be late.
00:34:14All right.
00:34:15All right. See you.
00:34:16I love you, baby.
00:34:17I love you, mom.
00:34:18Bye, Greg.
00:34:20I can't wait for you to come back and do everything you want.
00:34:22And I mean, whatever you want.
00:34:24Whatever, huh?
00:34:25Mm-hmm.
00:34:27OK.
00:34:28Be ready.
00:34:29Be ready.
00:34:30Of course I'm ready.
00:34:32Love you guys.
00:34:41I am definitely looking forward to my new job.
00:34:44It's nice to be back out in the workforce
00:34:46and being a productive member of society.
00:34:49No, but seriously, you know, it is a little, you know,
00:34:52it's a little nerve-wracking.
00:34:53Once again, I haven't had, like, I haven't had to answer to a boss
00:34:56for years now since before COVID.
00:34:59So it's definitely a little nerve-wracking.
00:35:06I've definitely had adult jobs, nine-to-fives,
00:35:09but never, like, official, like, you know, real careers,
00:35:12like where I'm going now.
00:35:15OK.
00:35:16Definitely I'm a little nervous.
00:35:18I'm just kind of a brick a little bit.
00:35:21You know, meet my coworkers, see how they are.
00:35:25All right, here we go.
00:35:27Let's make some money and slip the lucky coin.
00:35:30All right.
00:35:32Is this all for you, Joanie?
00:35:33Maybe I'll be a little socially awkward.
00:35:35I don't know, you know.
00:35:36Haven't punched a clock in forever.
00:35:38We'll see how it goes.
00:35:41All right.
00:35:52What are you making?
00:35:53It smells good in here.
00:35:54Oh, yes.
00:35:55I'm making meatballs, sausage.
00:35:57This time I put a little pork in it.
00:35:59Well, it smells good.
00:36:00Where are you going with that?
00:36:02I'd like to take my dress to be altered.
00:36:05Oh, today?
00:36:06Today, this morning?
00:36:07Yes.
00:36:08So would you please hold me?
00:36:09Take me so that I can...
00:36:10You're going to be my daughter-in-law, so I need to help you.
00:36:13Yes, thank you.
00:36:14I really appreciate.
00:36:15With Greg working, and since I don't have a license, Mrs. Lucid has offered to drive me around during the day.
00:36:22And since our wedding's approaching, I need to get my wedding dress altered.
00:36:26I prefer a dress where I can show off my calves, and when I stand up to twerk, yes, I can see my butt twerking.
00:36:34Okay, so we'll get going.
00:36:38I will turn this off until we get back.
00:36:41Let's go, dear.
00:36:43I'm looking forward to see Joan getting fitted in her wedding gown.
00:36:48I know it's going to be beautiful.
00:36:51Okay.
00:36:54You're welcome.
00:36:55Stay there, little doggies.
00:36:57Today represents just a stepping stone in us getting closer.
00:37:02These little things that bond you and share together.
00:37:12Okay.
00:37:13Where were you off to?
00:37:14I got my signal on, like I'm in this road, you know?
00:37:21You excited?
00:37:22Yeah.
00:37:23So, um, you tried on the dress?
00:37:26Yeah, it's a...
00:37:27And...
00:37:28It's a little bit bigger in the waist.
00:37:30On the arms.
00:37:32Oh.
00:37:33Yeah.
00:37:34You want it tight.
00:37:35Yeah.
00:37:36So, do you want me to come in with you and help you?
00:37:41I'd love to, but, uh, I'm going to be talking to my family.
00:37:48You don't need my help then.
00:37:51I just want them, like, to be the first people to see me.
00:37:54Like, my sisters, like...
00:37:56Yeah.
00:37:57My mom, if she's there.
00:37:59Yeah.
00:38:02I see.
00:38:05All right.
00:38:06I really don't want to hurt Mrs. Lucille's feeling, but I want to have this moment with my family.
00:38:12I want my family to see my wedding dress first, because it has been really weird for me to plan this wedding without my family.
00:38:19It's really sad.
00:38:20So, this is really special for my mom and my sisters.
00:38:23So, that's all.
00:38:24So, we're here.
00:38:25Thank you for driving me here.
00:38:26You're welcome.
00:38:27I really appreciate it.
00:38:28Okay.
00:38:29Okay.
00:38:30Let me pick the dress.
00:38:31I was expecting to go into the shop with Joan, and when she said she didn't need me, I did feel a little hurt, you know, and, um, because I've been helping her all along through this, and...
00:38:59So, it did bother me a little bit, I must say.
00:39:04It's hurtful.
00:39:05I thought I could be there for her, but evidently she didn't need me.
00:39:08So, I felt rejected and just worthless.
00:39:11But, it's always payback.
00:39:13Oh, can you help me to...
00:39:30No, you know how good I am.
00:39:32Not good I am at this.
00:39:33You want it tighter or looser or what?
00:39:35Tighter.
00:39:36No.
00:39:37No.
00:39:38Okay.
00:39:39Toot loose.
00:39:40No, no.
00:39:41No, yes, no.
00:39:42I'm going to meet Stacy and do her hair at the salon.
00:39:56Tell your mom I said hello, and send my love, and take care of the baby.
00:40:07Hmm?
00:40:08Yes.
00:40:09Bye.
00:40:10Bye.
00:40:11Bye.
00:40:16Oi, mãe.
00:40:18Oi, amiga.
00:40:19Tudo bem?
00:40:21Estamos bem.
00:40:23Como é que tá as coisas aí?
00:40:25Ah, mãe, tá tudo bem.
00:40:27E aí, a gente foi lá pra cidade onde mora a mãe e os filhos dele.
00:40:33Como foi?
00:40:36Assim, todo mundo me tratou super bem, me respeitaram.
00:40:39Que bom!
00:40:40Porque se tratar você mal, deixeu que você não mexia comigo.
00:40:46Tô...
00:40:48Sim.
00:40:50Numa consulta com uma médica, na verdade.
00:40:53Coisas que eu possa fazer pra eu poder me sentir melhor comigo mesma
00:41:00e mais feminina e tudo mais.
00:41:02E como que o Sean está lidando com tudo isso?
00:41:06Quando a gente foi nessa consulta com a médica,
00:41:09eu percebi que ele ficou um pouco tenso.
00:41:14Eu acho que o Sean ainda tá se adaptando a essa realidade.
00:41:19Pro Sean vai ser muito difícil.
00:41:22Pra união estável pra vocês dar certo, vai ter que ter, né,
00:41:25conversa, diálogo, apoio, entendeu?
00:41:28Entendeu?
00:41:30Tá?
00:41:32Minha mãe suporta as decisões que eu quero fazer sobre a cirurgia.
00:41:37Mas ela realmente pensa que eu preciso compartilhar isso
00:41:41e incluir o Sean em todas as minhas escolhas.
00:41:44Eu acho que o seu risco é sobre eu estar solucionada ou ele me deixar por causa da minha transição.
00:41:52Um abraço. Fica com Deus.
00:41:54E pensa direitinho em tudo que eu falei pra você.
00:41:58Tá.
00:41:59Beijo.
00:42:00Tchau.
00:42:02Tchau, cara.
00:42:03Tchau, cara.
00:42:04Tchau.
00:42:05Tchau, cara.
00:42:06so the engagement party was super fun yeah i had a good time too i love that setting
00:42:18such a nice place really gorgeous it was so good to meet alia and she's gorgeous and gracious and
00:42:25i loved the little bit i got to talk with her stacy is my old business partner from a hair salon
00:42:33i had in sonoma county she's known me maybe even when i was single before i got married before i
00:42:41had kids and once i had kids and through my divorce and a couple of earthquakes and hair salons and
00:42:48moving hair salons and she knows a lot about me and my life story now that you're back in la what
00:42:56you know what's going on she's dealing with her transitioning so i don't think she's like as
00:43:02comfortable being intimate with me because she's not feeling sexy beautiful whatever
00:43:09you don't want to push that closeness off too long you know you need that in a marriage as you know
00:43:16yes
00:43:17all right you need to cook and i need to sit okay sounds good
00:43:24she's just beautiful i mean she's just a beautiful woman really right and she looks so
00:43:34pretty and everything as all women feel that you know they want this and that and i do think it can
00:43:39affect your sexuality if you're feeling not at your best you know for sure yeah
00:43:46so with the doctor we got to play with breast implants that was fun so i don't know what the
00:43:57term is but if she chooses to completely become a woman right gender reassignment surgery would you
00:44:06do you think your marriage could survive that
00:44:10there's no way of knowing it's like me guessing what's gonna happen when is it gonna happen how many
00:44:20years is gonna happen what are the options how's that gonna feel
00:44:24i see sean making sacrifices that i wouldn't expect him in the past to have made especially concerning
00:44:37unknowns about where aliyah may feel she wants to take her femininity especially surgically
00:44:46change happens it's part of life but it's really different for a 25 year old than it is for a 60 year
00:44:56old you know you're you're not married yet and if you knew for sure if aliyah was gonna have bottom
00:45:04surgery if you knew that today would you go through with the marriage
00:45:09part of me thinks
00:45:19i could pull the 90-day visa
00:45:24we could reapply or not we could
00:45:30you know then give ourselves that space
00:45:33it's a million dollar question but uh you know maybe you should ask that question
00:45:43soon before you marry yeah soon
00:45:50all the it's really a castle
00:45:53with that wherever he comes he caused a problem for me we have problems because of you no we have
00:45:59program because of you right now he feels himself safe what do you think you think you're the only
00:46:05bad boy here he's in danger right now yeah trust me i can be a very bad boy
00:46:29i'm here
00:46:31i'm here
00:46:32come on
00:46:39holy it's really a castle
00:46:43She kind of wanted me to solve the situation with Dan.
00:47:00And I want to solve it for my own sake, too.
00:47:05Because wherever he comes, he causes a problem for me.
00:47:09We have to put a dot at the end of the sentence.
00:47:13Cool house.
00:47:16Welcome to my castle.
00:47:20How are you?
00:47:21Good. How are you doing?
00:47:23And you're here, so let me give you a tour.
00:47:27Come over here. Don't be shy.
00:47:30I'm not shy.
00:47:31I mean, I didn't come here to look your castle, you know?
00:47:33Oh, yeah? Really?
00:47:34Because I came here to talk with you.
00:47:36Oh, I think you deserve a little tour.
00:47:38I was kind of surprised when Sarpel reached out to me and told me that he wanted to talk.
00:47:47And, I mean, even though he was a jerk on stage for his comedy show, I'm still open to listen to what he has to say.
00:47:55Let's talk somewhere.
00:47:56Not yet. We have the living room to watch.
00:47:59Will you show the bedroom, too?
00:48:01No.
00:48:01Huh?
00:48:02I'm not going to tell you who was in this bedroom.
00:48:09Pushing the limits.
00:48:12So, this is the living room.
00:48:13You like to play pool?
00:48:14No.
00:48:15I'm not surprised about that.
00:48:21Okay, we are getting so childish.
00:48:24She kind of told me, don't be immature.
00:48:26Okay.
00:48:28The thing that I want from you, bro, please, but please, respect.
00:48:34And the thing that I did to you on the comedy show was a revenge.
00:48:38Your stand-up comedy that just showed, like, how insecure and jealous person you are.
00:48:45You played victim then.
00:48:47No, I didn't play victim.
00:48:48You played victim.
00:48:49No.
00:48:49You played an upset boy.
00:48:51And she kind of believed in you.
00:48:53We have problems because of you.
00:48:55We are arguing over you.
00:48:57No, we have problems because of you.
00:49:00I'm not going anywhere.
00:49:01That's why I'm here.
00:49:02Because I told her to not to see you again, to not include you in the friendship.
00:49:07But she doesn't accept this.
00:49:09Okay, I respect that.
00:49:09And she's right.
00:49:11Why would she listen to a guy that she met maybe, like, a year ago?
00:49:15Two years ago.
00:49:16Okay.
00:49:16In Turkey.
00:49:17And then now you're here.
00:49:18And now you're here, you want to make your own rules.
00:49:21This is not how it works.
00:49:24What do you think?
00:49:25You think you're the only bad boy here?
00:49:27Yeah, trust me, I can be a very bad boy.
00:49:30You don't know all the details.
00:49:33You think you're the bad boy?
00:49:35I've been dating all the girls in our friend group already.
00:49:41He's not a bad boy, drinking vines and talking about your castles, your business.
00:49:48But a bad boy doesn't do that.
00:49:52As she kind of told me, you dated three times with her.
00:49:55Yeah.
00:49:56And you shared a kiss.
00:49:58Maybe more.
00:49:58But this is the vibe I'm talking about.
00:50:04This is the vibe.
00:50:05You're making me crazy, bro.
00:50:07I mean, you are pushing the limits.
00:50:09Look, I'm dating.
00:50:10This is America.
00:50:11This is how it works, you know?
00:50:12I don't like it.
00:50:13I'm not getting used to it.
00:50:14So don't come to America then.
00:50:15He loves that.
00:50:18You know, he loves attention.
00:50:20He wants to be the only guy in the social group.
00:50:23And if he sees another guy who is more dominant than him, he is triggered.
00:50:30That's the problem.
00:50:32If he wants to play it like this, I'm here.
00:50:34I don't care what their friends group will say.
00:50:37I don't care.
00:50:38I mean, right now, if he comes to me, I will go twice.
00:50:41We talked about it on my birthday.
00:50:46Yeah.
00:50:47The prenups, putting in the adoption.
00:50:50Yeah.
00:50:51It's just a lot of life changes, you know?
00:50:55Adoption and babies and weddings.
00:50:57And you sure you don't need to talk to John and fast?
00:51:09Hi.
00:51:10Hi.
00:51:11How are you?
00:51:12I'm fine.
00:51:13Hi, Maria.
00:51:14Wow, wow, wow.
00:51:17I'm so excited to see your countryside house.
00:51:20Really?
00:51:21Yes.
00:51:22Okay.
00:51:29Yep.
00:51:32You got Maria, baby.
00:51:36Ah.
00:51:38All right.
00:51:38And what do you think about Boston?
00:51:48Do you have a good weekend?
00:51:49Yeah, I like it.
00:51:50It's very nice, you know?
00:51:53In New Hampshire, you see just a tree.
00:51:55A tree?
00:51:56Yeah, yeah.
00:51:57Boku, boku, boku.
00:51:58You see lakes.
00:51:58You see mountains.
00:52:00Why don't you live in Boston?
00:52:01Well, you know, I mean, right now it's because I've had this house in New Hampshire, you know?
00:52:08It's always been my dream to live at an airport.
00:52:11But for me, it's more and more complicated.
00:52:19Yeah, I kind of picked this up a little bit already, Alex.
00:52:26But I explained all this to her so many times that this is where I live in the U.S.
00:52:31Are you sure this is what you want?
00:52:32And being as young as...
00:52:33I think when she saw it in Paris, and now she's living there, it's very different.
00:52:41We're not moving next week, so we don't have, you know, we have enough going on right now.
00:52:50It's just a lot of life changes, you know?
00:52:54Adoption and babies and moving and weddings and immigration from another country.
00:53:00You know, she agreed to come and try this at least for six months.
00:53:03So I don't have any plans of going anywhere right now.
00:53:07All right, here we come.
00:53:08Welcome to my life.
00:53:10Maria's awake.
00:53:11Yeah, she's awake.
00:53:14Ah, you're home, baby girl.
00:53:16You're happy.
00:53:17You're home.
00:53:18Come to see the runway.
00:53:21This is for the plane.
00:53:23The runway.
00:53:26So.
00:53:28This is my life, a new ham shot.
00:53:30It's very charming.
00:53:33You are connected to the nature.
00:53:36Too much nature.
00:53:38A lot of trees.
00:53:40A lot of trees.
00:53:41It's not every day you can wake up because of the planes.
00:53:50So it's very original.
00:53:52Would you want to live here all year?
00:53:55No, never.
00:53:55Like Mark does?
00:53:56I'm just afraid of the, the, when the fly starting flying, so.
00:54:06I have to see.
00:54:07You want to see for yourself?
00:54:09Yes.
00:54:09So this is the airplane.
00:54:10Oh, wow.
00:54:14Wow.
00:54:17This is the one we took to North Carolina.
00:54:19I call my airplane your private airplane.
00:54:22Yeah.
00:54:22I like it.
00:54:24Yeah, this is cool.
00:54:27Come follow me for seeing the house.
00:54:30Come here.
00:54:32Welcome to my home.
00:54:37Oh.
00:54:37This is the living room.
00:54:41Yeah.
00:54:42My beautiful couch.
00:54:45Yes, I like it.
00:54:46And this way.
00:54:48And this way.
00:54:48Ta-da.
00:54:50What's the place I cook?
00:54:52You know I like to cook.
00:54:53Yes.
00:54:54And this way is for your room.
00:54:57Okay, you know I like you.
00:54:59I know.
00:55:00But I need to rest.
00:55:02So, see you tomorrow.
00:55:04Okay.
00:55:05You need to, to go just to the right, the door to the right.
00:55:07Ta-da too.
00:55:08Goodbye.
00:55:09Goodbye.
00:55:10See you tomorrow.
00:55:11See you tomorrow.
00:55:12I love you too.
00:55:13I love you too.
00:55:16Whew.
00:55:29Alex, you're in bed ready?
00:55:30Yeah.
00:55:31She tired?
00:55:32Okay.
00:55:33Yeah.
00:55:34Hey, so listen, we talked about it on my birthday.
00:55:35Yeah?
00:55:36The pre-nup, adjusting, putting in the adoption.
00:55:41You want to go ahead and do that now?
00:55:42I said I would do it as soon as we got back.
00:55:54Yeah, maybe I'll call her.
00:55:56No, I'm kidding.
00:55:57I'm kidding.
00:55:58Of course, I'm not.
00:55:59I don't need to call Jordan for this.
00:56:01We already decided we're doing it.
00:56:03I'm kidding.
00:56:04I'll give the document, we'll sign it, and we're done.
00:56:06Okay?
00:56:07Let's go.
00:56:08Yeah.
00:56:09I'm really glad we're putting this all to rest.
00:56:12Mina's happy about the pre-nup now, because we're adding in the piece about Clayton, which,
00:56:16you know, it's not a condition on me.
00:56:19It's something I would have done anyway.
00:56:21So, you know, this is good for Mina, it's good for Clayton, it's good for Maria, me.
00:56:25We're all one big happy family, and that's what I wanted all along.
00:56:28So this is win-win for both of us.
00:56:30Additional terms and conditions, right here.
00:56:33Right here?
00:56:34Yeah.
00:56:35I'll put Mark adopt Clayton as his son.
00:56:44Okay?
00:56:45Mm-hmm.
00:56:46This is my signature in print and date today, and you sign in print and date, okay?
00:56:53You good?
00:56:54Yeah.
00:56:55Yeah, I'm signing.
00:56:58You happy finally?
00:57:11Yes.
00:57:12Very good.
00:57:13Now, everything is okay.
00:57:15Okay.
00:57:38Come here.
00:57:39Your brother's coming soon.
00:57:41We hope he's here.
00:57:42Peace.
00:57:43Peace.
00:57:44Mwah.
00:57:45Mwah.
00:57:46Mwah.
00:57:47Mwah.
00:57:48Mwah.
00:57:49Mwah.
00:57:50Mwah.
00:57:51Mwah.
00:57:52Mwah.
00:57:53Mwah.
00:57:54Mwah.
00:57:59How do you think he's really feeling about this?
00:58:03I think it's alive.
00:58:05It was one of the, I can't say the biggest culture shock that I've ever had since I got
00:58:10here in the U.S.
00:58:12We've seen enough.
00:58:13Let's go.
00:58:14You okay?
00:58:15No, no, no, no.
00:58:16It's just, it's just too much.
00:58:19We have arrived.
00:58:20No self-control.
00:58:21So you just left out.
00:58:22How did you feel it?
00:58:23It was just too much.
00:58:24Like, everything, everything was just too much, so I had to take a break.
00:58:42I just got here from Iran, like, a month ago, and all the things that they're doing are
00:58:49not normal.
00:58:50Still the world just goes around.
00:58:55Give it up for Simone Del Mar featuring Professor Hannah and Jean Louise.
00:59:02How do you think he's really feeling about this?
00:59:05I think it's a lot.
00:59:06I felt like he was a little uneasy.
00:59:09I just wanted to pay to get upset.
00:59:11Oh, all of you are having so much fun this evening.
00:59:16The longer that it was taking Maddie to get back, the more I was starting to get worried.
00:59:21Now, I have told him multiple times to communicate with me if he felt uncomfortable and wanted to
00:59:30leave, so I don't really know what's going on.
00:59:34Like, I've never seen any public shows that talk about these kind of things or, like, showing
00:59:42their body.
00:59:43They were, like, all new to me.
00:59:45And I didn't know how to react, and it was one of the—I can't say the biggest culture shock
00:59:52that I've ever had since I got here in the U.S.
00:59:55Did y'all have a good time tonight or what?
00:59:58I mean, I hope Maddie's okay.
01:00:01Let's go.
01:00:02Let's roll out.
01:00:03You okay?
01:00:04No.
01:00:05No, no, no, no.
01:00:06It's just—it's just too much of this.
01:00:07Too much feathers?
01:00:08Yeah.
01:00:09I don't know whose idea it was to take everybody to that club, especially after Mahdi talked about
01:00:30his concerns about Stevie being bisexual.
01:00:34Do you like it?
01:00:35I don't see.
01:00:36Like, it was too much that I had to just walk out.
01:00:39If that's her idea, that was a stupid idea.
01:00:42I've seen a lot today, Maddie.
01:00:44Yeah.
01:00:45I don't think things can get any worse than this, so—
01:00:48I hope so.
01:00:49If it's not worse.
01:00:50Hey, I don't know.
01:00:51Hey.
01:00:52That was interesting.
01:00:53That's not more than interesting.
01:00:54Hey, it was fun.
01:00:55It's from New Orleans.
01:00:56It's art.
01:00:57You know, it's just what—what they do is fun.
01:00:59Yeah.
01:01:00Let's go hit some bars.
01:01:01How about that?
01:01:02Yeah.
01:01:03It'll be fun.
01:01:04I promise.
01:01:05As Sai said, I hope it doesn't get worse.
01:01:07I'm kind of regretting doing the whole thing.
01:01:11But I really don't want to be a party pooper.
01:01:14So I'm just trying to keep everything quiet.
01:01:17All right.
01:01:18Let's go.
01:01:19Not to cause any problems or dramas before the wedding.
01:01:27Yeah.
01:01:28Hello.
01:01:29Cheers.
01:01:30Cheers.
01:01:31So many cheers, you guys.
01:01:32A lot of cheers.
01:01:33Yeah.
01:01:34So, wedding plans.
01:01:35I know we talked—we talked earlier.
01:01:37I don't even have shoes.
01:01:38Like, you have days.
01:01:40I know.
01:01:41You two have been only seeing each other for, like, real—in real person for the past 30 days.
01:01:50And you still have 60 days.
01:01:52So I'm thinking maybe you want to take some time.
01:01:55You still have two months.
01:01:57I definitely don't feel like I'm rushing anything.
01:02:00I think I know the person that Matty is, and I love him, so—
01:02:03I'm sure you love him, but at the same time, I think a long-distance relationship is different
01:02:08from when you actually live with someone.
01:02:12We could definitely wait, but I know there's some details that go into Matty's paperwork
01:02:17that have, unfortunately, caused us to move our date up.
01:02:21So I think that we're doing what's best for us right now.
01:02:26And I think when you get married to someone, it's a commitment, and people can change, and they may do weird things,
01:02:31and you just have to learn to live with one another because you made a commitment to each other.
01:02:35So it's just a bit different for Wayne.
01:02:41Zaid has formulated false narratives about me, and that infuriates me.
01:02:46And I'm trying to figure out what I did to make this person start instigating all of this.
01:02:53Are you okay?
01:02:59Yeah, I'm okay.
01:03:00Just that whole situation really upset me because it was morphing me into somebody that I'm not,
01:03:07and also trying to morph my husband and put my friends in an uncomfortable situation.
01:03:13So I don't like it.
01:03:16Claire, now that we are talking about Vennie, I just remembered something about the venue day
01:03:21that I just wanted to apologize because I don't think I had a really good reaction
01:03:28when I found out about the painting day, and we didn't say bye well.
01:03:33I totally get that.
01:03:34Yeah, so I'm really sorry about that.
01:03:37I can't believe you just said that.
01:03:39What's happening?
01:03:40So why are you apologizing?
01:03:42Um...
01:03:47Does that mean that you're okay with that?
01:03:50Um...
01:03:51Like, is it solved?
01:03:53I think it is.
01:03:55I have promised her dad something not imposing whatever mindset that I grew up with back in Iran.
01:04:02So I don't want to change her as long as it doesn't affect our relationship.
01:04:08I just wanted to thank you all, guys.
01:04:13You just made a really good night and memorable that I will never forget.
01:04:18I think at this time, Mahdi is so culturally overwhelmed that he can't think straight.
01:04:25This is way more than just cultural difference.
01:04:28This might be something that later he just regrets, and I'm gonna talk to him.
01:04:33He needs to know the truth.
01:04:35That maybe she's actually bisexual.
01:04:45Wow!
01:04:46Here comes the bride!
01:04:48I've always dreamed of a wedding with my mom, my dad, my sisters.
01:04:52Everyone is cheering me around.
01:04:53God, I'm so...
01:04:55And me being in the U.S., having my wedding, it's a happy moment, but also very sad.
01:05:00I would like Kylie to be my flower girl.
01:05:02I would like my mom to see me, but...
01:05:05It's fine.
01:05:06It's fine.
01:05:07Don't cry.
01:05:08Try to be strong.
01:05:12I'm not gonna change my friends just because you're jealous.
01:05:15I'm not jealous.
01:05:16You know what?
01:05:17He is walking around dangerous territory.
01:05:20Based on what I hear right now, I don't think your relationship's gonna last.
01:05:25And the only thing that's keeping me cool right now, thinking Shekinah.
01:05:30Because if I do anything wrong, I can be deported.
01:05:33You are so brave, bro.
01:05:35Yeah.
01:05:36Oh my God, you are so brave.
01:05:47Hi.
01:05:48Hi, how are you?
01:05:49I'm good, thank you.
01:05:50Here for your first fitting?
01:05:51Yes, please.
01:05:52Well, I'm so excited to get started.
01:05:53Can I take your dress for you?
01:05:54Yes, thank you.
01:05:55Okay.
01:05:56Perfect.
01:05:57I also just wanted to make sure I kind of call my family.
01:06:00Absolutely.
01:06:01We'll get that all set up and then we'll get started.
01:06:02Come on in.
01:06:03All right, thank you.
01:06:11Hello.
01:06:12Hi, guys.
01:06:13Hi.
01:06:14Hi, Jojo.
01:06:15I'm excited to see me in a wedding dress.
01:06:17Yeah, very, very.
01:06:18Okay.
01:06:19Let me go and change, then come back.
01:06:21Okay.
01:06:25Today is a special day because I have to show my family, my mom and my sisters how the dress
01:06:32looks on me.
01:06:33Angie, I'm soon coming out.
01:06:35One more minute to come.
01:06:37Okay.
01:06:38My family, they're not going to be here on my special day.
01:06:43Of course, there are no visa appointments at the embassy.
01:06:46I've always dreamed of a wedding where I'm with my family.
01:06:50I'm with my mom, my dad, my sisters.
01:06:52Like, we're vibing together.
01:06:54Everyone is cheering me around.
01:06:55And me being in the U.S. having my wedding with no family.
01:06:59It's a happy moment, but also very sad.
01:07:02Joan, are you ready?
01:07:03Yes, please am.
01:07:04All right.
01:07:05Come on out.
01:07:06Here comes the bride.
01:07:07Wow.
01:07:08Oh, my God.
01:07:10You're so smart.
01:07:11You're so pretty.
01:07:13Let me start around.
01:07:14Turn around.
01:07:15Turn around.
01:07:16What do you think?
01:07:17Whoa.
01:07:18Come on out.
01:07:20The ass.
01:07:21You're so smart.
01:07:22You're so pretty.
01:07:23Here comes the bride.
01:07:24Wow.
01:07:25Oh, my God.
01:07:26You're so smart.
01:07:27You're so pretty.
01:07:29Let me start around.
01:07:30Turn around.
01:07:31What do you think?
01:07:34Wow.
01:07:35The ass.
01:07:39Ugandan Nyesha.
01:07:40The ass.
01:07:46Ugandan sauce.
01:07:49Yes.
01:07:51When they told me, ah, the Nyesha is out,
01:07:53so I was like, yes.
01:07:55I feel good.
01:07:56I feel like this wedding dress was just designed for me.
01:07:59Oh, I like it.
01:08:01Did Greg see that?
01:08:02No, he can't see me till the wedding day.
01:08:05I would love you guys to be with me on my wedding day.
01:08:10I would like Kylie to be my flower girl,
01:08:12but for these appointments coming to America,
01:08:15the only appointments are available for now to be next year.
01:08:19We are so sad about that news.
01:08:24I think we've lost our hope.
01:08:26Yeah.
01:08:29Kylie, don't cry.
01:08:32She's going to miss that day.
01:08:35Because all of us, we are going to miss, you know?
01:08:38It's so sad, you know?
01:08:41I'm sad also.
01:08:50Oh, I also have nothing much to say.
01:08:54It's fine, don't cry.
01:09:07Try to be strong.
01:09:09Whenever I talk to my family and I just see everyone home,
01:09:12my mom, my sister, it just takes me back home.
01:09:15I feel like I miss them.
01:09:17I'm going to be with strangers on my wedding day.
01:09:21So this really makes me sad.
01:09:23It puts me down.
01:09:25Of course, everyone dreams to have their wedding with family.
01:09:28Who doesn't want that?
01:09:30We are crying, but we are happy for you.
01:09:37Yeah.
01:09:40Yeah, everything will work out, yeah.
01:09:43So let's not be sad.
01:09:45Amen.
01:09:46As she kind of told me, you shared a kiss.
01:09:58Maybe more.
01:10:00This is the vibe I'm talking about.
01:10:02This is the vibe.
01:10:03Look, I'm dating.
01:10:04This is America.
01:10:05This is how it works, you know?
01:10:06I don't like it.
01:10:07I'm not getting your story.
01:10:08You don't come in America, then.
01:10:19I believe her.
01:10:20You do?
01:10:21Yes.
01:10:22Okay.
01:10:23Based on what I hear right now, I don't think your relationship is going to last.
01:10:30I'm still going to be here.
01:10:31You are so brave, bro.
01:10:32Oh my God, you are so brave.
01:10:34You are so brave, bro.
01:10:35We cannot reach to a conclusion with you, you know?
01:10:36We are obliged to see each other because of your mighty friends group.
01:10:53I mean, we will always be together somewhere.
01:10:56We will see each other.
01:10:57The atmosphere, when we are together somewhere, it sucks.
01:11:02I mean, look at your life.
01:11:04I mean, you have a great life.
01:11:05You are a great thing.
01:11:06I mean, have other friends.
01:11:08Okay?
01:11:09I'm not going to change my friends just because you're jealous.
01:11:12I'm not jealous.
01:11:17You know what?
01:11:18I mean, he is playing with me.
01:11:19I mean, he is walking around dangerous territory, and he is really brave.
01:11:24Back in Turkey, we would go outside.
01:11:27We would roll our sleeves, and we would solve it just like a real man.
01:11:32But in U.S. standards, I cannot give what he deserves.
01:11:37And the only thing that keeping me cool and cold right now, thinking Sheikina.
01:11:42Because if I do anything wrong, I can be deported.
01:11:45You are the last person in L.A. to be jealous about.
01:11:52I trust you kind of so much.
01:11:54I mean, it's nothing.
01:11:57Be normal, like other friends.
01:12:00Okay.
01:12:01So, I upsetted you on the rooftop.
01:12:04Okay?
01:12:05You upsetted me.
01:12:06So, one and one.
01:12:07Now, we are even?
01:12:08Even?
01:12:13Even.
01:12:14Okay.
01:12:15Okay.
01:12:16So, let's keep it this way.
01:12:17Okay.
01:12:18But I'm still going to keep an eye on you.
01:12:19Okay?
01:12:20Oh, my God.
01:12:21Yeah.
01:12:22Little brother is watching me.
01:12:23Yep.
01:12:24Uh-huh.
01:12:25Because at the end of the day, I want to see Sheikina happy.
01:12:28I'm not going to judge you, okay?
01:12:30But if I think about something, and if I feel something, you know what?
01:12:33Instead of keeping it for me, we're going to talk again.
01:12:36I'm respecting you just because of this.
01:12:39And you respect me about my relationship.
01:12:42Exactly.
01:12:43So.
01:12:44We're good.
01:12:46Dan pushed me so hard to lose my control.
01:12:51But I didn't.
01:12:52This is modern Sarpur.
01:12:54I can solve things by talking.
01:12:59Let me walk you out.
01:13:01We agreed on something, and he understands.
01:13:04If there is a next time that I see him, and he does the same thing, I cannot be that calm.
01:13:10You know?
01:13:11Because I'm the real bad boy.
01:13:13Bye.
01:13:14Bye.
01:13:15So, he's better to respect my relationship from now on.
01:13:19Ah, your castle.
01:13:21The hormone therapy is something that I really want to start to do.
01:13:29Even though I want to support Aaliyah in everything that she wants to do with her life, this is too far for me.
01:13:34Getting married in two weeks, and I want to be 100% honest.
01:13:38There's some really beautiful houses off to the right.
01:13:52I love Devin Hills.
01:13:55We are so close, so close.
01:13:58So close, and yet so far, we have to suffer with West Hollywood Heights.
01:14:03Ugh, poor thing.
01:14:05So we are very close now to the water.
01:14:15We are close to the beach?
01:14:16We're just going to go over this little hill.
01:14:18Oh, you said that was a long trip?
01:14:20And the ocean will be on your side.
01:14:22Nice.
01:14:23Yeah.
01:14:24It's very California-vite.
01:14:26Mmm.
01:14:27I love palm trees, ocean.
01:14:29Now I am in California.
01:14:31I got the rollerblades, so we can go rollerblading.
01:14:51Oh, God.
01:14:55Ready?
01:14:56Yeah.
01:14:57Rollerblading on the Venice Beach with all the other people.
01:15:03It's very, like, SoCal.
01:15:05I think Barbie reminds me that.
01:15:08But it's, like, something that I don't know how to use.
01:15:12You know you need to teach me, yeah?
01:15:14Because I don't know.
01:15:15No, I'm going to meet you a couple miles down.
01:15:17I like to go to the beach, put something on the sand that I can lay down my body,
01:15:22and I want to, like, pass oil on my skin.
01:15:25And then I lay down one hour front, one hour back.
01:15:29One hour front, one hour back.
01:15:31Have some drinks.
01:15:33Not really.
01:15:37Ready?
01:15:38Like, just do this.
01:15:39Get used to the back and forth, all right?
01:15:41And then you kind of step like a baby, and then you can glide.
01:15:45I don't want to do this, though.
01:15:47You got knee pads.
01:15:49You got wrist pads.
01:15:50You got a huge ass pad.
01:15:52And I don't have any ass pads.
01:15:53So you have lots of things going on.
01:15:56No.
01:15:59Now you have to go uphill.
01:16:00Oh, my.
01:16:01Love, love.
01:16:02Come on, uphill, uphill.
01:16:03I will fall.
01:16:04I will fall.
01:16:05Leave me alone.
01:16:06I will try.
01:16:07And you have no technique to take me.
01:16:10Let me show you how you're going to do the triple sal cow.
01:16:13Look, she's rollerblading with a baby, no less.
01:16:16Are you kidding me?
01:16:19The more you go, the easier it feels, OK?
01:16:26And then you can just glide.
01:16:28And you don't have to do anything.
01:16:31Hurry up.
01:16:32You're making me look young.
01:16:34I'm going.
01:16:35I'm trying.
01:16:36I'm trying to do my best.
01:16:37There you go.
01:16:39Oh, oh, oh.
01:16:41Thanks.
01:16:42That was close.
01:16:44And the.
01:16:49So nice.
01:16:51And I really love the tongue.
01:16:52I think I was missing this so much.
01:16:54Yeah.
01:16:55You need to get your tan on before the sweating.
01:16:58So you got a lot of information from the doctor.
01:17:01Mm-hmm.
01:17:02So with all of that, what are your thoughts about it all?
01:17:09I think the hormone therapy, it's something that I really want to start to do.
01:17:14Mm-hmm.
01:17:15The facial phenomenization, the one that I want to do here.
01:17:19Mm-hmm.
01:17:20On the, this bone here.
01:17:22Yeah.
01:17:23That one just sounds the most complicated and dangerous.
01:17:28And having a big scar across the whole top, like a headband, doesn't sound great.
01:17:33Yeah, actually, I think if it's in the middle of the hair, you will not see the scar.
01:17:37And I've had clients that have had brow lifts like that and have literally had indentations
01:17:42where the scar even like went into their bone and made a divot that they can't hide.
01:17:49But that's probably a long time ago.
01:17:50I think the surgery issue is the biggest, scariest part of, you know, what's going on right now with our relationship.
01:17:59I'm trying to roll with everything that's been going on.
01:18:04And even though I want to support Aaliyah in everything that she wants to do with her life,
01:18:09I guess I also have a need for as much clarity to make sure for me that I'm doing the right thing.
01:18:18So if you do all this, then like, when are you thinking about doing that?
01:18:23Like a week, month, year?
01:18:27I think the hormone is something that I, I can, next week I can go to a doctor to see.
01:18:35And the, the face of feminization is something I even need like the opinion of other doctors.
01:18:43So it's something that I still need to think about.
01:18:46But everything that we are talking, you're talking because it's like possibilities.
01:18:55I think for me, I just don't want to be not considered.
01:19:04I mean, I was pretty shocked at the doctor's office that you had done all this research about reassignment surgeries and knew even things that she wasn't even bringing up.
01:19:16So what's happening with the possibility of that now?
01:19:25It's like my process, but it affects you and affects us in our relationship.
01:19:34Now it's something that I'm not thinking about.
01:19:37But I cannot tell you that you think like that, like forever.
01:19:44I'm getting married in two weeks and, you know, I want to be 100% honest.
01:19:51And I can't guarantee you that our marriage would survive if you had gender reassignment surgery.
01:19:59I have skirted around just trying to support Aaliyah.
01:20:08But in this one moment, I feel like I'm telling her like, this is too far for me.
01:20:13And I think, I hope she's understanding what I'm saying.
01:20:18It's not easy to hear that.
01:20:21But we are just like living the present, the moment.
01:20:26So I also don't have, like, winters for the future.
01:20:31Promise me you won't let go so quick.
01:20:38I wish that I knew the future or have winters for Sean, but that's not the reality.
01:20:45And that scares me because it's like he's thinking about the end and we have not even started our journey.
01:20:55I think I, I just want to go home.
01:21:00Alright mom, let's go. Get her stuck.
01:21:16Next time on 90 Day Fiancé.
01:21:19You can look, don't touch, get it.
01:21:21Doesn't make you blush, lady.
01:21:23Oh my God.
01:21:24Tonight we're giving Joan her bachelorette party.
01:21:28Like two water balloons.
01:21:30Yeah.
01:21:31Going to a street club with my future mother, you know, it's a bit awkward.
01:21:36Give me my jacket.
01:21:38You're killing this.
01:21:41Hello. We can talk.
01:21:45Anya has a different legal name.
01:21:48She's probably still legally married and refuses to give any explanation.
01:21:53She's here.
01:21:54This is like the last chance.
01:21:56It really is.
01:21:57I'm thinking, like, this cannot be saved.
01:21:59Hello.
01:22:00Hello.
01:22:04What is that?
01:22:06So I bring up.
01:22:08Everything with us seems too uncertain.
01:22:10I've decided preparing will make me feel more at ease about moving forward.
01:22:15Do you think I want to stay off your money?
01:22:18The cruise is ready for him whenever he's ready.
01:22:23I mean, he's got to learn to let that go.
01:22:26Mm-hmm.
01:22:27If he wants to go back to the cruise, then I'm done.
01:22:29I don't want to be a cruise wife.
01:22:32You will lose me.
01:22:35So is you the cruise?
01:22:37Is that what you're saying?
01:22:38Yeah.
01:22:39I don't know what to say.
01:22:41She's been keeping secrets from you.
01:22:48That doesn't make sense to me.
01:22:51I can't get along with not knowing the truth.
01:22:55I'm too tired.
01:22:58I feel like that made a mistake coming here.
01:23:03That's too late.
01:23:06So what's going on with the wedding?
01:23:08Oh.
01:23:09He will have no wedding.
01:23:12What?
01:23:13My brain is on the floor right now.
01:23:16It's just ridiculous, man.
01:23:18Leave me room, please.
01:23:2020, thank you.
01:23:22You're losing your mind.
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