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90 Day Fiance S11E19 (2025)
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00:00:00tonight part one of an unbelievable two-part event let's do it I'm not ready for another
00:00:09drama again are you nervous no I just might sweat you notice either it's a bed yeah cool
00:00:23was a cucumber Shekinah what happened between you and a mini before coming to the tell-all she sent
00:00:32me a message and said I'm sorry in advance for the things I'm gonna say about you I tried to talk
00:00:36to you in private about it shut up Amani nobody's talking to you shut up you need to be you're
00:00:43calculated you Sean you ended up going on a honeymoon without Aaliyah oh I just can't I
00:00:57can't do this I just it's weird I can't put up with this okay we'll be joined by some 90-day
00:01:07OGs have been watching this spicy season please welcome big Ed you've been following Joan and Greg
00:01:18uh what do you think about their situation I'm gonna be completely honest Joan you give this
00:01:24gentleman a 90-day notice to put a roof over your head that's bull quit screwing around you know be
00:01:30a man are you still in trouble right now please welcome Jess's friend Megan Megan how
00:01:37many jobs has one said I'm not interested 50 maybe 50 that's insane why can't you do the
00:01:46cruise ship from your opinion the only problem about the cruise ship is leaving my son he sits
00:01:50there and says the only reason I'm here is because of David like you should have said the only reason
00:01:54I'm here is because of David and Jessica this is our business step aside Danielle and Shekinah do
00:02:03either of you feel that you owe the other an apology how the no absolutely not Shekinah I'm telling you
00:02:11you have too many haters I don't know how I got so many people so riled up how are you a victim
00:02:18because you're attacking here but you're lying girl get your husband this is okay guys guys
00:02:26put your finger in my face again hold on hold on hold on hold on it all starts get that bitch out now
00:02:34hold your finger in my face
00:02:47Hi how are you
00:02:49How are you?
00:02:49I'm okay
00:02:51Today sucks
00:02:55Sarber and I are not coming in as a unified friend
00:02:57That's not the way that I would have wanted it to be but we're not good
00:03:01Here we go
00:03:02Bye
00:03:04I feel like everything changed once we got married and this is just my biggest fear coming to life
00:03:16Honestly getting here today, I'm starting to feel a little bit aggravated
00:03:19I'm tired of these questions about my sexuality
00:03:22And if he decides one day that he wants to walk out of the relationship that is a choice that he'll make
00:03:27Our marriage has been good, but also there are some things that I never thought we would have problems with
00:03:40Whenever I feel like I'm gonna say something that Steve is gonna be mad. I try not to bring it up
00:03:46But today we both cannot escape these problems
00:03:50Yo, hold up a second. I said that is yours anyway
00:03:57Am I moving that fast?
00:03:59I feel like with me on river, he tries to be a good husband, but I feel like he needs to come up
00:04:07We got everything right you made sure double check triple check
00:04:12So you're training him? Yes
00:04:16Good morning
00:04:18I'm definitely feeling a little anxious today if anybody comes to me. I mean, it's on I definitely got some Long Island in me
00:04:28I'm a little nervous that might come out a little bit heavy, you know
00:04:32I don't know but also to like Joan definitely has some fiery opinions. I think other couples should beware
00:04:48I don't have any clue I hope she's here before me who knows
00:05:01Sometimes I feel regret about this decision to get married because it wasn't K1 thing
00:05:08We want to be together. We need to get married
00:05:10But if we had no obligation like this we wouldn't be married for sure. I mean and we would be happier
00:05:17Hello
00:05:19You might need another chair
00:05:21You might need another chair
00:05:24Don't put your stuff on my dress, please
00:05:26What do you want me to do?
00:05:28I don't know
00:05:30Whatever
00:05:35Nice to see you, man. Good to see you, man. Yeah. Good to see you in person. Yeah, same year. How's it going?
00:05:39Good good. How you been, brother? Good
00:05:41Are you taller than me or? Oh, I'm 6'4". I'm 6'3". Oh, seriously. So we're almost the same. Yeah. Hey, the G
00:05:49Good to see you, man. Good to see you, man
00:05:52My brother, I'm team so... Bro?
00:05:55Are you nervous? No, I just... My armpits sweat. Oh my god
00:05:59Oh, no need to be... I'm here to make you comfort
00:06:02You got some beautiful eyes, man. No, no, no
00:06:04I'm not hitting on you or anything, but... You are hitting? Oh
00:06:06I'm not...
00:06:092,502
00:06:10Yeah
00:06:14Let's see it
00:06:15Supper is my boy. You know, I'm ready to back him. I'm going to war for that mother
00:06:18man, seriously. I don't agree with everything he says 100%, but he's awesome
00:06:24Let me give you some advice about Telo. I mean, if you have something to say about anyone
00:06:29Do it. Split it out. Don't think that if they are upset or not
00:06:33Who gives a , right? Just... Yes. It's called cancellation method. I give first a compliment, then a insult
00:06:41Yeah, yeah. You are so cute, but you are sweating too much, for example
00:06:43Yeah, yeah
00:06:51Wow, it's so stunning
00:06:54And that's so stunning
00:06:57Are you ready? I'm ready
00:06:59Let's do it
00:07:01Since you blessed us a lot of things happened and not all happy or wonderful
00:07:10We've had so many changes within our relationships like big huge changes so going in it's like will I just be
00:07:17Thoroughly transparent and let the world judge me or will I try to hold back a little
00:07:22How's it going? Sean, how are you, man? Nice, looking good, man
00:07:30They came like celebrities, bro
00:07:31Yeah, man
00:07:32I felt like myself like a peasant
00:07:34Yeah
00:07:36Guys, can you notice these or?
00:07:37Yeah
00:07:38I'm really not nervous
00:07:39Is it possible not to notice, brother? I mean, it is
00:07:42Can you take it off here?
00:07:43Yeah, right?
00:07:44Yeah, I know, you know
00:07:46So I gotta figure out this situation before it gets worse
00:07:49Go do whatever you need, bro
00:07:51See ya
00:07:52He's so cute, yeah
00:07:53He's so cute, man
00:07:54Big friends, all they do is pretend
00:07:56Tell you that they love you right or that's the end
00:08:01Cool as a cucumber
00:08:09Wyoming has made it to New York
00:08:13This is very different
00:08:14There's more buildings in this corner than the whole town
00:08:17Like
00:08:17Thank you
00:08:18Being married is beautiful, but it's not easy as well, so you know
00:08:21Did you see the big cruise ships on Hudson when you were coming in?
00:08:25Uh, I did see some cruise ships and that reminded me of my own job and
00:08:30I might run away and get on one of those boats and just get back to work
00:08:36Uh, obviously we're out of time, French, um, so within the next 20 minutes if we can like
00:08:41do this, get dressed
00:08:43For sure
00:08:44Hi there
00:08:45Hi
00:08:46Hi buddy
00:08:46How are you?
00:08:47How's it going?
00:08:47Good
00:08:47Nice to meet you
00:08:48Nice to meet you
00:08:49Nice to meet you
00:08:49Nice to meet you
00:08:50Nice to meet you too, welcome
00:08:51Thank you
00:08:53You guys look great
00:08:54I'm gonna sit here
00:08:55Don't ruin our brummies
00:08:57Hey
00:08:58Hi
00:08:58You look so gorgeous
00:08:59You look gorgeous
00:09:00Nice to meet you
00:09:02Nice to meet you too
00:09:03Oh my gosh
00:09:05How are you feeling?
00:09:07Nervous
00:09:07You've done this before, I haven't
00:09:09But like I have this life slogan that's like
00:09:11If you don't start in a there won't be in a
00:09:13So there's no one you want to start a little with
00:09:16I mean I can't be a starter
00:09:18I'm sure you can
00:09:19I honestly am curious if you and Imani will go head to head
00:09:23Why?
00:09:24I think you're like very different
00:09:26Yeah
00:09:26But also have very big personalities
00:09:27So I'm like
00:09:28I wonder who's gonna comfort me first
00:09:30Can I tell you something?
00:09:31Yeah sure tell me
00:09:32Okay
00:09:32So she messaged me on Instagram
00:09:35Uh huh
00:09:35And she's like
00:09:36I actually really love you
00:09:38But I'm sorry in advance for everything I'm gonna say about you at the top
00:09:42I don't like that
00:09:42And I was like whoa
00:09:44Like you're planning ahead to be a bitch
00:09:47To me I need a happy mommy
00:09:48I felt it
00:09:49I know girls girls
00:09:50Okay so my intuition might be right
00:09:52I think it is
00:09:53Yeah
00:09:53I'm nervous you know
00:09:58Jordan I'm sure will be here
00:10:00I'm not ready for another drama
00:10:02Okay
00:10:02I'm down for the drama
00:10:04Since the wedding we're at a good spot
00:10:08Yeah yeah
00:10:09But uh there's definitely some struggles and some things going on
00:10:13Hey man how's it going doing?
00:10:15And uh sometimes we have an ego
00:10:17It's a dream life bro
00:10:21I mean you run away just in front of your house
00:10:24Man that was the most gangsta things guys
00:10:26Yeah get on my private plane
00:10:27Yeah yeah
00:10:31Oh it's cold
00:10:32I know
00:10:33Hi
00:10:34Welcome to New York
00:10:35This is why I live on the West Coast
00:10:36This is why I live on the West Coast
00:10:38Thank you baby
00:10:38You're very good
00:10:39You've had a bit of work done
00:10:41Oh yeah
00:10:42That's what you're comfortable sharing about
00:10:43Of course um
00:10:45I like did a couple of surgeries
00:10:47Like I got a BBL
00:10:50I've gotten a nose job
00:10:52I felt the pressure to go do all these surgeries
00:10:54To fit into this box that society created
00:10:58And in the process of doing so
00:11:00I lost pieces of myself
00:11:04These muffins are so good
00:11:05Do you want to get the chocolate?
00:11:06No look
00:11:07You sure?
00:11:08I'm nervous as hell
00:11:10Where Ani, Matt and I left off
00:11:13It was crazy
00:11:15So it's gonna be hurtful to kind of talk about everything
00:11:19But it's time to hash it out
00:11:21I'm telling you you're coming at me hard
00:11:22I'm gonna clap back
00:11:24So much has happened that it's gonna be a surprise where we're at today
00:11:28I mean I just personally it's really hard to work out a throuple
00:11:31So you know I don't I don't highly recommend it
00:11:33The juggle's real
00:11:35See if you like
00:11:36I want to ask
00:11:37Why do you always have like many like blue pictures in your house?
00:11:41Because that's what I do I paint boobs
00:11:44I always like want one I think you're so talented
00:11:46Do you have a problem with boobs?
00:11:47No
00:11:52Oh my gosh TV looks so beautiful
00:11:54This TV is like my 90 day fiance like girl crush
00:11:58So I should be careful
00:12:00Oh
00:12:02Hi, I'm Emily
00:12:03Nice to meet you
00:12:04Nice to meet you
00:12:05Hi, I didn't meet you yet
00:12:07Nice to meet you
00:12:09Nice to meet you
00:12:11You guys look so beautiful together
00:12:12Thank you
00:12:13Oh hi, I didn't meet you either
00:12:14I'm so sorry
00:12:15How are you?
00:12:16Nice to meet you
00:12:17Wait, they tell you I'm also wearing green?
00:12:18No
00:12:20They're different colors of green
00:12:22It's fine
00:12:23We know you and she kind of had some tension pre this
00:12:27I tried to proactive reach out to her
00:12:29To try to build you know friendship
00:12:32And she's always one word with me
00:12:34So brief
00:12:35It's like I know you don't want to talk to me
00:12:37I don't know why
00:12:38So yeah, bring it
00:12:41All right, everyone it's time to go to set
00:12:44All right
00:12:45Come on through
00:12:51Okay
00:12:53I'm perfectionist
00:12:54And that's like a little bit of trouble sometimes
00:12:57This is my dreaded moment
00:12:59I have not been looking forward to this
00:13:02I'm sure we'll be getting the death glances
00:13:04When we walk into the room with everybody else who's been waiting
00:13:07I don't look forward to being grilled
00:13:14Are you guys always light?
00:13:16You're just coming in now
00:13:17You're just coming in now
00:13:17No, of course not
00:13:19No, of course not
00:13:19Are you nervous?
00:13:20No, I think I'm like more excited than nervous
00:13:22I'm more nervous
00:13:23All right, you're Sean
00:13:34All right, you're Sean
00:13:35Hey guys
00:13:36How are you?
00:13:37How are you?
00:13:38Hello
00:13:40Okay
00:13:41Here we go
00:13:43Ready
00:13:45Five
00:13:45Four
00:13:46Three
00:13:47Two
00:13:48Welcome to 90 day fiance
00:13:51The couples tell all
00:13:52I'm Sean Robinson
00:13:54We're joined here tonight by six couples
00:13:56And for the very first time one thruple
00:14:00Everyone here believed they had found their true love
00:14:04But before they could walk down the aisle
00:14:06Each of them faced problems with intimacy, trust, cultural differences, and more
00:14:11Tonight we'll uncover shocking revelations about the past, the present, and what the future holds
00:14:17Plus later on we will be joined by a few familiar faces from 90 day
00:14:22Who are ready to fire off questions of their own
00:14:25I want to also mention that we have an interpreter for both Ani and Mina
00:14:29So their points don't get lost in conversation
00:14:32All right
00:14:34Are you ready to begin?
00:14:36Yes
00:14:37Ready as I'm ever going to be
00:14:39Okay, I'm going to start with Stevie and Maddie
00:14:42Very good to meet you
00:14:43Nice to meet you
00:14:44So you surprisingly did not take the full 90 days
00:14:48You expedited your marriage to save money
00:14:51Now looking back, was saving on everything, all the expenses, worth the extra stress?
00:14:59Um, probably not
00:15:07Distress was like too much, but it helped me
00:15:10I got my green card and now I'm working
00:15:13Great, congratulations
00:15:15Okay, now you are working
00:15:16Yes
00:15:17That must feel great for you
00:15:18Yeah
00:15:19Yeah, it is
00:15:19And for me
00:15:20Yes, and for you
00:15:22Okay, we're going to talk more about that
00:15:23But right now I'm going to say hello to the other couples
00:15:27Shekinah and Sarfer
00:15:28Good to see you again
00:15:29Good to see you
00:15:31So, Shekinah, you look beautiful
00:15:33Did you change your look a little?
00:15:36Of course I did
00:15:37Of course you did
00:15:37Of course
00:15:38My under eyes were bothering me so much
00:15:40Mainly because I had all of my filler dissolve
00:15:43So I needed a little lift
00:15:45Okay, here we have the before and after
00:15:49So the last time you were here
00:15:50You were saying you were going for a more natural look
00:15:53Mm-hmm
00:15:53And so this surgery you feel made you look more natural
00:15:56I do
00:15:57I look more like myself before all the fillers
00:16:00So here's what I want to know
00:16:03How is married life treating you?
00:16:06You tell
00:16:07You go ahead
00:16:08Rollercoaster up and downs
00:16:11It's difficult
00:16:13The honeymoon was over really fast
00:16:15And we actually didn't even have a honeymoon so
00:16:17You didn't?
00:16:18No, and I just still only have an engagement ring
00:16:21So are we really married?
00:16:23Oh wow
00:16:23Oh my god
00:16:25So there's that
00:16:26So you're missing the wedding band
00:16:28Yeah, I know
00:16:28I'm aware of this
00:16:30Every argument, every fight
00:16:31She reminds me that
00:16:32I'm blessed that when my wife married me
00:16:35I put a stainless steel band around her finger
00:16:37It was like a hundred bucks
00:16:39Not even
00:16:40I mean, I'll say it right now
00:16:41And I mean, I'm privileged to be next to her today
00:16:44It's not about you guys this time
00:16:46Talking about you
00:16:48There is so much to dig into
00:16:51With the two of you
00:16:52But right now we're going to go on to Mark and Mina
00:16:55How are you?
00:16:56Good to meet you
00:16:57Hi
00:16:58How is married life for you?
00:16:59It's been amazing
00:17:03Mina's perfect I think
00:17:05Mina, you gave Mark a deadline of six months to leave New Hampshire
00:17:13And move someplace else
00:17:14Did he make that deadline?
00:17:16Yeah
00:17:21Translator?
00:17:22So he thought Boston would be a good fit
00:17:25Oh, so you moved to Boston
00:17:30She loves Boston
00:17:31You're welcome
00:17:33That's exciting
00:17:34I can't wait to hear more
00:17:35And Mark, your daughter Jordan will be joining the conversation later
00:17:40Are you nervous for that?
00:17:41Yeah
00:17:42A little bit, yeah, a little bit
00:17:45Right now I want to turn to Matt, Ameni, and Ani
00:17:48It is good to meet the three of you
00:17:50Now this love triangle certainly had some unexpected twists
00:17:56It's true
00:17:57And when we talk later we want to find out if you were able to work things out
00:18:01But first, Ameni
00:18:04Let me ask you, Shekinah was just talking about a little zhuzhing up that she did since I last saw her
00:18:12You look gorgeous, a little bit different
00:18:15Did you have anything done?
00:18:16I did, I'm actually six weeks post-op
00:18:20I got a nose job, like a temporal lift, I got a BBL
00:18:25And then I got a mini tummy tuck, um, and lipo, yes
00:18:31Whoa, okay
00:18:33So it's kind of like a body overhaul there
00:18:35Yeah
00:18:37Matt and Ani, what do you guys think?
00:18:42I think so, she's crazy because it's okay if you make little change, but she make all in the same time
00:18:50Yeah
00:18:50Unlike Shekinah, it's not necessarily something I'm proud of
00:18:54Um, actually, I kind of got pressure from like social media image
00:19:01You did it for the wrong reason
00:19:02What are your reasons?
00:19:03My reasons are I wanted to change certain things that bothered me
00:19:08And you, it sounds like your reasons were you wanted to fit society's standards
00:19:12So those are two very different things
00:19:15Anyways, I went and got a lot of surgeries and after the surgery I've went through a huge identity crisis to be honest
00:19:22I feel like I don't look like me anymore
00:19:25But you didn't want to look like yourself, that's why you got the surgery, right?
00:19:29Well, I don't want to lose who I am and not look like myself
00:19:33But then what was the point of getting surgery?
00:19:38You're rude
00:19:39I don't know what your problem is
00:19:41Oh my god
00:19:42Okay, wait, hold up
00:19:45Shekinah, Amini, it seems like there's some hostility here
00:19:50Did anything happen between the two of you before coming to the tell-all?
00:19:54Well, initially she reached out and said I'm, you know, on the same season as you
00:19:58And then we started talking about plastic surgery and whatever
00:20:01And we, you know, continued the conversation a little bit
00:20:04And then she sent me a message and said I do really like you but I'm sorry in advance for the things I'm going to say about you at the tell-all
00:20:12And I thought that that was very calculated because for me I don't plan what I'm going to say
00:20:18I just am authentic to how I feel in the moment and for you to premeditate kind of like to be
00:20:24Mean to me was low, I think
00:20:28It says a lot about your character
00:20:30So I reached out to her because I'm a girl's girl and I respect my cast members so much
00:20:33And I told her, hey, listen ahead of time, listen, I like you but on the towel, whatever I'm going to say, you know, please don't take it too personal
00:20:40Like I tried to give her a heads up versus like coming in here and like being rude and bashing her like she is
00:20:47She's just so thirsty for like screen time
00:20:49Oh my god
00:20:50I tried to talk to you in private about it
00:20:52You can't talk to her
00:20:53But of course you had to come here and create drama about it
00:20:56You are so calculated
00:20:57I'm calculated
00:20:59Calculated is the perfect word for you
00:21:02You're calculated?
00:21:03I'm you
00:21:05If you ask me, I don't like the marriage
00:21:13Wait, you don't like the marriage?
00:21:16No
00:21:17Just everything changed
00:21:21After we got married
00:21:24Stevie, why not just say no, I'm not bisexual
00:21:28It's a yes or no question and you haven't told him yes or no
00:21:32I'm not sorry for that
00:21:33Wow
00:21:34Oh, whoa, now see, that's a big deal
00:21:36I think Matthew deserves to know the truth
00:21:46You're calculated as you
00:21:50You wanted to start and you did
00:21:51Congratulations
00:21:52I don't even want to get catty with women
00:21:55They don't, they don't
00:21:57Peace
00:21:58Yeah, for real, for real, absolutely
00:21:59Hold up, guys
00:22:01Okay
00:22:03All right, we're going to move on and say hello to the rest of our couples
00:22:07Sean and Aaliyah, good to meet you
00:22:09How are you?
00:22:10Nice to meet you
00:22:12So, your wedding was a lot different than that dream wedding you had envisioned
00:22:19That dress though
00:22:21So, on a scale of one to ten
00:22:26How are things between you today?
00:22:29One being the worst, ten being the best
00:22:32What number would you pick?
00:22:33Like eight?
00:22:39Yeah, that's what I was going to say, seven, eight
00:22:41That's a good number
00:22:41Because we live in peace, because we're not fighting
00:22:45But the sexual relationship is not so great
00:22:49We're not really having sex anymore
00:22:52What?
00:22:54Yes
00:22:55Damn
00:22:57Does anybody here look at that as an eight?
00:23:00That's a one
00:23:01Yeah
00:23:02That's a one
00:23:02Sex is so important in a relationship
00:23:05Yeah, absolutely
00:23:06I'm going to circle back to the two of you
00:23:11Now I want to go to Jessica and Juan
00:23:14Hi
00:23:15Hi
00:23:15Hi there
00:23:16Good to see you
00:23:17Good to meet you
00:23:17Good to meet you
00:23:18Jessica, we saw Juan ask you to make an attempt to learn Spanish
00:23:24Have you done that?
00:23:25Um, it's hard
00:23:27It's hard to find time
00:23:30It is still very much a goal of mine
00:23:33I feel like I can read okay
00:23:36I can now get a restaurant fairly well
00:23:38Why does it matter?
00:23:39He speaks English
00:23:41Who cares?
00:23:41It matters for his kids probably
00:23:44He wants to keep the heritage going
00:23:45I think the main point is like
00:23:47I would love if my wife can come to Colombia and talk to my family
00:23:52Yeah
00:23:52Sometimes it is better not to talk
00:23:54With the family, believe me
00:23:56You might be right
00:23:59Now Greg and Joan, very good to meet you
00:24:01Nice to meet you
00:24:02Nice to meet you
00:24:04How have things been since the wedding?
00:24:07I feel like we've been married like forever
00:24:12So is that a good thing?
00:24:14Yes, I feel like
00:24:15He treats me the same way
00:24:17Aw
00:24:17Okay, we know everyone's curious whether the two of you are still living with Greg's mom
00:24:23We're gonna bring her into the conversation
00:24:26Right now?
00:24:27In a bit
00:24:29That's going to be interesting
00:24:30Greg, you excited about that?
00:24:32I'm super excited
00:24:34Now it's time to dive into discussions about each of your relationships
00:24:38Let's kick things off with Shekinah and Sarper
00:24:42First off, we need to see a picture of this very unique ceremony that the two of you had the day that you got married
00:24:50There you go in the bed
00:24:54Wow
00:24:55Those are very beautiful pictures
00:24:56What do you remember about this moment, Shekinah?
00:24:59It was perfect and I loved how intimate it was
00:25:04There was no one else there and it was just really special
00:25:09But no
00:25:09I feel like I'm gonna get emotional
00:25:16Just everything changed
00:25:19After we got married
00:25:23And that was my biggest fear and it just like came true
00:25:29Mine too
00:25:29How did they change, Shekinah?
00:25:36Sarper changed
00:25:38Our dynamic changed because now we're in the U.S. and like
00:25:43He moved into my place, which I know is hard because, you know, it does feel like it's my place, you know
00:25:51But um, Sarper went through a really bad depression and it brought up um just a lot of anger from him at me
00:25:59So far from your point of view, what changed after the wedding?
00:26:06I am always the control freak, so I have to
00:26:10Control things and when I don't control things
00:26:13I feel depressed
00:26:14If you ask me, I don't like the marriage
00:26:17What?
00:26:21This article
00:26:22Wait, you're saying you don't like the marriage
00:26:25No
00:26:26Because it's brought a lot of new responsibilities and duties to my life
00:26:32Every morning, I mean take the garbage out, Sarper, take the dog out, Sarper
00:26:36Yeah, Sarper doesn't like responsibility
00:26:38We need to go shopping, Sarper, drive me here, Sarper, carry this, Sarper, fix that, Sarper
00:26:43With her rules, I feel dependent
00:26:45In Turkish, we have a saying
00:26:47Instead of feeling dependent to a butcher, I cut my penis and eat it
00:26:51What?
00:26:51Oh my gosh
00:26:55Think about it, it's a good saying
00:26:57It's a good
00:26:58I mean, yes, being dependent is the biggest nightmare of mine
00:27:02And we have egos
00:27:04As we start to fight on something
00:27:06It starts from a small thing like an avalanche
00:27:09It gets bigger and bigger and then it explodes
00:27:11But one place that you've typically gotten along very well is in the bedroom
00:27:19Now I want to know, after marriage, how is sex between the two of you today?
00:27:24Today?
00:27:25Well, today?
00:27:28Usually that's the best part
00:27:31She loves it
00:27:33I'm good at it
00:27:37Yeah
00:27:38But we slept in separate rooms in the hotel yesterday
00:27:43What?
00:27:45Wait a minute
00:27:46You asked the question, how is marriage going?
00:27:49This way
00:27:54Please welcome Shekinah's friend, Dan
00:27:56Hi guys
00:27:58Dan, did you see the picture of the wedding day?
00:28:01Uh, yeah
00:28:01That was cheap
00:28:02Oh, he wants to cause trouble
00:28:04I don't know if he's a thousand percent in love with her
00:28:07He says something, you don't say anything
00:28:09Because she knows I'm right
00:28:11I know he doesn't truly love me
00:28:13What the ?
00:28:13Oh my god
00:28:23Last night you slept in separate rooms
00:28:25Last night and it was her decision
00:28:28I missed the Sarper from Turkey
00:28:30And I missed the Shekinah from Turkey
00:28:32I was never from Turkey
00:28:34But the one that I know, from Turkey
00:28:38Okay, so when Sarper moved from Turkey to California
00:28:42Shekinah hoped he would fit right in
00:28:44But he struggled to get along with her friend group
00:28:47We invited one of those friends to help give us more insight into their relationship
00:28:51Please welcome Shekinah's friend, Dan
00:28:54Dan
00:28:55Hi Dan
00:28:56Hi
00:28:57Hi guys
00:28:59Hi Dan
00:29:00Hi Sarper, hi Shekinah
00:29:02Long time no see
00:29:03Hello, hello Dan
00:29:05Uh, so Dan, did you see the picture of the bedding?
00:29:08Uh, the bedding, uh, yeah, I saw a couple of photos
00:29:12Yes, what did you think?
00:29:13Uh, that was cheap
00:29:15Oh
00:29:16Oh
00:29:17Cheap?
00:29:18Yeah
00:29:19Yeah
00:29:19Cheap looking or inexpensive?
00:29:21Yeah, like, why doing a bedding?
00:29:23Like, I don't understand that
00:29:24We don't have a castle
00:29:26Yeah
00:29:26You don't need a castle, but you can do better
00:29:29All right, Dan, have you spent time with Shekinah and Sarper since their wedding?
00:29:40Uh, no
00:29:41So it's been like a couple of months now
00:29:43Four months
00:29:45Four months?
00:29:45Yeah, yeah
00:29:46That's a long time
00:29:47Do you think that Sarper holds back Shekinah's social life?
00:29:51I think he does
00:29:53He does? In what way?
00:29:56Last week was my birthday
00:29:57Yeah
00:29:59And you didn't even, like, send me a text
00:30:01You didn't even send me a text, like
00:30:03I did
00:30:03No
00:30:05I had to text you first, then you text me back
00:30:07But you didn't even, like, say, oh
00:30:11I'm sorry, let's, let's, let's go for a lunch
00:30:13Let me, let me take
00:30:14Because Dan, I can't do that
00:30:14Let me take you for lunch
00:30:15Let me take you for dinner
00:30:16I'm married now
00:30:16I can't just go to lunch with you
00:30:18Sorry?
00:30:18And you've made a big
00:30:20You cannot go
00:30:20I can't go to lunch with you
00:30:21She cannot go to lunch with you
00:30:22I can't go to your office and spend a day with you
00:30:25Why not?
00:30:26She can have lunch with me
00:30:27Where's the problem?
00:30:29She's married now
00:30:30She's just trying to respect Sharper
00:30:32She can have friends
00:30:33So because she's married, she cannot have friends?
00:30:35You're not really just a friend
00:30:36This is what you're trying to say
00:30:38Come on, it's been like
00:30:38You're an ex-boyfriend
00:30:39You're an ex-boyfriend
00:30:40No, I'm not an ex-boyfriend
00:30:42First of all, I'm not an ex-boyfriend
00:30:43Well, you dated then
00:30:43I'm not an ex-boyfriend
00:30:45We've been dating
00:30:46But it was, like, many years ago
00:30:48So I'm not an ex-boyfriend
00:30:49But we did more than just kissing
00:30:52No, we didn't
00:30:55Come on
00:30:56Yeah, okay
00:30:57Whatever
00:30:58But today we are friends
00:30:59So he can kind of chill out
00:31:02This guy is just controlling your social life
00:31:05And by the way, you change a lot, Chekay now
00:31:07Like, I haven't seen you for four months
00:31:08I think you lost a lot of weight
00:31:10And I think maybe a little too much
00:31:12Oh, my God
00:31:14I will give you targets too
00:31:15Your belly is going up
00:31:17I'm okay with my belly
00:31:18Don't worry, I have a brain
00:31:19You have the body
00:31:20Why do you always say that?
00:31:21I have to be nice
00:31:22Because I don't like to hear you guys
00:31:23We meet each other
00:31:23When he says something
00:31:24You don't say anything
00:31:25He's not insulting your ears
00:31:26Because she says, I'm right
00:31:28He went out, dates with a lot of girls
00:31:31In the friends group
00:31:31Not only with Chekayna
00:31:33What's the issue with this?
00:31:34And when there are no horses left in the ranch
00:31:38A donkey sees himself as the unicorn
00:31:40You know, he sees himself as the unicorn
00:31:43He sees himself as the unicorn right now
00:31:46Because of Dan
00:31:47Because Dan, poor Dan
00:31:49He's so upset
00:31:50I have to
00:31:51Don't do that
00:31:52You are like a spare tire
00:31:53I mean, when you have a flat tire
00:31:56Till you go to the repair shop
00:31:58You put the spare tire
00:31:59You are that one
00:32:00You are always in the trunk waiting
00:32:01Don't be mean
00:32:02I'm not meaning
00:32:03But he says, why didn't you come and go
00:32:05Take me to the lunch?
00:32:06What the ?
00:32:08He wants to cause trouble
00:32:10Chekayna
00:32:11Let me ask you a question
00:32:12If a girl told the exact same things to Sarper as an ex
00:32:17How would you feel?
00:32:18Wouldn't you like
00:32:19Ask him to cut off that friendship?
00:32:21I guess I just see Dan as harmless
00:32:22Like
00:32:22That's the thing that I'm mad at
00:32:24I mean, girls don't understand
00:32:25He gives a vibe that he's a good boy
00:32:27But I know
00:32:29A man to man understands, you know
00:32:31Yeah
00:32:31If a man is a danger or not
00:32:33I mean, I think every time he gets a chance
00:32:35He's hitting on her
00:32:35You know
00:32:36And I can see it
00:32:37Like he still wants her
00:32:38Do you think Dan is really interested in Chekayna?
00:32:40I like the chance
00:32:41He just wants girls that don't want him
00:32:42That's the problem
00:32:43You want what you can't have
00:32:44Dan loves rejection
00:32:45That's why he still likes me
00:32:46I don't love rejection
00:32:47I like challenges
00:32:48My challenges
00:32:49Shekayna, you know
00:32:50I'm always respectful
00:32:51Even if we have a one-on-one lunch
00:32:53You know
00:32:53But you make little jobs
00:32:54No, but you know
00:32:55I'm going to be always respectful
00:32:57I'm never going to do anything bad
00:32:59Like
00:32:59You know
00:33:00Oh my God
00:33:01What did you say?
00:33:01What did you say to Sarper?
00:33:02You love jobs
00:33:03Oh, I did
00:33:04I heard the
00:33:04I heard the
00:33:04I heard the
00:33:06I heard the
00:33:06I heard the
00:33:07I heard the
00:33:08I don't like that
00:33:08I don't like that
00:33:09I don't like that
00:33:09All right
00:33:10Well, Chekayna and Sarper admit
00:33:13Their relationship after marriage
00:33:15Has been a rollercoaster of ups and downs
00:33:18Shekayna actually sent us a video
00:33:21After one of their fights last Christmas
00:33:23This has never been seen before
00:33:26Let's take a look
00:33:30It's Christmas morning
00:33:31Sarper's usually sitting here in the morning
00:33:33But he's gone
00:33:36And he left his ring
00:33:39And his air tag
00:33:41Merry Christmas to us
00:33:42Sarper
00:33:47Why did you take off your ring?
00:33:49She kicked me off the house
00:33:52So I left the ring
00:33:54And I went out
00:33:55I rented a rental and went there
00:33:59Oh
00:33:59Oh my God
00:34:03How long were you there for?
00:34:0410 days
00:34:05This is less than a month after we got married
00:34:08And what led to this fight?
00:34:09It's not a big thing
00:34:12It's not cheating
00:34:13Nothing
00:34:13You know
00:34:14It starts with small things
00:34:15And it gets bigger
00:34:16And then we forget
00:34:17What was about
00:34:18Because I'm yelling at her
00:34:20And it turns into
00:34:21You are not
00:34:22Behaving well to me
00:34:23You know
00:34:24It's my fault
00:34:25I have to be
00:34:26More calm
00:34:26But I cannot
00:34:27It's not my character
00:34:29Even if you're upset
00:34:30That's not
00:34:31That's not cool
00:34:32If a man start to
00:34:33Go
00:34:34And try to
00:34:35Have argument
00:34:36And tell her
00:34:37Back
00:34:37And stuff like this
00:34:39This is not okay
00:34:41Whenever we fight
00:34:42He says the same things to me
00:34:43I will go back to my country
00:34:44I will
00:34:45Everybody else in the country
00:34:47No, Harper
00:34:47This is very bad words
00:34:50My concern about their relationship
00:34:52Is the respect
00:34:54Because if there is no respect
00:34:55There is no relationship
00:34:57And this is the foundation
00:34:59Of a relationship
00:35:00Even when you fight
00:35:02Let her say what she has to say
00:35:04And let it go
00:35:05That's how a man has to act
00:35:07Dan, you have very strong feelings
00:35:10About their relationship
00:35:11And you've never held back
00:35:13So do you think that Shekinah
00:35:15Should leave Sarp
00:35:16Or stay and make the relationship work
00:35:19I don't know if he's
00:35:21A thousand percent in love with her
00:35:23And I want a guy who would be
00:35:24A thousand percent in love with her
00:35:26And not
00:35:28Seventy percent
00:35:28Because getting on a fight
00:35:31Doesn't mean getting a flight
00:35:33Back to your country
00:35:34Getting in a fight
00:35:35Does not mean getting on a flight
00:35:37Hey, I like that
00:35:38That rhymes
00:35:39That rhymes
00:35:40Shekinah, what do you think
00:35:41About your friend Dan
00:35:43And his assessment of
00:35:44Sarp's feelings towards you
00:35:45I think it's good
00:35:46Because I also wonder the same thing
00:35:48I feel like he doesn't truly love me
00:35:50If he can so easily get up
00:35:52And pick, you know, leave
00:35:53Oh my god
00:35:55Well
00:35:55Oh my god
00:35:59Well Dan, we are so glad
00:36:01That you were able to participate
00:36:02In this conversation
00:36:03Thank you for sharing your opinions with us
00:36:06Take care
00:36:07Thank you so much
00:36:10Thank you
00:36:11Shekinah and Sarp
00:36:15Despite your ups and downs
00:36:17We hope you can find your way
00:36:18To a lasting marriage together
00:36:20We certainly wish you the very, very best
00:36:23Thank you
00:36:24Okay, everybody
00:36:26We are going to take a break
00:36:27All right
00:36:31Thank you
00:36:31Right now me and Shekinah
00:36:42We are just like enemies to each other
00:36:44I mean
00:36:45She doesn't want to sit with me
00:36:47I feel that
00:36:48You know
00:36:48Then that feeling sucks
00:36:57I just feel like I can't make him happy
00:36:59Nothing I do can make him happy
00:37:01And he's not
00:37:02He's not a supportive partner
00:37:03Period
00:37:04So
00:37:05I just started feeling like
00:37:07Really upset
00:37:08I'm not okay
00:37:09I'm having a moment
00:37:11I feel alone
00:37:12I'm going to get these things for you
00:37:13For right now
00:37:14If you'd like
00:37:16I just want to get this day over with
00:37:22Thank you
00:37:24It feels like he doesn't care about me
00:37:26Wow, I'm the guilty one
00:37:27Yeah
00:37:28You are actually the guilty one
00:37:30Of course I am
00:37:31He has zero compassion
00:37:33No, she's upset
00:37:34I am upset
00:37:35You can put it at me
00:37:36When I love you
00:37:36When she's mad
00:37:37I am more mad
00:37:38You know
00:37:38I mean
00:37:39Her mood affects me so much
00:37:43I always say
00:37:44I always say what I am
00:37:46I'm the honest
00:37:47The most honest person
00:37:49That you can ever see
00:37:50Okay
00:37:50I always say
00:37:51You're not self-aware
00:37:51I always say
00:37:52What I am
00:37:53Okay
00:37:54I have a short temper
00:37:55But you make me crazy
00:37:57You're mad at me
00:37:57For having emotions
00:37:58Naughty
00:37:58You are so naughty
00:37:59No, I'm not
00:38:01You need so much therapy
00:38:02It's insane
00:38:04Yes, you make me crazy
00:38:05Then
00:38:05I'll listen to how I talk
00:38:06Why?
00:38:07Because I have emotions
00:38:08That I'm expressing to you
00:38:09How you make me feel
00:38:10Yeah, you will lose me
00:38:11You will lose me
00:38:12Just because of you
00:38:13And you will regret like a dog
00:38:15You will regret like a dog
00:38:16Dog
00:38:17You call me a dog?
00:38:24Please welcome
00:38:25Maddie's friend, Saeed
00:38:28After a year
00:38:28What is he doing?
00:38:29I mean
00:38:30I've told him several times
00:38:31You can come to California
00:38:33And he can stay with me
00:38:35Wait, wait, wait
00:38:36He told you
00:38:37That you could go live with him
00:38:38And you didn't tell me that?
00:38:40I mean
00:38:41And you still communicate with him
00:38:43Bye, Belle
00:38:46You will lose me
00:38:50You will lose me
00:38:51Just because of you
00:38:52And you will regret like a dog
00:38:54You call me a dog?
00:38:56Like a dog
00:38:57I don't call you dog
00:38:58What's wrong with you?
00:38:59You will regret like a dog
00:39:00Talk to me that way
00:39:01It's a saying
00:39:03The way that I treat you
00:39:04You are completely naughty
00:39:06You are completely spoiled
00:39:09And everyone sees that
00:39:10Not only me
00:39:11No, I'm used to seeing protectors
00:39:13And people that care
00:39:15I don't want to be around you
00:39:16You're always doing this kind of
00:39:22It's so toxic
00:39:23And I'm sick of it
00:39:26Leave me alone
00:39:40She is impossible
00:39:47Everything is up
00:39:50What do you need from him today?
00:39:53No, he's not capable
00:39:54Of what I need from him
00:39:57He's not capable
00:40:01You know, Cypher and Shekinah, man
00:40:03They seem to be arguing
00:40:05Are they?
00:40:06I heard it
00:40:07I just have a dressing room next to them
00:40:09All right, next one is already in dress
00:40:10It's time for us to go to set
00:40:12Uh-oh
00:40:12Here it comes
00:40:13It's time
00:40:23All right, here we go, guys
00:40:25Three
00:40:26Two
00:40:27All right, right now I want to move on to
00:40:29Stevie and Maddie
00:40:30Dun-dun-dun
00:40:34Before the wedding, Maddie struggled being so far away from his family in Iran
00:40:40And wondered if he could ever truly assimilate to American life
00:40:44Now that they are married, let's see how things are going
00:40:47Maddie, you have your green card
00:40:50So what is your plan for work?
00:40:52I've been working as a personal trainer
00:40:55Do you have female clients that you train?
00:40:58Yes
00:40:59I send them his way
00:41:00Yeah
00:41:01You send the women his way?
00:41:02Absolutely, yeah
00:41:04Like that's his job
00:41:05One thing a lot of people here probably don't know about me
00:41:07Is I was like what like way over 200 pounds
00:41:12Maddie actually would do workout plans for me
00:41:14Um, and I have lost an extreme amount of weight and I feel so much better about myself
00:41:21I think we have a photo of you before you lost the weight
00:41:24Oh
00:41:25Oh wow
00:41:25You look amazing
00:41:27Yeah
00:41:28Wow
00:41:28Wow
00:41:29So you went through a big transformation
00:41:31I did, yes, I did
00:41:32When Maddie first met me, I was much larger
00:41:34I wanted to just like make her a better version of herself
00:41:38And I think we did it and we are still working on it
00:41:41Yeah, it's still in progress
00:41:42Okay, so let me ask Maddie this question
00:41:46Maddie, Stevie shared with you
00:41:48Her fair share of quirks that she had about herself
00:41:52Getting nauseous when going over bridges
00:41:54Nightmares, OCD and not wearing pants in the house
00:42:01Have you managed to get used to all of these things?
00:42:04Yes, like one thing that I liked about our relationship
00:42:07Was that we talked about like almost every single one of these
00:42:10I already knew that she has narcolepsy and most of these symptoms are for that
00:42:18I'm always tired
00:42:20So I have extreme fatigue like it's definitely been
00:42:23I'm sure hard for Maddie at times because I will drop things sometimes and break them
00:42:28Um, or I never can stay awake in a whole entire movie
00:42:31But Maddie, he'll turn the movie off
00:42:34Like I'll wake up and I'm like, you didn't have to stop the movie
00:42:37For me, it's like, um, wow
00:42:40Like he didn't mind pausing his life until my life, you know, came back to, you know
00:42:46Um, so that means a lot to me
00:42:49That is really sweet
00:42:52Well, right now we are going to bring on a 90-dayer who's been pillow talking all of our couples
00:42:59She's come to share her unfiltered opinions about stevie and maddie
00:43:03And she has an interesting connection that she is going to reveal tonight
00:43:08Please welcome veronica
00:43:11Hey veronica
00:43:12Hey sean
00:43:13Good to see you
00:43:15Good to see you too
00:43:16How are you? You look lovely
00:43:17Thank you
00:43:18Hey everyone
00:43:19Hi
00:43:23Oh, thank you
00:43:25Wow
00:43:26Veronica, how do you know that?
00:43:27So I am actually dating a Persian boy
00:43:31Oh, seriously?
00:43:32An Iranian man, yes
00:43:33That's cool
00:43:34And we have been watching your story and he has given me so much insight
00:43:38Oh, I'd love to know that
00:43:40Okay, so you have a lot to say about their relationship
00:43:42Oh, I sure do
00:43:42Okay
00:43:44Part of what's broken my heart seeing your story is knowing how close you must be with your family
00:43:50And knowing that, you know, you haven't been able to see them
00:43:53You weren't able to have them, you know, even remote into your wedding
00:43:57I know that must have been very difficult because my boyfriend and I see his family
00:44:01Twice a week, every week without fail
00:44:02Yeah
00:44:03Veronica, so what did you think when at one point Stevie suggested Maddie should maybe call his family less
00:44:12Girl, let me tell you
00:44:14Dating a Persian man 101 do not come between a Persian man and his mama
00:44:17Okay
00:44:18You are never gonna win
00:44:19I've learned that
00:44:22But to be fair where we're at now is I have to be the one to remind Maddie to call his mom all the time
00:44:29Like I am the one that's like call your mom call your mom call your mom
00:44:32That's good to hear
00:44:33Okay, feeling homesick thousands of miles away from his family Maddie turned to his friend Saeed
00:44:39Let's see how he feels about all of the changes in Maddie's life
00:44:42Please welcome Saeed
00:44:44Hi Saeed
00:44:48Hi, I hope you are
00:44:49Hi
00:44:49Good to meet you
00:44:50Thank you
00:44:51Um, so you had a chance to see how Maddie has settled in
00:44:58What do you think about the state of their relationship today?
00:45:01Well, I'm glad that today I see him happy next to his wife
00:45:07But obviously I could see him happier
00:45:11How could you see him happier?
00:45:13He came to the U.S. with a lot of dreams
00:45:17He has a lot of potentials
00:45:20And all that potentials will be unleashed if you are next to someone who give you support
00:45:29How do I not support him?
00:45:30She's so supportive what the hell
00:45:32But after a year what is he doing?
00:45:33I mean who is gonna pay for a personal trainer in Mississippi
00:45:38People pay for that
00:45:39You haven't been a very supportive friend the whole time
00:45:42You've been here for 10 years and you could have helped him figure out how to assimilate
00:45:46But instead you've been on her and on them since the second they got here
00:45:50So this is what I've told Maddie
00:45:51I've told him several times you can come to California where life is more diverse
00:45:55That's not where she lives
00:45:56So do you want to be with him?
00:45:57His home is where she is
00:45:58Let me speak
00:45:59So where is Maddie's home then?
00:46:02His home is Stevie
00:46:03Exactly
00:46:04Exactly
00:46:04Well, Saeed, what do you want them to do in California?
00:46:08So this is what I'm thinking and I've told Maddie you can come in the first few months
00:46:13He can stay with me until she can
00:46:16He's married
00:46:17Her family and friends are in Mississippi
00:46:19Honestly to me in Mississippi like I have almost like zero friends like
00:46:23Well with friends like this I mean you're probably better off
00:46:27Wait, wait, wait
00:46:27He told you that you could go live with him and you didn't tell me that?
00:46:32I mean
00:46:33And you still communicate with him
00:46:34Wow
00:46:35Maddie, when did Saeed offer to let you stay with him?
00:46:40I mean maybe a couple of months ago
00:46:42And you never told Stevie?
00:46:44Um
00:46:45I was like thinking that maybe he's saying you all can come stay here
00:46:49What was your answer?
00:46:55I thanked him but I didn't say yes or no so I just said yeah thank you so much
00:47:00But now it sounds like he's trying to convince you
00:47:01And also I'm not living with anyone
00:47:05That's weird
00:47:05Y'all are too grown for that
00:47:08No offense
00:47:08So let's be honest
00:47:12Mahdi has taken every risk to leave family friends everything behind
00:47:16And guess what is the biggest risk Stevie has made?
00:47:19Crossing that bridge to pick him up from the airport
00:47:22Wow
00:47:23That is so rude
00:47:26You don't know what I've done
00:47:28True friends support each other and you haven't done that since the moment you met her
00:47:31He is destructive
00:47:37Questioning me about my sexuality is not necessary
00:47:41I think Mahdi deserves to know the truth
00:47:44I feel like she's into girls because she never gives a direct answer
00:47:48Would it change anything now if he found out?
00:47:51Um
00:47:52It's a yes or no question and you haven't told him yes or no
00:47:54Wow
00:47:55Oh
00:48:03He's destructive he's not a constructive friend you know
00:48:06Some friends are like this brother
00:48:07If you knew me and knew how I do not allow people to get close to me
00:48:12You would know that I sacrificed everything by allowing him to step foot into my house
00:48:15Because I could have gotten more than broken but I allowed him into it
00:48:19Okay, I pay my bills I don't have to have Mahdi to survive
00:48:24I chose to have Mahdi here because I wanted to be with him
00:48:27And you would have done that without Mahdi
00:48:29You would have done that without Mahdi
00:48:30You were working
00:48:31I was doing it but I loved him so I wanted him to be with me
00:48:35So you're telling me that you're feeding Mahdi
00:48:37You're accommodating him and he should be grateful for all that
00:48:40Hell no, Mahdi feeds himself like he makes his own money
00:48:43I'm saying I didn't need him to do anything for me
00:48:47I chose to be with him
00:48:48He's done enough
00:48:50Right
00:48:50And I have two
00:48:52Let's let Mahdi speak about this situation because I would love to hear it
00:48:57You said Stevie didn't make any sacrifices
00:49:00In the first weeks and months that I was here
00:49:02I was so depressed
00:49:04She has done a lot
00:49:05She has helped me a lot
00:49:07I don't think anyone in this world has helped more than Stevie
00:49:11And he didn't move here to work in the United States
00:49:13He moved here to marry her
00:49:15So he moved to the US to marry her and that's it
00:49:18And then the life ends
00:49:19No, we have a life together
00:49:21That's what you do after you get married
00:49:23I agree
00:49:25One major point of contention that kept arising was Mahdi's suspicion that Stevie was bisexual
00:49:33But every time he mentioned it, Stevie refused to give a definitive answer
00:49:38Stevie, why not just say, honey, no, I'm not bisexual
00:49:43So let's stop talking about it now
00:49:45Um, that probably would have been easier, right?
00:49:48But again, I think questioning me about my sexuality when I choose to be with him is not necessary
00:49:56Um, and I'm not sorry for that
00:50:01Do you not want to put a label on your sexuality?
00:50:03Yeah, because there is no label
00:50:05Like, there is no label
00:50:08All right, Stevie, I want to ask you
00:50:11Have you ever kissed a woman?
00:50:16Um, like
00:50:18Ooh
00:50:20I'm not going to answer it
00:50:22I feel like she's into girls
00:50:24Because she never gives a direct answer
00:50:26I think I'm into souls and personalities and who people are more than their body
00:50:32And this question is not about my sexuality
00:50:34It's about if I've ever kissed someone and I don't kiss and tell, so
00:50:39But you also don't think that he deserves to have a straight answer and he deserved that before you guys got married
00:50:44I don't owe him anything about my sexuality
00:50:46You owe him honesty
00:50:48Maddie, in your gut
00:50:50Do you think Stevie has ever kissed a woman?
00:50:56Yes, I think she has kissed a woman
00:51:02There's nothing wrong with that
00:51:05Okay, so Stevie doesn't want to answer, but I'll ask the other women here
00:51:10I mean, I already know your answer, okay
00:51:14Shekinah, have you ever kissed a woman?
00:51:16I've done more than kiss women, yes
00:51:19Okay
00:51:19Yes
00:51:20Joan
00:51:20I've never and I don't think I'll ever
00:51:24Mina
00:51:24Uh, no
00:51:28I don't have a problem with it
00:51:30Aaliyah, have you kissed a woman?
00:51:33No
00:51:34Have you been interested?
00:51:36No
00:51:39Jessica?
00:51:40I've kissed many of my friends
00:51:43A romantic intimate kiss?
00:51:44Um, no, I would say more like
00:51:48Drinking and we were drunk last night kiss
00:51:51Does that include Megan, your friend?
00:51:53I've kissed Megan, yeah
00:51:54I'm not surprised
00:51:55Torrington, Torrington, options are limited
00:51:59I've never done more than kiss a woman, but I have kissed women
00:52:02Okay, this was very interesting
00:52:04So back to Stevie and Maddie
00:52:08You both said you know everything about each other
00:52:10Mm-hmm
00:52:11Why is this the one thing that you don't want to give him a direct answer about?
00:52:15I did give him an answer and the answer was that I chose you
00:52:18It wasn't
00:52:19I don't think he gave her the safe space for her to feel comfortable to say maybe I am bisexual
00:52:24or maybe I don't know because if she says that he already made a big deal about it and even said
00:52:29I'm not going to get married if you are bisexual
00:52:31So do you think Stevie's bisexual?
00:52:35And like I have this feeling but she would never give me an answer
00:52:42And we have to stop talking about that
00:52:45It's a yes or no question and you haven't told him yes or no
00:52:48And and again relationships are built on honesty and open communication
00:52:53I think maddie deserves to know the truth and everything about you before making a decision once he knows
00:52:59The decision is up to him, but he deserves to know the information. I agree. Would it change anything now if you found out?
00:53:09I can't answer that. Oh, whoa now see that's a big deal. Wow
00:53:15Oh
00:53:20Please welcome big head
00:53:24Oh, man
00:53:28I'm gonna definitely recommend Joan
00:53:31That you give this gentleman a 90-day notice to put a roof over your head
00:53:36That's bull it's time to be a man
00:53:45Maddie
00:53:46Today if Stevie said to you
00:53:49Yes, I am bisexual would you care?
00:53:52Maybe because before marriage I could have like
00:53:56researched and asked her what would you need to research?
00:54:00What is bisexuality?
00:54:02It is so like uncover this truth because if you don't something might happen like couldn't I wake up tomorrow and like
00:54:10Maybe you want to do something with another man anything could happen
00:54:13Maybe the answer matters to maddie
00:54:16That's how I didn't ask you
00:54:18Let me ask you a question imagine the whole situation was about me like would you have the same concerns or no?
00:54:28Honestly, no, I don't care about your past
00:54:30It's not about the past. It's about now. I just feel like if I was in your position
00:54:37Um, I would want to know just because I would need to kind of know if I should be on the lookout for
00:54:43God just women or men, too
00:54:45She's worried about half the room now. She's worried about
00:54:47No, it's all
00:54:48You know, so it's kind of like that
00:54:50Exactly. Yeah relationships are built on honesty and open communication and I hope maddie that you get a clear answer on that one day
00:54:59Magic if you walked into her place and it was a bunch of she painted would you have made a big deal about it?
00:55:05Yes
00:55:06I see beauty in women and their body that I do not see in that like thing
00:55:11So I even didn't know about like that many boobs also
00:55:17But I guess you are getting used to her painting
00:55:20Yeah, yeah
00:55:21Like maddie buys my canvases. He purchases my paint. I love that
00:55:27That's good
00:55:28All right. Well, um, saeed, thank you for sharing your thoughts with us today. Please take care
00:55:33We could see how much you love your friend my pleasure and veronica as always we enjoy having you with us
00:55:39Thank you so much and congratulations on the new relationship. Thank you. It's great. Hope everything works out. Thank you
00:55:44We'll have to get together and learn some persian dishes. Definitely. Thanks guys
00:55:48Stevie and Maddie
00:55:52I hope the longer your marriage goes on the happier you both become. Thank you. Thank you so much. Thank you
00:55:59All right, everybody that's lunch. Thank you
00:56:05We survived. Yeah, yeah, let's get some food. Take a break. I'm going to my rest area. I'm going to bed
00:56:12Do you think you have a problem for her? Yeah, thank you so much. I just need like 10 minutes
00:56:21hey, jessica
00:56:22So wait, so you guys kissed me and megan kiss. Yeah, my bachelorette party. I was like really the first time. No
00:56:29I like I always kiss my friends like it feels very platonic for you. Yeah, doesn't feel like anything
00:56:35I don't think I could ever have a relationship with a woman because women are too much work
00:56:40So you're not tripping that she kissed her friend, right? No, it's fine
00:56:45We'll do just fine in a trouble
00:56:50So did stevie kiss a girl?
00:56:53I think we never know
00:56:59You married now, but I don't think so you sleep good because you don't know
00:57:03That is exactly why i'm i'm just trying to get this answer. Can I ask a personal question in those 14 years that you were with your wife?
00:57:13Did you feel this is not what I like? I wish I had something else
00:57:16I think I fall also for the person
00:57:20And it's scary for all of us to expose every detail about our inner thoughts
00:57:26You guys have an age difference too. Not that I should talk because i'm like a few years older than mine
00:57:30So don't care anymore
00:57:31So does it make sense to you that she's waiting for me to catch up with like the
00:57:35Cultural gap age gap and everything then she opens up to me or
00:57:42Hey
00:57:43Were you talking about my age? I heard that
00:57:45I was I was saying you're you know that old bitch you're married to
00:57:48You better drop her ass fast. I don't know why you're worried about this sex stuff
00:57:52I don't know why you're worried about this sex stuff. That age stuff is a killer. Oh my gosh
00:57:54Did you not go ahead?
00:57:56Yes
00:57:59You okay got really quiet when I entered
00:58:04I give zero what people say about me
00:58:07But I just don't understand why everybody is so curious about my sexuality
00:58:11Maybe I owe Matty a few more answers
00:58:14But he clearly established today that if I were to give him those answers it could jeopardize our marriage
00:58:20So um that's a conversation we'll have to have later
00:58:26All right, we're going to see you guys back on set
00:58:32Let's go
00:58:39Five
00:58:41Four
00:58:42Three
00:58:43Two
00:58:44And now we are going to turn our attention to greg and joan are you ready absolutely all right well
00:58:51I've got a big question for you shoot
00:58:54Are you still living at home with your mom?
00:58:58Right now we are yeah you are unfortunately
00:59:00Okay
00:59:00Wow
00:59:02Joan how do you feel about that?
00:59:04Very sad
00:59:06I want to move out immediately
00:59:09It's stressing you have no privacy sometimes intimacy
00:59:13So it always affects us me and him
00:59:16Yeah, I'm a married man and you know what I mean I want to give her a home
00:59:19Yeah
00:59:22That is not an easy situation to navigate
00:59:25But right now
00:59:27I would like to bring out someone who has some experience pursuing love while living at home with his mother
00:59:33He is a big guy with a big personality and he's been paying close attention to greg and joan's journey
00:59:41Please welcome big ad
00:59:44Oh, man
00:59:45It's big ad
00:59:46He's your own dude
00:59:49About to happen
00:59:50Hey big ad
00:59:51How are you doing?
00:59:51Good to see you big ad
00:59:53How's everybody?
00:59:53Good to see you big ad?
00:59:56I like that color suit
00:59:58Thank you
00:59:59Yeah, it has been a while
01:00:00You've been following the journeys of our couples
01:00:04Especially joan and greg
01:00:06What do you think about their situation?
01:00:08I really like you guys
01:00:11I hope it's going to work out
01:00:13But i'm going to be completely honest
01:00:15I had my mom move in with me and it caused a lot of angst
01:00:20So i'm going to definitely recommend joan
01:00:24that you give this gentleman a 90 day notice
01:00:29that he has 90 days to put a roof over your head
01:00:33Outside of his mom because i don't think it's fair you know to you or to his mom
01:00:40That's bull
01:00:43I know that sounds kind of harsh
01:00:44No, no, no
01:00:45I'm just kidding
01:00:49That was a good one
01:00:50Of course, of course
01:00:51Yeah
01:00:52Yes, I feel I should do that
01:00:54Yeah
01:00:55Time to kind of you know be a man
01:00:57You guys need your own space where you can run around and be naked
01:01:01You need your own privacy
01:01:03All right, greg's mom lucille has made it clear that she loves her baby boy greg very much
01:01:09Well, she is here tonight to give her take on her son's very new marriage
01:01:13Please welcome greg's mom lucille
01:01:17Hi lucille
01:01:18Hello
01:01:19How are you?
01:01:20You look lovely
01:01:21Oh, thank you
01:01:22So do you
01:01:22Nice meeting you
01:01:23Hello big ed
01:01:24How you doing?
01:01:24I love your accent
01:01:26Hey, how you doing?
01:01:27How you doing?
01:01:27How you doing?
01:01:28How you doing?
01:01:29100%
01:01:29100%
01:01:30Okay
01:01:31Tension was bound to run high with joan greg and his mother all living under one roof
01:01:37Take a look at how the three handled their tight living situation
01:01:41Is my mom mowing the lawn?
01:01:53Oh yeah
01:01:54Hi greg
01:02:02So is there every anything you're not liking here you can tell me now
01:02:06I need privacy
01:02:12Oh privacy
01:02:13Yeah
01:02:14You're always home
01:02:16I'm always home?
01:02:17Most of the times
01:02:19I think you should go more
01:02:21Why would she say something like that?
01:02:26Why would she say something like that?
01:02:27That sends off all signals that maybe she isn't an appreciative person
01:02:33Who live this house on?
01:02:35Yeah
01:02:36So I bet you'll be happy about that, huh?
01:02:39I'll be very happy
01:02:43Oh, okay
01:02:45I've never saw joan in that type of light like so demanding
01:02:50I thought that was a little disrespectful
01:02:52Yeah, I just couldn't believe that
01:02:55You had the nerve to tell
01:02:58His mom to leave her own house
01:03:00That seems so
01:03:02Out of line and just
01:03:03I wasn't telling her that leave your own house
01:03:06So give your own house to us when I came to the house she was there like all day
01:03:11That's her house
01:03:12You know, bless your heart, Colt
01:03:14I mean, I'm Greg
01:03:16Wow, that's a
01:03:17I'm sorry, but look
01:03:19You created this whole situation
01:03:21I think it's
01:03:21You're being very unfair to your mom
01:03:24As well as joan
01:03:25I think you put them in that situation
01:03:28And they're not at fault at all
01:03:31Lucille, I'm your biggest fan
01:03:33You are doing your best
01:03:34Yeah
01:03:34You know, and sometimes
01:03:36Joan is so ruthless to you
01:03:39Yeah
01:03:40Just a little difficult for me to get used to
01:03:43I think like if you guys need some privacy
01:03:46Take her out to a hotel or motel sometimes
01:03:49You know, or do it in the car sometimes
01:03:51You know, get creative
01:03:53While you make it work, you know
01:03:55Yeah, it's just I don't see no issue
01:03:57We don't have doors, so you know
01:03:58Yeah, we have to get creative too, you know
01:04:03You two mentioned that you would like to have kids eventually
01:04:07Have you actively started trying?
01:04:10Jeez
01:04:11Sounds like it
01:04:14I'd say yeah
01:04:15So wait, does that mean that you two are not using protection now?
01:04:19No, why?
01:04:21I mean, I wanted to ask them that
01:04:23Now I know why Lucille needs to separate you and Greg
01:04:31In her culture, they don't believe in contraceptics
01:04:33We do, but why should we? We're married
01:04:38What happens if, you know, she happens to get pregnant?
01:04:42There is a possibility that you two could get pregnant while living at Lucille's house
01:04:49Yeah
01:04:51Absolutely, it's very, it's a very strong possibility
01:04:54I mean, Joan could be pregnant now for all we know
01:04:57I really don't want to start all over again in the house raising children again
01:05:02But nothing's going to stop me from trying to get a child
01:05:05So disrespectful
01:05:06Greg, put a roof over her head and quit screwing around
01:05:12Yeah, not that I wouldn't love to have another grandchildren
01:05:14I just don't want this all
01:05:16In your house
01:05:16Yeah, all starting up again in the house
01:05:19So, I mean, she's doing her best
01:05:21I'm also doing my best
01:05:23But you're not because you just said
01:05:25You just said
01:05:26You just said after she told you she's not comfortable with a new family starting in the house
01:05:30You just said that there's no reason for you to use protection
01:05:33And you're living in her house at least until the end of the year
01:05:36What?
01:05:37He's also fine with it
01:05:38But you shouldn't be fine with it
01:05:39As a woman to another woman, you shouldn't be fine with that
01:05:42What?
01:05:42This is her house
01:05:43You have a right to decide if I have to get pregnant or no?
01:05:46That's not, she does
01:05:47You're living in her house
01:05:49She does
01:05:50Let her say it, aren't you?
01:05:51She did just say it to you
01:05:53And your response was that you'll get pregnant if you want to
01:05:55I'll be out of her house
01:05:57So calm down
01:05:59Then use protection
01:06:00Calm yourself down, okay?
01:06:01Girl, I am calm
01:06:03You look a little riled up
01:06:07Jesus
01:06:19Use protection while you're in her house
01:06:20I'm not
01:06:22What are you going to do?
01:06:26I think, Joanne, you're hoping if there's a baby that's gonna push him to get out of the house
01:06:30But what if it doesn't and it turns to a complete nightmare?
01:06:33I know you're going to move out of the house
01:06:34I trust him
01:06:35I trust his words
01:06:36So I know
01:06:38I wouldn't want to have a child in her house
01:06:41It's, I mean, I'm working 14 hour days now
01:06:42I'm stacking whatever paper we have
01:06:44You know, whatever money we can get
01:06:46Dude, I'm sorry you're a man
01:06:47You're not a 21 year old kid
01:06:49Use that money for a down payment on an apartment
01:06:52He says where he works
01:06:55There's a nice trailer home park
01:06:59If you buy something like that to start off like a starter thing
01:07:02I said, you know, that might work
01:07:04That might be good for you to start off with
01:07:06Would you agree to that?
01:07:08No, it definitely was an option at the point
01:07:10But then I started looking at the condominiums and co-ops and stuff like that
01:07:13And there actually is like some affordable stuff out there, so
01:07:16You start wherever is best for you
01:07:18Yeah
01:07:19Because, but you have to start
01:07:21Absolutely, yeah
01:07:22If you want privacy, you start wherever you can start
01:07:25You could put mirrors on the ceiling
01:07:27Um, you could have ropes
01:07:28I mean, it would be a lot of fun
01:07:33These are ideas
01:07:34Did you ever consider moving over to Uganda?
01:07:37Well, that was the plan originally
01:07:38Yeah
01:07:38The plan originally was for us to actually move to Uganda
01:07:41And live, live there full time
01:07:43Yeah, and then COVID started happening
01:07:44And all these things
01:07:45And it was just like, you know what?
01:07:46It's easier if she just comes here
01:07:48Yeah
01:07:49Are you still considering moving to Uganda at some point in the future?
01:07:53Absolutely
01:07:55Lucille, how would you feel if they did move to Uganda?
01:08:00I don't see myself traveling there
01:08:03The hours to get there is like
01:08:06Forget about it
01:08:08But if this is where they want to be together, I really can't stop them
01:08:11And do you feel do you want to be close if they have like babies in the future?
01:08:17Do you want to be close to them?
01:08:18Well, um
01:08:22What's important now, maybe I could find somebody
01:08:24No, instead of worrying about taking care of more grandchildren, I mean
01:08:36Now I feel like the reason she wants us out
01:08:39Immediately
01:08:39I mean, I don't feel my life's over and just want to think of having grandchildren, you know
01:08:45I would like
01:08:46Your mom wants to bring a hot guy home, how would you feel about that?
01:08:49That's her life, man, she could do that
01:08:51If she's a grown-ass woman, she could do whatever she wants, man
01:08:53I totally support her
01:08:54I'm a grown-ass woman
01:08:55You're a grown-ass woman
01:08:55And then what if she tells you guys you're spending too much time at home
01:08:58You need to get out because, you know, she's got stuff to do
01:09:07Ed, are you single now or are you seeing anyone?
01:09:10I'm single
01:09:11Oh
01:09:11Oh, you're single
01:09:13You guys, it's so
01:09:14No
01:09:14I did not expect that
01:09:18And we're going out, I'm dating your mom, that's why I'm here
01:09:21Oh, God
01:09:22Hey, how you going?
01:09:22You gotta get out in 30 days now
01:09:24You're out
01:09:25I really gotta get out now, for sure
01:09:26For sure, man
01:09:27Uh, if your mom brings Ed home, that is one way to get you guys out, right?
01:09:33If you do that, you'll be
01:09:34I'm out
01:09:34I'm out, right tonight
01:09:36Hey, Greg, do you want to see me naked?
01:09:40I already have, man
01:09:41You already have
01:09:42All right
01:09:45Lucille, we appreciate you taking the time to be here today
01:09:49Thank you
01:09:50Please take care
01:09:50Thank you so much
01:09:51Thank you
01:09:52Thank you
01:09:52And Big Ed
01:09:53Yes
01:09:54Thank you for your spirited conversation
01:09:56It's always great to see you
01:09:57We wish you the very best
01:09:59Thanks for having me
01:10:01Good luck, you guys
01:10:02I hope you make it
01:10:03Thank you, Ray
01:10:03It was a pleasure meeting you, man
01:10:04Seriously
01:10:05Thank you
01:10:06I like that suit
01:10:07Love you, buddy
01:10:07God bless you
01:10:08Thank you
01:10:08God bless, man
01:10:09Nice family
01:10:10Bye, Big Ed
01:10:11Love you, Mom
01:10:12I'll see you guys tonight
01:10:13I'm coming over for dinner
01:10:14Let's do it, man
01:10:15Let's do it
01:10:16All right
01:10:17Greg and Joan
01:10:18Best of luck
01:10:19Achieving all of your goals
01:10:21That you have for the future
01:10:22We're excited to see
01:10:23Where your journey takes you next
01:10:24Thank you so much
01:10:25Thank you, Sean
01:10:26Thank you
01:10:27Okay
01:10:28We're going to take a quick break
01:10:29And then we'll
01:10:30Come back
01:10:31Bye, man
01:10:33Thank you, man
01:10:34Thank you
01:10:35Ed, Lucille
01:10:41How do you think it went?
01:10:42I like your honesty
01:10:43And your directness
01:10:45You know, it brings people out
01:10:47To talk more
01:10:48Yeah
01:10:49And I'm glad you had my back
01:10:51Anytime
01:10:51Out there
01:10:52And listen, in 90 days
01:10:53If they're not gone
01:10:54Call me
01:10:54Okay
01:10:55Okay, I'll call you
01:10:56I'll call you
01:10:58Hey, I'll call you
01:10:59You're getting into a relationship
01:11:00With Big Ed?
01:11:01Don't even say that
01:11:03Oh, my God
01:11:04You look great, Mom
01:11:06I do
01:11:06Sorry
01:11:07Sorry to get your work done
01:11:08No, no, no
01:11:09Big Ed was making me laugh
01:11:10He's a nice car
01:11:12You know
01:11:12Yeah, all right
01:11:14So, seeing Big Ed next to my mom
01:11:16Some sexual tension
01:11:18And my mom touching his shoulders
01:11:20I did not have that
01:11:21On my bingo card today
01:11:22Yeah, uh
01:11:23Sexual tension with Big Ed
01:11:24Bingo
01:11:25Nah
01:11:25Totally unexpected
01:11:27We're gonna go have a drink
01:11:29Oh, we are?
01:11:30Yeah
01:11:30Oh, no, they're taking me back
01:11:31To Rhode Island
01:11:32I mean, at the end of the day
01:11:33Listen, my mom's a grown woman
01:11:34If that's what she wants out of life
01:11:36I can't be mad
01:11:37I don't think Big Ed
01:11:38Would be a good dad
01:11:39Hell, nah
01:11:40It's not happening
01:11:40Let's go, Ed
01:11:42Let's go
01:11:42Everything comes down on the teller, all right?
01:11:44Oh, yeah
01:11:45When we got into this
01:11:50It was very much a goal of mine
01:11:52To give Amini a dream
01:11:54To live that gay lifestyle
01:11:56Bro, you look like hypnotized, you know
01:11:58What do you mean hypnotized?
01:12:00Because I want her to be happy?
01:12:01I mean, it's her fantasy, right?
01:12:03But here's the thing
01:12:04Me and her still haven't had sex
01:12:05Just me and her
01:12:06Wait, what?
01:12:09Not you later
01:12:09Oh, wow
01:12:11Four, three, two
01:12:17All right, Matt, Amini, and Ani
01:12:21It is your turn
01:12:22When a couple adds an extra partner
01:12:25It's not surprising to have extra drama
01:12:27We witnessed many highs and lows
01:12:29Between the three of you
01:12:30And the last time we saw you
01:12:32It seemed like the relationship was over
01:12:35You guys had that big blow-up at the airport
01:12:39Yes, yes
01:12:40It took days for us to figure out what happened
01:12:43So, it was tough
01:12:44Today, are you still a thruple?
01:12:52Of course
01:12:53You are
01:12:54You're back together
01:12:54Mm-hmm
01:12:55We never broke up
01:12:56You never broke up?
01:12:57How long were you not talking?
01:12:58We took, like, a week and a half
01:13:01We don't talk, maybe one month
01:13:02No, for a week
01:13:04We didn't talk for a week after
01:13:05No, no
01:13:05We went back
01:13:06Or maybe two weeks
01:13:07A couple weeks
01:13:08I believe only
01:13:08Yes
01:13:08Yes
01:13:08On everything
01:13:10It took, like, a week
01:13:10Not them
01:13:11We didn't see each other
01:13:12But we
01:13:13It took, like, a week and a half
01:13:14No, I did reach out to her
01:13:16Via text
01:13:16And we chatted a little bit
01:13:18I also sent her flowers for her birthday
01:13:20She sent me flowers for my birthday
01:13:22Where it's two bouquets
01:13:23And I said
01:13:24Everything is double
01:13:25When you're in a thruple
01:13:26She understands
01:13:28Sometimes she's too much dramatic
01:13:31But I love her
01:13:34I am staying with her
01:13:36So when was the last time you saw each other?
01:13:41So we spent Christmas together as a family
01:13:44We spent New Year's together as a family
01:13:47Both kids, both parties, the kids
01:13:49And then we did my daughter's birthday in Cancun
01:13:52And we spent that all together as a family as well
01:13:55I believe we have some photos of that trip
01:13:58Can we see those?
01:14:00Cute
01:14:00And how do you explain all of this to the kids?
01:14:10What they understand is love
01:14:12And we care about it
01:14:13And they know that Ani loves them
01:14:15And they love her so much
01:14:16And they know there's love between the three of us
01:14:19The hardest thing is explaining it to people
01:14:22When we go on family trips
01:14:23So they think she's a nanny
01:14:25Or it's hard
01:14:27So talk us through
01:14:30What made you want to be a part of a thruple
01:14:32In the first place?
01:14:33When we got into this
01:14:34I mean
01:14:35It was very much a goal of mine personally
01:14:38To give Amini a dream
01:14:41That she's had since childhood
01:14:43She's always wanted to live that gay lifestyle
01:14:46And I wish that I could give it to her
01:14:49You know, I'm not a female
01:14:51But that was our original goal
01:14:52Bro, you look like hypnotized, you know?
01:14:56With Amini, whatever she says, okay, right?
01:14:59I am fully supportive
01:15:00Explain yourself
01:15:01No offense, bro
01:15:03Nothing bad I'm saying
01:15:04But what do you mean hypnotized?
01:15:06Because I want her to be happy?
01:15:07I mean, it's her fantasy, right?
01:15:09It's not a fantasy
01:15:10Bisexuality is not a phase
01:15:12I want to be with women
01:15:14But I also love my husband
01:15:16I don't know how y'all figured this stuff out
01:15:18I'm telling you
01:15:19Amini, we saw you get very upset once
01:15:22When Ani and Matt had sex without you
01:15:24So what are the rules?
01:15:27So the rules have changed
01:15:30Initially, we're doing everything together
01:15:32So that was the first time I felt
01:15:35A little bit of jealousy
01:15:37Because it was more about not being considered
01:15:39And we were like, okay, let's set up the rules
01:15:42And the rules are like
01:15:43For them to ask me for permission
01:15:44And Ani did that every single time
01:15:47Until I felt like, okay, let's not do the permission anymore
01:15:51So they don't ask for permission anymore
01:15:52In fact, it's even more developed now
01:15:54They spend quality time together
01:15:56And they have sex without me
01:15:57A lot
01:15:58Yeah
01:15:59It's a mess
01:16:01That's interesting
01:16:02Because he said he was doing it for you
01:16:04Yes
01:16:05And here's the thing
01:16:08Me and her still haven't had sex
01:16:09Just me and her
01:16:10Just so you know
01:16:11Only been the three of us
01:16:16Or just her and him
01:16:17Wait, what?
01:16:20That's so bad
01:16:21I asked Amani a question
01:16:26And it was personal
01:16:27And she answered
01:16:29And I asked her not to tell anyone
01:16:30My priority and my loyalty
01:16:32Is to my girlfriend
01:16:33But you're not trustworthy
01:16:35You're so annoying
01:16:37And you're so fake
01:16:38And I'm tired of it
01:16:39Oh my god
01:16:41So the only sex that goes on
01:16:50Is between the three of you
01:16:52Or between Matt and Ani
01:16:54Yeah, it seems like it always involves me
01:16:56Yeah
01:16:57Oh god
01:16:58Why?
01:17:00I don't know
01:17:01Sometimes I feel like
01:17:02She's more into male than female
01:17:04Ani
01:17:06Do you want to have sex with a mini?
01:17:09Yes, of course
01:17:12She's very, very beautiful
01:17:14I love her
01:17:16I don't mind them having sex
01:17:18I love that they're building
01:17:19Like relationship
01:17:20And spending quality time together
01:17:22In fact, he's been going to see Ani
01:17:24And I can't go because of my job
01:17:27So you go see Ani by yourself
01:17:29Matt
01:17:30Wow
01:17:32Aren't you jealous?
01:17:36Not at this point, no
01:17:37Honestly, of course I do
01:17:39Of course you love him
01:17:40But physically you are still passionate to him
01:17:43I do
01:17:44But my brain is all about business and making money
01:17:47I can't be a mom and a business owner
01:17:49And also be able to have sex
01:17:51I just can't do it all
01:17:52I understand
01:17:54And so you give a toy to Matt
01:17:57It's not a toy
01:17:59It's not like I went and recruited Ani
01:18:02Because I'm so busy
01:18:02I need to find like somebody to do what I can't do
01:18:05But that's not the case
01:18:06I'm sure
01:18:07Las personas piensan que me estoy inclinando mas por Matt
01:18:13Pero ella y yo nos falta a lo mejor tiempo de calidad solas
01:18:18Matt, let me ask you this
01:18:20After plastic surgery
01:18:23What do you think about the way Amini looks now?
01:18:26You know, I support her every day in my life
01:18:28No matter how she looks or what she decides to do
01:18:31But let's be honest
01:18:33You and Ani did say that I didn't have an ass
01:18:35I didn't look attractive
01:18:36Wait, wait, wait, wait
01:18:38But I was too skinny
01:18:39Amini will always hear the worst of you
01:18:41We were concerned about her
01:18:43Because she was not healthy anymore
01:18:44They sent me down like an intervention
01:18:46And they were like, well, you look too skinny
01:18:48It was just like stuck in my head
01:18:50Like I need to change something about it
01:18:51So you had to impress Matt and Ani
01:18:54To do the surgeries
01:18:55No, they didn't say go get a surgery
01:18:58But they said, like, I didn't look attractive as I used to
01:19:01That never got mentioned
01:19:03You both said that I lost my ass
01:19:05That's what you presumed
01:19:07100%
01:19:08Okay, Ani, what do you think about the way Amini looks?
01:19:14I'm super her, but it's too much for me
01:19:19I begged her not to go
01:19:21You told her not to go through with it
01:19:23I had five plus surgeries
01:19:26Like, my daughters would ask
01:19:28Oh, mommy, why did you change your nose?
01:19:30And I was ashamed to even answer them
01:19:32Well, I'm sure, especially having little girls
01:19:34Yeah
01:19:34That's hard too, because they look like you
01:19:37And then to have to say, you know, I changed my appearance
01:19:41Because I don't feel
01:19:42Yeah
01:19:42I mean, I guess you wouldn't say exactly
01:19:44But you don't feel beautiful
01:19:44But they're beautiful, you know
01:19:46I don't want anybody to feel that way
01:19:47Especially my daughters
01:19:48To me, plastic surgery is not a flex
01:19:51You're going to get it
01:19:52And then you're going to find more flaws
01:19:54And then you keep getting it and getting it
01:19:56And that's how you're going to end up
01:19:56With three facelifts
01:19:58And three nose jobs or whatever
01:20:00Like, Shekina
01:20:00But it seems Shekina's very happy with her results
01:20:04I mean, she's done multiple surgeries
01:20:06Oh, my God
01:20:07Okay, I'm still sensing tension
01:20:10Between the two of you
01:20:12What's going on?
01:20:13For me, I think Shekina misunderstood
01:20:15That time I messaged her about the towel
01:20:17That's the image she formed about me
01:20:18And she's never going to change it
01:20:20I asked her a question
01:20:23And it was personal
01:20:24And she answered
01:20:26And I asked her not to tell anyone
01:20:27Do you want to say what that question is?
01:20:29I don't
01:20:29Because I didn't want it exposed
01:20:31What was the question?
01:20:35She asked if Ani was trans
01:20:37And told me not to tell Ani
01:20:40But of course I told her
01:20:41You're not trustworthy
01:20:42I literally asked you to
01:20:44My priority and my loyalty
01:20:45Is to my girlfriend
01:20:46But is your loyalty to hurt her feelings?
01:20:50I didn't hurt her feelings
01:20:51You did
01:20:52I'm sorry, but why is that shameful?
01:20:54If I asked any woman here
01:20:55If you were trans
01:20:56Would you be offended?
01:20:58No, because I think trans women are beautiful
01:21:00You clearly have a problem with trans people
01:21:02Like, that's messed up
01:21:04What?
01:21:04What?
01:21:05It was a show
01:21:06Of course, I love the trans
01:21:08But to tell me I am trans
01:21:10I didn't tell you you were
01:21:11I asked her
01:21:12Look at you
01:21:13And you make new surgery
01:21:14For changing your face
01:21:16You are the
01:21:17Look, the trans
01:21:18Come on, girl
01:21:19That's insane for me
01:21:22Girl, you are fired up
01:21:23Over nothing
01:21:24You needed a crusade
01:21:27It looks like I gave you one
01:21:28By asking a simple question
01:21:29So now you can go off
01:21:31You're so annoying
01:21:32And you're so fake
01:21:33And I'm tired of it
01:21:34What?
01:21:37Next time on 90 Day Fiancé
01:21:39The couples tell all
01:21:40I was really rooting for you
01:21:42But you lost me
01:21:44When you said
01:21:44You can't take a whore
01:21:46And make her a housewife
01:21:47Yeah
01:21:47You know she's working
01:21:49As an exotic dancer
01:21:51Honey, do you still dance?
01:21:53No
01:21:53Yeah, of course
01:21:55Oh my God
01:21:57To me it's a red flag
01:21:58Exactly
01:21:59Juana, are you getting
01:22:02A lot of DMs from women?
01:22:04Quite a bit
01:22:05Quite a bit?
01:22:07Look at that little grin
01:22:08I mean
01:22:10They at least think
01:22:11That they're getting
01:22:12Into him some way
01:22:13Somehow
01:22:14Which they are
01:22:15You're her best friend
01:22:17But this is our business
01:22:19You don't have
01:22:20Anything to do with it
01:22:21You step aside
01:22:23Bitch, bye
01:22:24Jackie is here
01:22:28To give her take
01:22:29On these newlyweds
01:22:31You were the person
01:22:32I relied on
01:22:33To help her
01:22:34Okay
01:22:36Shush
01:22:36When you think
01:22:38About a marriage
01:22:38You're like
01:22:39Missing a key component
01:22:40That key component
01:22:41Would be
01:22:42Being in love
01:22:43Well the person
01:22:44That I originally
01:22:45Fell in love with
01:22:46Is next to me
01:22:47Oh my God
01:22:48Please welcome
01:22:53Danielle
01:22:54That's my girl
01:22:55I want to ask you
01:22:57About an online
01:22:59Interaction you had
01:23:01With Shekinah
01:23:02Oh
01:23:03She said that I was
01:23:04Trash
01:23:05That I was
01:23:06Hitting on
01:23:06Sarpra
01:23:07What is she
01:23:08Talking about
01:23:09You don't know
01:23:13Anything about me
01:23:14She called her
01:23:15A bitch
01:23:16You're just
01:23:16Listening to her lies
01:23:18Girl get your
01:23:18Husband
01:23:19This is
01:23:19Shut the
01:23:20Up
01:23:21Enough
01:23:21You were
01:23:22Attacking here
01:23:22You said something
01:23:24Here's the thing
01:23:24If you put your
01:23:25Finger in my face
01:23:26Again
01:23:26Enough
01:23:27What do you think
01:23:28No
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