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00:00So you're here to learn why girls never look at you and there could be a lot of
00:03different reasons for that including physical but keep watching to learn how
00:06you can fix that and get more eyes and more attention on you. I'm Eddie Baller
00:10and I'm a dating coach and the owner of conqueringwind.com and I've been coaching
00:14men since 2011 to build their confidence and meet the kind of woman they deserve
00:16and I know it works from thousands of personal experiences as well as
00:20watching my clients infield regardless of their height, age, race, looks or
00:23financial status. So let's jump into it. Here are some reasons why girls may not
00:32be looking at you. Now think about what a girl might like and what might attract
00:35her attention, what may attract her eyes. Now obviously physical attraction is big
00:40here to attract a woman's attention so looks will make a difference but one
00:44thing that's very often overlooked for looks is body language. Guys are very
00:49often walking around giving the wrong signals and I know these body language
00:52mistakes will have guys blend into the background and not attract the attention
00:55of women and it will actually make you feel less confident if you're making
00:58these body language mistakes which will make you further less interesting for
01:02the women around you. You really need to project that confidence of the world to
01:05attract the kind of attention that you want from women. So here are some ways to
01:08make yourself look better to be more attractive and get more eyes on you when
01:12you're walking down the street. Number one is stand straight. If you're not
01:15standing straight, if you got a curved back and you're leaning forward or
01:18something like that, you know regardless of how tall you are you're gonna be
01:21shorter by doing this. Stand tall to make the maximum use of your height and you
01:27don't have to be tall but just you make the maximum use of your height by
01:30standing tall. This will also make you shorter but I notice a lot of guys walk
01:33around looking at the ground and they have their head down like this. You don't
01:37want to do that it's going to take height off and also does not look
01:39confident. Plus you're going to not have situational awareness. You're not gonna
01:43even see the girls passing by if you have your head down. Number two is head up. This
01:47looks slightly arrogant but it's also going to make you look a lot more confident and give you a little bit more of an edge or rather an edgy look.
01:54Number three is chin up. So have your head up but also have your chin up just a little bit. It looks slightly arrogant but it's also gonna make you look a lot more confident and give you a little bit more of an edge or rather an edgy look.
02:11Four eyes looking forward. As I already mentioned don't look at the ground you're not gonna have situational awareness and it looks you know it just looks not confident right. Plus when you're walking down the street if you really want to get attention from women if you want women to look at you it's important to also make eye contact with them and you'll never catch eye contact with women if you're looking at the ground.
02:31Number five. Hands out of your pockets. So just like a hunching over or bending forward is gonna make you shorter. Hands in your pockets is also gonna make you look smaller right. Your arms should be hanging by your sides naturally relaxed freely.
02:44It's gonna give you a better stride and it's gonna look a lot more confident and it's gonna make you feel more confident. Number six. Shoulders back. This will emphasize your natural shape as a man. It'll give you broader shoulders and it'll make you breathe properly instead of if your shoulders are kind of rolled forward compressing your chest.
03:00You don't want to do that. It's gonna be bad for your energy and bad for your look. So by fixing these body language problems you're gonna make yourself feel more confident which automatically is gonna attract more attention from women.
03:10But here's another list of things which will also help you. It's also gonna affect your personal appearance as well as the way you feel about yourself and the way that other people feel about you when they see you.
03:19Number one is style. So an easy way to improve your look is to dress a little bit better. It doesn't have to be fancy. It does not have to be expensive clothes.
03:26But wear good shoes. Don't wear running shoes unless you're running. Wear proper street shoes. Clean, properly fitting clothing will be good.
03:33And if you're not sure what to wear, if you don't know what kind of style is gonna be good for you, go experiment. Go try on some different clothing and see how it fits and looks and get an attractive woman's opinion.
03:42Probably somebody working at the retail shop. Number two is fitness. Another easy way to be more attractive. Obviously it takes work and it takes some dedication.
03:51But this will pay off for a bit, you know, it's gonna give you big dividends basically. You're gonna feel better, you have more energy, you're gonna feel more confident.
03:58It's also gonna help your posture too. A lot of the time when guys have bad posture, it's because certain, you know, it's a habit for starters.
04:05But certain back muscles or shoulder muscles are gonna be weak because you're used to that bad posture and you're gonna need to exercise to correct that.
04:12Number three, eye contact. I did mention eye contact already. But when you're walking around, try to make eye contact with women. Don't stare through them.
04:19But just kind of casually glance around. If you make eye contact with somebody and she looks away, then, you know, you look away too. Just continue on.
04:25But if you make eye contact with a woman and she holds her eye contact, you hold yours and you're most likely gonna get a smile out of that.
04:32And that's gonna be a good way to start conversation as well. But also be sure to do this on dates or when you're meeting anyone or you're greeting anyone.
04:38Have strong eye contact. Don't have your eyes darting all around or looking at the ground.
04:42Number four, feeling good. If you're doing all these other things, it doesn't help you feel better.
04:45But just by feeling good about yourself, by doing the things that you know you need to do to get what you want in life,
04:51that's gonna give a whole boost of energy and basically you're gonna have a different kind of aura about you.
04:57I don't know, don't believe in auras, but basically your energy or whatever you want to call it, you're gonna look better, right?
05:03You're gonna look happier, you're not gonna look frowny-faced and that's gonna attract more positive attention.
05:08And number five, smile. A lot of the time when I hear guys talk about how they can't meet anyone or everybody in the city is so cold,
05:15they walk around with their frowny face and when they greet people at a store or doing anything, they keep that same kind of, you know, not really neutral,
05:24but it's like slightly not great face. I don't know how to call, you know, call it, maybe resting bitch face.
05:30We'll call it that. So you don't be greeting everyone with a resting bitch face.
05:33It's not gonna, it's not, it's not flattering and you're not gonna get any smiles back.
05:39And if you're meeting women, and this includes, you know, at a restaurant or a coffee shop or anywhere, meeting women anywhere,
05:45there's lots of dating opportunities out there, but if you don't smile, it's not likely you're gonna get the kind of attention you want,
05:51you know, positive attention. And to learn more about attraction, check out the link in the description
05:55about why looks don't matter much. Emphasize the much part because they do make a difference,
06:01but it's not the main thing. Check out the link in the description.
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