00:00Here's how you know whether a relationship is going to be painful and it's going to continue
00:04to be painful. It's just one thing. The person that you're in a relationship with is not willing
00:08to work on themselves. They are not self-aware. Both people in a relationship have to be self-aware.
00:13They have to at least assume that there are things about them that need work. There are
00:17things about them that are going to have to change at some point. If you have one person
00:22in a relationship who assumes that and one person who doesn't, the person who assumes that is going
00:26to take the blame for everything. But if you have two people who assume there are things about
00:29me that need to change, then you have two people who are willing to work on themselves.
00:33Human beings are fluid and so relationships are fluid. They are always changing. The dynamics
00:38are always changing. Things happen that actually transform people and change people. In order
00:42to stay compatible, they need to assume that there are things about them that they need
00:45to change so that they can stay compatible with the other person. That is the essence
00:49of a healthy relationship. Two people who are willing to change.
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